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Self-Acceptance!

you carry so much love in your heart give some to yourself.

The entire life we spent trying to get acceptance from others because we don’t know at that time what self-acceptance means or we don’t want to learn about it. It’s so hard to love ourselves and to accept ourselves because in our life we meet so many people who hinder our acceptance to accept ourselves. There are so many people residing in this world and if we will start to live our life according to them and want to get their acceptance then this life is not ours and there is no meaning to it. Just remember you don’t need others’ approval or affection to be good enough, you don’t need them to tell you to do this and do that you are more than capable for yourself. And the most important thing is if someone rejects you and doesn’t like you, IT’S NOT BECAUSE OF YOU, IT’S BECAUSE OF THEM. They have their own insecurities and their own limitations that they can’t accept and don’t let others do so as well. The moment will realize that you don’t need anyone’s acceptance to accept yourself you just need YOU, your worth doesn’t depend upon other people’s acceptance of you. You matter because you exist to live your life however you want, you are allowed to have your own feelings, to love yourself, to accept your own flaws, and so many things that make you accept yourself the way you are. Every human being is born with their own flaws and when we see people walking with confidence is not because they are flawless because they accepted themselves the way they are, and if you accept yourself you will not find anybody pointing out to you because you will not give a damn as you have accepted yourself the way you are, your all the flaws matter because rawness and realness shine from within you. And you are allowed to remove people from your life if you want who make you feel otherwise because there is nothing more important than Self-Acceptance.

Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Inner Peace!

Create a safe place within yourself that no one will ever find, somewhere the madness of this world can never touch.

Christy Ann Martine.

Life is way better when we don’t understand anything, life is way better when nothing makes sense, and life is way better when we don’t know the meaning of life. To be honest, the feeling is something that I am very scared of because even though something might happen very good in my life then too my heart is not that happy and I don’t even know why I shouldn’t feel happy about it because feeling of mine is always so messed up. It’s so hard to understand your feelings, and the emotions you are going through are not at all easy to understand your mind and heart both play a lot of things with you maybe your mind feels something else and your heart something else and at that moment you don’t know what to do. And that is why inner peace is so important, it is true when people say that having not too much is good unless it brings you peace in everything. What exactly is inner peace, you may ask? It’s that where you don’t allow outside things to control your emotion and your feelings. Controlling emotions is very hard however we need to learn how to do that for our sanity and our inner peace. And you may ask how? It’s not that simple because today’s everything is cheap but having peace, especially inner peace, is very expensive. We need to make ourselves understand that for us to properly focus on our goal we need to let go of outer things that take up our sanity. We need to prioritize ourselves and tell ourselves it should not matter to us, and that we don’t need to waste our energy which only destroys our inner peace. There is no better place for us them within us, we need to create a safe place in our mind where whenever we want we can discharge ourselves and because of others don’t let our inner peace get destroyed. I hope you get your new success in the form of inner peace.

Do not let the actions and chaos of other people destroy your inner peace.

Till we meet again, Be happy, Be Grateful, and keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Continue…

You’re a fighter. Look at everything you’ve overcome.

Don’t give up now.

It’s so hard to continue being a fighter when everything around you and inside you is crumbling and not making any sense. Being able to continue by gaining courage is one of the toughest things to do. People around us say that keep trying and continuing the path we will make it, but it’s so hard to continue as things might not go according to us. I have been told that in my blogging journey, I just have to keep moving forward, keep doing, and keep trying to be better for a great result. I know for me to reach and achieve my goal I need to continue to make progress to make myself better and keep trying to upgrade myself but someday I just want to quit and not care about it. And it’s okay because those days make you realize the importance of taking one step behind for you to go four steps ahead. Just continue doing what you love, continue to work on yourself, continue to be strong for yourself, and I hope you will achieve your dreams at a great height. Whenever you just don’t want to do it, remember that every step you make is the first step there are a lot of journeys to go to reach the destination and you have to continue moving towards it because you can’t start the new chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one. Just like after sunset, the sky is filled with beautiful stars, even though they look so beautiful they know they have to go and let the sun’s brightness come just like that there will be so many phases you will have to go through but please continue.

Constantly,

consistently,

continually,

you.

Perry Poetry.

Till we meet again, Be happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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This Letter is to YOU.

I hope your dream won’t just be left as a dream

Whenever wherever

I’ll cheer you on. ~ MA.

