Category: Place of sanity!

Have a good positive, sanity mind by reading my blogs. You are healthy if you mind is healthy:)

Own Company Matters…

When woman becomes her own best friend,

LIFE IS EASIER

Diane von Furstenberg.

I used to always be fascinated by people who sit alone in the café with their laptops open and headphones on by drafting to their own world and forgetting about the chaotic world that they live in, away from this messy world where people are talking loudly, ordering something on the menu, or arguing among themselves. But I always used to wonder why people love to sit alone, won’t they get bored, do they not want to talk to friends, and I was like I can’t do that as I will be bored very quickly by myself. Even the thought of going on a solo tour was not for me because who wouldn’t like spending time with friends in an unknown destination and creating so many memories? But those childhood thoughts of mine when I was a child I didn’t see the world and its people properly. And now as I am an adult I LOVE MY COMPANY, I love to be alone and I never get bored. And now that I think about it, what I will say to my childhood self is that the world is very toxic and self-love and self-time are very important to get to know you because you are your only true friend. Unless and until you won’t understand every aspect of yourself, you won’t understand anyone nor should you expect others to understand you. Because when you are with people you always try to keep up with their expectations, you always try to chase them, you always try to be someone else that you aren’t, and you want to feel loved by them. But all those things should not matter because you are your best company, you don’t need any toxic people to make you feel bad about yourself, and if people try to give you an opinion about something that you are uncomfortable with then you don’t deserve to be with them, you deserve so much better girl. I have realized the importance of drafting in my own world, doing what I love without giving an explanation, I just want to be me, my best version that’s all. You don’t understand how much power you have until you truly try to understand yourself and that will only happen when you enjoy your own company.

Notice everything but mind your own business.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Continue…

You’re a fighter. Look at everything you’ve overcome.

Don’t give up now.

It’s so hard to continue being a fighter when everything around you and inside you is crumbling and not making any sense. Being able to continue by gaining courage is one of the toughest things to do. People around us say that keep trying and continuing the path we will make it, but it’s so hard to continue as things might not go according to us. I have been told that in my blogging journey, I just have to keep moving forward, keep doing, and keep trying to be better for a great result. I know for me to reach and achieve my goal I need to continue to make progress to make myself better and keep trying to upgrade myself but someday I just want to quit and not care about it. And it’s okay because those days make you realize the importance of taking one step behind for you to go four steps ahead. Just continue doing what you love, continue to work on yourself, continue to be strong for yourself, and I hope you will achieve your dreams at a great height. Whenever you just don’t want to do it, remember that every step you make is the first step there are a lot of journeys to go to reach the destination and you have to continue moving towards it because you can’t start the new chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one. Just like after sunset, the sky is filled with beautiful stars, even though they look so beautiful they know they have to go and let the sun’s brightness come just like that there will be so many phases you will have to go through but please continue.

Constantly,

consistently,

continually,

you.

Perry Poetry.

Till we meet again, Be happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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This Letter is to YOU.

I hope your dream won’t just be left as a dream

Whenever wherever

I’ll cheer you on. ~ MA.

Dear My Readers,

How are you? I hope you are doing great. I want to come here and tell you I am so proud of you for everything you have done for yourself. Sometimes in doing better every time we often forget to appreciate ourselves that even a small mistake makes us feel like a loser. I just want to tell you thank you so much for not giving up, thank you so much for being a pillar for yourself, and thank you so much for not stopping believing in yourself. I know what you are doing is absolutely great maybe at this time you won’t see the result but trust me and yourself it’s going to come super soon. It’s okay if you made a mistake, it’s okay to cry, and it’s okay if you feel weak sometimes there is nothing to feel bad about but it will only make you strong. Don’t make yourself small for anyone. Be that awkward, funny, intelligent, beautiful little weirdo that you are. Don’t hold back. Weird it out. If you ever feel like there is no one for you please do remember that a girl from a small part of this world is keeping you in her prayers and cheering you afar. ( You got this, Just do it, you are doing it right!) I hope your healing journey becomes successful. I hope you achieve your dream of what you always wanted and don’t be shy and become the best version of yourself. You are literally doing your best and if no one is proud of you be proud of yourself.

From, MA.

I have been meaning to write this letter for you all since you have been my upper support in my blogging journey and I feel like I need to appreciate it more. And I hope that after reading this letter you feel at least a little better and if you do I will be so on top of the moon:)

“Thank you for being an important part of my life.” ~ MA.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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I’m Still Learning…

I’m not everything I want to be, but I’m more than I was, and I’m still learning.

Charlotte Eriksson.

