Don’t Be Beautiful!

Be addicted to bettering yourself.

If you are beautiful you have everything, the fact that if someone is good-looking they are highlighted for everything even in things where someone else can fit perfectly. Don’t get me wrong about saying that beautiful people are bad, this is not what I am saying. Firstly I don’t even understand what and how to describe beautiful people, maybe by physical features like eyes, nose, and mouth which everybody has. I don’t know about you all but for me, the most attractive feature about others is a sense of humor, attitude and all-over personality.

I believe that how you carry yourself, how you describe yourself, and how you use your sense of humor should be attractive. If you love yourself, if you love all your flaws, if you accept yourself the way you are then that is what is beautiful. Nobody in this world came to be beautiful but be however you want, be powerful, be silly, be dramatic, be intelligent, be real, and most importantly be you. Everyone in this world is beautiful but not with how they look but with all shades of dramatic of them being themselves. It’s very hard to accept yourself and I know that very well but there is nothing about you that is not worthy of not loving let me tell you this don’t be beautiful but be powerful to love yourself.

“They keep saying that beautiful is something a girl needs to be. But honestly? Forget that. Don’t be beautiful. Be angry, be intelligent, be witty, be klutzy, be interesting, be funny, be adventurous, be crazy, be talented – there are an eternity of other things to be other than beautiful. And what is beautiful anyway but a set of letters strung together to make a word? Be your own definition of amazing, always. That is so much more important than anything beautiful, ever.”
Nikita Gill.

Until we meet again,

-Signing off

~MA

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July 31, 2022 0

Being Independent!~

“You’re gonna be happy,” – said life,
“But first I’ll make you STRONG.”

The other day certain memories of my childhood came into my mind, how that was the time when I was so dependent on my parents and can’t do various things and now as I am a legal adult everything is so different. A lot of people think at 17 years old that yes they are going to turn 18 years old but for me, at the age of 17, I somehow was an 18-year-old self where I noticed many things and everything started to make sense. That was my age when I became an independent self and I learned other than money various things make a person independent. Let’s start with shopping not basic shopping but grocery shopping and let me tell you it’s the toughest when you are without your parents and have no idea what rate is what thing.

Being independent is so important in today’s generation, when we talk about independence it starts with financial terms, how much one earns in one month it’s their money that they earned with their hard work, their skills and everyone should be proud of it. You know you are financially independent when you spend your money in whatever way you want and nobody asks you where it all went, wait actually nobody should have the right to do so. Other than finance, making decisions, supporting loved ones, and doing what one loves but it comes with a price, a price of responsibility that makes the biggest difference in one’s life. So for me, it’s how you manage to settle things perfectly, to get the solution for the problem, calming down the last minute problems is something I believe in being independent.

“Money doesn’t buy you happiness but it buys you freedom.” – MA.

I aspire to be a woman with
financial freedom
crazy dreams
loyal friends
jerk cats
the privilege to help others

Until we meet again,

-Signing off

~MA

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July 25, 2022 0

12 New Chapters… 365 New Chances

And Suddenly, I Know…
It’s Time To Start Something New
And Trust The Magic Of
New Beginnings.

14th July 2021

I don’t know where to start it off but I can’t believe that one year ago on this same date on the same device a girl was sitting and writing something random to make the world aware of her existence. The girl just started because she never believed that she had a talent in her, but decided to trust her instinct and go for it. She just believed that if she didn’t take a risk then there was nothing she could do. So she took the first step and the changes she learned, the confidence she gained, the emotions she felt, knowing how to overcome the hurdles and among them the most important lesson she learned to love and appreciate herself. And now I can proudly say I am Her and She is Me.

When I started I didn’t know that there were people who would land on my page and take a few minutes from their life to read my thoughts and appreciate it. I am someone who can’t express my feelings very well but all I can say is Thank You So Much for appreciating me and my work. I will always be grateful to all of you and I hope you all have the best wishes in what you are doing. A reminder if you feel that there is no one for you please remember that there is a girl in a small part of the world who appreciates you and is grateful for your existence.

THANK YOU, YOU ARE AMAZING AND APPRECIATED:)

….this chapter of my life is called,
“Smiling Again!”

Until We Meet Again,

– Signing off

~ MA

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July 14, 2022 2

Work In Progress.