Dear My Readers,

How are you? I hope you are doing great. I want to come here and tell you I am so proud of you for everything you have done for yourself. Sometimes in doing better every time we often forget to appreciate ourselves that even a small mistake makes us feel like a loser. I just want to tell you thank you so much for not giving up, thank you so much for being a pillar for yourself, and thank you so much for not stopping believing in yourself. I know what you are doing is absolutely great maybe at this time you won’t see the result but trust me and yourself it’s going to come super soon. It’s okay if you made a mistake, it’s okay to cry, and it’s okay if you feel weak sometimes there is nothing to feel bad about but it will only make you strong. Don’t make yourself small for anyone. Be that awkward, funny, intelligent, beautiful little weirdo that you are. Don’t hold back. Weird it out. If you ever feel like there is no one for you please do remember that a girl from a small part of this world is keeping you in her prayers and cheering you afar. ( You got this, Just do it, you are doing it right!) I hope your healing journey becomes successful. I hope you achieve your dream of what you always wanted and don’t be shy and become the best version of yourself. You are literally doing your best and if no one is proud of you be proud of yourself.

From, MA.

I have been meaning to write this letter for you all since you have been my upper support in my blogging journey and I feel like I need to appreciate it more. And I hope that after reading this letter you feel at least a little better and if you do I will be so on top of the moon:)

“Thank you for being an important part of my life.” ~ MA.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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I’m Still Learning…

I’m not everything I want to be, but I’m more than I was, and I’m still learning.

Charlotte Eriksson.

The moment you will realize that learning goes beyond the four walls of the classroom is when you will get the reality check that you have grown up. The life we are living right now is a synonym for learning, in life we get so many lessons and learning that make us realize what actually learning and life means. When you become adults the learning life gives you is just mind-blowing, but those are the learning we never forgot, those are the learning that makes us stronger because we experience it with all our emotions joined in them. When I was in school, older people often said, “When you will become an adult and pass out of school, you will understand the real meaning of learning and its phases.” And now I know how bitter truth those words were that someday I will face. Life is a roller-coaster we face so much every day and we learn new things every day. Life is meant to be the phases of learning, unlearning, and relearning and we need to accept it. Every day I make myself realize how perfect I will be at work, there will be someday when I will make mistakes and I don’t need to be sorry about that but need to be happy that I got to learn something new. I always remember that someday I will win and someday I will learn, which really works to help me keep myself motivated and not feel bad about it. It is actually you, you make the progress yourself, if you will allow it then it will happen, but if you know how to control it, and let it pass then you will realize you were just learning new phases of your life. Whenever people say wow you are so good at it, I always reply to them that I’m still learning…

Never forget to remain a student while to teach others.

Jerry Corsten.

Till we meet again Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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I’m (NOT) Okay!

Every feeling you feel is VALID.

You know when there are things you are feeling but just can’t put in words or when the day is going okay but then you remember all your problems and your mood becomes sour, yes that is what I am feeling right now. You all the past few days of mine have gone so rough whatever I did in those days makes me feel like I did everything wrong. Nothing is making sense to me and I am stuck in so many ways that I can’t even speak about it because I don’t know how to, everything is just so confusing. I just don’t know where I belong, I wanted to do so many different things and I took the risk but now everything is just going downfall. I am so frustrated right now, just nothing is making sense but as I am writing this down I am understanding that it’s okay to not be okay with what happened has happened now I need to let go of it and look at the positive side that I learned from my mistake and in the future I can stop myself and others from doing it. But sometimes you just can’t ignore the negative side. I understand not everything in my life is going to be right, there will be phases where I will make mistakes and will be so wrong but I need to let go of it and just say that it’s okay I made a mistake now I need to just let go of it and move forward in my life.

Now actually I am feeling okay as I wrote down, the confusion I had is now sorted but there is something that I lost as well as gained from my mistake so I am not entirely sad about it, it’s just making me mad that what I thought nothing like nothing happened like that so that is making me mad and frustrated but it’s okay it was my first time and I made a mistake and nothing turned out the right way and what is the possible way to learn from mistakes – yes right it’s the hard way;)

Everything will be okay in the end.

If it’s not okay,

it’s not the end.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Letting Go…

“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what’ could’ve, would’ve happened… or you can just leave the pieces on the floor & move on.”

Tupac Shakur.

The hardest feeling I felt was when I had to let go of the ice cream that fell on the ground, making one more plus point in my clumsy diary. But on a serious note, why is it so hard to let off of something? Why do we have to think about it so much and why does it hurt so much? Honestly holding on to something that gives you no meaning yet just because you don’t want to waste all the time spent together, all those memories, and all those ahead moments where you both will pass each other like strangers, and trust me I know that feeling very well, it hurts. When we grow up a lot of things change in one’s life and it does affect various relationships as well. And in those times I have learned that a relationship is all about give and take if you are putting your hand forward then they need to do the same both parties need to put in an equal amount of effort. The most shocking thing when a person decides to let go of it is not only because they are not feeling any love but because everything changed, they changed and just thinking about what actually changed there is no answer. You are the same but that person is not the one you know. Letting go of something has the same feeling as when we feel tears leaking out of our eyes in the middle of the night just because our heart is sad but we don’t know the reason behind it. I have realized that letting go doesn’t mean you stop loving them or greeting them but because you stop pitting yourself, you tell yourself to move on, you let yourself get free from all the disturbing thoughts about them, and you just want yourself to be happy and letting go is the solution.

