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Self-Care

Perfect people aren’t real and real people aren’t perfect.

The most neglected thing I have seen and done as well is not paying attention to myself. There is a saying, which some people accept while some don’t – “We know least about ourselves.” Self-care starts with skin-care for most people but for me, it’s a good amount of sleep. According to me, there are two types of people when it comes to skin-care, the first obsessed one and the other who doesn’t even care. I am definitely the second one because I am too lazy and skin-care just doesn’t make sense to me, no offense to all the skin-care lovers out there:) More in my favor whatever I do and apply nothing works for me. I don’t know, maybe my skin is as stubborn as me;) Honestly, there are a lot more things in self-care that actually matter the most. I always believe that the internal matters more than the external. Mental health is the biggest thing one should worry about because if it is not going well then anything is not going well. Self-care is all about how you are treating yourself, are you taking care of yourself? Are you cutting down the toxic people in your life? Are you keeping yourself first? Are you getting the rest you need? These are all the things that one should self-care about themselves. The reminder for today is to do it for yourself not for others because you only deserve it nobody else.

Work on you, for you.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Uselessness!

Just a reminder in case your mind is playing tricks on you today –

You matter. You’re important. You’re loved.

People who just randomly sit and start something becomes everything in their life. Best thoughts come when you are just ideally sitting in a park and contemplating your life. Whenever I think of something that is really out of the box it usually comes at the weirdest time and place. Random thoughts are the best one because it comes from the emotions you are feeling at that time. It is said that when you are too deep in emotions the mind and heart both make you feel the power of the thoughts and words. A fact is when someone feels they are wasting time but that is the time one is more motivated than ever before. For me, my uselessness meant me the whole day being in bed and doing NOTHING absolutely NOTHING. Because the whole week I am so busy and I don’t get time to properly enjoy it, so at weekends I am a stranger to the world. I need my sleep, I need to spend the day as I love without having any tension of my busy life. Just like you need to take steps back to jump ahead exactly, you need to take a break to come back fresh. Whenever I have so many things in my mind and it is tiring me then too I need to work but I can’t because the energy is being drained out as so much was on my mind. I think the meaning of rest should be you being entirely selfish. That means doing something that makes you happy without any tension of the time. Like most people do something useful in their free time but I believe that uselessness is useful! You need to have days that others think are useless but to you, it is able to focus more on useful things later! Just be your free self because it is what helps you be useful:)

Never force anything. Just let it be if it’s meant to be, it will be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A little of something I want to share:)

As dark as the stormy night as tall as the lighthouse, people see him as a curse of the world yet nobody knows that his world is nothing but a black hole in which he is falling very quickly and nobody can stop him except the motive of vengeance with her. He stands tall at 6’5 inches, has broad shoulders that never slough, grey eyes that complement his midnight black hair with his eyes always alert and looks at people with doubtfulness. Rough hands but nobody sees the marks of his past on them, the jaw is as sharp as his mind that is always running to find his lost vengeance with her, the killer of his sister. People also say that he is always ready to snap at things all the time, ready to fight if someone disturbs him, and nobody goes to his house which is always filled with darkness just like his mood. Arrogance is his second name and rudeness is his brother but nobody sees what he has seen, his sister is on the end of the pathway of the world, and in the next moment she is gone forever. The nightmares never leave him alone until his motive is done. The guilt of not saving his sister will never leave him until he leaves the world and the fire of vengeance of his sister’s murderer who bullies her and makes the life of his sister hell and now he is going to make her life hell because death is an easy punishment there is so much to come. Vengeance is what will make him free from the guilt and for his sister to be finally at peace. Nobody will help her, the murderer just like nobody did for her sister and then the motive of him will be successful and he will be at ease and his guilt will be erased a little. 

Hey you all, this is a character sketch that I wrote for one of my works. I thought of sharing it here so that I can get a lot of compliments Haha;) Hope you all like this, I wrote this in just a few minutes and I am really proud of it:)

Till we meet again Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Love Yourself!

We are all better versions of ourselves when we are love ourselves.

The biggest lesson one has to teach someone or to learn themselves is to love yourself. In this world, we are so used to giving things to others then amidst we forget ourselves. The courage, the lessons, the hardships, the confidence is all the negative as well as positive learning we learn by ourselves only. The best learning one can learn it by themselves. The major problem the youth is facing is not believing in themselves, loving themselves. When someone asks ‘describe yourself’, it takes a long pause for the person to answer it. You know why because we always forget to make ourselves our priority. I have seen many people saying that they can’t find anyone compatible with them. After giving so much thought to that I came to the conclusion that when a person doesn’t even know themselves then how can they will fit anywhere? Nobody needs to change to fit somewhere, recognize yourself, pay attention to yourself because nobody is as important as you. Figuring out yourself takes a lot of time because always the wrong path takes you in the right direction. I am still figuring out myself and letting myself have the time to know the real me because when you force yourself to adapt things it will be more complicated. Many times we lose confidence, we stop believing in ourselves, we just don’t trust ourselves and that makes you stop everything at that moment. Figure yourself and life will itself be the way you want. Embrace yourself, love yourself and then there is nothing that can break you and your confidence.

