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My Blogging Journey!

Stop being afraid of what could go wrong,

and started getting excited about what could go right.

Tony Robbins.

Tell me honestly, when you started blogging and someone asked you what you do? And your answer will be -“I do Blogging!” But there will be a majority people of who don’t know what blogging is, and then you go on explaining them. Honestly, it happened to me so many times. It’s fun to explain them but not too much! The biggest question I get is why did I start blogging? So let’s start with my blogging life or journey wherever you want to call it. Let’s start way back when I was in my childhood years. I was socially awkward but was an extrovert and had a blunt mouth (I still have*wink wink*) When I was a child, I used to think I had no talent at all because I could do nothing like painting, making crafty stuff, basically nothing good. But in my 10 grade, my professor told me –“You have so many good thoughts, just find a way to put in on the paper!” this belief and advice of him I remember so clearly because it is where I started my blogging journey and the lost confidence came knocking. You just need a little push in which you are not confident enough if it will work out or not. But if it is meant for you and is a desire of yours to have it, it will happen just open your damn eyes and ears to not miss anything;) A belief in you is the advice I followed for myself without thinking if it is going to work out or not. If your belief is as strong as the rock that is hit by the waves so many times that it does not move, it is the best way to keep yourself motivated everything will take time to be the way you want, you just need to have your faith and patience in yourself without losing it to the demons of your dreams. Take a good deep breath when you make your dream a reality. Never stop working hard if you want to be proud of yourself in the future and the journey when you look back. You are amazing and be the way you are, go ahead and do what you love:)

The best way to predict your future is to create it.

Abraham Lincoln.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Advice for an interview. (My first ever interview experience!)

I never really thought in my whole blogging journey I would write about the advice this early, but you can’t say anything now because everyone is familiar with ‘unexpected things in life.’ I am writing this blog after I gave an interview for an internship and I must point out that – “It was my first ever interview that I gave.” If this was the old me I would be freaking out, sweating the hell out and telling my father I don’t want to do it because of my lack of confidence in me. But this in front of you all is the new me, the one who has gotten the confidence from God knows where. I was so calm and was me the whole time. Put out my perspective and goal to do everything. If I do not get selected you know I will not feel bad but will feel like I did amazing but luck was not on my side and I need to work harder. The thing here is you know what I learned was the result did not matter if you have given you 100% and that is what I am feeling right now because I know I did my best. I don’t know if I am the perfect person to take advice from but as a learner like you all and I want to share my experience and don’t know maybe you are looking for something like this now or ahead. Honestly speaking, an interview is like a test where you know the test is going to happen but without knowing the questions. Heck! It is difficult to learn the answers to the questions that we already know are going to come. I know one thing that in an interview you just need to remember is to be YOU the whole time. Be confident and relax because if you are looking stressed the whole time it will just going to affect you and the answers might not go as expected. It’s totally fine if you are stressed about giving an interview because anybody can get stressed while talking to professionals or even strangers. I understand one thing the most is as time goes, your mind starts to adjust the way you think and it shows when you speak, or even in the circumstance that you can’t handle before. As you grow up the confidence that was building inside you from your childhood, it just appears and shows the way you thought it will be. Just have your skills with you, and boom you’re blooming. Have a belief in yourself, the skills you have, just go with the flow and it will just grow the confidence in you. And again a reminder that BE YOURSELF the whole time in an interview of anything you are doing because it is the way you are described.

I hope you all like my random rambling that just appears in my mind and thought to share with you all. Always in advance ‘All The Best‘ if something like this is going to happen in your future:)

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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When there is a will, there is a way!

When you really want something you will find a way. When you don’t really want something, you’ll find an excuse.

Rachel Hollis.

