if it’s out of your hands, it deserves freedom from your mind too.
How hard it is to let go of things that mattered to us the most and the longest. Don’t you ever wonder that after spending so much time together you just have to let go, suddenly you just have to. And letting things happen normally you don’t even realize when the distance happens, when you stop talking, everything just happens and there is no answer to when and why it happened. However, the story of moving in after that is totally opposite. Moving on doesn’t happen overnight while forgetting everything, the first step is that you remember each and every pain of things from that you have to move on. Even letting go and moving on from a bad day is so hard that forgetting about things and people that matter to you is definitely not an easy process. It’s funny how when you become an adult, it is complying in your life that you will lose friends, lose interest in so many things, have more hard days, the responsibility that you never asked for, and more things that will make you question is that really the adult life you dreamed of in your childhood. Moving on is not at all easy because in every step the flashback hits and the what-if list comes up. But soon you will understand that moving is important and amidst that, you do not even remember when life starts to get better, when you have new friends, and when you truly start living. Soon you will get the reality check of how wasteful it is to cry over something that has already happened and things will never change but that doesn’t mean it will not get better for you. However, to reach that step you need to have the reality of MOVING ON!
it’s not the goodbye that hurts, but the flashbacks that follow.
Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.
A girl who likes to write 