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Self-Worth!

Be so busy improving yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

Make sure you’re doing better now than you were before.

It’s you vs you.

The hardest thing in this world is to understand oneself. What do you want from your life? Where are you in your life? Is everything happening the way you want? And the most important question – ARE YOU HAPPY? I feel like in this world finding the answers to these questions is the toughest thing to do. It’s never hard to love someone and appreciate them because it’s more about them than you. But when it comes to loving and appreciating yourself, then easy word never seems easy. The true line of flaws makes you different and unique from others but accepting in real life is way too difficult. Why do you want another person to come and tell you your perfections and imperfections? Why can’t you accept the way you are? If you can’t accept and love yourself then never expect anyone to do so. Listen to me, nobody in this world has any right to tell you to become someone you are not and to be perfect. You are the decision-maker of your life, love yourself, appreciate yourself and become the person you always wanted to be. You are worthy of so many things that you will understand if you understand and love yourself. Beauty doesn’t come with physical appearance but self-worth!

Support yourself instead of finding ways to neglect yourself. It’s impossible to win if you’re not on your own team.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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To make a Difference.

Don’t be easy to define. Let them wonder about you.

Picking up the stone from the middle of the road, throwing garbage in the trashcan while walking on the path, helping another even without them knowing about it, ‘Yes!’ It makes a difference. It’s a basic thought that the other person will do it so there is no need for me to do it and the same thoughts run in the mind of the other person. Making a small difference is a lot more beneficial than doing a lot more together. When your path is all messed up and you don’t know which to take, if it is really for you, then you will be naturally drawn to it, even if you decide something else but at every step, you find yourself back at it again, that is your sign that it is the path for you. Just have the courage to follow them and it will make a big difference in your life. In this world, people do not appreciate different things because they are different from them. We are so used to seeing the same thing, doing things the same every day and even if something happens a bit different then we name it a problem. You know a little difference, even a small moment in a day makes you so fresh and you don’t even know you need it. Make a difference in what you think you need in your life, try to find even a little difference because if it makes you smile, takes you away from your problems then it is worth it. If you want an escape from your daily routine, instead of doing your usual do something unusual like if you are a coffee drinker try to switch out the mood make some tea it helps, telling you by experience. You know that every day the same is going to happen so take out some time and do something else to fresh out your mind. A little difference can make a big difference in your life.

“No one ever made a difference by being like everyone else.”

P.T. Barnum.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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You are a Hero!

Hard times don’t create heroes. It is during the hard times when the ‘hero’ within us is revealed.

Bob Riley.

All the heroes do not wear a cap. Yes! Right just like you. When we think about a hero, what comes to our mind is saving people and doing things that help people and all of that. But according to me, a hero is someone who knows how to deal with his weakness and is kind enough to have a strength of heart that is strong for him to choose with he love. There is also a saying that emotional pain is worse than physical pain. You can deal with and heal your physical pain very easily but emotional pain takes a lot of time and patience. Be your hero for yourself, you need strength to make your heart feel like it is strongest for you. No matter how much weak you feel in doing something, how much you want to give up, you are a hero if you never stop trying or backing off because that is what makes you are truly a saviour by a hero aka yourself. You know the true meaning of knowing what you want, understanding yourself better when you are dealing with hard times. Hard times make you feel that everything in life is a chapter that will close someday and a new chapter will be opened but in that one chapter there is so much that could happen to you and all of those just make you stronger and a hero in your own eyes. Fear was, is and will also be a constant factor in whatever you are doing, but you need to learn how to make it your biggest strength. A hero is known as someone who learns how to overcome obstacles by feeling the emotions of insecurity and fear and that is what makes a hero. You are doing great, take a deep breath and continue trying.

Live your life like you’re the hero in your own movie.

Joe Rogan.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Giving up is a Sin.

You are fighting so hard and I am so proud of you, I know you’re tired, but please don’t give up. I have so much faith in you. Like countless times before this, you can and will do this.

