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Don’t Be Beautiful!

Be addicted to bettering yourself.

If you are beautiful you have everything, the fact that if someone is good-looking they are highlighted for everything even in things where someone else can fit perfectly. Don’t get me wrong about saying that beautiful people are bad, this is not what I am saying. Firstly I don’t even understand what and how to describe beautiful people, maybe by physical features like eyes, nose, and mouth which everybody has. I don’t know about you all but for me, the most attractive feature about others is a sense of humor, attitude and all-over personality.

I believe that how you carry yourself, how you describe yourself, and how you use your sense of humor should be attractive. If you love yourself, if you love all your flaws, if you accept yourself the way you are then that is what is beautiful. Nobody in this world came to be beautiful but be however you want, be powerful, be silly, be dramatic, be intelligent, be real, and most importantly be you. Everyone in this world is beautiful but not with how they look but with all shades of dramatic of them being themselves. It’s very hard to accept yourself and I know that very well but there is nothing about you that is not worthy of not loving let me tell you this don’t be beautiful but be powerful to love yourself.

“They keep saying that beautiful is something a girl needs to be. But honestly? Forget that. Don’t be beautiful. Be angry, be intelligent, be witty, be klutzy, be interesting, be funny, be adventurous, be crazy, be talented – there are an eternity of other things to be other than beautiful. And what is beautiful anyway but a set of letters strung together to make a word? Be your own definition of amazing, always. That is so much more important than anything beautiful, ever.”

Nikita Gill.

Until we meet again,

-Signing off

~MA

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Being Independent!~

“You’re gonna be happy,” – said life,

“But first I’ll make you STRONG.”

The other day certain memories of my childhood came into my mind, how that was the time when I was so dependent on my parents and can’t do various things and now as I am a legal adult everything is so different. A lot of people think at 17 years old that yes they are going to turn 18 years old but for me, at the age of 17, I somehow was an 18-year-old self where I noticed many things and everything started to make sense. That was my age when I became an independent self and I learned other than money various things make a person independent. Let’s start with shopping not basic shopping but grocery shopping and let me tell you it’s the toughest when you are without your parents and have no idea what rate is what thing.

Being independent is so important in today’s generation, when we talk about independence it starts with financial terms, how much one earns in one month it’s their money that they earned with their hard work, their skills and everyone should be proud of it. You know you are financially independent when you spend your money in whatever way you want and nobody asks you where it all went, wait actually nobody should have the right to do so. Other than finance, making decisions, supporting loved ones, and doing what one loves but it comes with a price, a price of responsibility that makes the biggest difference in one’s life. So for me, it’s how you manage to settle things perfectly, to get the solution for the problem, calming down the last minute problems is something I believe in being independent.

“Money doesn’t buy you happiness but it buys you freedom.” – MA.

I aspire to be a woman with
financial freedom
crazy dreams
loyal friends
jerk cats
the privilege to help others

Until we meet again,

-Signing off

~MA

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12 New Chapters… 365 New Chances

And Suddenly, I Know…

It’s Time To Start Something New

And Trust The Magic Of

New Beginnings.

14th July 2021

I don’t know where to start it off but I can’t believe that one year ago on this same date on the same device a girl was sitting and writing something random to make the world aware of her existence. The girl just started because she never believed that she had a talent in her, but decided to trust her instinct and go for it. She just believed that if she didn’t take a risk then there was nothing she could do. So she took the first step and the changes she learned, the confidence she gained, the emotions she felt, knowing how to overcome the hurdles and among them the most important lesson she learned to love and appreciate herself. And now I can proudly say I am Her and She is Me.

When I started I didn’t know that there were people who would land on my page and take a few minutes from their life to read my thoughts and appreciate it. I am someone who can’t express my feelings very well but all I can say is Thank You So Much for appreciating me and my work. I will always be grateful to all of you and I hope you all have the best wishes in what you are doing. A reminder if you feel that there is no one for you please remember that there is a girl in a small part of the world who appreciates you and is grateful for your existence.

THANK YOU, YOU ARE AMAZING AND APPRECIATED:)

….this chapter of my life is called,

“Smiling Again!”

Until We Meet Again,

– Signing off

~ MA

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Work In Progress.

“No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.” Tony Robbins.

Tony Robbins.

