“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what’ could’ve, would’ve happened… or you can just leave the pieces on the floor & move on.”
Tupac Shakur.
The hardest feeling I felt was when I had to let go of the ice cream that fell on the ground, making one more plus point in my clumsy diary. But on a serious note, why is it so hard to let off of something? Why do we have to think about it so much and why does it hurt so much? Honestly holding on to something that gives you no meaning yet just because you don’t want to waste all the time spent together, all those memories, and all those ahead moments where you both will pass each other like strangers, and trust me I know that feeling very well, it hurts. When we grow up a lot of things change in one’s life and it does affect various relationships as well. And in those times I have learned that a relationship is all about give and take if you are putting your hand forward then they need to do the same both parties need to put in an equal amount of effort. The most shocking thing when a person decides to let go of it is not only because they are not feeling any love but because everything changed, they changed and just thinking about what actually changed there is no answer. You are the same but that person is not the one you know. Letting go of something has the same feeling as when we feel tears leaking out of our eyes in the middle of the night just because our heart is sad but we don’t know the reason behind it. I have realized that letting go doesn’t mean you stop loving them or greeting them but because you stop pitting yourself, you tell yourself to move on, you let yourself get free from all the disturbing thoughts about them, and you just want yourself to be happy and letting go is the solution.
Closure happens right after you accept that letting go and moving on is more important than protecting a fantasy of how the relationship could have been.
Sylvester McNutt.
Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA
A girl who likes to write 