Uselessness!

Just a reminder in case your mind is playing tricks on you today –

You matter. You’re important. You’re loved.

People who just randomly sit and start something becomes everything in their life. Best thoughts come when you are just ideally sitting in a park and contemplating your life. Whenever I think of something that is really out of the box it usually comes at the weirdest time and place. Random thoughts are the best one because it comes from the emotions you are feeling at that time. It is said that when you are too deep in emotions the mind and heart both make you feel the power of the thoughts and words. A fact is when someone feels they are wasting time but that is the time one is more motivated than ever before. For me, my uselessness meant me the whole day being in bed and doing NOTHING absolutely NOTHING. Because the whole week I am so busy and I don’t get time to properly enjoy it, so at weekends I am a stranger to the world. I need my sleep, I need to spend the day as I love without having any tension of my busy life. Just like you need to take steps back to jump ahead exactly, you need to take a break to come back fresh. Whenever I have so many things in my mind and it is tiring me then too I need to work but I can’t because the energy is being drained out as so much was on my mind. I think the meaning of rest should be you being entirely selfish. That means doing something that makes you happy without any tension of the time. Like most people do something useful in their free time but I believe that uselessness is useful! You need to have days that others think are useless but to you, it is able to focus more on useful things later! Just be your free self because it is what helps you be useful:)

Never force anything. Just let it be if it’s meant to be, it will be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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It’s Okay To Not Be Okay!

Sending love and well wishes to everyone, but especially to the people who feel like they don’t deserve it or they haven’t earned it. You are appreciated, loved, needed, and the world is better for having you in it.

It is officially the last day of 2021 and I don’t know how I am feeling about it. Honestly from the past two years a lot of things happened in my life, some were good and some were not so good. But all those moments taught me a lot of things, a lot of lessons and those learning I can’t ever forget or better way to say I don’t want to forget. I never knew that a person can go through so many emotions at once but it is just a matter of time that passes but leaves a big impact on me. Sometimes you learn a hard way and believe me it shows a whole different world to you. The biggest learning I learned by myself was – “It’s okay to not be okay!” We all are so busy making ourselves perfect that the real us just hide behind and that makes a person to commit mistakes. Every year we learn, relearn, unlearn so many things as we grow up. Every year the aspects of learning go the same and it should be in the upcoming time. I want people to understand that it is okay if something does not go as you expected it is not the end of the world. Remember if one door is closed another one is ready to be open but only with patience. It is okay to make mistakes, it is okay to be demotivated, it is okay to be a failure sometimes because these things only take you where you want to be. Normalize the failure, the unhappy days, the imperfect you, the hardships, the judgements. Focus on only you and you because you are the owner of your life and you have seen what you were and now where you are. Be proud of where you have come, be proud of yourself, give yourself the credit of fighting through the times and ahead, never stop being proud of yourself as it is okay to not be okay!

I hope the time ahead goes the way you want it, become a better version of yourself, live life the way you want. Never stop believing in yourself and never stop being an imperfect but real you! Live Life To The Fullest:)

Be proud of how far you’ve come even if it’s not where you thought you would be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A little of something I want to share:)

As dark as the stormy night as tall as the lighthouse, people see him as a curse of the world yet nobody knows that his world is nothing but a black hole in which he is falling very quickly and nobody can stop him except the motive of vengeance with her. He stands tall at 6’5 inches, has broad shoulders that never slough, grey eyes that complement his midnight black hair with his eyes always alert and looks at people with doubtfulness. Rough hands but nobody sees the marks of his past on them, the jaw is as sharp as his mind that is always running to find his lost vengeance with her, the killer of his sister. People also say that he is always ready to snap at things all the time, ready to fight if someone disturbs him, and nobody goes to his house which is always filled with darkness just like his mood. Arrogance is his second name and rudeness is his brother but nobody sees what he has seen, his sister is on the end of the pathway of the world, and in the next moment she is gone forever. The nightmares never leave him alone until his motive is done. The guilt of not saving his sister will never leave him until he leaves the world and the fire of vengeance of his sister’s murderer who bullies her and makes the life of his sister hell and now he is going to make her life hell because death is an easy punishment there is so much to come. Vengeance is what will make him free from the guilt and for his sister to be finally at peace. Nobody will help her, the murderer just like nobody did for her sister and then the motive of him will be successful and he will be at ease and his guilt will be erased a little. 

Hey you all, this is a character sketch that I wrote for one of my works. I thought of sharing it here so that I can get a lot of compliments Haha;) Hope you all like this, I wrote this in just a few minutes and I am really proud of it:)

Till we meet again Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

Love Yourself!