The moment you will realize that learning goes beyond the four walls of the classroom is when you will get the reality check that you have grown up. The life we are living right now is a synonym for learning, in life we get so many lessons and learning that make us realize what actually learning and life means. When you become adults the learning life gives you is just mind-blowing, but those are the learning we never forgot, those are the learning that makes us stronger because we experience it with all our emotions joined in them. When I was in school, older people often said, “When you will become an adult and pass out of school, you will understand the real meaning of learning and its phases.” And now I know how bitter truth those words were that someday I will face. Life is a roller-coaster we face so much every day and we learn new things every day. Life is meant to be the phases of learning, unlearning, and relearning and we need to accept it. Every day I make myself realize how perfect I will be at work, there will be someday when I will make mistakes and I don’t need to be sorry about that but need to be happy that I got to learn something new. I always remember that someday I will win and someday I will learn, which really works to help me keep myself motivated and not feel bad about it. It is actually you, you make the progress yourself, if you will allow it then it will happen, but if you know how to control it, and let it pass then you will realize you were just learning new phases of your life. Whenever people say wow you are so good at it, I always reply to them that I’m still learning…

Never forget to remain a student while to teach others.

Jerry Corsten.

Till we meet again Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Little Things!

Sometimes it’s just the little things that make you happy.

I decided to write about this because one of my seniors told me how amazing I am as a writer the day before yesterday. That person just wrote “You are an amazing writer” and till today it is stuck in my mind and now forever, whenever I think of it a smile snuck on my face and I just feel happy. I never really felt anything like that to be honest those few words hold so much power to me and now I see myself in a better place. I don’t know this is the first time in a while that I am genuinely happy like happy happy, and I am feeling good, all thanks to my senior. It is so true that we never appreciate small moments and things in our life so much, we just want to grab big things all the time. But those small moments really add a lot of happiness to our life, they just make us feel like yes we are on the right journey, they become our motivation to work more hard, and keep moving towards our goals. Just a tiny miracle of something that makes you feel genuinely happy, that makes you feel hopeful, and that makes you believe more in yourself. Trust me when I say that those tiny small things make so much difference in your life that will make you feel so happy about yourself. Sometimes we are so engaged in doing and accomplishing big things at once that so much stress comes upon us and we don’t even understand how much we are dealing with and that is where those small moments which you need for yourself come into the picture. It is said right that the small tiny things hold a lot of power because when they are joined together nothing can stop them from making you feel whole again, from making you believe in yourself, and from making you appreciate small things in your life and be happy about it. The second you start questioning yourself, remember those small moments and miracles that made you feel whole again and there is nothing those little things can’t do.

Remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.

Epicurus.

Till we meet again, Be happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Losing Hope…

Brain: Be patient

Heart: Until When?

The scariest thing in this world is when you are already on your journey of what you always wanted but in the middle of it just a random thought that nothing is working out, you are doing so much yet there is no result, you are seeing no progress of your hard work leads to a lot of scary thoughts like losing hope. The hope to see yourself successful in the future, the hope to see a great result of things that you are working hard for now, the hope to not let your sacrifice go to waste, and so many hopes we have with ourselves. And just a random thought about nothing working scares us the most and it happens a lot but sometimes it just randomly gets clicked in your mind that what you are doing is it right? Especially if you are already feeling low and when you think about anything the emotions and feelings just pass through them and will make you feel that there is no hope in things you are doing. You know there comes a time when it gets too much, you become so emotionless that you don’t feel anything, you just don’t care about anything, you just want to be left alone, and you just want to let go of hope because you are finding nothing to heal you, the lost hope just remains as lost hope only.

But still, after sunset, there is sunrise so after darkness there is hope believe me, if you feel like it is getting too much discharge yourself for a while, give yourself some time to heal, cry how much you want to, and let go of your bad feelings, scream how much you want, show yourself that its’ okay to feel vulnerable sometimes and when you feel okay you don’t even need to find hope, because it is hope that will find you and then there is nothing like losing hope for you.

“When we lose hope, we lose joy in the present because we have no confidence for the future.”

Till we meet again. Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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I’m Changing…

“We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are.”

Max Depree.

I am the type of person that can’t handle change I just want to be in a comfortable zone in what I am doing and not want to take a new step in that thing because I can’t adjust to change and leave my comfort zone. But I read somewhere that if you are comfortable then you are in the wrong place. I learned that for better success, I have to take new risks I have to do, and why do I always need to think negatively and not trust myself but let’s look at the positive side and to gain something I need to lose something right? But now I am changing for good now I am learning more about myself because the step I have taken in my life is for myself it’s just for myself I am alone on this journey I didn’t ask anybody but I did it because I believe in myself, I believe in my talent. If you don’t take the first step, you won’t know how capable you are of it. It might be like that after the first step things might not go according to you but trust me after the first step you will gain all the confidence to take the second step. I trust myself and you, just like how I changed for myself, took the first step and believed in my dreams I want you all to just do it, believe in yourself, and change for good and better things in your life. Growth and change are a phase of things that might be messy, uncomfortable, and many feelings that you don’t even expect you will feel but those things you need to feel to do better for yourself and your future.

