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Have a good positive, sanity mind by reading my blogs. You are healthy if you mind is healthy:)

YOU…

“Make the little girl you used to be, proud of the women you are now!”

The world is filling with lots of people some are real some are not so real. I feel like the biggest insecurities for anybody is can any other person will like us the way we are. I want to point out that – “you are not here to impress anybody, you are here for yourself!” This belief taught me a lot of things that was missing from my life. I have learned that you can’t impress someone until you are not satisfied with it. You are the owner of your own life; you have to make your life the way you want to live your life. You are responsible for the things that happen in your life. It’s okay if you have taken a decision that maybe is not right for you, but correcting that decision is what I call a perfect way to start your life again but in a better way. Take the responsibility of yourself, shape and built yourself like a shield for you to overcome your problems. You are the only limit for yourself, nobody is going to stop your beside yourself. Work hard to make yourself proud. The feeling of making yourself proud will be a portion of your life where you know you are going perfectly on a right path. Be the writer of your own life. Play around with fonts, colours, texts give your life a summary for you to keep going better and better. YOU get to design your own life; you have to have the willingness and the drive to get out of whatever you’re going through. Sow the seeds of your life like when you are going to look back from where you have come; the smile of proud will be on your face for yourself. Never give anybody the right to hold the power of your life, nobody deserves it expect you. If your goals are bigger and you want to make yourself proud you need to look after yourself, make yourself feels like you can do want ever you want you just need to keep going. Because after everything what is going to matter is ‘YOU!’

“Cherish your visions; cherish your ideas; cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts, for out of them will grow all delightful conditions, all heavenly environment; of these, if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built.”

-By James Allen, from his book ‘As A Man Thinketh’.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Take a deep breath…

Choose your Happiness

Choose your Wellbeing

Choose your passion

Choose Yourself,

every time.

We all are so busy with the life of ours that taking a deep breath in a day is difficult task for us because we think that our time will be wasted. Life is moving so fast that, I don’t even understand where the hell my past two years went, I just don’t remember. Time is literally on a race, you just blink and it’s the next day. Amidst all the chaos it’s very important to find something that you are doing for yourself, doing that makes you happy, takes you away from the hectic of the world even it’s for just some time but trust me, you need it! A little silly things that makes you happy, like jumping in the puddle, baking even though it going to be a mess but who cares, just have fun. According to me hobby is something that is very different from the work you do, hobby is when you enjoy without having any pressure, expectations to do it perfect, and it’s perfect only for you. Taking a time for you is a very good medication required for the life of yours. Take as much time you need for yourself because everything comes after YOU. I usually when feeling low or just not myself, for me reading a book or even randomly sitting in the corner scrolling through phone helps. When you are feeling low it can be because of stress or things are not going according to you, it happens so just let your brain have some rest, just do what makes you relax and it will definitely help you to be back again but in more better and uplifting mood. The ‘Me Time’ is mandatory; it helps you to think outside of the stressful world of yours to the world where you can be as free as you want to. The ‘Walk of Talk’, I would like to say where you can think all about yourself, what you want to do for yourself, walk until you are yourself again. Don’t get too busy in the world because the world is not going to stop, it’s your duty to find the time for ‘yourself’ in the world!

It’s okay to take as many moments as you need for yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Young!

“Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again.”

C.S. Lewis.

We are too young to be rushing things and too old to be wasting time. I feel like from the age of teenager to being adult even though it’s a matter of years but the time period is too fast. It is the period when we start to recognize what we never understood in our childhood. It’s like when you are a teenager you want to be a young adult and when you are an adult you want to be a child it’s a harsh truth. I had always believed that we are too young to think about what our future hold for us. It’s better to live in present than to think about our future. My mother told me once that – ‘you are always young from your heart!’ and I loved that so much. I always remember my childhood and smile that I was such a mischievous child who used to be a troublemaker in her childhood and it was the best ever time of my life. That’s the same I want to remember in my old times that what a fun I used to have in my young age and want to smile by remembering that I spend my young age as a good time:) We will always be too young for everything, believe me. Don’t take stress of what your future is going to be. Smile that at least you have a chance to enjoy your adult age the way you want. When the time will pass, you should never have the words pass through your mouth that – ‘I should have done that before, now I can’t do it as time has already passed!’, time waits for no one and it’s ok if the time pass away, it’s never too late for anything, you just need to find the enthusiasm that you can still do it. Being young teaches us so many amazing lessons, to have so many beautiful memories, us being able to do what we want to do, to have so many missions to complete that’s the spirit we carry in our adult age. It’s an age we want to do so many things but at the same time having fun and enjoying the life as the time is never going to be same ahead. Do whatever you want to do, just be a happy going soul enjoying everything that comes your way.