Growing up my mother always used to tell me when there is a will, there is a way, but at that time the meaning behind those words never really made any sense to me. But as time passed I understood that every word has its meaning. We just need to find it and also those words which make you want to wake up in the morning and keep going. I understood that whatever you want in your life, you need to fight for it. Nothing is easy to get if you are a tough person with impossible dreams that people think but not you. You should know that if you want to make a life for yourself, the road to it will never be easy because if it is not then it means it’s not for you. The stubbornness you have in you will help you overcome the feeling of giving up. The harder, the want of your life the harder you will be in the end. Every day there will be problems that you need to deal with, at some point you may just want to leave everything and stop trying. But as always if you have willingness in you to fulfil your dreams, to make your dreams a reality then there will always be a way for you to reach there. You just need to have patience and faith in what you are doing and as always everything is going to work out. God is always with you, just trust him he knows what is right for you and will put you on the right path. Have the power to choose what you want, to choose what is best for you, to choose yourself. If you have the courage, the faith in yourself, the stubbornness of not giving up then you will not find the way but the way will find you. If all the doors to your life are closed and you don’t know what to do, take a deep breath and tell yourself that ‘you got this’ and the door to move ahead will be visible to you but at that time you will be stronger and ready to achieve whatever you dream of. If you feel like you need to take a break, do it without any second thought because the comeback is always stronger. Just follow the path of your dreams with patience, hard work, faith and hope and you are going to find problems but remember when there is a will, there is a way!

You spend most of your life inside your head. Make it a nice place to be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Another Day Another You!

Mirror Mirror on the wall, I will always get up when I fall, and whether I run, walk or have to crawl, I will set my goals and achieve them all.

It’s okay to be sad; it’s okay to be not okay, it’s okay if you are not feeling better today. It’s okay if you are not feeling yourself. Nobody is going to know the behind the scenes of where you have come from, your breakdowns, your low times, your moments of almost giving up except you. You need to overcome yesterday for your tomorrow. Your failure will help you become the person you are meant to be, when you will look back at the time you will be proud that you gave yourself a chance despite the thousands of barriers that were blocking your way but the only ray at that time was your hope, your faith in you, your dreams and now you are there. For taking one step ahead you need to take four steps back. The saying “your past does not define your future” is the perfect way to hold on to yourself and move ahead without looking back. Give yourself the time you need, prepare yourself mentally and physically to walk on the road where nothing is easy other than your stubbornness to win. Maybe your today will not be how you imagined it to be but that’s normal because you are going to make your tomorrow better, you have to. A reminder to you all if today was not a good day for you before you hit the pillow tonight, remind yourself that you are alright. You are doing a great job. Be patient with yourself, and remember that big things are achieved not all at once, but one day at a time. Maybe today was not for you but tomorrow it will be. As I said you need to take some steps back for you to come stronger, better and more YOU. Have faith in yourself; never lose it because it’s that kind of weapon that can change your life. Always be hopeful about things you want to achieve in your life, never lose hope if you do, you will lose yourself. If you can’t find a way then make a way to be there where you see yourself. Wake up with a smile on your face and say to yourself that today you are going to make another day and another you!

“If you are brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life is unpredictable.

Life is rare, life is unpredictable. Nothing last forever and people change. So live every moment to its fullest.

When we expect something from life it never happens the same way but it happens unexpectedly because life does not work according to us. We are the prey to the predators of life. When we share our problems with someone there are two replies you can get according to me the first one if the other person also starts to cry out the problems like yours and the second one if the person replies and says that – “Life is life, it can’t be controlled as it is said that life is unpredictable!” I will let you decide to choose what reply you feel is right and what will you reply if the same happened to you and what you will expect in the situation? Future is the word I feel afraid of as well as look forward to because no one in the whole world knows what will happen the next second in life, so thinking about the future is just nothing to think about. I feel like going with the flow of life is mandatory because if things are going to happen in life, nobody can stop it, you just need to deal with it and let it flow. One moment you are planning something and the other moment something unexpected happens and there goes that life is unpredictable. Fear of unexpected things can lead to the loss of beautiful things so like I said go with the flow of the cycle of happiness, than problems, than happiness and so on, it will never stop. But as always after every storm, there is a rainbow and after every sunset, there is a sunrise. Just put a smile on your face and enjoy the life that has been given to you because “You only live once!” If things are meant to happen, take them positively because I believe everything has two effects on life, positive and negative. They are bound together and you can’t separate them but learn to live with them. Learn how to control the panic in you, problems that come unexpectedly knocking on your doors because life can’t walk the way you want, you need to make it the way you want! Have a lovely day:)

We are always going to have challenges. When we make it through one, another on is going to come along. Life is unpredictable. You can’t always see what’s coming next, and you have to be okay with that. Make decisions that you think are best for you, but accept that things might not go the way you planned.