It is very easy to give up and grieve about it the next day. Making decisions about things that don’t interest you is quite understandable because wasting time on something which is not for you is bizarre. But something that you are finding hard, and not getting through, you just decide to give up and stop trying. Making the mind up for doing is the first step towards the goal you want to achieve. Nothing is easy until you do it. When you arrive at the goal and when you look back everything you will find is easy but at the last step. There are so many steps to reach the final destination because it takes time to make yourself what you dream of. Taking a break is mandatory to come up with a clear and focused mind to begin the journey again. But giving up because you can’t do it anymore, or you are fed up is a feeling that everyone gets but that is where a decision is a crucial part. Take a break for some time, refresh your mind, make up your mind, dream about the final goal of yours and then you are ready to start again. Before starting your journey make some promises to yourself like huddles will stop you but can’t beat you, giving up should be the last thought in your mind, above all the biggest promise is to keep going, never stop until you achieve the goal you have decided for yourself. The struggle is the best thing you should be proud of throughout your journey and after your journey. Struggle makes you strong to deal with every part of problems in your life. Struggle makes you learn to handle the situation by yourself. You can do it if you want. By all of this, I want to say don’t give up no matter how hard it is because in the end it will be worth it and you will be so proud of not making a decision that is not for you. Giving up is not a solution for anything but a sin.

You don’t have to be brave,

you just have to keep trying.

You don’t have to be strong,

you just have to keep going.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Meaning To Your Life.

The meaning of life is to give life meaning.

Viktor E. Frankl

A confused soul is more dangerous than a lost soul because somewhere the lost soul will find its destination but a confused soul will walk through its destination so many times yet can’t find it. We all have been wandering on this planet for so many years yet we are still confused about what life is and why life is given to us? We all know that someday we all are going to die when an unanswered question that can never be answered. It takes a lot of time to figure out what we want from life, I am still figuring it out. Because I feel like it somehow sounds very easy to do but as it is said that “what sounds easy is as difficult to get” here the case is the same. A word that sounds hard, its meaning is easy while the word which sounds easy its meaning cannot be found exactly. It takes a lot of time to find out what you want. Finding the meaning of life is like Finding Nemo. It takes time to think, to find the meaning which reflects you in the chaotic world where everybody is running behind something every day. The real meaning of life is to find the inner yourself and to explore everywhere to see where you find your happiness. If you have no motive in your life then it is not a life but a way to just move on without any motive. Finding the meaning of your life should be your biggest motto. That meaning brings you happiness and not just for you to have something to pass. You have given life, you are still breathing, be grateful and blessed. Don’t make your day like waking up in the morning, doing the basic work, surviving and then off to bed. Try to make every day a fun day where you cherish your little moments because time will never come back and you can’t pause it. Finding the meaning of life is not easy, the destination is way far than you think, sometimes you take some journey that is not for you but it’s a sixth sense that comes to you when you know that this is not for you. Don’t stop until you find what you want, what is your desire with your life. This is your life, so live the way you want. Never stop finding the meaning of your life and that is how you are going to find the meaning of your life. Find the meaning of your life in happiness because if there is no happiness from your side in what you are doing then there is no meaning to your life.

Everything comes to you at the right time.

Be Patient.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Forgiveness is the new beginning!

Remember, when you forgive, you heal.

And when you let go, you grow.

