Author: mysteriousalien2

Just a random human being on the earth who likes to write and eat;)

YOU…

“Make the little girl you used to be, proud of the women you are now!”

The world is filling with lots of people some are real some are not so real. I feel like the biggest insecurities for anybody is can any other person will like us the way we are. I want to point out that – “you are not here to impress anybody, you are here for yourself!” This belief taught me a lot of things that was missing from my life. I have learned that you can’t impress someone until you are not satisfied with it. You are the owner of your own life; you have to make your life the way you want to live your life. You are responsible for the things that happen in your life. It’s okay if you have taken a decision that maybe is not right for you, but correcting that decision is what I call a perfect way to start your life again but in a better way. Take the responsibility of yourself, shape and built yourself like a shield for you to overcome your problems. You are the only limit for yourself, nobody is going to stop your beside yourself. Work hard to make yourself proud. The feeling of making yourself proud will be a portion of your life where you know you are going perfectly on a right path. Be the writer of your own life. Play around with fonts, colours, texts give your life a summary for you to keep going better and better. YOU get to design your own life; you have to have the willingness and the drive to get out of whatever you’re going through. Sow the seeds of your life like when you are going to look back from where you have come; the smile of proud will be on your face for yourself. Never give anybody the right to hold the power of your life, nobody deserves it expect you. If your goals are bigger and you want to make yourself proud you need to look after yourself, make yourself feels like you can do want ever you want you just need to keep going. Because after everything what is going to matter is ‘YOU!’

“Cherish your visions; cherish your ideas; cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts, for out of them will grow all delightful conditions, all heavenly environment; of these, if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built.”

-By James Allen, from his book ‘As A Man Thinketh’.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Favourites: #4

As I have grown older, I’ve learned that pleasing everyone is impossible, but pissing everyone off is a piece of cake.

The era of technology that has come so far like I remember when I was a child, we never had WIFI and never really know at that time what WIFI was. Network never was known until 2015 or maybe more than that or less, I am just telling you my time when I started to know that WIFI is something you can use for anything you want to do. When WIFI came I hardly watched T.V. and now the T.V. is smart, you can connect your WIFI to it, that’s pretty insane to be honest. I feel so old even though it’s just some years that went by and so much changed and is going to be. Now everything is smart and very much digital and I wanted to try and see some other electronics apart from mobile and computer. So I began my hunt and found the perfect smart item that I wanted to try out, and that was a WATCH. If you guys have not read my other article about me why being obsessed with watch read here. Now my picky self just started to look what smart watch to buy, which is affordable because first time I was buying it and a person can be paranoid. Then, I was confused that which one to buy, should I buy round or square and there were thousands of options and when you are ordering online you can’t even try it on right! After looking for hours finally I got my hands on it and I loved it so much. I feel like smart watch is very much modern and slick and it can go with everything pretty much, and if you are a picky person like me then you should definitely try smart watch if you haven’t. Nether less I hope you all enjoyed my random rambling for today. Have a great and wonderful day ahead:)

https://amzn.to/3h3lF91 – my smart watch link, if you guys wanna check it out!

Some people are such treasures that you just want to bury them.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Take a deep breath…

Choose your Happiness

Choose your Wellbeing

Choose your passion

Choose Yourself,

every time.

We all are so busy with the life of ours that taking a deep breath in a day is difficult task for us because we think that our time will be wasted. Life is moving so fast that, I don’t even understand where the hell my past two years went, I just don’t remember. Time is literally on a race, you just blink and it’s the next day. Amidst all the chaos it’s very important to find something that you are doing for yourself, doing that makes you happy, takes you away from the hectic of the world even it’s for just some time but trust me, you need it! A little silly things that makes you happy, like jumping in the puddle, baking even though it going to be a mess but who cares, just have fun. According to me hobby is something that is very different from the work you do, hobby is when you enjoy without having any pressure, expectations to do it perfect, and it’s perfect only for you. Taking a time for you is a very good medication required for the life of yours. Take as much time you need for yourself because everything comes after YOU. I usually when feeling low or just not myself, for me reading a book or even randomly sitting in the corner scrolling through phone helps. When you are feeling low it can be because of stress or things are not going according to you, it happens so just let your brain have some rest, just do what makes you relax and it will definitely help you to be back again but in more better and uplifting mood. The ‘Me Time’ is mandatory; it helps you to think outside of the stressful world of yours to the world where you can be as free as you want to. The ‘Walk of Talk’, I would like to say where you can think all about yourself, what you want to do for yourself, walk until you are yourself again. Don’t get too busy in the world because the world is not going to stop, it’s your duty to find the time for ‘yourself’ in the world!

It’s okay to take as many moments as you need for yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Favourites: #3

I wish everything was as easy as getting fat.