Closure happens right after you accept that letting go and moving on is more important than protecting a fantasy of how the relationship could have been.

Sylvester McNutt.

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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Guilt…

THE TRUTH IS,

unless you let go,

unless you forgive yourself,

unless you forgive the situation,

unless you realize the situation is over,

you cannot move forward.

Dr. Steve Maraboli.

The Guilt of not enjoying the moment to the fullest, the guilt of not crediting myself enough, the guilt of not saying how proud I am of myself, the guilt of living on the opinions of others, the guilt of making decisions depending upon the others, and the guilt of not forgiving myself for making wrong decisions like how much we have to capture ourselves with guilt. The feeling of guilt is far more worse than hate because someday hate might go but the guilt that has strangled our hearts is very hard to free. At this time I have learned to live the moments to the fullest and be happy in what I am living because those moments and memories are never going to come back and the feeling of guilt of not enjoying the moment to the fullest and wishes that we could go back and maybe live more will eat up our head. When we will learn to free ourselves from the guilt of the bad decisions that we made, it happened you don’t need to be thinking about that let go of it and make your present and future better than what you have imagined. Forgive yourself for things that you can’t control, forgive yourself for things that you didn’t do wrong, forgive yourself for those things that are not your responsibility, and forgive yourself for choosing yourself over others. Unless you won’t let the past guilt go you can’t move forward is something that I have learned so let go of the past and live in the present. The feeling of guilt is something that will never leave us but we need to learn how to process it and don’t let ourselves dwell in it. Let go of the guilt and make space for better things to enter your life and remind yourself to do better the next time rather than guilt about it.

It’s your life don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for living it your way.

There is another post of mine on GUILT if you want please check that out as well by clicking over here.

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA.

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TIMING!

When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against wind, not with it.

Henry Ford

One thing I have learned in life is that time waits for no one, what you want to do DO IT NOW otherwise it will be too late. Being able to do everything at a proper time is something we can’t control but being able to use it for proper things is something we can control. Time is changing in a blur, seasons are changing like clothes and some know what they are doing, and some are still confused. I am definitely the latter one but I do believe that timing of life is something we need to trust. Like when I started my blog I was dreading and looking for the perfect time to start but I soon realized that there is no such thing as perfect timing it’s me who has to make it my perfect time and here I am happily in my blogging journey. Now this made me realize that if I didn’t start at that time then I know I would still be looking for that perfect time which might never come because I didn’t take the first step in making my time worthy. If we did hard work and were consistent in our work then definitely time will be in our favor. Growing up till today a lot of time passed by but in those times I learned so much and ahead as well a lot of things are waiting for me to explore. People say with time people change but I want to say that with time you need to reflect on your work, how far you have gotten, what are the things that you did and what are the things that you need to complete. Time is not waiting for anyone and nor do we have to wait for the perfect opportunity just do it at the moment, start it where you can, and trust yourself and the timing will be perfect for you. If you think that right now the timing is bad I’ll start later but do it now because the timing is never going to be perfect you have to make it perfect. Let go of things that have passed and start over without wasting time and it will be worth it for you.

The moment you realize how important time is, you entire perspective will change.

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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FUTURE!

And suddenly, you know…It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings.

Nothing really scares me as much as my future. To be honest in the past I never seriously thought anything about my future. I was never really afraid of what path I am going to choose and so many questions that now haunt me. At this point, I am really afraid because time is ticking and I am not making any decisions. There is a thing that I want to do but still, I am not feeling 100% sure about it and this is how I am. I know I need to give it a try and then only I am going to be confident about it. The future is really a scary thing you don’t know anything about it, and you don’t know if the path you are taking is even right, but that is where the point of belief in yourself comes from. I know I just need to do it and just go where my heart is telling me to. And I hope that whatever you and I make the decision even if you or I are not happy about it still we are going to learn from it a lot. From today onward I am going to make the decision of what I feel is right and even though I may not feel confident about it but somewhere I just know maybe it’s my future…I just need to trust myself and believe in the magic of new beginnings.

Two months of break finally came to an end and to be honest a lot of things happened in that period I finished taking my graduation exam and now I have a very new start in front of me in what I want to do. It’s scary that all of my friends are already on their path and here I am not knowing anything about what I want to do. ‘Sigh.’ To be honest I am afraid that the path I want to take is really for me. Is that really my destination because what I will choose today will affect a major part of my future? So these thoughts are really scaring me. But I know I need to take the first step and the risk that only will make my future stronger.

And now I’ll do what’s best for me!

Keep smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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