In this world, people’s minds and hearts are not about love, forgiveness or thinking a little better for the people. But this world is known for the bitterness in people’s minds and heart that is eating themselves not others. I have always heard that if you forgive people easily then you are weak. I don’t think this is any way to say that you are weak but that you are not strong enough to deal with it. What I think is that you are superior enough to let go of the things which do not matter to you anymore. I feel like giving up the space for the things which are nothing but absurd that you should just let it go. The person who forgives is the person who succeeds. You will be the only person who will suffer in the end. You are the person who is carrying the weight of something that is not even a thing for you to care about. I also believe in doing something unexpected by people. So forgiving someone who does not expect that will be a relief moment for YOU. Smile and forgive that person not because of that person but for you. You want to start fresh, which means you need to say bye forever to those memories and people who do not matter to you anymore. You don’t want people who do not make any good difference in your life when you start your new and fresh beginning. A beginning is said to be with the memories that matter to you, not those that do not matter to you. Admit all of these things, never forgot what you have gone through, your trust should be kept safe, the journey you have from the darkness to the lightness. Always forgive not forget, the pain, the memories because the painful and bad memories make you stronger than you think. You are still caged with all of the mistakes of others, you need to let go of it and get the freedom you deserve. You need to understand that being selfish is mandatory for yourself. If you are not selfish about yourself then you are already lost. Always be kind for yourself first and then for others who you feel are worthy because you are WORTHY!

Forgiveness is the best form of love. It takes a strong person to say sorry and even stronger person to forgive.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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The Hidden Talent.

First simple rule in life:

If you don’t go after what you want,

you’ll never have it.

By saying hidden talent does not mean the talent of touching your nose by your tongue to find out your hidden talent. By the means of what I am saying is that the diamonds are not found on the roadside but deep inside the earth. That’s how your talent is hidden inside you. It’s not easy like a hide and seeks that you will find in a matter of few seconds. It takes time to develop something that you also don’t know about. The main clause here is to find out the missing puzzles that are somewhere hidden inside you. To become a wholly imperfectly perfect person the first step is to know yourself perfectly. To make the perfect puzzle of your life, you need to find out the hidden pieces then collect them and make the life you choose to live. Everything which has an important value is precious but hard to get is always buried deep inside that no ordinary person can find it but the person who has the will to have it is the person who gets it. Talent is not made for you, you are made for them. The things which come easily are the things that do not stay for a long time, just like an ice cream;) Life is too short to think if it is going to work out or not, you need to show off your talent like you are the ruler of it. Don’t play with your talents in small pieces of puzzles, collect them all together and then show the world and yourself ‘your masterpieces.’ It will take a lot of time but you need to work hard on it and never leave the hope of not finding them because hope and patience is the key to everything. Smile with your chin up and do the hell you want with the talent you are blessed with to create your present and future. Also, remember that the things which take time, in the end, are the things you will be most grateful for. As it said, “It is also fun to find something which we all know will be worth it in the end!” – mysteriousalien:)

you’re the only one who can fix or ruin everything in an instant.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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My Blogging Journey!

Stop being afraid of what could go wrong,

and started getting excited about what could go right.

Tony Robbins.

Tell me honestly, when you started blogging and someone asked you what you do? And your answer will be -“I do Blogging!” But there will be a majority people of who don’t know what blogging is, and then you go on explaining them. Honestly, it happened to me so many times. It’s fun to explain them but not too much! The biggest question I get is why did I start blogging? So let’s start with my blogging life or journey wherever you want to call it. Let’s start way back when I was in my childhood years. I was socially awkward but was an extrovert and had a blunt mouth (I still have*wink wink*) When I was a child, I used to think I had no talent at all because I could do nothing like painting, making crafty stuff, basically nothing good. But in my 10 grade, my professor told me –“You have so many good thoughts, just find a way to put in on the paper!” this belief and advice of him I remember so clearly because it is where I started my blogging journey and the lost confidence came knocking. You just need a little push in which you are not confident enough if it will work out or not. But if it is meant for you and is a desire of yours to have it, it will happen just open your damn eyes and ears to not miss anything;) A belief in you is the advice I followed for myself without thinking if it is going to work out or not. If your belief is as strong as the rock that is hit by the waves so many times that it does not move, it is the best way to keep yourself motivated everything will take time to be the way you want, you just need to have your faith and patience in yourself without losing it to the demons of your dreams. Take a good deep breath when you make your dream a reality. Never stop working hard if you want to be proud of yourself in the future and the journey when you look back. You are amazing and be the way you are, go ahead and do what you love:)

The best way to predict your future is to create it.

