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Finding Courage.

you feel unsettled because you know you are meant for more.

Everything that we want to do is held by something or other, maybe in the form of worry, overthinking about choices that we don’t know are right or wrong, discouragement, and whatnot have filled our mind with the fear of not taking the step. For so many years our hearts have desired so many things yet we are unable to take the step because we are afraid of things that don’t even concern us but others. The decision you have to take will never concern or harm you if it’s for you or if it’s in your favor but we the whole life just think what is the thought of others for us which even means breaking our own hearts. You allowed yourself to courageously think about the future you want, yet you never run behind it. Why? Just so after everything ends, without you even trying what is the outcome that came in your favor nothing? Hear me out this is your year what has ever held you back cut out all the ties from it and run behind your dreams, take a deep breath, keep your eyes wide open and whisper yes and run behind those things that you deserve, and trust me, in the end, it’s your courage that is going to help you survive. Dream as much as you want but have the courage to achieve those dreams without fearing anything. If you decided to follow the path you have longed for, you will have the courage and strength that you will not find but it will be the other way around because getting ready for something is a big decision to make, and if you have done that then I’m so proud of you:). You have to get through vulnerability to find the courage and to be brave but once you get those things you have to put yourself first and find that courage that has hidden behind your fear for so many years and chase after things you always wanted by finding courage.

The courage it takes to leave behind what’s not for you anymore is the same courage that will help you find your way to what is.

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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Wanderer…

She was free in her wildness. She was a wanderer, a drop of free water. She belonged to no man and to no city.

Roman Payne.

We are given this life to find a motive and live upon it. However, it is not easy I feel like a long-lost wanderer that is roaming around the world to find my motive in life. What exactly are wanderers? According to me, your race of yours in finding your real identity in this world that sometimes feels like a black hole that is swallowing you deep inside it. I think I come under one of the oldest wanderers because my motive doesn’t seem to find me or vice versa. I have also been a curious and restless child about things that I shouldn’t be concerned about at a certain age but those were my childhood things now I just need to focus on finding myself in this world where so many heterogeneous minds exist. Being a wanderer for a long time makes you afraid of getting confused because it truly says that being lost is okay rather than being confused. After all, the lost soul would find themselves but a confused soul might never. Having confusion in life about so many things makes me afraid because the feeling of not finding any motive for things that I like is making me question myself. But I think at this point in life I am going to be so confused but I think I have reached somewhere where things start to make sense. The wanderer is supposed to be a wildflower that looks beautiful but can’t be controlled and are just like you who has the soul of the boundless sky, a free spirit like the wind, and wild like the ocean. I was never that person who likes to come out of my comfort zone but as I grew up I understood that if you are in your comfortable and stable zone then you are in the wrong place. The most fun comes when you do things out of your comfort zone, being a free spirit with risk is an experience that makes life more adventurous. I want to tell you all that if you are feeling hesitant about coming out of your zone and taking a risk then let me tell you that you will never regret it, believe me because being a wander and finding things on your own is a whole new experience for being able to find yourself raw and real.

If we were meant to stay in one place, we’d have roots instead of feet.

Keep smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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Phases of Life…

“And like moon, we must go through phases of emptiness to feel full again.”

The most important and strange thing I learned when I stepped into my adulthood is that nothing remains the same. I felt like I have changed so much in respect of maturity, understanding, and even my behaviour. The phase of mine from childhood, teenage to adulthood was so much of a rollercoaster, everything changed I started realizing what is worth my time and started losing my interest in those which were not worthy of time. The phases of life are a very strange thing you can even see it in yourself, how you were before and now how you are just like the phase of the moon. It goes through so many phases but in the end, it becomes whole again it’s a destiny for the moon, whatever happens, it has to become a whole moon again even though there were so many hardships then too it the end it is of becoming whole again. But after becoming whole again it starts to move towards a new journey by separating again. Just like our life, the phases of happiness, sadness, and happiness continue throughout but in the end, we will be there where we have dreamed to be. The life lesson you receive in a different phase of life is so much different from what you have experienced before because with the phase you also start to grow up and the maturity of learning new things comes knocking on the door with each and every phase teaching you many new things. After we reach our goal just like the moon we have to start moving forward towards another goal that is what life is about, you have to keep moving and keep getting better for becoming whole again. Let go of things that make you question your life, that make your heart filled with sadness, that make you feel not yourself. Life is meant to happen and the phases of it can’t be ignored but it is here to teach us to keep moving forward and makes us understand the phases of life that are meant for us.

Life is ironic. It takes sadness to know happiness, noise to appreciate silence, and absence to value presence.

Keep smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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The Second Chance!

Taking chances is scary, but there is something that should scare you far more than anything: missing out on something truly wonderful because you were scared.

Katherine Matheson.