When it is said that the journey is more memorable than the destination I somehow believe in that. Because it takes a lot of time and effort to reach somewhere we dreamed and desired. In life, we don’t know what will happen next in the process of living but we do know that in the end there will be death waiting for us. Just like life, we know our destination but the process of reaching the place will have so many hurdles among them that we never know and this is what I named the Beauty and the Beast. Because according to the first reason that I learned while finding my destination was that to have a positive impact there will be a lot of negativity you have to go through. To find the happiness you need to go through the pain and the reason behind is that what pain, and misery can teach you, happiness can’t. Happiness will make your heart full but the pain will make your heart strong, yourself strong. And to live up to the life you want, the heart and mind need to be strong and brave enough to not let your destination of yours fade away. Time is very important and if you learn the importance of time the word patience will be your reason to enjoy the journey you need for yourself. Because patience is the key to everything, nothing happens overnight and if it does if not you. To enjoy the destination to the fullest you need to experience your journey in every form of emotions and feelings. Take your time and enjoy the learning it taught you in your journey because in the end life is a Work in Progress.

This time, love the Work in Progress

that is you.

Until We Meet Again,

– Singing off

~ MA

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Self-Worth!

Be so busy improving yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

Make sure you’re doing better now than you were before.

It’s you vs you.

The hardest thing in this world is to understand oneself. What do you want from your life? Where are you in your life? Is everything happening the way you want? And the most important question – ARE YOU HAPPY? I feel like in this world finding the answers to these questions is the toughest thing to do. It’s never hard to love someone and appreciate them because it’s more about them than you. But when it comes to loving and appreciating yourself, then easy word never seems easy. The true line of flaws makes you different and unique from others but accepting in real life is way too difficult. Why do you want another person to come and tell you your perfections and imperfections? Why can’t you accept the way you are? If you can’t accept and love yourself then never expect anyone to do so. Listen to me, nobody in this world has any right to tell you to become someone you are not and to be perfect. You are the decision-maker of your life, love yourself, appreciate yourself and become the person you always wanted to be. You are worthy of so many things that you will understand if you understand and love yourself. Beauty doesn’t come with physical appearance but self-worth!

Support yourself instead of finding ways to neglect yourself. It’s impossible to win if you’re not on your own team.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Self-Care

Perfect people aren’t real and real people aren’t perfect.

The most neglected thing I have seen and done as well is not paying attention to myself. There is a saying, which some people accept while some don’t – “We know least about ourselves.” Self-care starts with skin-care for most people but for me, it’s a good amount of sleep. According to me, there are two types of people when it comes to skin-care, the first obsessed one and the other who doesn’t even care. I am definitely the second one because I am too lazy and skin-care just doesn’t make sense to me, no offense to all the skin-care lovers out there:) More in my favor whatever I do and apply nothing works for me. I don’t know, maybe my skin is as stubborn as me;) Honestly, there are a lot more things in self-care that actually matter the most. I always believe that the internal matters more than the external. Mental health is the biggest thing one should worry about because if it is not going well then anything is not going well. Self-care is all about how you are treating yourself, are you taking care of yourself? Are you cutting down the toxic people in your life? Are you keeping yourself first? Are you getting the rest you need? These are all the things that one should self-care about themselves. The reminder for today is to do it for yourself not for others because you only deserve it nobody else.

Work on you, for you.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Uselessness!

Just a reminder in case your mind is playing tricks on you today –

You matter. You’re important. You’re loved.

People who just randomly sit and start something becomes everything in their life. Best thoughts come when you are just ideally sitting in a park and contemplating your life. Whenever I think of something that is really out of the box it usually comes at the weirdest time and place. Random thoughts are the best one because it comes from the emotions you are feeling at that time. It is said that when you are too deep in emotions the mind and heart both make you feel the power of the thoughts and words. A fact is when someone feels they are wasting time but that is the time one is more motivated than ever before. For me, my uselessness meant me the whole day being in bed and doing NOTHING absolutely NOTHING. Because the whole week I am so busy and I don’t get time to properly enjoy it, so at weekends I am a stranger to the world. I need my sleep, I need to spend the day as I love without having any tension of my busy life. Just like you need to take steps back to jump ahead exactly, you need to take a break to come back fresh. Whenever I have so many things in my mind and it is tiring me then too I need to work but I can’t because the energy is being drained out as so much was on my mind. I think the meaning of rest should be you being entirely selfish. That means doing something that makes you happy without any tension of the time. Like most people do something useful in their free time but I believe that uselessness is useful! You need to have days that others think are useless but to you, it is able to focus more on useful things later! Just be your free self because it is what helps you be useful:)