“Growing old is mandatory, but growing up is optional.”

Walt Disney.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who like to write.

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Regrets.

Life is short, so live it. Love is rare, so grab it. Fear controls you, so face it. Memories are precious, so cherish them. We only get one life, so live it!

Life is so short that should be spend wisely by doing things we love, by being grateful, by taking the opportunities that comes our way but we humans always have a tendency to do the opposite of what we should do. Time never waits for anyone and we should also not wait for things which we don’t know will ever came instead we should embraced the chances and opportunities that are waiting for us to claim it. We only have one life that means we only have one chance to do whatever we want. I believe thinking unnecessarily about things just make it worse. Take the chance you get in your life because you only live ones; never be afraid that you can’t do it until you have not tried it. Regrets of not taking the chances you got, it’s a very worse kind of feeling. It hurts more than a breakup. It shows that you have no believe in yourself, you are afraid. Life will moves on, people will forget, maybe you as well but the feeling of regret will always be there no matter what, reminding yourself that ‘why did not I take it?’ Life is all about getting the experience of things which we never had. Learning and doing the things we never did. Life is all about learning new things rather than doing the same thing again and again because you are afraid that maybe you are not good at it or you can’t do it. Fear is the biggest enemy of our lives, whenever we think to try something new, fear always gets the best out of ourselves and we just backed up. That’s where our test starts and to overcome our fear and do it without any second thought. And believe me the experience of doing something new, will be unforgettable and in the end you will have ‘no regrets’. No regret means you are living your life to the fullest and enjoying every second of your life! Have a great and happy day:)

Look forward with HOPE.

Not backwards with REGRET.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Memories:)

The Best gifts in the world are not in the material objects one can buy from the store, but in the memories we make with the people we love.

Amanda Boyarshinov.

Memories have us connected to our past. It’s like having a small part of our brain dedicated to store memories in them. There are some good memories which keep us going and then there are some ‘not so good’ memories which keep us from giving up. Good memories is all about people you love, about things you adore, the things you want in your life, about your future and many more. The ‘not so good memories’ which makes you recognize about what you were and now what you are! An instant smile comes over you face about the good memories you spent with your peoples, it’s like a light got on in your mind and heart. Memories can be brought back but the emotions; feelings that were attached to them cannot be felt again. The time came, you created memories in that moment and now it’s all in your mind, the memories you created can never be the same. Memories are the reasons for us to go on in our lives. Time will go on, your age will go on, people will change but the memories will never fade away not even a small one. Memories are special in their own way. A small little thing which we thought was small in our past, now when you look at it and a sad smile takes over your face and you realize that that small little things was actually a thing which matters us more. Some memories are like you want to forget them but you can’t, and some are still you are trying to remember. Memories are not created for you to forget them it’s like when you are looking through the old albums which you somewhere found in your dusty attic, filled with dust and when you opened it and felt like you are in your past, feeling and reliving all the good and funny memories and sitting in the dusty, messy corner of the attic the moment is priceless. Ahhh! Feeling so nostalgia:( Create good memories, learn from your memories and just keep making memories and having fun! From making memories of your baby tooth falling to your hair turned grey, never stop making memories. Just like time, memories will never stop and you should also not stop making memories:)

Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.

Dr. Seuss.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Thoughts…

Your mind is a powerful thing. When you fill it with your positive thoughts your life will start to change.

