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Losing Hope…

Brain: Be patient

Heart: Until When?

The scariest thing in this world is when you are already on your journey of what you always wanted but in the middle of it just a random thought that nothing is working out, you are doing so much yet there is no result, you are seeing no progress of your hard work leads to a lot of scary thoughts like losing hope. The hope to see yourself successful in the future, the hope to see a great result of things that you are working hard for now, the hope to not let your sacrifice go to waste, and so many hopes we have with ourselves. And just a random thought about nothing working scares us the most and it happens a lot but sometimes it just randomly gets clicked in your mind that what you are doing is it right? Especially if you are already feeling low and when you think about anything the emotions and feelings just pass through them and will make you feel that there is no hope in things you are doing. You know there comes a time when it gets too much, you become so emotionless that you don’t feel anything, you just don’t care about anything, you just want to be left alone, and you just want to let go of hope because you are finding nothing to heal you, the lost hope just remains as lost hope only.

But still, after sunset, there is sunrise so after darkness there is hope believe me, if you feel like it is getting too much discharge yourself for a while, give yourself some time to heal, cry how much you want to, and let go of your bad feelings, scream how much you want, show yourself that its’ okay to feel vulnerable sometimes and when you feel okay you don’t even need to find hope, because it is hope that will find you and then there is nothing like losing hope for you.

“When we lose hope, we lose joy in the present because we have no confidence for the future.”

Till we meet again. Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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I’m Changing…

“We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are.”

Max Depree.

I am the type of person that can’t handle change I just want to be in a comfortable zone in what I am doing and not want to take a new step in that thing because I can’t adjust to change and leave my comfort zone. But I read somewhere that if you are comfortable then you are in the wrong place. I learned that for better success, I have to take new risks I have to do, and why do I always need to think negatively and not trust myself but let’s look at the positive side and to gain something I need to lose something right? But now I am changing for good now I am learning more about myself because the step I have taken in my life is for myself it’s just for myself I am alone on this journey I didn’t ask anybody but I did it because I believe in myself, I believe in my talent. If you don’t take the first step, you won’t know how capable you are of it. It might be like that after the first step things might not go according to you but trust me after the first step you will gain all the confidence to take the second step. I trust myself and you, just like how I changed for myself, took the first step and believed in my dreams I want you all to just do it, believe in yourself, and change for good and better things in your life. Growth and change are a phase of things that might be messy, uncomfortable, and many feelings that you don’t even expect you will feel but those things you need to feel to do better for yourself and your future.

“I love who I’ve been, but I really love who I’m becoming.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling- a girl who likes to write.

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You are a Blessing!

You are an amazing person.

Never forget your power!

I have noticed that we never appreciate ourselves, we never say that we did good, and we always scold ourselves because we think we could do better. But at least we tried, try to give ourselves that credit but we never give ourselves the blessing of how much we have fought to be here, how much we have become better. Let’s sit down and appreciate ourselves for all the good things we did and be proud of it. The things that taught us and tested our potential but we still did better because we have the blessing to move forward with every step and appreciate ourselves for every little thing. I have noticed in myself how much I do, but when I see someone of my age doing better, I scold myself why I can’t be that good, and why I can’t be in their position. It’s very hard to love and appreciate yourself, to accept all your flaws I know it’s one of the toughest things in this world to do. But as I grow up I learned to accept myself and yes that they are unique in something that doesn’t mean I have to be unique in something too what I am doing if it’s best for me and I am happy about it then that thing will bring the uniqueness in me because I accept the fact that I am a blessing to myself. I just want to say that you are blessed if after hard times you still have the strength to raise, if you have trembled still you controlled yourself, and for getting so strong for yourself I am so proud of you and you are truly a blessing. Be thankful to yourself, appreciate yourself, give yourself gratitude for how much you have fought for yourself, say that you are proud of yourself, and admire that you are truly a blessing to yourself.

At the end of the day, I am thankful that my blessings are bigger than my problems.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Bad Days…

I’ll be ok.

Just not today

Just like there are two sides to a coin, exactly there are good days as well as bad days that a person goes through. Growing up I knew that positive quotes help the person in getting the motivation that they need but as I stepped into my blogging journey I got to experience that the power the negative quotes held is just mind blown. Don’t get me wrong, what I mean to say is that negative quotes challenge you to be better or do the worst, pick the side yourself. I love challenges, and I love to prove myself to people who assume things about me even though they don’t even know me. In life there will be people you will meet that can’t accept the fact that how far you have come, even though you are successful they will still challenge you to prove yourself, they just want to see you fall down and that is what I mean those challenges those bad days where you feel so unmotivated are the reason you will be successful. Obviously, this is life there will be days when things will go according to you and there will be days when you don’t even want to survive. But let me tell you just like after every storm there is a rainbow waiting, exactly like that after every bad day there will be a lesson waiting for you that will help you so much in the future. And the lesson is that it will help to make you stronger and more powerful and there you will remember that it’s okay to have bad days. It’s okay if you have a bad day, it’s okay if you can’t do it take a deep breath, and it’s okay to say that it will take time because nobody is perfect and there is no such thing as every day has to be perfect and you have to make progress every day, some days are just there to give you the lesson of a lifetime and they are disguised as bad days…

When you’ve been strong for so long, sometimes you just need time to be alone and let your tears out.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Hustlers!