We are all better versions of ourselves when we are love ourselves.

The biggest lesson one has to teach someone or to learn themselves is to love yourself. In this world, we are so used to giving things to others then amidst we forget ourselves. The courage, the lessons, the hardships, the confidence is all the negative as well as positive learning we learn by ourselves only. The best learning one can learn it by themselves. The major problem the youth is facing is not believing in themselves, loving themselves. When someone asks ‘describe yourself’, it takes a long pause for the person to answer it. You know why because we always forget to make ourselves our priority. I have seen many people saying that they can’t find anyone compatible with them. After giving so much thought to that I came to the conclusion that when a person doesn’t even know themselves then how can they will fit anywhere? Nobody needs to change to fit somewhere, recognize yourself, pay attention to yourself because nobody is as important as you. Figuring out yourself takes a lot of time because always the wrong path takes you in the right direction. I am still figuring out myself and letting myself have the time to know the real me because when you force yourself to adapt things it will be more complicated. Many times we lose confidence, we stop believing in ourselves, we just don’t trust ourselves and that makes you stop everything at that moment. Figure yourself and life will itself be the way you want. Embrace yourself, love yourself and then there is nothing that can break you and your confidence.

Nobody can make you happy until you’re happy with yourself first.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life Cycle!

Self care isn’t just drinking water and going to sleep early. Self care is taking a break when things become overwhelming, saying no to things you do not want to do, allowing yourself to cry and doing things that makes you happy.

Eat, sleep, write and read is my life cycle. From these four I must do at least all (Haha). Some people I have seen are not present in this world mentally. They are so much involved in their work that they don’t know what is happening in the world or themselves. From past years I have learned that the best time to know yourself or to understand yourself is to spend time with yourself. Headphones on with your music playlist and a book or whatever you love as a hobby with you is what a self moment should look like. As you grow up you understand that self-time is way more important than people who keep buzzing in your ears. For me, I can’t even sit for a two hours movie because my concentration is not good. Well let’s be honest I am not a movie person, I will anytime prefer to enjoy my books. Yes! I am a nerd but not in my studies;) Most people have a to-do list, but tell me honestly how unsuccessful you have been in it. I am a person who likes to go with the flow, I don’t like to plan my future because it then gives me a headache from now. I mean it depends on the person, some are going towards their goal while others are finding happiness in their goal. Now one thing that makes me realize is that you should only do things that you love not what others are expecting from you. Because it’s your like not theirs ahead you have to face the challenges not them. An ideal life cycle should only include things that you love and things that make you feel like YOU!

It is never too late to choose yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Life to Remember!

You don’t always need a logical reason for doing everything in your life. Do it because you want to, because it’s fun, because it makes you happy.

Tell me truthfully once in your life till today you have told yourself that ‘I don’t want to live.’ If the common answer is yes then it is normal. You have heard thousands of times that ‘you only have one life so live according to it.’ Nobody knows what is going to happen in life and it’s so foreign to even think about it. Life is never easy, there is something that is always going on no matter how rich, happy you are. Problems are meant to come but smiling through them solving them is what you need to learn and you do as time passes by. The memories are something that we can cherish the most because time is not coming back so the only thing that remains with us is our memories. It can be happy, sad, painful but among them, there is always something that we learn. The decision of your life is always hard as you are not sure where to go but as you come to a point in your life where everything starts to make sense and for you, that is your turning point. The first step is always wrong so that by taking the second step you know what you are doing. Make life just like you want which I know is going to be super hard but if you have the will for achieving what you want then nobody can stop you. Keep going, you are almost there!

Don’t waste your time looking back on what you’ve lost.

Move on, for life is not meant to be traveled backwards.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Back To The Grind!

The day you plant the seed is not that day you eat the fruit.

Finally, the time came for what I wanted and also what I did not want. The back to school is the time every student desires for as well as back to vacation after attending one day of school the ranting of it starts. The new normal was becoming my headache but as everything started to get back, especially the friend meeting session for which most of us go to school is coming back and I am loving every second of it. I am in a university right now and trying to get my interest back so that I can graduate peacefully (sighing). Yes, I am a young adult! My start off was online and I hope my finish off will be offline while wearing my graduation gown and throwing my cap so that in future I can have proof that I was indeed in a university. My first day was honestly much better than what I expected, I met professors, got bored and talked a lot. I still clearly remember when I was in my last year of high school the memories I made with my lifetime friends can and never will be the same ahead in any period. I feel like whatever you are doing at what phase you are try to enjoy it to the fullest because it’s never going to come back and ahead nothing is going to be the same as it was. Learning in any step you are on, one thing is that you will be a student that means enjoy it to the fullest, have fun, talk a lot, make dozens of memories because that is what you are going to take with you. I hope you all enjoy my ranting because I wanted to share a little part of me so I decided to write about it. In any part of the world, you are I hope you are back to the grind.