Never force anything. Just let it be if it’s meant to be, it will be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A little of something I want to share:)

As dark as the stormy night as tall as the lighthouse, people see him as a curse of the world yet nobody knows that his world is nothing but a black hole in which he is falling very quickly and nobody can stop him except the motive of vengeance with her. He stands tall at 6’5 inches, has broad shoulders that never slough, grey eyes that complement his midnight black hair with his eyes always alert and looks at people with doubtfulness. Rough hands but nobody sees the marks of his past on them, the jaw is as sharp as his mind that is always running to find his lost vengeance with her, the killer of his sister. People also say that he is always ready to snap at things all the time, ready to fight if someone disturbs him, and nobody goes to his house which is always filled with darkness just like his mood. Arrogance is his second name and rudeness is his brother but nobody sees what he has seen, his sister is on the end of the pathway of the world, and in the next moment she is gone forever. The nightmares never leave him alone until his motive is done. The guilt of not saving his sister will never leave him until he leaves the world and the fire of vengeance of his sister’s murderer who bullies her and makes the life of his sister hell and now he is going to make her life hell because death is an easy punishment there is so much to come. Vengeance is what will make him free from the guilt and for his sister to be finally at peace. Nobody will help her, the murderer just like nobody did for her sister and then the motive of him will be successful and he will be at ease and his guilt will be erased a little. 

Hey you all, this is a character sketch that I wrote for one of my works. I thought of sharing it here so that I can get a lot of compliments Haha;) Hope you all like this, I wrote this in just a few minutes and I am really proud of it:)

Till we meet again Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Love Yourself!

We are all better versions of ourselves when we are love ourselves.

The biggest lesson one has to teach someone or to learn themselves is to love yourself. In this world, we are so used to giving things to others then amidst we forget ourselves. The courage, the lessons, the hardships, the confidence is all the negative as well as positive learning we learn by ourselves only. The best learning one can learn it by themselves. The major problem the youth is facing is not believing in themselves, loving themselves. When someone asks ‘describe yourself’, it takes a long pause for the person to answer it. You know why because we always forget to make ourselves our priority. I have seen many people saying that they can’t find anyone compatible with them. After giving so much thought to that I came to the conclusion that when a person doesn’t even know themselves then how can they will fit anywhere? Nobody needs to change to fit somewhere, recognize yourself, pay attention to yourself because nobody is as important as you. Figuring out yourself takes a lot of time because always the wrong path takes you in the right direction. I am still figuring out myself and letting myself have the time to know the real me because when you force yourself to adapt things it will be more complicated. Many times we lose confidence, we stop believing in ourselves, we just don’t trust ourselves and that makes you stop everything at that moment. Figure yourself and life will itself be the way you want. Embrace yourself, love yourself and then there is nothing that can break you and your confidence.

Nobody can make you happy until you’re happy with yourself first.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life Cycle!

Self care isn’t just drinking water and going to sleep early. Self care is taking a break when things become overwhelming, saying no to things you do not want to do, allowing yourself to cry and doing things that makes you happy.

Eat, sleep, write and read is my life cycle. From these four I must do at least all (Haha). Some people I have seen are not present in this world mentally. They are so much involved in their work that they don’t know what is happening in the world or themselves. From past years I have learned that the best time to know yourself or to understand yourself is to spend time with yourself. Headphones on with your music playlist and a book or whatever you love as a hobby with you is what a self moment should look like. As you grow up you understand that self-time is way more important than people who keep buzzing in your ears. For me, I can’t even sit for a two hours movie because my concentration is not good. Well let’s be honest I am not a movie person, I will anytime prefer to enjoy my books. Yes! I am a nerd but not in my studies;) Most people have a to-do list, but tell me honestly how unsuccessful you have been in it. I am a person who likes to go with the flow, I don’t like to plan my future because it then gives me a headache from now. I mean it depends on the person, some are going towards their goal while others are finding happiness in their goal. Now one thing that makes me realize is that you should only do things that you love not what others are expecting from you. Because it’s your like not theirs ahead you have to face the challenges not them. An ideal life cycle should only include things that you love and things that make you feel like YOU!

It is never too late to choose yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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