“No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.” Tony Robbins.
Tony Robbins.

When it is said that the journey is more memorable than the destination I somehow believe in that. Because it takes a lot of time and effort to reach somewhere we dreamed and desired. In life, we don’t know what will happen next in the process of living but we do know that in the end there will be death waiting for us. Just like life, we know our destination but the process of reaching the place will have so many hurdles among them that we never know and this is what I named the Beauty and the Beast. Because according to the first reason that I learned while finding my destination was that to have a positive impact there will be a lot of negativity you have to go through. To find the happiness you need to go through the pain and the reason behind is that what pain, and misery can teach you, happiness can’t. Happiness will make your heart full but the pain will make your heart strong, yourself strong. And to live up to the life you want, the heart and mind need to be strong and brave enough to not let your destination of yours fade away. Time is very important and if you learn the importance of time the word patience will be your reason to enjoy the journey you need for yourself. Because patience is the key to everything, nothing happens overnight and if it does if not you. To enjoy the destination to the fullest you need to experience your journey in every form of emotions and feelings. Take your time and enjoy the learning it taught you in your journey because in the end life is a Work in Progress.

This time, love the Work in Progress
that is you.

Until We Meet Again,

– Singing off

~ MA

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July 11, 2022 4

A Piece Of Random!

“Character is how you treat those that can do nothing for you.”
Nelson Mandela.

The world we live in is like one big box which looks small from afar but when you look at it from close it’s like finding a piece of sugar from a bag of salt. You may think about what kind of comparison I just wrote but in a true sense, it makes the most sense. There are billions of people residing on the same planet as you but yet so different but somehow similar. Honestly, I can never understand the game of fate, the destiny like two people living in different corners of the world who know nothing about each other can meet randomly and become best friends or even worse enemies;)

From afar everything looks good but as you get closer the clarity and the flaws start to make an appearance that is binding by the distance. The world becomes hasher when everything starts to make sense, the innocence that one has in their childhood period left without one knowing when and why. When people say childhood is the best time in the life of a child, I believe never more true words have ever been spoken. I mean it’s time that can’t be controlled just like your desire to have the best for you. Just like everyone wants happiness, peace, and prosperity in their life, I feel like pain, suffering, and misery is the part that makes all of these things possible.

Because after every storm comes a rainbow.

An apple a day keeps anyone away if you throw it hard enough;)

Until We Meet Again,

– Signing off

~ MA

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July 8, 2022 0

Hatred!

“Hatred is like a long, dark shadow….
It is like a two-edged sword. When you cut the other person, you cut yourself.”
Haruki Murakami. (The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle.)

What does hatred mean to you? Does it mean doing the same thing they did to you or does it mean forgiving is an easy punishment for them? I feel like hating and disliking are the most different words that do not come near each other in terms of anything. The rage of doing exactly the same with others when they are in pain of what they do to you can’t be controlled easily. In this world, everyone is going through some or other things right now and to cope with that as well as people isn’t easy. You know hatred for someone not only causes them problems but as well as you. The very famous saying is that ‘to deal with hatred is by love, by goodness’, and to be honest I somewhere believe it. Obviously, there are people whom I don’t like and vice versa and it’s completely normal. Personality clashes, strong opinions, and not mutual understanding can be the reasons for not being comfortable with each other. But it does not mean spreading hate about each other, bringing them down will do anything. Instead, why not work on ourselves, why not work to prove all of them wrong by working hard every day. Because of how much of a good person you are, the people who are blind by jealousy, and hatred will never see them. So work on yourself, for yourself because you are not worthy of any hatred!

Ignore the drama.
Ignore the hatred.
Ignore the pain.
Find peace.
Find Happiness.
Find yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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May 21, 2022 0

Self-Worth!

Be so busy improving yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
Make sure you’re doing better now than you were before.
It’s you vs you.