There is no single second in our day that we don’t have a thought running through our mind. A small thought can make a big difference that maybe you don’t know. One day you suddenly thought of doing sky diving and the next moment you are falling from the sky, this falling is called intentionally falling and boom you are on the ground and thinking – ‘How the hell I did that?!’ and screaming so loud that a person drinking tea on the other side of the world can hear it and think that – ‘what in the world a cow is screaming so loud!?’ Well honestly I want to be that cow;) Thoughts have so much power over you, that a good thought will bring positivity while a bad thought will bring negativity. Your mind set will decide your strength, your ability, your future. Don’t be a slave of your thoughts that just give out negativity every time. If you will think negative your life can never be positive, but if you can find a way to remove your negative thoughts or at least try it will be worth it. It’s very hard to be positive everything because the world around us has so much negativity store in them which somewhere gives us too. As it is said that every problem has a solution just like that you need to find your solution, what makes you happy, what helps you keep your mind positive and believe me you will find solutions quickly because finding solutions is never impossible! Nobody can ever understand you better than yourself, spend your time bettering yourself rather than paying attention to all the negativity which makes no difference in your life. A beautiful life begins, with a beautiful mind set. Make a clear mind about things you want in your life. What happened in you past leave all of those and start bringing positive and fresh thoughts in your mind to make your present as well as future better. It is righty said that – ‘Your past does not define your future’. Work and focus for things you want in your life and it will never let you thoughts wander away without any purpose!

The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Learnings.

I’m tough, I’m ambitious, and I know exactly what I want. If that makes me look bad, I’m okay!

Everything in life starts from learning till the end. It’s funny when we think that learning is just till we are in school, till we are getting our educations done. But honestly it’s just a education what everybody learns, it’s fixed, it’s limited, it’s something that a person teaches us. I have always believed that learning is far more than just the four walls of the classrooms; it’s far more than limited sets of books. Learning from the books and learning from the life lessons of your life is a two different kind of aspects. When you learn from the books, it’s someone else’s story or someone else’s perspective, but when you are learning from the lessons you, yourself learned it from your life is a whole new different aspect. For me, the lessons and learning you learned after doing mistakes is unforgettable. It’s always said that a person can learn hard and well from a hard way because the struggles, the time, the hardships and most important the mind which can’t be on the ease is the result of hard lessons and learning’s. You can lose in front of the whole world, but never in your mind and heart because it’s where you learn, you learn from you lose that world will never know how much you have put you hard work in it except yourself, it’s a way you learn in your life. My goal is to always be kind in whatever I learn, I earned the kindness in me should never go; it should be with me till the last breath of mine. How rich you are, how good you are, a person is always remember with a good attitude they carry, with a good heart that is filled with kindness, open to all for the love and care. ‘Always be Kind no matter what’ – is the lesson I have received and I want to give you all because believe me it’s a best lesson any one could ever receive! You are kind, you are amazing, and you are beautiful, if you want to do it, you can do it, give this pep talk to yourself and you will never regret it. And let your life gives you learning and lessons every now and then to let you know that you are on a right path:)

Do something today that your future self will thank you for!

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Disappointments!

What you think, you become.

What you feel, you attract.

What you imagine, you create.

Disappointments are the first step of failure. It’s the first step for you to recognize how bad you are! You are a disappointment to the world. Blah and Blah! I mean everybody in this world wants everybody to be perfect. Wow! And what really perfect means?? Does it means you should never disappoint, you should do whatever world tells you, it’s simply means you should be a PUPPET to this world, because if you will do things according to them then you will be a ‘perfect’ human being and there will be no disappointments anywhere. If you are believing or thinking all of this, the ‘special’ theory then let me clear one thing that you are yourself a big disappointment in you than! You are a solely human being which lives on this planet but on others expectations, you are afraid to do something because if it goes wrong then a face of disappointment is seen by you. First thing always remember you are responsible for yourself, nobody is to be blame for something you yourself have done it. Your success, your failure, your disappointments all is of yours, if you take you disappointments in a way where you are trying to make them your strength by doing it all again but the right way. Expectations are the biggest disappointments if to be asked. Trying is a not a crime that you can’t commit. Not every person deserves your good heart. If you are doing well for others, it will never be unseen by the God. Just trust yourself and your God and you are on the right path. Don’t grave about your disappointments that you faced today, remember to make you disappointment in to your satisfactions and happiness that you deserve for tomorrow. And remember – Never become bad person because of bad people!

