Author: mysteriousalien2

Just a random human being on the earth who likes to write and eat;)

MOM…LOVE…

“Always wish people well. Even when you let them go. Letting go never meant loving less. It just means you have chosen to love them from afar.”

Is it okay to love someone from afar rather than sacrificing oneself and staying close to that person? It was mother’s day recently and I saw so many posts about the contribution mom makes to a child’s love, but there is another side that needs to be looked upon. People are so lucky to have a mom who truly acts like a mom and the love that the child truly needs from mom. Moms are superheroes who survive a lot to bring a child into this world, but is every mom the same for every child? Does every child receive the love that they deserve from mom? Does every mom stand like a shield for the child? The answer that I will give is that it is okay to love your mom from afar. It is okay if you choose yourself rather than the societal norms about mothers. It is different for every child and mom in terms of the love they show and receive. It is okay if your love for your mom is different from others that you see on the internet. Nobody is wrong, it is the feelings and time that make everything different. If you are loving someone from afar and that makes you happy then it is okay don’t let anyone guilt trip you anyway, you know yourself the best. You are not wrong, you are just choosing yourself over anyone and that is okay because in the end you only have you.

You are lucky if you have a mom who truly deserves the title of best mom in the world. Please give them a hug and appreciate that they have tried everything so that they can hear Happy Mother’s Day from their children. It is not easy to take care of a child and give them the love that they truly deserve and the kids love their mom 9 months more than they love anybody. So all the moms out there, I know it’s hard but you are doing amazing and I hope the sacrifice you make today for your children will be fulfilled by seeing your child grow into a good human being.

Love from afar when needed.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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The Interpretation of The Society.

The biggest challenge of life is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else.

Growing up, studying, going to a good college, making friends, getting a high-paying job, owning an apartment and car, getting married and having children all before 30 is what a typical society’s interpretation looks like. Is life really about following the stereotypes that have been going on for a long time? And we have seen the result of it, haven’t we? Following the pattern of things that have already left a not-so-good inspiration in the world is pathetic right? Society expects from us so much that they are not able to achieve yet they force it on the passing generation. The interpretation of society is amusing, they don’t let us dream and if we dream they make us so afraid of achieving it and simply put us in the position of going with the life pattern that has already been set even though it brings so much trauma to us. I have learned a very important thing: if you want to do something extraordinary that doesn’t set with the society pattern then you also have to face the reality of life already set by the society. We want to do something challenging, something new that brings us joy but also be complacent with reality, it’s harsh but it’s true. It is so hard to find something that brings us joy and if we truly find it then we have to take the risk of achieving it and bringing out all the flaws that might drag us down. The hope and promise to the future self that amidst all the society’s interpretations you will always come back to me and find your way back home, back to yourself. The pressure of society goes away when you meet the right person, the person that is a reflection of you and you can just…be you.

“Talk to yourself like someone you love.” – Brene Brown.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Review: ‘Queen of Tears’ K-drama (2024)

“One day, when only one of us is left, the other one can come and meet them. Then it won’t be scary at all. Because we’ll be together.” – Hong Hae-in and Baek Hyun Woo.

Let me start with the most recent hit K-drama that broke so many records – ‘Queen of Tears’ starring Kim Soo-hyun and Kim Ji-Won. Honestly, it was my first K-drama where I was on time with each episode and eagerly awaited the next episode. Let’s start with the main leads so they are shown as a married couple and I love the chemistry between Kim Soo-hyun and Kim Ji-Won. It was vital that the lead couple should look like husband and wife and the casting of the main leads was perfect they really gave that vibe which for me was important.

Now on to the acting if you are a follower of K-drama you know Kim Ji-won as Rachel Yoo in The Heirs and Kim Soo-Hyun is one of the highest-paid actors which means acting was expected to be top-notch. And as expected the acting was top-notch. No one can play a cold character like Kim Ji-Won. The drama genre is said to be rom-com, but nothing in the drama screams rom-com. In every episode, there is so much crying by the leads. There is a lack of communication and through that misunderstanding arises but I loved that they did not drag it out long.

So from the start, the relationship between the couple is not good and I loved that they didn’t start on a happy point but went directly with the problem and I loved the flashbacks. It started with the couple and then both families got involved so the flow was amazing.

After the fifth episode, Baek Hyun Woo was a big green flag for the way he was always there for his wife and the love that was shown hidden, the comeback of it was mind-blowing. K-dramas have never portrayed “Man in Love” the way they portrayed Baek Hyun Woo. He has cried every single episode and prayed for his wife. What a green flag. Hong Hae-in, the woman she is. No woman has ever loved a man like Hong Hae-in loved Baek Hyun Woo as he was her first and only love.

The plot was amazing, there was thriller, tension, chemistry, family bonding, and the way everyone got a happy ending. I loved the ending it was very realistic and the writer is a genius way in the end everything that was happening from the first episode made sense. The drama is realistic so there is not much romance but many crying scenes and in the end, it’s Audience of Tears not Queen of Tears.

Now OST, I loved it. It was sung by Crush – Love With All My Heart. It is so soothing and does not overpower the scenes.

