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Life Cycle!

Self care isn’t just drinking water and going to sleep early. Self care is taking a break when things become overwhelming, saying no to things you do not want to do, allowing yourself to cry and doing things that makes you happy.

Eat, sleep, write and read is my life cycle. From these four I must do at least all (Haha). Some people I have seen are not present in this world mentally. They are so much involved in their work that they don’t know what is happening in the world or themselves. From past years I have learned that the best time to know yourself or to understand yourself is to spend time with yourself. Headphones on with your music playlist and a book or whatever you love as a hobby with you is what a self moment should look like. As you grow up you understand that self-time is way more important than people who keep buzzing in your ears. For me, I can’t even sit for a two hours movie because my concentration is not good. Well let’s be honest I am not a movie person, I will anytime prefer to enjoy my books. Yes! I am a nerd but not in my studies;) Most people have a to-do list, but tell me honestly how unsuccessful you have been in it. I am a person who likes to go with the flow, I don’t like to plan my future because it then gives me a headache from now. I mean it depends on the person, some are going towards their goal while others are finding happiness in their goal. Now one thing that makes me realize is that you should only do things that you love not what others are expecting from you. Because it’s your like not theirs ahead you have to face the challenges not them. An ideal life cycle should only include things that you love and things that make you feel like YOU!

It is never too late to choose yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Life to Remember!

You don’t always need a logical reason for doing everything in your life. Do it because you want to, because it’s fun, because it makes you happy.

Tell me truthfully once in your life till today you have told yourself that ‘I don’t want to live.’ If the common answer is yes then it is normal. You have heard thousands of times that ‘you only have one life so live according to it.’ Nobody knows what is going to happen in life and it’s so foreign to even think about it. Life is never easy, there is something that is always going on no matter how rich, happy you are. Problems are meant to come but smiling through them solving them is what you need to learn and you do as time passes by. The memories are something that we can cherish the most because time is not coming back so the only thing that remains with us is our memories. It can be happy, sad, painful but among them, there is always something that we learn. The decision of your life is always hard as you are not sure where to go but as you come to a point in your life where everything starts to make sense and for you, that is your turning point. The first step is always wrong so that by taking the second step you know what you are doing. Make life just like you want which I know is going to be super hard but if you have the will for achieving what you want then nobody can stop you. Keep going, you are almost there!

Don’t waste your time looking back on what you’ve lost.

Move on, for life is not meant to be traveled backwards.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Back To The Grind!

The day you plant the seed is not that day you eat the fruit.

Finally, the time came for what I wanted and also what I did not want. The back to school is the time every student desires for as well as back to vacation after attending one day of school the ranting of it starts. The new normal was becoming my headache but as everything started to get back, especially the friend meeting session for which most of us go to school is coming back and I am loving every second of it. I am in a university right now and trying to get my interest back so that I can graduate peacefully (sighing). Yes, I am a young adult! My start off was online and I hope my finish off will be offline while wearing my graduation gown and throwing my cap so that in future I can have proof that I was indeed in a university. My first day was honestly much better than what I expected, I met professors, got bored and talked a lot. I still clearly remember when I was in my last year of high school the memories I made with my lifetime friends can and never will be the same ahead in any period. I feel like whatever you are doing at what phase you are try to enjoy it to the fullest because it’s never going to come back and ahead nothing is going to be the same as it was. Learning in any step you are on, one thing is that you will be a student that means enjoy it to the fullest, have fun, talk a lot, make dozens of memories because that is what you are going to take with you. I hope you all enjoy my ranting because I wanted to share a little part of me so I decided to write about it. In any part of the world, you are I hope you are back to the grind.

I don’t want to look back and say I wish I could have done better.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Long Hectic Day!

Be silly. Be fun. Be different Be crazy.

Be you, because life is too short to be anything but happy.

Life is too short to just sit in front of the computer and pass it. I miss the era of going to school and planning out the day and enjoying it with friends. Now everybody is as busy as Einstein that even going out means planning before weeks. Days are passing like a blur of wind and we are like fall leaves coming every year looking beautiful as always but every year there is a difference in the number of trees as they are not there anymore. In this life, everyone is running behind completing their work as fast as possible so they could get time just like a dream for themselves, but I never saw it become a reality. Do you ever feel like just getting away from things, people? Do you ever feel like you don’t even care if you are having a deadline tomorrow? If not then you are a lot behind than you think. When we are enjoying ourselves with friends and time just goes by even if you have days or many months then it’s not enough and sometimes you want the day to be over then too it is going as slow as a turtle. Just to make you better understand the difference between how time goes during your last lecture and how time goes when you are giving an exam. I don’t think anyone can ever understand the logic behind it and nobody wants to. Hectic days are now a cup of tea but finding peace and relaxing is not everyone’s cup of tea. Finding peace is like finding a good piece of clothing in the seas of human fighting over it. What you do in your day should satisfy you that you did great today but some days are just to teach you the lessons that are needed in your life.

