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When reality hits too HARD.

teach your heart to accept disappointments,

even from the people you love.

When coming back home from a very good day spent, singing on the street, jumping around but as close as the home is the feeling inside starts to change and you also don’t realize the humming of the song or when your feet become cold and stuck at one place. All these happen because when reality hits too hard the tape that holds the bubble starts tearing apart and you are left alone with no one around only your thoughts and fear that eats you up. Reality is something that no one wants to accept however the quicker you accept the reality the inevitable the better the fog of confusion and delusion starts to clear up. The realisation when your face hits the cold pillow that how much behind you are and how much you didn’t succeed today. At the end of the day, we get the chance to reflect on our day and most of the time it’s disappointing only because reality is not easy, however, we need to accept the truth of how it is and reality can’t be changed. However, it doesn’t mean your life motive is over but sometimes we need to have a reality check in between in order to stay put. Everyone is different as some accept the inevitable while some try to find out what they did wrong. Nothing is wrong it’s just that reality has its own way of shaping us and finding the real route for us. Sometimes when everything starts to be overwhelming or things might be going good but you still feel lost there is when reality needs to step up so that you can have a more clear picture of your life. Remember awful feelings may make you feel awful but these are the only feelings that can make you strong and at that time when you don’t even need them but ahead in future you will not even realize how good you are handling the situations that reality taught you back in the days and that is why it is important to accept when reality hits too hard.

And in the end, all I learned was, to be strong

Alone.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Struggling…

Every struggle in your life has shaped you into the person you are today.

Be thankful for the hard times, they can only make you stronger.

Struggling is that factor of one’s life that is not at all looked upon when talking about people’s success and even failure. The number of people who struggle every single day to meet their ends or to protect their mental health is innumerable and is ignored when we see those same people smiling and enjoying themselves because each one of them has so much to tell. Struggles are not seen in broad daylight, they crave out only when your face hits the cold pillow or when midst of chaos you feel lonely. Struggling every moment of your life and to be able to be the best version of yourself is so hard. Nobody knows what happens behind closed doors, nobody knows how many tears are shredded to even begin with a new page in life, nobody knows the amount of taunting voice that disturbs us every single time when we are happy, and nobody knows how much struggle we have done to reach there. There are always two sides to the story, one is what we let the people see and the other side is where people themselves decide what they want to see. Never ever feel that your struggles are nothing, they are proof to yourself that you have done everything in your power despite so many hurdles to not give up. Just like after every sunset there is a sunrise behind every struggle you do that leads to you being stronger. Every struggle gives you double the strength to fight against them, just remember that struggling is a moment that will pass soon just like everything else. I am so proud of you, I know you are struggling so do I but we got this, don’t worry. You need to fight and prove to yourself that you are the best and you are enough for yourself despite all the struggles.

Just because someone carries it well doesn’t mean it’s not heavy.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Time.

One day when you look back, you will understand that everything happens for a reason. What is meant for you will be yours at the right place and right time.

I can’t believe it took me such a long time to write about time on my blog. I mean, simple things make no sense to me, I am complicated. (Sighs) Time, let’s just talk about it. Time is the only factor in one’s life that can break and join the past, present, and future of them. It is also a fear factor that keeps people from sleeping at night. When you look at it during the day, the time goes fast however, at night, when sleep is unknown to you, you can feel and hear time ticking as slowly as a turtle because everything comes knocking at the door at night. Time plays with us when we are motivated to do things, time just doesn’t fit right and when we want time it’s never there, iconic right? When people say everything comes at the right time or works at the right moment, I somehow don’t know how to think about that. However, according to me, you have to go through a hard and wrong time to let the right time come to you. It is truly said that the wrong path takes you to a very unpredictable destination that is terrifying to even begin with. However, the lessons and the strength you get from that wrong path are just necessary; they help to make the right time fit in your life. You truly care about things or value them when you know how hard the time can be to reach somewhere. Time shows us everything we need to know in order to move ahead in our lives while dealing with things that are necessary for our goals. Don’t take time too seriously and don’t think about the future because the time you have now the time which you will use now will be your future. So thinking about the future and not properly focusing now will lead to a lot of things you don’t want. Also, time will never come back so live the life you want, be happy, find your motive, your hobbies, things that make you feel happy, people that make you believe in yourself, and just find yourself.

Even the toughest days have only 24 hours.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Don’t try too hard…It’s okay to be a loser.

Nobody realises how hard it is to always act like you’re okay. When really you’re not. It’s okay to not be okay. Remember that.