Abraham Lincoln.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Advice for an interview. (My first ever interview experience!)

I never really thought in my whole blogging journey I would write about the advice this early, but you can’t say anything now because everyone is familiar with ‘unexpected things in life.’ I am writing this blog after I gave an interview for an internship and I must point out that – “It was my first ever interview that I gave.” If this was the old me I would be freaking out, sweating the hell out and telling my father I don’t want to do it because of my lack of confidence in me. But this in front of you all is the new me, the one who has gotten the confidence from God knows where. I was so calm and was me the whole time. Put out my perspective and goal to do everything. If I do not get selected you know I will not feel bad but will feel like I did amazing but luck was not on my side and I need to work harder. The thing here is you know what I learned was the result did not matter if you have given you 100% and that is what I am feeling right now because I know I did my best. I don’t know if I am the perfect person to take advice from but as a learner like you all and I want to share my experience and don’t know maybe you are looking for something like this now or ahead. Honestly speaking, an interview is like a test where you know the test is going to happen but without knowing the questions. Heck! It is difficult to learn the answers to the questions that we already know are going to come. I know one thing that in an interview you just need to remember is to be YOU the whole time. Be confident and relax because if you are looking stressed the whole time it will just going to affect you and the answers might not go as expected. It’s totally fine if you are stressed about giving an interview because anybody can get stressed while talking to professionals or even strangers. I understand one thing the most is as time goes, your mind starts to adjust the way you think and it shows when you speak, or even in the circumstance that you can’t handle before. As you grow up the confidence that was building inside you from your childhood, it just appears and shows the way you thought it will be. Just have your skills with you, and boom you’re blooming. Have a belief in yourself, the skills you have, just go with the flow and it will just grow the confidence in you. And again a reminder that BE YOURSELF the whole time in an interview of anything you are doing because it is the way you are described.

I hope you all like my random rambling that just appears in my mind and thought to share with you all. Always in advance ‘All The Best‘ if something like this is going to happen in your future:)

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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When there is a will, there is a way!

When you really want something you will find a way. When you don’t really want something, you’ll find an excuse.

Rachel Hollis.

Growing up my mother always used to tell me when there is a will, there is a way, but at that time the meaning behind those words never really made any sense to me. But as time passed I understood that every word has its meaning. We just need to find it and also those words which make you want to wake up in the morning and keep going. I understood that whatever you want in your life, you need to fight for it. Nothing is easy to get if you are a tough person with impossible dreams that people think but not you. You should know that if you want to make a life for yourself, the road to it will never be easy because if it is not then it means it’s not for you. The stubbornness you have in you will help you overcome the feeling of giving up. The harder, the want of your life the harder you will be in the end. Every day there will be problems that you need to deal with, at some point you may just want to leave everything and stop trying. But as always if you have willingness in you to fulfil your dreams, to make your dreams a reality then there will always be a way for you to reach there. You just need to have patience and faith in what you are doing and as always everything is going to work out. God is always with you, just trust him he knows what is right for you and will put you on the right path. Have the power to choose what you want, to choose what is best for you, to choose yourself. If you have the courage, the faith in yourself, the stubbornness of not giving up then you will not find the way but the way will find you. If all the doors to your life are closed and you don’t know what to do, take a deep breath and tell yourself that ‘you got this’ and the door to move ahead will be visible to you but at that time you will be stronger and ready to achieve whatever you dream of. If you feel like you need to take a break, do it without any second thought because the comeback is always stronger. Just follow the path of your dreams with patience, hard work, faith and hope and you are going to find problems but remember when there is a will, there is a way!

You spend most of your life inside your head. Make it a nice place to be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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