“I love who I’ve been, but I really love who I’m becoming.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling- a girl who likes to write.

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I’m (NOT) Okay!

Every feeling you feel is VALID.

You know when there are things you are feeling but just can’t put in words or when the day is going okay but then you remember all your problems and your mood becomes sour, yes that is what I am feeling right now. You all the past few days of mine have gone so rough whatever I did in those days makes me feel like I did everything wrong. Nothing is making sense to me and I am stuck in so many ways that I can’t even speak about it because I don’t know how to, everything is just so confusing. I just don’t know where I belong, I wanted to do so many different things and I took the risk but now everything is just going downfall. I am so frustrated right now, just nothing is making sense but as I am writing this down I am understanding that it’s okay to not be okay with what happened has happened now I need to let go of it and look at the positive side that I learned from my mistake and in the future I can stop myself and others from doing it. But sometimes you just can’t ignore the negative side. I understand not everything in my life is going to be right, there will be phases where I will make mistakes and will be so wrong but I need to let go of it and just say that it’s okay I made a mistake now I need to just let go of it and move forward in my life.

Now actually I am feeling okay as I wrote down, the confusion I had is now sorted but there is something that I lost as well as gained from my mistake so I am not entirely sad about it, it’s just making me mad that what I thought nothing like nothing happened like that so that is making me mad and frustrated but it’s okay it was my first time and I made a mistake and nothing turned out the right way and what is the possible way to learn from mistakes – yes right it’s the hard way;)

Everything will be okay in the end.

If it’s not okay,

it’s not the end.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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The New Season!

So, I close my eyes to old ends

And open my heart to new beginnings.

Just like when a new season starts to begin after another one the adjustments humans have to make in terms of house decorations, skincare, clothes, and the preparation for coming festivals but before going into a new season we need to learn to let go of the old season and its vibe before finally adjusting into the new season. Just like moving countries and learning more about their season and slowly adjusting to it. Every morning just like the beginning of a new season we have to make so many adjustments I tell myself that it’s going to be a day that will make me happy or make me adjust my feeling to new things by making me learn new emotions of things that I couldn’t complete to do. I make myself remember that yesterday is gone, the past is gone now it’s time for a new day, a new season is going to begin for me, and with that, I need to make more progress or start new beginnings of things that I wanted to do for so long. People say with a new season with a new year comes a new you however according to me when you decide that you are going to change yourself for the better the time of your new season begins. It’s never too late to start something, just go for it, do it, and start your new season by doing things that you truly love and I know it will turn out great.

The new season is something we know nothing about but it definitely guarantees that we are going to feel so many emotions of excitement, happiness, fear, and so many unknown feelings as the new season brings a new phase of life that we need to learn to adjust to. But I hope you can begin this new season of yours with a heart full of excitement, a mind full of eagerness to learn new things and I hope everything you feel will make you have a different calmness and happiness of entering into new things just like New Season!

One day you will look back on this season and know that you are truly blessed, and not because things were perfect but because you found perfect grace in the worst of it.

Morgan Harper Nichols.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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MAGIC!

MAGIC is believing in yourself. If you can do that, you can make anything happen.

The concept of magic was brought to my attention when I watched my first animated movie of Cinderella. You’ll never know how obsessed I was with the animated movie version of Cinderella the second I got the key to open up the keyboard compartment of my computer table I used to hurry as fast as I could to watch the movie so many times. Actually, Cinderella was the first movie that got me into Barbie and still today I adore watching Cinderella movies but time has changed so much back then when I was a kid there was no YouTube where you can type any movie and it will come up but back then it was a struggle to download it and transfer it to computer without getting it corrupted. Nowadays whatever you want just type it and you will get it quickly but at those times the beauty and eagerness to find the movie and watch it with family all cuddled up was everything. In real life, there is a minus possibility of finding a prince charming but there is not even a minus possibility of finding a fairy godmother to cure us from our problems. Back then I used to think why can’t it be the same in real life but now at this age where I have seen so much I understood that only you can create your own magic there is absolutely no one other than you who can do it. What magic even means the potential of bringing the best out of us is magic, fighting through hurdles is magic, starting over with new motivation is magic, and so much within you is magic. Only you have the power to bring the magic inside you blink in a way of success that you always wanted. I hope your magic of yours blinks as much as the stars do on the starry night and I can vision it so you can with the help of your own MAGIC!

MAGIC is something you create.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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