There are ample people who tell you to do hard work as much as you can now and in the future you are going to enjoy it. Don’t give up and work hard as much as you can and, so many things which are not wrong, to be honest, but why does everyone only talk about winning but not losing? It’s a life we all live and here we fail so that we can win it’s never going to be winning all the time. Hardly people when you lose say it’s okay it’s a life phase and you have to live it to move ahead. I don’t like when we always keep the expectation of winning it’s good but if things don’t go according to plan it hurts and we might become obsessed with winning which leads to giving up. But you have to keep thinking that you need to try very hard as best you can and not think about winning or losing but go with the flow and do your best trust me it will not let you have the feeling that why don’t you win. We do need a lot of people in this world who tell us that it’s okay you don’t always need to try hard just be yourself and keep working hard to satisfy yourself and to reach your goals.

Just want to say you know yourself the best and you know how hard you try every single day and I am so proud of you. At the same time, you only know how much you put in every single day, how many problems you have to go through, and every thought you fight inside your mind to not give up, and for that, I am so proud of you. If someday it’s getting too hard, stop caring about the world and forget about your goals for a specific time. It’s not the end of the world if you don’t work hard every single day you are a human who definitely deserves a break. Take a break and do nothing if you want because sometimes we need to learn and it’s mandatory that don’t try too hard…It’s okay to be a loser.

LIVE YOUR LIFE.

it’s yours anyways

don’t try to hard

it’s okay to be a loser.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Things I have realized.

I am still learning how to go back & reread my own chapters without feeling like I want to set all my pages on fire.

E.V. Rogina.

Yesterday I went shopping with my mom and aunt and let me tell you I hated it so much. Like I don’t know what to do and what I like. I was just standing in the corner surrounded by so many people as they were finding clothes they like. And in the corner, I was there, staring at the space lost in my world and if someone saw me they would think and know how disinterested I am. Another thing I realized is how so many people were there with me and I don’t know anything about them why they are shopping and what is going on in their minds yet we are at the same place fighting to get the best piece. Life has truly become a race we all fight to get the best for us but the sad thing is only a few can do so. In the competition, so many people come and each one in their mind has that, in the end, they will see themselves with a trophy but at the same time, all of them know only one will be able to achieve it. It’s true you don’t know what goes inside the mind of the person sitting beside you be it your friends or someone random but at certain places where you encounter people you do know what’s going on inside their mind. Whenever we want to do something we always think about what people are going to say about that or what is their opinion but trust me everyone is so busy dealing with their own problem and fighting the race to win they don’t even care what you do and what is their opinion about you. We always let our minds bully us, we just think about other opinions about us and all but the truth is nobody cares what you do and what you want to do. Some people who are insecure about themselves and who want to be in your place are the ones who will spread hate about you but you need to learn that in the end, you are what matters only you. The truth is sometimes amidst the crowd you just have to walk away and not let the crowd sink you in and try to find out the way that works out for you. It’s not always that you need to follow the crowd, sometimes the crowd is there to tangle you in the mess and confuse you but also it teaches you things you need to realize.

Fun fact: I wrote this post while standing in the corner lost in my world;)

you do not just wake up and become the butterfly

– growth is a process

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life is a MESS (well not anymore!)

Remember some things have to end for better things to begin.

In a previous post of mine, I wrote of how life at a certain point becomes so messy that sweeping through it becomes impossible and we are unable to find the way out. And here I am with an upgraded version of it that comes from within me. For the past two months, I had a little rough period because of the difference in making decisions and because I myself wasn’t able to figure it out and that is why a lot of stress was on my mind. And now that I am finally writing this I am a lot more relieved than what I wrote before this. The biggest reason why I am relieved is time because with time everything fits in place and I decided to start everything all over again. A lot of decisions were taken and a lot of mistakes were made but finally in the end everything made sense to me. The two months of hustle come to an end now and ahead it will not be like I am not going to face any problems it’s just now I know the destination and I have prepared my mind for it so I am ready. Just like I said life is bitter sweet bitter sweet, it’s a process where not every moment you are going to like but it also doesn’t mean every moment in your life will be bitter it’s a process you need to go through bitterness to crave and understand the importance of sweetness and then only you can understand it’s worth as well. Life can get messy at a certain point where we lose our minds as the path ahead is filled with so much confusion, uneasiness, and all those things that we want to run away from. But I am just going to say give time and don’t give up it might be a lot hard in the beginning but trust me one day you will say life is a mess(well not anymore!)

Keep working hard. I am rooting for you! And trust me in the end it’s all going to be worth it.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life is a MESS!

it’s all messy.

the hair.

the bed.

the words.

the heart.

life.