No matter how hectic your day went, I pray that all your hard work brings nothing but strength and refreshment you need.

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Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Blessings Start with YOU!

Though we are incomplete, God loves us completely.

Though we are imperfect, He loves us perfectly.

Though we may feel lost & without compass,

God’s loves encompasses, us completely.

-Dieter F. Uchtdorf.

Everyone who is born in this world is special in their way. We never know the importance we have for ourselves until we learn to love ourselves as we are. Two types of people you will meet in your life, the one who accepts you as you and the other one who points out everything bad about you. Nobody is perfect. This sentence shows that a perfect person is never real and a real person is never perfect. Everyone has flaws but all of these have the real you that represents you that is what you are. Growth of yours matters above anything, if you are seeing yourself becoming a better person every day then that is your blessing. Nobody has the right to point out your flaws and tell you what you should do and what not. There are so many hard times people went through to reach their goals but hard times are often disguised as a blessing that in the future you will thank God for making you learn and grow. Hard times make you feel blessed with all the blessings you have for yourself, the way you are. The amount of blessing each and everyone has received from God is uncountable. Life is too short to waste anything, you just need to smile and keep going because if you want yourself somewhere, the stubbornness and determination should never stop and you will see yourself showering with blessings. You need to find your blessing and make yourself your priority in life because Blessings Start with YOU!

YOU ARE A UNIQUE BEAUTIFUL SOUL.

-Louise Hay.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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To make a Difference.

Don’t be easy to define. Let them wonder about you.

Picking up the stone from the middle of the road, throwing garbage in the trashcan while walking on the path, helping another even without them knowing about it, ‘Yes!’ It makes a difference. It’s a basic thought that the other person will do it so there is no need for me to do it and the same thoughts run in the mind of the other person. Making a small difference is a lot more beneficial than doing a lot more together. When your path is all messed up and you don’t know which to take, if it is really for you, then you will be naturally drawn to it, even if you decide something else but at every step, you find yourself back at it again, that is your sign that it is the path for you. Just have the courage to follow them and it will make a big difference in your life. In this world, people do not appreciate different things because they are different from them. We are so used to seeing the same thing, doing things the same every day and even if something happens a bit different then we name it a problem. You know a little difference, even a small moment in a day makes you so fresh and you don’t even know you need it. Make a difference in what you think you need in your life, try to find even a little difference because if it makes you smile, takes you away from your problems then it is worth it. If you want an escape from your daily routine, instead of doing your usual do something unusual like if you are a coffee drinker try to switch out the mood make some tea it helps, telling you by experience. You know that every day the same is going to happen so take out some time and do something else to fresh out your mind. A little difference can make a big difference in your life.

“No one ever made a difference by being like everyone else.”

P.T. Barnum.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Starting Over is a New Beginning.

Don’t be afraid to start all over again.

You may like your new story better.

To reach somewhere you need to make the first step means staring at a point. I will tell you that for me to become a blogger was a thought that came to my mind years back but I started it now because at that time there were so many things I need to learn and explore more to start a website where I can express myself just like I want but it took time for me to start and now I just need to continuing going just like I want. It takes a lot of thought to start something that you are not an expert of but as time goes the learning never stops and that’s how you become an expert. Sometimes things just do not go as planned and it makes the confidence go down. We will never know the second step if we never took the first step. Starting somewhere is going to be just like a test where you don’t know what the result is going to be but one thing that will depend on you is the result that shows that you pass or fail. Honestly, it does not matter what will be the result, all that matters is what you learn from it, are you going on the right path so many questions arise and that helps you to become and achieve what you want in your life. There is also a beginning and an end to any story or part of one’s life. For starting anything new a part of your life needs to be closed to start up a new you with a new goal. If something does not work out and you wanted that but life takes a completely different turn, and there is where you realize this is what you needed not before what others wanted from you. A fresh start is a new beginning where you are more experienced, more confident and a change in yourself will be a bonus for you to never stop trying. Change is a need where everything you wanted is within your reach. If now you want a break do it and then start again with a new aura to never stop.

And suddenly, you know…

It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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You are a Hero!

Hard times don’t create heroes. It is during the hard times when the ‘hero’ within us is revealed.

Bob Riley.