People will let you down

but your hustle won’t.

Stay working.

The sound of the word hustlers is as good as the definition of it. But unfortunately, the meaning of it is quite misunderstood by people in many ways. When we want to achieve something, be it big or small we have to run behind it like hustlers you have to reach there and grab that thing by yourself, no opportunity comes your way without us trying it. To be honest I love those people who have the power to change their dream into reality despite many people telling them they can’t. It is truly said that the enjoyment of achieving something is earned when you really worked hard behind it, the satisfaction and the smile of yours truly define the inner hustle you have done to achieve that thing. I have heard somewhere that if you have the determination and courage to achieve something nothing in this whole universe can stop you from it. Hustlers are those people who would challenge their inner self in accomplishing something, going out there and working on the opportunities until they reach the end, having that courage and determination of walking through tough times and the biggest thing to trust oneself in what one is doing. Beat all the odds, hustle, and work hard 24/7/365 and become that person that you have always dreamed about. I believe in you and trust me you are the greatest project you’ll ever work on. While blogging for a year now I have understood that if I want to improve my blog, I have to improve myself and keep working hard like a hustler because there is nothing one can’t achieve if one hustles every single moment of their life. The race in life is not with somebody but with yourself, how long and how many times you will get up and hustle makes you more strong in yourself. Doing hustle makes a person believe in themselves as they are continuing their hard work and believe they can and will do it. Just think of it like running behind the bus you know you will make it with just a little push and you will reach the bus similarly for getting somewhere you have to be hustlers!

We tend to forget that baby steps still move us forward.

Keep smiling, you are loved ~ MA.

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I’m Proud of You!

If nobody told you today.

I am so proud of you, you made it this far.

Never give up.

I believe in you.

You are loved.

What is that sentence that is very easy to pronounce but very hard to say and why it is saying that you are proud of someone? Learning to make people proud and make yourself proud is one heck of a journey. I have always said that nobody deserves to know what you have been through except you and nobody should have any right to judge anyone for what they are doing. Being proud of yourself after going through so much, and continuing to smile through the toughest pace you are doing is absolutely great. Life has been quite a rollercoaster when it starts to make sense, I would be lying if I said that I have achieved those things in which I am proud of myself. I am a big introvert, and the lack of confidence in myself has left me with no chance to be proud of myself. But as my shell started to open up when I started to understand myself, I knew what I am capable of and learned that it’s okay if I am not perfect at it, at least I am trying. Back then I used to run away from the opportunity that used to come my way but now even if I don’t know anything if I didn’t win I can proudly say that I tried. Being able to tell yourself how proud you are of not giving up, being the shield for yourself during hardships, and having patience is the best feeling in the world. The sigh of relief after doing something that we might not think we could do just hits differently. One of the biggest lessons I have learned was that big things are not achieved at once but one day at a time you have to work hard and then the result of your hard work will blossom in a way that it will be easy to say that you are proud of yourself.

I’m gonna just say one thing, in short, we are literally strong. We’ll find a way if there’s no way. Let’s draw the map the whole map again so no worries will stop us from being strong, we will find our own way as usually we always have.

Someday, you will meet the happiest version of you and it will be worth it.

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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Personality!

Can you remember who you were,

before the world told you who you should be?

Tell me about yourself? The question that I am most afraid of because it is the question that I know the answer to but at the same time I don’t. The thing that I dislike most is that when I can’t express myself in words I know the answer but it just can’t get on the tip of my tongue honesty is the most hated feeling. Personality, according to me, is the most difficult thing to describe through words it’s more like the time you spend with someone you start to understand theirs as well as your personality. It is also true that one’s personality differs from person to person but it is all the same person with different shades. You can’t fake personality because as you begin to be with someone your true personality and aura start to show which is the biggest sign of finding who the real friend is and who is not yours. It takes a lot of time to open up to somebody because in this world it is not easy to trust somebody with your personality because believe me you are one of a kind. Personality is truly a core for gaining the confidence in doing what is best for you no matter how you look if you are good at something your personality definitely stands out. It doesn’t matter if nobody understands your personality, you don’t need to change it for anyone because you are perfect the way you are. Remember who you are to the world is how you show them. You have full control over how you want the world to know you, you have the choice of it so choose wisely on how you want the world to know you. The most important thing I learned is to not shrink just because you want others to be comfortable because if you will compromise just once you have to do it every damn time which is no justice to yourself. Don’t forget your personality defines you, it helps you to stop caring about others and start trusting yourself, your own thoughts, and your own opinions and be the best version of your own personality.