I eat a lot means a lot but still I don’t gain weight. I think there will be some other people as well who can relate to me. Actually I was skinny, yes now I understand why my mom freaks out when she gains one kg up. I used to walk a lot before the pandemic but after the pandemic the situation for everyone just got worse when it comes to the routine of the day. I believe that if you are skinny or not so skinny the way you describe yourself the main thing should matter is you should be healthy. Being healthy nowadays is just a very foreign word for all of us. Exercise just doesn’t go well with me, even though I love running, jogging and cycling. I feel like if you do exercise once in the day, it can be a big difference let me tell you. Exercise is for everyone the way you are it just makes you more healthy and active. I wanted to have some kind of equipment that I can do inside my home, which should be fun and enjoyable for me. So the other day I was scrolling through various shopping apps to find affordable exercise equipment which is very handy to use. Then suddenly I came across my childhood memory that I spend my whole time playing with it. It was a skipping rope. In my childhood the amount of jumping I did, it was just absurd you guys. The amount of skipping ropes I had at that time, like one I remember which counts how much you have jumped and many more and at that time I used to jump so my height can increase and as well as to have fun. Now it helps me to maintain myself, to be healthy and active because I have become so lazy because of pandemic and now I am working my way up. Hope you guys enjoy it and please let me know:)

https://amzn.to/3yw9Fm7

– Here is the link of the skipping rope, if you want to check it out!

The buttons on my jeans have started social distancing from each other!

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Young!

“Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again.”

C.S. Lewis.

We are too young to be rushing things and too old to be wasting time. I feel like from the age of teenager to being adult even though it’s a matter of years but the time period is too fast. It is the period when we start to recognize what we never understood in our childhood. It’s like when you are a teenager you want to be a young adult and when you are an adult you want to be a child it’s a harsh truth. I had always believed that we are too young to think about what our future hold for us. It’s better to live in present than to think about our future. My mother told me once that – ‘you are always young from your heart!’ and I loved that so much. I always remember my childhood and smile that I was such a mischievous child who used to be a troublemaker in her childhood and it was the best ever time of my life. That’s the same I want to remember in my old times that what a fun I used to have in my young age and want to smile by remembering that I spend my young age as a good time:) We will always be too young for everything, believe me. Don’t take stress of what your future is going to be. Smile that at least you have a chance to enjoy your adult age the way you want. When the time will pass, you should never have the words pass through your mouth that – ‘I should have done that before, now I can’t do it as time has already passed!’, time waits for no one and it’s ok if the time pass away, it’s never too late for anything, you just need to find the enthusiasm that you can still do it. Being young teaches us so many amazing lessons, to have so many beautiful memories, us being able to do what we want to do, to have so many missions to complete that’s the spirit we carry in our adult age. It’s an age we want to do so many things but at the same time having fun and enjoying the life as the time is never going to be same ahead. Do whatever you want to do, just be a happy going soul enjoying everything that comes your way.

“Growing old is mandatory, but growing up is optional.”

Walt Disney.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who like to write.

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Regrets.

Life is short, so live it. Love is rare, so grab it. Fear controls you, so face it. Memories are precious, so cherish them. We only get one life, so live it!

Life is so short that should be spend wisely by doing things we love, by being grateful, by taking the opportunities that comes our way but we humans always have a tendency to do the opposite of what we should do. Time never waits for anyone and we should also not wait for things which we don’t know will ever came instead we should embraced the chances and opportunities that are waiting for us to claim it. We only have one life that means we only have one chance to do whatever we want. I believe thinking unnecessarily about things just make it worse. Take the chance you get in your life because you only live ones; never be afraid that you can’t do it until you have not tried it. Regrets of not taking the chances you got, it’s a very worse kind of feeling. It hurts more than a breakup. It shows that you have no believe in yourself, you are afraid. Life will moves on, people will forget, maybe you as well but the feeling of regret will always be there no matter what, reminding yourself that ‘why did not I take it?’ Life is all about getting the experience of things which we never had. Learning and doing the things we never did. Life is all about learning new things rather than doing the same thing again and again because you are afraid that maybe you are not good at it or you can’t do it. Fear is the biggest enemy of our lives, whenever we think to try something new, fear always gets the best out of ourselves and we just backed up. That’s where our test starts and to overcome our fear and do it without any second thought. And believe me the experience of doing something new, will be unforgettable and in the end you will have ‘no regrets’. No regret means you are living your life to the fullest and enjoying every second of your life! Have a great and happy day:)

Look forward with HOPE.

Not backwards with REGRET.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Favourites: #2

GOOD MORNING WORLD!

Your little ray of sarcastic sunshine has arrived!