Life is like chess, one wrong move everything crumbles down. My life currently can be compared to chess because it has become a mess and no matter how much I try to sweep the mess I see myself doing otherwise. To be honest, the future scares me because I am not at all good at making decisions about how much I try to do what I want for myself it always happens the opposite. Once you mess up your ability to make decisions everything you want to do in life comes with so much doubt about yourself. I know it’s just time that I need to give myself and everything will fall into place, however, the process of the same it’s painful. Life is so funny it makes us hate and love it at the same time one moment you are happily enjoying and the next moment you are fighting your way out. It scares me when I see no sign of help when I see that fate is not helping me in deciding the route and currently, I am in that phase and I believe all humans go through that phase. And the thoughts about how our life is getting messy do not always come it’s there though in the back of the mind however it just clicks at most random times especially when you don’t need more acquisitions about yourself. I know it’s just a phase and it will pass and whatever decision I will take will sit perfectly in my life and if it doesn’t I will make sure to squeeze and make it fit, come on I need to show my power right;)

If you are going through the same phase where every moment in your life is a mess, let me tell you to start all over again it will be hard but it will be worth it. Only you can solve your own mess and you have to have the courage to sweep through the mess that will lead you to your victory. And when you will look back you can proudly see yourself being free from life is a mess!

They say before something great happens to you, everything falls apart.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Decisions.

The move that you’re afraid to make could be the one that changes everything!

It breaks my heart to make a decision about something I want but everyone disagrees. Decisions never become a very important part of one’s life until they realise how crucial it is to think about themselves without letting other people do it for them. One thing to keep in mind is that every decision you are going to take will not make everyone happy there will be people who don’t want you to go for it like really close ones maybe, parents and siblings and to be honest you, yourself don’t know if the decision is going to be right or not. However, life is all about risk, I have talked with so many old people and asked them what is one thing they want to tell their younger generation to us? And everyone told you if you want to achieve something you have to take risks without risk there is nothing good and exciting that will happen in your life. And then I realized that you can’t always get happiness there are so many important feelings that you need to go through to truly enjoy the process of life. Decisions are very tough to make because of the unexpected result of it but as I said it is all about risk and not many people are going to support you, you have to fight through and lead the path you always wanted to walk on. Making any decision is so hard like the mind wavering back and forth, reassuring oneself that it’s the right decision, doubting the decision a thousand times, if something goes wrong you can feel demotivated, and many other feelings take place while taking the decision and after that too. However, you have to make a choice life is always about choices you can’t keep both and that’s why you need to take a decision and until and unless you won’t take it you can’t move forward in life. Remember life is all about risk and you have to take it by making decisions.

“Sometimes you make the right decision, sometimes you make the decision right.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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I’m Happy! (My Two Year Blog Anniversary)

The surprise is that I wrote a POEM for you all. A few days ago I decided to write a poem for the two-year anniversary of my blog and then only I wrote a poem of just four lines because I just can’t think anymore and please don’t judge me. Then this morning I opened the book and wrote one more without correcting anything that too in one go and I am feeling so proud of myself and it’s all thanks to you guys. Let me present to you guys the poem written by me.

TO THIS

When did I grow,

From writing on paper,

And keeping my thoughts to myself,

TO THIS.

When did I change,

From self-doubting myself,

And afraid to start,

TO THIS.

My mind was clogged,

from the confusion that I myself created,

My heart was full,

by keeping so much to myself,

If I didn’t take the first step,

two years back,

I won’t be able to come,

TO THIS.

Two years back on the same day, I wrote my first ever blog post and it was something that I always wanted to do and finally I did it. My feelings right now are all over the place, to be honest, it’s really a long period for me two years doesn’t feel like yesterday but a whole decade because apart from posting here I did so many other things that made me grow and made me realize my career path. I started everything on this day so yeah it felt such a long time for me. I was always confused and afraid about my career however when I started blogging so many things opened up to me and the air of confusion cleared up in my mind.

THANK YOU SO MUCH for landing on my page and reading my posts. I wouldn’t be here if it weren’t for you guys. Thank you for holding the torch in my dark world, I hope I can do the same for you all. A big hug of hope, happiness, gratitude, and every feeling that you need from me to you all. If you are afraid to take the first step just do it and make yourself proud. Again THANK YOU SO MUCH.

this chapter feels really good.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Thinking Difference…

“Meeting someone with the same mindset as you is rare.”

The generation gap is very dangerous because of how it leads to thinking differences between them and you. To be honest you can never force them to think like you but you have to give time to them to accept it. Because they and you come from a whole new generation gap where everything is so different and honestly it scares me a lot. Mostly among parents and children, there is a big generation gap and because of that it leads to a lot of thinking differences in what both parties exactly want. I have learned that thinking differently leads to a lot of trouble in choosing another step in your life, especially careerwise. My thoughts and my feelings about things are very different from other people of older generations obviously because they came from a whole other generation where things were a lot different and their parents had their own thinking which leads to thinking differences following generations. But what I have noticed is that nowadays the thinking difference era that has been going on for a long time is slowly fading. Thinking differences can be seen a lot in Asian countries from where I come it’s basically where from generation thoughts are transferred but it should not be like that because everyone is different and neither parents nor anyone knows the future. It’s just that everyone should have the right to have other thoughts of their own and people should not force their thinking on anyone else. Time changes and people might not change however they need to accept it slowly for the happiness of others and let all of us finish the thinking difference.

Think about things differently.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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