Life isn’t about finding yourself.

It’s about creating yourself.

Keep smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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Feelings!

It’s all in the PAST now, let it pass.

It’s okay! We all have changes like these.

Let’s just focus on the FUTURE! Okay?

What can you describe as feelings in terms of a verb? There is a total of 26 alphabets that one can use to express feelings but they are not enough because feelings go beyond words. What you really feel only you can understand even if you have people who are very close to you too if you can’t understand yourself never expect others to do so. I have always believed in your supremacy as your biggest cheerleader because you know yourself best andshould only think about yourself and become your best version. The biggest lesson I have learned while accepting my own feelings, and emotions is that no part of you is worthless, there is nothing wrong with you, you have talent as well, maybe different from others and that is what makes you unique. How will you understand yourself if you can’t accept your flaws? I have learned that it is okay to feel uneasy, weak, and tired because you are a human, and it’s totally okay to feel like that sometimes believe me when I say negative powers have magic in them that motivates you to work harder just like after storm there is a rainbow waiting to shine on the people. Always learn to accept your feelings and you have every right to feel the way you want about any situation, just don’t let your feelings control your mind. You know sometimes it hurts the most that you are giving 100% of your feelings; in return, you don’t even receive 1% of it, and letting go of that is the biggest challenge. But if you don’t feel like yourself or do not receive the love you deserve, let go of that thing, and people because you deserve so much better than you think.

“We’re really strong let’s believe in ourselves.”

There is another of my post on feelings, if you want you can check that out as well:)

Keep Smiling, you are loved:) ~ MA

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Past Few Days…

Past few days or the past few years, I don’t really know how to share my thoughts on these. For a long time, I have been feeling a lot of thoughts that I was never bothered with before but now those thoughts are something that is kind of stopping me from a lot of things. My feelings have been messed up a lot. I don’t know why, maybe I am getting old I guess? I can see myself a lot changed post-pandemic. There are a lot of good changes like 95% good changes but that 5% has left a gap in my thoughts. I believe that the pandemic has taught me many lessons; the biggest was to believe in myself and just do it. I started my blog, learned various skills, and became independent in a lot of aspects but still, some feelings are stopping me from doing things, it’s making me lazier and not wanting to do anything.

I know these are the feelings of many when they start something or when they want to do something in the future so it is common and now I want to find that motivator that will help me to keep moving forward without hesitating. I never am that person that overthinks but in life, you get the moment which you never want but it’s ‘life’. I know I need some time to get back on track and I NEED TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP as well it’s a lot harder but I know after writing the feeling down and opening up my feeling I am actually feeling a lot better and now I think I can do it.

I want to tell you all that if you need a break take it because then only you can take steps ahead with all the confidence and belief. And I am rooting for you, never forget that:)

Mistakes are proof that you are trying.

Until we meet again,

-Signing off

~MA

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Dreams!

The world has never let us dream, nor has it ever taught us how to dream. They say it’s your fault, but it’s not. Don’t blame yourself. It’s okay to lean back when you are tried. If someone’s tired, become their pillar of support. This is the reason why I started making music. I hope our music can become your little source of strength.

SUGA of BTS. (Dispatch ‘Dicon’ Magazine – BTS Issue.)

You will become something only if you have a dream. You are on the right path if you have a dream. If you have dreams you will be successful. How much have we heard about this? Like when somebody asks you what you want to become and if you have no answer then you have no future that’s the most common reaction we get from people. But honestly, if you are doing nothing, thousands of people will be there telling you how worthless you are and if you are doing something nobody will encourage you. Funny isn’t it? How this world wants you to do something yet never let you? I just want to say that – It’s okay if you have no dream, it’s okay if you do not think like others, and it’s not possible for everyone to have a dream of doing something. You will figure it out as you grow up and you will understand what makes you happy and what is worth your time. Being an adult makes you more mature in things that interest you and whatnot, it’s just you who need to figure it out. I saw so many people took things either their parents told them or they just winged it and let me tell you that nor your parents or anyone is going to live the life you have chosen but you are going to do, so choose something that makes you happy, make the decision for yourself because you are going to sit in that damn chair in the office for hours where you could have done things that light up your heart even if takes more time. Just be happy and don’t give up, I know you are going to figure it out like you always have:) Do what makes you happy and not this damn world because if you love yourself and believe in yourself then you don’t need anyone else to dream for you!

“It was just about being me, doing what I want to do”

Keep Smiling, you are loved:) ~ MA

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