I am a type of a girl who has zero per cent interest in jewellers or accessories. It’s just not my type and my vibe. I wish I was fond of them but never mind. You don’t need toppings to make yourself pretty. If you like accessories wear it like a crown for you and not for others. Accessories for me are like, it will just look good from afar, I will love that but when it comes to me wearing than a big NO! I am very picky when it comes to fashion. Well directly speaking I HATE SHOPPING AND FASHION! No offense to the people out there, PEACE:) But there are some accessories that I love so much, and guess what I do have some favs! That is ‘WATCHES’, yes pretty exciting right?! Let’s get in to it, when I had my first watch it was a digital watch because at that time I just can’t understand analog watches. Too much maths I know! I told my father that I want a digital watch, to look extra-smart and to show my friends how smart I am. Well they don’t need to know the back story *evil laugh*. I used it so much and then, I am feeling so bad to even write this but hear my not so sad story about my first digital watch. I kind of broke it, misplaced it and in a small pieces (Rest in peace). Yes ladies and gentleman it was a brutal murder;) After that I brought one more and yes it is kind of messed up but still in a working condition. Thank God! The biggest achievement of mine is I can now understand analog watches and I am freaking about it. Please give me a toast;) Thank You! As I said I am very picky about my stuffs, so I looked and looked and found, what really pleased me. Because on the box, it itself says that fashion for everyone:) Hope you guys enjoyed my random rambling and if you like do check it out link given below:)

https://amzn.to/3jeoLsk – my watch link, if you want to check it out!

I love it when the coffee kicks in and I realize that what an adorable badass I’m going to be today.

Till we meet again, Be happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Memories:)

The Best gifts in the world are not in the material objects one can buy from the store, but in the memories we make with the people we love.

Amanda Boyarshinov.

Memories have us connected to our past. It’s like having a small part of our brain dedicated to store memories in them. There are some good memories which keep us going and then there are some ‘not so good’ memories which keep us from giving up. Good memories is all about people you love, about things you adore, the things you want in your life, about your future and many more. The ‘not so good memories’ which makes you recognize about what you were and now what you are! An instant smile comes over you face about the good memories you spent with your peoples, it’s like a light got on in your mind and heart. Memories can be brought back but the emotions; feelings that were attached to them cannot be felt again. The time came, you created memories in that moment and now it’s all in your mind, the memories you created can never be the same. Memories are the reasons for us to go on in our lives. Time will go on, your age will go on, people will change but the memories will never fade away not even a small one. Memories are special in their own way. A small little thing which we thought was small in our past, now when you look at it and a sad smile takes over your face and you realize that that small little things was actually a thing which matters us more. Some memories are like you want to forget them but you can’t, and some are still you are trying to remember. Memories are not created for you to forget them it’s like when you are looking through the old albums which you somewhere found in your dusty attic, filled with dust and when you opened it and felt like you are in your past, feeling and reliving all the good and funny memories and sitting in the dusty, messy corner of the attic the moment is priceless. Ahhh! Feeling so nostalgia:( Create good memories, learn from your memories and just keep making memories and having fun! From making memories of your baby tooth falling to your hair turned grey, never stop making memories. Just like time, memories will never stop and you should also not stop making memories:)

Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.

Dr. Seuss.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Thoughts…

Your mind is a powerful thing. When you fill it with your positive thoughts your life will start to change.

There is no single second in our day that we don’t have a thought running through our mind. A small thought can make a big difference that maybe you don’t know. One day you suddenly thought of doing sky diving and the next moment you are falling from the sky, this falling is called intentionally falling and boom you are on the ground and thinking – ‘How the hell I did that?!’ and screaming so loud that a person drinking tea on the other side of the world can hear it and think that – ‘what in the world a cow is screaming so loud!?’ Well honestly I want to be that cow;) Thoughts have so much power over you, that a good thought will bring positivity while a bad thought will bring negativity. Your mind set will decide your strength, your ability, your future. Don’t be a slave of your thoughts that just give out negativity every time. If you will think negative your life can never be positive, but if you can find a way to remove your negative thoughts or at least try it will be worth it. It’s very hard to be positive everything because the world around us has so much negativity store in them which somewhere gives us too. As it is said that every problem has a solution just like that you need to find your solution, what makes you happy, what helps you keep your mind positive and believe me you will find solutions quickly because finding solutions is never impossible! Nobody can ever understand you better than yourself, spend your time bettering yourself rather than paying attention to all the negativity which makes no difference in your life. A beautiful life begins, with a beautiful mind set. Make a clear mind about things you want in your life. What happened in you past leave all of those and start bringing positive and fresh thoughts in your mind to make your present as well as future better. It is righty said that – ‘Your past does not define your future’. Work and focus for things you want in your life and it will never let you thoughts wander away without any purpose!

The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Favourites: #1

Sometimes you just need to lay on the couch and read for a couple more years!

Books have always been my escape from the world. The love I have for books is just beyond words, words can’t describe my love for books. Honestly when I started my reading journey, it was started from e-books because at that time it was easy for me to access. My whole holidays I used to spend my days reading and reading, it was like I was in the spell of books. My friends used to say – ‘where the hell I am?’ But I never regretted it and now my reading habits have been doubled and I love every second of it. After a while, I decided to read some paper books, it’s not like that I have never but I wanted to increase my collection as well as my knowledge and interest. I still remember my first book ever which I myself found and got interest immediately and now my favourite book ever that is – ATTITUDE IS EVERTHING: CHANGE YOU ATTITUDE….CHANGE YOUR LIFE! by JEFF KELLER. Honestly telling one of my favourite books in the entire world, I am not someone who reread the books, but if I want to this one will it be for sure! It was not my first paper book but definitely the era where I started to read paper books more often.

“Between the pages of a book is a lovely place to be.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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