The hardest thing in this world is to understand oneself. What do you want from your life? Where are you in your life? Is everything happening the way you want? And the most important question – ARE YOU HAPPY? I feel like in this world finding the answers to these questions is the toughest thing to do. It’s never hard to love someone and appreciate them because it’s more about them than you. But when it comes to loving and appreciating yourself, then easy word never seems easy. The true line of flaws makes you different and unique from others but accepting in real life is way too difficult. Why do you want another person to come and tell you your perfections and imperfections? Why can’t you accept the way you are? If you can’t accept and love yourself then never expect anyone to do so. Listen to me, nobody in this world has any right to tell you to become someone you are not and to be perfect. You are the decision-maker of your life, love yourself, appreciate yourself and become the person you always wanted to be. You are worthy of so many things that you will understand if you understand and love yourself. Beauty doesn’t come with physical appearance but self-worth!

Support yourself instead of finding ways to neglect yourself. It’s impossible to win if you’re not on your own team.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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May 18, 2022 0

Focus on the Good!

Give More Attention to what is right in your life than what is wrong.

It’s much harder to be grateful than to complain about them. Focusing on what is good for us rather than complaining about things that don’t matter to us. I truly believe that how much of a good thing you do for others one bad thing will destroy everything. People never talk about how good people are to them, how much help they received but just one bad thing from that person then everything becomes sour. Honestly, I have seen so much of this as well as felt that now I don’t even care. I just know that kindness is the greatest gift one can receive and if you have them never lose them. Focusing on things takes a lot of effort, actually positive things but when it comes to irrational and negative things it’s never hard. Take your hands off of what you can’t control and get your hands on what you can change. Blaming things, time and people are never going to work out it’s all you, if you decide to focus on yourselves, your positive changes and there you will know that everything is good if you focus on good. Just focus on positive vibes, things that bring you happiness, I know it’s hard but life is too short to focus on the negatives.

we’re all works
in progress.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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April 22, 2022 7

Self-Care

Perfect people aren’t real and real people aren’t perfect.

The most neglected thing I have seen and done as well is not paying attention to myself. There is a saying, which some people accept while some don’t – “We know least about ourselves.” Self-care starts with skin-care for most people but for me, it’s a good amount of sleep. According to me, there are two types of people when it comes to skin-care, the first obsessed one and the other who doesn’t even care. I am definitely the second one because I am too lazy and skin-care just doesn’t make sense to me, no offense to all the skin-care lovers out there:) More in my favor whatever I do and apply nothing works for me. I don’t know, maybe my skin is as stubborn as me;) Honestly, there are a lot more things in self-care that actually matter the most. I always believe that the internal matters more than the external. Mental health is the biggest thing one should worry about because if it is not going well then anything is not going well. Self-care is all about how you are treating yourself, are you taking care of yourself? Are you cutting down the toxic people in your life? Are you keeping yourself first? Are you getting the rest you need? These are all the things that one should self-care about themselves. The reminder for today is to do it for yourself not for others because you only deserve it nobody else.

Work on you, for you.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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March 5, 2022 0

Self-Improvement Tips!

“Life is tough and things don’t always work out well but we should be brave and go on with out lives.”
-Suga of BTS.

In the last post, I shared my thoughts on Self-Improvement and what it really means. But that post will be incomplete if I do not share my tips on how to keep getting better and keep yourself in check.

Tips:

The first thing in the morning is not to check your phone. That is a great way of not getting carried away.
Make your bed.
Meditate or walk in the park, just spend time with yourself.
Get ready for the day.
Have a good breakfast with you and your thoughts.
Glass of water for clearing out the negativity.
If things of yesterday are still lingering on you then give yourself a reminder of doing better today.
Write two things you are grateful for and two things you want to be proud of yourself.
The best way to improve yourself is to limit the time on social media because it really influences people in a good way or in the worst way.
Read a book or watch a movie or listen to a podcast.
Do something that makes you laugh and happy. For example, there are thousands of funny videos on YouTube:)
Organizing your house really helps in organizing your thoughts as well.
Start learning things you want to learn but you are not taking initiative. Just start and you will be grateful in the future.
Before going to bed, do something that makes you happy and motivated. Like your favourite quote, book or talk to your favourite person.
The sleep will be more peaceful and wake up early to continue becoming a better version of yourself.

Honestly, you can do as you like just make sure nothing is affecting you in a bad way. These are the tips that really help me. Sometimes we are so into our work that putting ourselves first becomes our last priority. So spending time on yourself is a great way of moving forward.

“People succeed when others say negative things.”
-Jin of BTS.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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