All the heroes do not wear a cap. Yes! Right just like you. When we think about a hero, what comes to our mind is saving people and doing things that help people and all of that. But according to me, a hero is someone who knows how to deal with his weakness and is kind enough to have a strength of heart that is strong for him to choose with he love. There is also a saying that emotional pain is worse than physical pain. You can deal with and heal your physical pain very easily but emotional pain takes a lot of time and patience. Be your hero for yourself, you need strength to make your heart feel like it is strongest for you. No matter how much weak you feel in doing something, how much you want to give up, you are a hero if you never stop trying or backing off because that is what makes you are truly a saviour by a hero aka yourself. You know the true meaning of knowing what you want, understanding yourself better when you are dealing with hard times. Hard times make you feel that everything in life is a chapter that will close someday and a new chapter will be opened but in that one chapter there is so much that could happen to you and all of those just make you stronger and a hero in your own eyes. Fear was, is and will also be a constant factor in whatever you are doing, but you need to learn how to make it your biggest strength. A hero is known as someone who learns how to overcome obstacles by feeling the emotions of insecurity and fear and that is what makes a hero. You are doing great, take a deep breath and continue trying.

Live your life like you’re the hero in your own movie.

Joe Rogan.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Giving up is a Sin.

You are fighting so hard and I am so proud of you, I know you’re tired, but please don’t give up. I have so much faith in you. Like countless times before this, you can and will do this.

It is very easy to give up and grieve about it the next day. Making decisions about things that don’t interest you is quite understandable because wasting time on something which is not for you is bizarre. But something that you are finding hard, and not getting through, you just decide to give up and stop trying. Making the mind up for doing is the first step towards the goal you want to achieve. Nothing is easy until you do it. When you arrive at the goal and when you look back everything you will find is easy but at the last step. There are so many steps to reach the final destination because it takes time to make yourself what you dream of. Taking a break is mandatory to come up with a clear and focused mind to begin the journey again. But giving up because you can’t do it anymore, or you are fed up is a feeling that everyone gets but that is where a decision is a crucial part. Take a break for some time, refresh your mind, make up your mind, dream about the final goal of yours and then you are ready to start again. Before starting your journey make some promises to yourself like huddles will stop you but can’t beat you, giving up should be the last thought in your mind, above all the biggest promise is to keep going, never stop until you achieve the goal you have decided for yourself. The struggle is the best thing you should be proud of throughout your journey and after your journey. Struggle makes you strong to deal with every part of problems in your life. Struggle makes you learn to handle the situation by yourself. You can do it if you want. By all of this, I want to say don’t give up no matter how hard it is because in the end it will be worth it and you will be so proud of not making a decision that is not for you. Giving up is not a solution for anything but a sin.

You don’t have to be brave,

you just have to keep trying.

You don’t have to be strong,

you just have to keep going.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Meaning To Your Life.

The meaning of life is to give life meaning.

Viktor E. Frankl

A confused soul is more dangerous than a lost soul because somewhere the lost soul will find its destination but a confused soul will walk through its destination so many times yet can’t find it. We all have been wandering on this planet for so many years yet we are still confused about what life is and why life is given to us? We all know that someday we all are going to die when an unanswered question that can never be answered. It takes a lot of time to figure out what we want from life, I am still figuring it out. Because I feel like it somehow sounds very easy to do but as it is said that “what sounds easy is as difficult to get” here the case is the same. A word that sounds hard, its meaning is easy while the word which sounds easy its meaning cannot be found exactly. It takes a lot of time to find out what you want. Finding the meaning of life is like Finding Nemo. It takes time to think, to find the meaning which reflects you in the chaotic world where everybody is running behind something every day. The real meaning of life is to find the inner yourself and to explore everywhere to see where you find your happiness. If you have no motive in your life then it is not a life but a way to just move on without any motive. Finding the meaning of your life should be your biggest motto. That meaning brings you happiness and not just for you to have something to pass. You have given life, you are still breathing, be grateful and blessed. Don’t make your day like waking up in the morning, doing the basic work, surviving and then off to bed. Try to make every day a fun day where you cherish your little moments because time will never come back and you can’t pause it. Finding the meaning of life is not easy, the destination is way far than you think, sometimes you take some journey that is not for you but it’s a sixth sense that comes to you when you know that this is not for you. Don’t stop until you find what you want, what is your desire with your life. This is your life, so live the way you want. Never stop finding the meaning of your life and that is how you are going to find the meaning of your life. Find the meaning of your life in happiness because if there is no happiness from your side in what you are doing then there is no meaning to your life.

Everything comes to you at the right time.

Be Patient.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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