My Rating: 9/10.

Total Episodes: 16

My Favorite Episodes: 8 and 15

Genres: Romance, Romantic comedy, and Comedy. (The genres can be deceiving)

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Drama and Book Reviews.

“I think humans are only sane when they’re lonely. So I think I’m saner at night.” – My Liberation Notes.

I never really thought the fictional world would bring me so much comfort and I will love every second of it. K-dramas have a special place in my heart and I will forever be grateful to find comfort in it. I am starting a new chapter in my blog journey where I will be reviewing dramas and post-book reviews. Mostly I watch K-dramas, Japanese dramas, Chinese dramas, Thai dramas, and Taiwanese dramas. I have been a K-drama fan since I was 14 years old. Back then it was not easy to watch K-dramas as we did not have an internet connection and I didn’t know where I should watch. But I do remember my first ever K-drama was Playful Kiss and at that time I thought it was a Chinese drama, seriously? Also, I was obsessed with Housefull, the Thai version. So I thought let me expand my area for my blogging journey as this will also help me with my experience and simply it’s fun. I will be reviewing and giving my opinions on the dramas.

As for books, I have been reading them since I was 16 years old and it’s been years of my reading journey. I am a very particular kind of person about what I am watching and reading. If I don’t like it then I don’t like it, which is okay. I know a lot of people shame others if something popular is not enjoyed but let me tell you everyone has different tastes and if the majority likes it that does not make that drama the best and vice versa.

So shall we begin, we shall! I hope you all will support me and don’t hesitate to leave your opinion.

Someone being patient with you is one of the softest forms of love. – Rookie Cops

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Live a Little…

Fight for your fairytale.

Don’t you just sometimes want to sit in front of the ocean alone and just think about everything that is going on in your life? We all deserve a break in a beautiful place where our minds and hearts are at ease. It is so important to have days to shut down our brains and just relax in the moment. Till today I have realized that work and study are forever and the stress from both will be with us throughout our lives. However, amidst that we might miss the opportunity to live in the moment. We might think let’s finish work and then take a break but tell me how much of it is possible? None. The importance of taking a break is not talked about enough. Work makes people so exhausted that living life is like living in a machine that has already been set on auto mode. Being mentally exhausted is like zooming in on a random point that feels like it is suckling you in and there is nothing you can do to zoom out of it. People have so much stored in their minds other than work like the different talks, feelings that have left us strangled, the feelings and emotions that we can’t let out and it is eating us from inside. Life is meant to be like that. It is all about ups and downs, yes “Ups” means we all will have that moment when life feels like it is great, don’t be afraid of challenges they will at first break you but without even noticing it will also make you strong.

Live a little – live a day without worrying about what the next hour will bring you, live without thinking about the next second, live like your heart feels happy, live carelessly until an inner smile has not made up to your face. Life will hardly make you feel great but that does not mean you don’t have the right to live contentedly. Life is like a dark door but with cracks that allow light to pass through it so Live a Little.

Never regret anything that makes you smile.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Setbacks.

Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.

Is it important to have days where you feel like you are getting nowhere? It is important to have days where you feel like a failure. Is it okay if you have a setback? The amount of time I have felt that my life and hard work are going absolutely nowhere is just insane. Life is so funny on one side they make you feel like you are in heaven’s bed and the next moment it throws you from the stairs to the road of hell. Even though many say that life is all about ups and downs nobody gives you the solution or assurance that everything will be alright. But this world will blame you for not working hard and not meeting the expectations of others. If you look at setbacks they test you till you are at the end of a dark hole, they never let you come back again easily. When people say that you truly understand what life is and what you are meant to do is when you are in the worst situation in your life. Your setbacks will make you feel that you are the worst to live and no positivity can reach out to you. Funny isn’t it? Then what is it that is supposed to reach out to us to pull out of the endless setbacks? The answers that you need to find yourself! If you are struck just think why you decided to do this and choose this irrespective of so many options and then there will be so many answers to it and maybe more questions for yourself and believe me, you will find the answers. It is said right that what we are truly looking for is within us just don’t let things like setbacks hold you back for things that you truly want. Embracing failure is the key to success because a person should know their weakness as they are the reason why setbacks can’t hold enough and you can break through them.

setbacks HAPPEN…go get it again

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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WOMEN.

“Behind every successful woman is

Herself.”

Women. What a powerful four-letter word that holds so much power within to face the world full of so much. I will say that looking up to a woman is such an empowering tool for many other women. Being a woman in this world is not a cup of tea, but we all are still standing with our heads high and ready to face challenges. Bleeding every month, carrying a child for nine months, giving birth, looking after yourself and your family, achieving dreams, being a good parent to the child, dealing with failure, bringing a shoulder for people, and an endless list of things that women have to do. Being a woman seriously gives you a different level of confidence when you start to look at yourself in a new light when you start to believe in yourself, and when you start to take your life and dreams seriously. You don’t know how powerful you are and I am here to tell you that you as a woman are the greatest gift to the world and never ever doubt yourself. Being a woman is not easy and you are already doing it, so I am so proud of you and you shall also be. You have your own glow that will most definitely shine just remove those things and feelings that keep you away from it. You are a shining star in the darkness that saves the world from being cold and a happy sun that brings warmth to the world. Don’t limit yourself, you will truly know your limit when you will go beyond the imagination of what you can really do. Also, when a woman supports another woman, it is the most beautiful thing to exist in this world as we rise by lifting others. Let me tell you that you deserve the world and you are the only one who can give that to yourself so fight for yourself and show yourself how much you love being a WOMAN!