Be gentle with yourself, you’re doing the best you can.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Understanding.

Understanding is deeper than knowledge. There are many people who know you, but very few who understand you.

– Nicolas Cage –

The most complicated thing in this world is finding understanding between peoples or things. It’s a fact according to me that understanding between two peoples is the core of a relationship. Understanding does not come when you first time open your eyes in this world. It does not come when your fairy tooth comes out. It’s the experience of your life, from first time crying to coming in the zone of time where every little thing matters. Understanding comes when your mind starts to not only recognising the surrounding but also the peoples. Nobody will ever understand the life you want until you will try to make them understand and there are only few who will understand! It’s okay to do things which people don’t understand because there are things which you will not understand of them it’s equal. Pleasing people in 21st century is hard and time wasting because as time move forward the difference between the generations is pretty much large. What we do maybe our parents don’t understand, maybe they find it weird I mean if I will tell my grandparents about me writing blogs that is pretty easy that they will not understand because the difference and understanding is not the same. It’s not that your parents don’t understand you, it’s just that maybe they have never seen all of the things we find fun, that’s why they interfere but they will never want bad for their children’s. If I will tell that I am not so easy to understand but there are people in my life that understands me easily. Everyone in their life has someone to understand them, if you don’t have someone that does not mean you are hard to understand it just mean that you don’t need people to understand you. You yourself are enough to understand YOU! Everyone in their life has went through a phase or going, that their sense of getting something in there mind has been shut down and they are not understanding anything, they are not in the position to understand anything because some feelings or people talks have kept their mind blocked and they are losing their shit. OMG! I am literally feeling that I am scientist writing all of this, Lol! It just came in my mind and I wrote this… Some people will never understand that sitting in your damn house, alone in peace, eating snacks and minding your own freaking business is another level of understanding that people need to upgrade themselves! Well I hope you understood my random rambling that I just start writing and here we are:) Have a good day!

Don’t try to understand everything. Sometimes it is not meant to be understood, just accepted.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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EMOTIONS:)

‘Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow anything outside of you to control your emotions.’

EMOTIONS are pretty hard to control when you don’t know how and what emotions to show either than being angry, happy, and sad. Specially someone who has a sarcasm filled in there body from head to toe. A escape with all the funny and sarcasm filled talks just so they can escape it for a second maybe. We all are surrounded with a lot of peoples and their emotions that are attached to them as well as ‘us’. Emotions are pretty much our slaves that I would like to say because if we want to control them we can it’s quite a tough job though to control the emotions in us. Honestly emotions for me are the inner feelings of a person because they are something I would like to name wordless feelings of a person, who just want somebody to understand him/her by not uttering a word. I feel like emotions just come out when you are with a right person, when you are okay to show your vulnerable side to them. Emotions does not means the feeling of sadness, crying all those sad kind of feelings but emotions of strong, of dedications, of kindness all these emotions which makes us a better and a stronger person. Emotions, believe me is a spirit to do better next time, the spirit when you fail ,you will feel the emotions of anger, the frustration of emotions mixing together it’s just a sign that a small little failure does not stop you from getting the success you deserve. Emotions are hard to explain but not to understand by a right person who can see through you fake laughs! Its okay to be the person who just let the emotions out it’s totally okay, we are humans who always learn from lesson of our life’s and definitely learning is always a button in our life which we can press without any charges and time limit. Just be a human that knows what is good for them and what is not; never just be so much emotionally attached to anything that in the end which damage you. Be a happy emotional person that you love. Always remember showing emotions does not mean you are weak it just means you are being yourself, you are good enough, you are STRONGER!

‘You become very dangerous when you learn to control you emotions!’

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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