Laura Brown.

Till we again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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The Power You Hold.

I love the person I’ve become, because I fought to become her.

Kaci Diane.

When we were kids we used to think that supernatural power is everything. We wanted to be a Marvel with all of the power to fight. Spiderman interests me because he can climb a building; I mean you don’t have to climb all of the stairs of your school, or to beat up the bullies and whatnot. I would love to be a Spiderman maybe for one day (Spiderman people if by any chance you read these please fulfil my dream, Thank You). But as we grow up we know that Santa Claus was never real, he did not eat the cookies or drink the milk but it was our parents. Funny isn’t it? Definitely when you grow up, become more mature and start to understand everything, things which should not matter to us but still, it matters! To have power is not everything, but the way you fight with your inner demons to reach where you want to be, what you want to become is what I call the powerful you. We see in the movies that the more powerful the person is the more he is in danger. Misuse of anything will lead to destruction or damage that can’t be repaired. The skills you have, the ability you have, and the way you can do all of those things are your power. Know your power, work for it every day to recharge it and stop it from getting rusty. The power you hold, hold it that tight that anybody or you can’t take it away or misuse it from yourself. Make your power your strength and work for it to make it stronger every day as you work for it. You are more powerful than you think, more ready for problems than you know, more strong that you believe in yourself. Just do what you are afraid to do and in the end, everything is going to work. Your power will help you from not giving up. The mind of yours in which you have created your vision to what you want to become will always makes you feel powerful.

Sometimes you gotta be a Beauty and a Beast.

Nicki Minaj.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

“Believe in Yourself. You are Braver than you think, more Talented than you know, and Capable of more than you Imagine.”

“Believe in Yourself!” was and is the mantra I use in my life, in what I am doing. When I was in school I used to think that I will do this, but there were some “well-wishers” of mine who used to say, you are not able to do it and at that time was not at all confident in me. But now years later here I am with my passion of writing that I also wanted to do since I found out that I can share my thoughts with the world. Same like me, if you want to do something but there will always be second thoughts and that is totally normal. I have learned that you just need to do it without thinking what is going to happen because if you are confident enough to know that you can do it and your believe in yourself and you are halfway there. Believe that you are going to do it, believe that there is nothing that can stop you from getting things the way you want, believing in yourself will help you gain the confidence in yourself, just go with the flow and you are on the right path. You are unstoppable when you will make the motive to lose yourself with yourself. Make challenges with yourself that you will do better than yesterday and more better tomorrow. There will be thousands of “well-wishers” of yours, who will try to let you down plenty of times; you don’t need to put yourself in that work. Prove all of them wrong because they aren’t right in the first place you are just putting them in their place. When you are stubborn with the dreams of yours, with the wants of your life than there is no single soul out there who can stop you from getting what you want. You just need to Believe in Yourself and in the end everything is going to work out.

“Self confidence is a super power. Once you starts to believe in yourself, magic starts happening.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Guilt.

Sometimes you don’t realize the weight of something you’ve been carrying until you feel the weight of it’s release.

According to me the two strongest feelings in the world is of hate and guilt. When the feeling of hate or guilt overcome your mind it makes the goodness in you get far behind your mind. Being guilty about things especially of your past can deeply hurt your present and future. We are so connected to our past that if something happened in your past, still in your present you are guilty about it and afraid to do something that is connected to it. As the sayings goes by that we are humans and it’s okay to make mistakes. Making mistakes is mandatory for you to learn and grow more. Accepting your mistakes is what makes you feel like that you are learning to correct your mistakes. Everything comes with a baggage happiness with grief, hard work with scarifies; everything is connected to each other. Feeling of guilt comes from so many other things that we feel, like the opportunities we don’t take, when we lose from one point, when we gave our hundred per cent but did not make it. The feeling of guilt in our mind has stopped us from taking something that we are afraid if we failed again. The inner mind of ours tell us that we should’ve done that, we should’ve gone with that and what not so but remember whatever happens, happens for good. Maybe at that time you will make yourself responsible for what happened but as the time pass you will understand that you are not responsible or guilty about what happened, it was meant to happen so it happened. There are times in life where people purposely will make you feel that it was your fault and you should be guilty about it but it takes two to clap the hand. What happened in your life can never change you just need to accept it and move on because until and unless you will not accept it you will never move on completely with you mind and heart. Nobody is perfect so you are, you are imperfectly perfect!