I don’t want to look back and say I wish I could have done better.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Long Hectic Day!

Be silly. Be fun. Be different Be crazy.

Be you, because life is too short to be anything but happy.

Life is too short to just sit in front of the computer and pass it. I miss the era of going to school and planning out the day and enjoying it with friends. Now everybody is as busy as Einstein that even going out means planning before weeks. Days are passing like a blur of wind and we are like fall leaves coming every year looking beautiful as always but every year there is a difference in the number of trees as they are not there anymore. In this life, everyone is running behind completing their work as fast as possible so they could get time just like a dream for themselves, but I never saw it become a reality. Do you ever feel like just getting away from things, people? Do you ever feel like you don’t even care if you are having a deadline tomorrow? If not then you are a lot behind than you think. When we are enjoying ourselves with friends and time just goes by even if you have days or many months then it’s not enough and sometimes you want the day to be over then too it is going as slow as a turtle. Just to make you better understand the difference between how time goes during your last lecture and how time goes when you are giving an exam. I don’t think anyone can ever understand the logic behind it and nobody wants to. Hectic days are now a cup of tea but finding peace and relaxing is not everyone’s cup of tea. Finding peace is like finding a good piece of clothing in the seas of human fighting over it. What you do in your day should satisfy you that you did great today but some days are just to teach you the lessons that are needed in your life.

No matter how hectic your day went, I pray that all your hard work brings nothing but strength and refreshment you need.

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Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Blessings Start with YOU!

Though we are incomplete, God loves us completely.

Though we are imperfect, He loves us perfectly.

Though we may feel lost & without compass,

God’s loves encompasses, us completely.

-Dieter F. Uchtdorf.

Everyone who is born in this world is special in their way. We never know the importance we have for ourselves until we learn to love ourselves as we are. Two types of people you will meet in your life, the one who accepts you as you and the other one who points out everything bad about you. Nobody is perfect. This sentence shows that a perfect person is never real and a real person is never perfect. Everyone has flaws but all of these have the real you that represents you that is what you are. Growth of yours matters above anything, if you are seeing yourself becoming a better person every day then that is your blessing. Nobody has the right to point out your flaws and tell you what you should do and what not. There are so many hard times people went through to reach their goals but hard times are often disguised as a blessing that in the future you will thank God for making you learn and grow. Hard times make you feel blessed with all the blessings you have for yourself, the way you are. The amount of blessing each and everyone has received from God is uncountable. Life is too short to waste anything, you just need to smile and keep going because if you want yourself somewhere, the stubbornness and determination should never stop and you will see yourself showering with blessings. You need to find your blessing and make yourself your priority in life because Blessings Start with YOU!

YOU ARE A UNIQUE BEAUTIFUL SOUL.

-Louise Hay.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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To make a Difference.

Don’t be easy to define. Let them wonder about you.

Picking up the stone from the middle of the road, throwing garbage in the trashcan while walking on the path, helping another even without them knowing about it, ‘Yes!’ It makes a difference. It’s a basic thought that the other person will do it so there is no need for me to do it and the same thoughts run in the mind of the other person. Making a small difference is a lot more beneficial than doing a lot more together. When your path is all messed up and you don’t know which to take, if it is really for you, then you will be naturally drawn to it, even if you decide something else but at every step, you find yourself back at it again, that is your sign that it is the path for you. Just have the courage to follow them and it will make a big difference in your life. In this world, people do not appreciate different things because they are different from them. We are so used to seeing the same thing, doing things the same every day and even if something happens a bit different then we name it a problem. You know a little difference, even a small moment in a day makes you so fresh and you don’t even know you need it. Make a difference in what you think you need in your life, try to find even a little difference because if it makes you smile, takes you away from your problems then it is worth it. If you want an escape from your daily routine, instead of doing your usual do something unusual like if you are a coffee drinker try to switch out the mood make some tea it helps, telling you by experience. You know that every day the same is going to happen so take out some time and do something else to fresh out your mind. A little difference can make a big difference in your life.

“No one ever made a difference by being like everyone else.”

P.T. Barnum.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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