Why is only the first chance important and why does it matter if it’s not done in the first chance? There is still another chance waiting to be taken again and start over. The answer to it is difficult to even think about if you can’t do it at first, why do it again? It says the first impression is the last but I highly doubt it after researching deep inside I learned that nobody is trying to see and listen from different perspectives. Why does it just have to be the first one? If you failed the first time, if you can’t do it the first time then there is no other time to do it. I truly disagree with the saying because a second chance is more important than the first. As one takes the first chance and can’t succeed, the second chance is waiting to become another chance for the person. This is life and it’s unpredictable you can’t do everything in one go and be satisfied with it. The second chance we take is by experience and by the courage of not giving up even after so much struggle. The courage and bravery for doing everything again, starting everything again is something that needs a lot of strong will, and let me clarify that if you are having second thoughts about taking another chance due to a lot of reasons I will just tell you to do it. Life and time are never going to be the same so if you are lucky enough to even have an option for another chance just do it, I believe in you that the result will be worth the struggle. First chance teaches you a lot of things from your mistakes to your willpower of making it more perfect. That’s why it is said the second chance is the outcome of undoubtable courage, broken heart, dried tears, and judgments that pierce through your skin. The second chance can’t be the same as the first time, the people, the atmosphere, everything will be changed but you will remain the same but more stronger and faithful in yourself. Chances are given to make things better and right that can’t be done at first. When you will look back, the outcome of the second chance will be seen through your growth, the warmness inside your heart, the sigh of relief, and the pride of not doubting and not giving up on yourself. I want to tell you that you are way more strong than you think, don’t ever doubt yourself, grab the chance you are getting and show the world and yourself the power of a second chance.

Second chances are not given to make things rights.

But are given to prove that we could be better even after we fall.

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA.

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Insecurities…

“I found I was more confident when I stopped trying to be someone else’s definition of beautiful and started being my own.”

Remington Miller.

The biggest drawback as a human being is having to deal with insecurities about oneself that others make you realize. Not going to lie that I never feel insecure about myself. Growing up I got pimples on my face at a pretty young age but at that, I never felt that insecure about myself and by the grace of God, no one ever teases me about it. But now in the stage of adulthood my pimples are somewhat gone but the marks that it has left behind me are now stirring up my insecurities, why don’t I have a clear face, why do I have pimples and a lot of them? And to be honest that’s totally okay having questions because I am a human and it’s my nature but getting over it is what I am learning about. In school I was a good student I guess got good marks and that’s all. I was afraid to stand up on the stage and present things, I was afraid to even say the right answer, and I was not good at drawing and any kind of competition while my friends were. Now that I am writing this, I feel so proud of myself that how far I have come. Since then till today I have changed a lot back then those things matter to me even in family gatherings I was an outcast because I can’t make conversation and talk freely to people I meet once a year…while people around me can. But you all want to know what has changed today, I have gotten a lot of confidence in going on the stage even though I stutter and maybe messed it up, but I don’t feel bad about it anymore. I don’t feel bad for not getting mixed up in the conversation because I have realized my own personality and I don’t want to change anything about it. I have learned the introvert and extrovert personalities, which has made me realize who and what I am today. I have also been taken for granted as I was never great at anything and now I want to prove myself by doing better and better at what I am.

I am so proud of myself that despite my insecurities not only mentally but physically I have reached a point where I started to appreciate myself and be thankful for overcoming the problems on my own. I have learned to never compare myself to others as they can’t be me and vice versa. I know ahead of time that when I am going to feel low about myself what I need to do it, I have figured that out almost, and honestly, I would like to tell you that as well YOU ARE GORGEOUS, I REPEAT and you are enough and perfect for yourself. Insecurities are something that can’t go away, you just need to accept and love them so that others will also appreciate you as you do them.

“You are so used to your features, you don’t know how beautiful you look to a stranger.”

Keep Smiling, You’re Loved:) ~ MA

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Don’t Be Beautiful!

Be addicted to bettering yourself.

If you are beautiful you have everything, the fact that if someone is good-looking they are highlighted for everything even in things where someone else can fit perfectly. Don’t get me wrong about saying that beautiful people are bad, this is not what I am saying. Firstly I don’t even understand what and how to describe beautiful people, maybe by physical features like eyes, nose, and mouth which everybody has. I don’t know about you all but for me, the most attractive feature about others is a sense of humor, attitude and all-over personality.

I believe that how you carry yourself, how you describe yourself, and how you use your sense of humor should be attractive. If you love yourself, if you love all your flaws, if you accept yourself the way you are then that is what is beautiful. Nobody in this world came to be beautiful but be however you want, be powerful, be silly, be dramatic, be intelligent, be real, and most importantly be you. Everyone in this world is beautiful but not with how they look but with all shades of dramatic of them being themselves. It’s very hard to accept yourself and I know that very well but there is nothing about you that is not worthy of not loving let me tell you this don’t be beautiful but be powerful to love yourself.

“They keep saying that beautiful is something a girl needs to be. But honestly? Forget that. Don’t be beautiful. Be angry, be intelligent, be witty, be klutzy, be interesting, be funny, be adventurous, be crazy, be talented – there are an eternity of other things to be other than beautiful. And what is beautiful anyway but a set of letters strung together to make a word? Be your own definition of amazing, always. That is so much more important than anything beautiful, ever.”