If you don’t take it off your chest, you’ll never be able to breath.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Patience!

PATIENCE IS BITTER,

BUT IT’S FRUIT

IS SWEET.

Jean-Jacques Rousseau.

From the time I remember I have always learned from my parents that if you have patience in what you are doing you are going to definitely succeed in that despite how much impossible it looks to you. I believe that patience is the key to the doors that looks impossible to open. I just stated blogging like almost two months ago and when I was going to start it I know that it will require a lot of patience for me to reach somewhere in this massive blogging world. It is difficult let me tell you, to have patience while you are doing so much behind something but let me also remind you that overnight success can never satisfy you for a long time that a success came from the nights and days of your hard work. Things which are easy to achieve can never makes to happy or satisfied than the things which are hard but not impossible to achieve. The things which we do with patience than the things we do in hurry are two aspects that instantly shows the result of which is better. Let me give you guys an example, when we come from a large trip of grocery shopping and we are alone to bring all the groceries inside the house, so we try to carry all the bags at a one go because we don’t have much energy and patience to go again and again, we tried to but we need to go gym regularly to do such a heavy stunt by ourselves and in the end we just dropped it and now the energy and patience will be needed double the amount which we needed earlier. As always after even sunset there is a sunrise and after every storm there is a rainbow you just need to have a lot of patience to see what you really can do. Nature is the best example that I look up to. The nature goes through so much to look beautiful but after a long time of period. When you sow a seed for a fruit, it doesn’t grow in one day but it has to go through so much different situations for it to become a fruit. Just like that we need to go through so many and sudden situations which can come from anywhere you just need to be ready to tackle it gracefully, if you want to eat the fruit of the seed you sowed. Just one minute of patience can give you years of peace. Have patience and read this post with a hot cup of tea;)

“With patience, it is possible to dig a well with a teaspoon.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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YOU…

“Make the little girl you used to be, proud of the women you are now!”

The world is filling with lots of people some are real some are not so real. I feel like the biggest insecurities for anybody is can any other person will like us the way we are. I want to point out that – “you are not here to impress anybody, you are here for yourself!” This belief taught me a lot of things that was missing from my life. I have learned that you can’t impress someone until you are not satisfied with it. You are the owner of your own life; you have to make your life the way you want to live your life. You are responsible for the things that happen in your life. It’s okay if you have taken a decision that maybe is not right for you, but correcting that decision is what I call a perfect way to start your life again but in a better way. Take the responsibility of yourself, shape and built yourself like a shield for you to overcome your problems. You are the only limit for yourself, nobody is going to stop your beside yourself. Work hard to make yourself proud. The feeling of making yourself proud will be a portion of your life where you know you are going perfectly on a right path. Be the writer of your own life. Play around with fonts, colours, texts give your life a summary for you to keep going better and better. YOU get to design your own life; you have to have the willingness and the drive to get out of whatever you’re going through. Sow the seeds of your life like when you are going to look back from where you have come; the smile of proud will be on your face for yourself. Never give anybody the right to hold the power of your life, nobody deserves it expect you. If your goals are bigger and you want to make yourself proud you need to look after yourself, make yourself feels like you can do want ever you want you just need to keep going. Because after everything what is going to matter is ‘YOU!’

“Cherish your visions; cherish your ideas; cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts, for out of them will grow all delightful conditions, all heavenly environment; of these, if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built.”

-By James Allen, from his book ‘As A Man Thinketh’.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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