Happy Women’s Day to all my wonderful and strong women who have such an incredible aura like a queen on the throne. You are the best and nothing can change it:)

Real queens fix each other’s crown.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Feeling like a FaILuRe tOdAY…

Everything I was afraid

of happening, happened.

Nothing is working out, until yesterday everything was going fine I thought I was on the right track and with time everything would settle but here I am today writing this blog post about the feelings haunting me day and night. I do know I was always the person who did so much yet never received the success that I dreamed about Alas! After all, I might reach somewhere but it only takes a day to make me feel that I am standing in the same place or maybe I have dropped more. The feeling of failure is the worst after doing so much yet you still failed, I failed and the funny thing is that it hurts so much yet you can’t do anything about it, it makes you look like a loser in front of YOU. What answers to provide to others when you can’t even give yourself one. I don’t know why it is so hard to accomplish things that you are good at, I don’t know why things never work out, I don’t know why nobody is ever satisfied, and I don’t know when the hurt will ever heal or it will pierce every dreams and ambitions like glass pieces shatter everywhere. What is worse is that all the hard work, all the sleepless nights, all the expectations, all the dreams just never seem to be fulfilled, and yes I am in that place. My age is increasing and I am still standing at the same place with nothing in my hand yet I can’t do anything about it. Tears want to drop but not a single drop left as my inside feels like a desert barren land empty where nothing is visible. I am lost and everywhere I see myself looking tired and hollow like a failure.

The user is mentally exhausted.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Oh, I Love Being A Morning Person!

Let me adjust my crown and get my day started.

It might be shocking to the people that morning people do exist. I have come across many posts saying that now waking up has become a joke to them. To be honest, all thanks to my mother because she was always very strict with me about sleeping early and waking up early and of course school. I never liked missing school, obviously for friends. Even though I stayed up late, I still love to wake up early in the morning if my morning is late that means my whole day will be wasted as I will be so tired. I remember the time when I used to have a good and long sleep at night but I used to wake up tired. So my father explained that anything more than we need will only destroy us. I don’t know what really makes me happy about mornings but I can say that I get more time to do things without being lazy. I remember when I finished one of my important exams I remember reading every book available on Wattpad and even ignoring my friend’s messages that they had to call and check if I was okay. Pretty old days when you just had to think about exams and once it’s finished you could enjoy until the next semester. Can’t believe that being an adult means dealing with so many things simultaneously. Exams are not even finished yet we still have to think about our next step or pending assignments that are just piling up it does not seem that we are completing anything because work never finishes, it just fills the place that gets vacant by the old work ‘Sigh.’ Every morning is like a ray of hope where everyone is sleeping. Yet, you are awake to find how beautiful the world is and just seeing the birds fly, the sky waking up, the sun rising, and quiet amidst the world’s chaos. You get to just forget your problem and breathe in the air that surrounds you because for you it’s just you, the world, and the sunrise that is eagerly waiting for your achievement and silently cheering up on you, Oh, I love being a MORNING PERSON!

Today I will be a ray of freaking sunshine.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Happy Mind Happy Life!

Happiness is not about getting all you want. It is about enjoying what you have.

Mind is one of the main reasons for our existence. We humans tend to overthink a lot. We know we can do it, but we will still overthink and pressure ourselves and our minds. When you realize that mental health is so expensive that no money can buy it. When you realize in one moment while sitting that there is a smile on your face yet from inside you are so hollow that a breeze of wind will turn it into ashes. When you realize that the surroundings you are in are not bringing you comfort, that moment is the most horrifying because you have to start it all again. Finding the surroundings that truly make your mental health good is so hard. Like friendship groups in our childhood we have many close friends but when we grow up keeping up with everyone is not a cup of tea. And you realize that only one friend is all that matters. Mind is a very complicated part of ourselves; we truly do not know what we want at the right time. It all happens when the realization begins that maybe some decisions should have been changed. Past really takes a toll on our mind, the trauma that we all dealt with never leaves what if the same thing happens again? What will we do? It takes a lot of courage to give the mind a piece of advice that it is going to be okay, to reach somewhere we have to try, and nobody is perfect, and that is okay.

People nowadays have seriously stopped caring about their mental health, and it is nobody’s fault you can’t blame anyone. It is the time that brings phases of things we wish to never live, yet it teaches us a lot. If you can take care of your feelings, and emotions then making your mind happy is not that hard. I will always say choose yourself over anything. If you are truly happy from inside then you are truly happy. I know it’s very hard to find things that make you happy, but unless you won’t find them you won’t know it because happy mind happy life!

She loved her life and it loved her back.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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