Nikita Gill.

Until we meet again,

-Signing off

~MA

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Being Independent!~

“You’re gonna be happy,” – said life,

“But first I’ll make you STRONG.”

The other day certain memories of my childhood came into my mind, how that was the time when I was so dependent on my parents and can’t do various things and now as I am a legal adult everything is so different. A lot of people think at 17 years old that yes they are going to turn 18 years old but for me, at the age of 17, I somehow was an 18-year-old self where I noticed many things and everything started to make sense. That was my age when I became an independent self and I learned other than money various things make a person independent. Let’s start with shopping not basic shopping but grocery shopping and let me tell you it’s the toughest when you are without your parents and have no idea what rate is what thing.

Being independent is so important in today’s generation, when we talk about independence it starts with financial terms, how much one earns in one month it’s their money that they earned with their hard work, their skills and everyone should be proud of it. You know you are financially independent when you spend your money in whatever way you want and nobody asks you where it all went, wait actually nobody should have the right to do so. Other than finance, making decisions, supporting loved ones, and doing what one loves but it comes with a price, a price of responsibility that makes the biggest difference in one’s life. So for me, it’s how you manage to settle things perfectly, to get the solution for the problem, calming down the last minute problems is something I believe in being independent.

“Money doesn’t buy you happiness but it buys you freedom.” – MA.

I aspire to be a woman with
financial freedom
crazy dreams
loyal friends
jerk cats
the privilege to help others

Until we meet again,

-Signing off

~MA

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12 New Chapters… 365 New Chances

And Suddenly, I Know…

It’s Time To Start Something New

And Trust The Magic Of

New Beginnings.

14th July 2021

I don’t know where to start it off but I can’t believe that one year ago on this same date on the same device a girl was sitting and writing something random to make the world aware of her existence. The girl just started because she never believed that she had a talent in her, but decided to trust her instinct and go for it. She just believed that if she didn’t take a risk then there was nothing she could do. So she took the first step and the changes she learned, the confidence she gained, the emotions she felt, knowing how to overcome the hurdles and among them the most important lesson she learned to love and appreciate herself. And now I can proudly say I am Her and She is Me.

When I started I didn’t know that there were people who would land on my page and take a few minutes from their life to read my thoughts and appreciate it. I am someone who can’t express my feelings very well but all I can say is Thank You So Much for appreciating me and my work. I will always be grateful to all of you and I hope you all have the best wishes in what you are doing. A reminder if you feel that there is no one for you please remember that there is a girl in a small part of the world who appreciates you and is grateful for your existence.

THANK YOU, YOU ARE AMAZING AND APPRECIATED:)

….this chapter of my life is called,

“Smiling Again!”

Until We Meet Again,

– Signing off

~ MA

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Work In Progress.

“No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.” Tony Robbins.

Tony Robbins.

When it is said that the journey is more memorable than the destination I somehow believe in that. Because it takes a lot of time and effort to reach somewhere we dreamed and desired. In life, we don’t know what will happen next in the process of living but we do know that in the end there will be death waiting for us. Just like life, we know our destination but the process of reaching the place will have so many hurdles among them that we never know and this is what I named the Beauty and the Beast. Because according to the first reason that I learned while finding my destination was that to have a positive impact there will be a lot of negativity you have to go through. To find the happiness you need to go through the pain and the reason behind is that what pain, and misery can teach you, happiness can’t. Happiness will make your heart full but the pain will make your heart strong, yourself strong. And to live up to the life you want, the heart and mind need to be strong and brave enough to not let your destination of yours fade away. Time is very important and if you learn the importance of time the word patience will be your reason to enjoy the journey you need for yourself. Because patience is the key to everything, nothing happens overnight and if it does if not you. To enjoy the destination to the fullest you need to experience your journey in every form of emotions and feelings. Take your time and enjoy the learning it taught you in your journey because in the end life is a Work in Progress.

This time, love the Work in Progress

that is you.

Until We Meet Again,

– Singing off

~ MA

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Self-Worth!

Be so busy improving yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

Make sure you’re doing better now than you were before.

It’s you vs you.

The hardest thing in this world is to understand oneself. What do you want from your life? Where are you in your life? Is everything happening the way you want? And the most important question – ARE YOU HAPPY? I feel like in this world finding the answers to these questions is the toughest thing to do. It’s never hard to love someone and appreciate them because it’s more about them than you. But when it comes to loving and appreciating yourself, then easy word never seems easy. The true line of flaws makes you different and unique from others but accepting in real life is way too difficult. Why do you want another person to come and tell you your perfections and imperfections? Why can’t you accept the way you are? If you can’t accept and love yourself then never expect anyone to do so. Listen to me, nobody in this world has any right to tell you to become someone you are not and to be perfect. You are the decision-maker of your life, love yourself, appreciate yourself and become the person you always wanted to be. You are worthy of so many things that you will understand if you understand and love yourself. Beauty doesn’t come with physical appearance but self-worth!

Support yourself instead of finding ways to neglect yourself. It’s impossible to win if you’re not on your own team.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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