Nobody can make you happy until you’re happy with yourself first.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life Cycle!

Self care isn’t just drinking water and going to sleep early. Self care is taking a break when things become overwhelming, saying no to things you do not want to do, allowing yourself to cry and doing things that makes you happy.

Eat, sleep, write and read is my life cycle. From these four I must do at least all (Haha). Some people I have seen are not present in this world mentally. They are so much involved in their work that they don’t know what is happening in the world or themselves. From past years I have learned that the best time to know yourself or to understand yourself is to spend time with yourself. Headphones on with your music playlist and a book or whatever you love as a hobby with you is what a self moment should look like. As you grow up you understand that self-time is way more important than people who keep buzzing in your ears. For me, I can’t even sit for a two hours movie because my concentration is not good. Well let’s be honest I am not a movie person, I will anytime prefer to enjoy my books. Yes! I am a nerd but not in my studies;) Most people have a to-do list, but tell me honestly how unsuccessful you have been in it. I am a person who likes to go with the flow, I don’t like to plan my future because it then gives me a headache from now. I mean it depends on the person, some are going towards their goal while others are finding happiness in their goal. Now one thing that makes me realize is that you should only do things that you love not what others are expecting from you. Because it’s your like not theirs ahead you have to face the challenges not them. An ideal life cycle should only include things that you love and things that make you feel like YOU!

It is never too late to choose yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Long Hectic Day!

Be silly. Be fun. Be different Be crazy.

Be you, because life is too short to be anything but happy.

Life is too short to just sit in front of the computer and pass it. I miss the era of going to school and planning out the day and enjoying it with friends. Now everybody is as busy as Einstein that even going out means planning before weeks. Days are passing like a blur of wind and we are like fall leaves coming every year looking beautiful as always but every year there is a difference in the number of trees as they are not there anymore. In this life, everyone is running behind completing their work as fast as possible so they could get time just like a dream for themselves, but I never saw it become a reality. Do you ever feel like just getting away from things, people? Do you ever feel like you don’t even care if you are having a deadline tomorrow? If not then you are a lot behind than you think. When we are enjoying ourselves with friends and time just goes by even if you have days or many months then it’s not enough and sometimes you want the day to be over then too it is going as slow as a turtle. Just to make you better understand the difference between how time goes during your last lecture and how time goes when you are giving an exam. I don’t think anyone can ever understand the logic behind it and nobody wants to. Hectic days are now a cup of tea but finding peace and relaxing is not everyone’s cup of tea. Finding peace is like finding a good piece of clothing in the seas of human fighting over it. What you do in your day should satisfy you that you did great today but some days are just to teach you the lessons that are needed in your life.

No matter how hectic your day went, I pray that all your hard work brings nothing but strength and refreshment you need.

mysteriousalien.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Blessings Start with YOU!

Though we are incomplete, God loves us completely.

Though we are imperfect, He loves us perfectly.

Though we may feel lost & without compass,

God’s loves encompasses, us completely.

-Dieter F. Uchtdorf.

Everyone who is born in this world is special in their way. We never know the importance we have for ourselves until we learn to love ourselves as we are. Two types of people you will meet in your life, the one who accepts you as you and the other one who points out everything bad about you. Nobody is perfect. This sentence shows that a perfect person is never real and a real person is never perfect. Everyone has flaws but all of these have the real you that represents you that is what you are. Growth of yours matters above anything, if you are seeing yourself becoming a better person every day then that is your blessing. Nobody has the right to point out your flaws and tell you what you should do and what not. There are so many hard times people went through to reach their goals but hard times are often disguised as a blessing that in the future you will thank God for making you learn and grow. Hard times make you feel blessed with all the blessings you have for yourself, the way you are. The amount of blessing each and everyone has received from God is uncountable. Life is too short to waste anything, you just need to smile and keep going because if you want yourself somewhere, the stubbornness and determination should never stop and you will see yourself showering with blessings. You need to find your blessing and make yourself your priority in life because Blessings Start with YOU!

YOU ARE A UNIQUE BEAUTIFUL SOUL.

-Louise Hay.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Starting Over is a New Beginning.

Don’t be afraid to start all over again.

You may like your new story better.

To reach somewhere you need to make the first step means staring at a point. I will tell you that for me to become a blogger was a thought that came to my mind years back but I started it now because at that time there were so many things I need to learn and explore more to start a website where I can express myself just like I want but it took time for me to start and now I just need to continuing going just like I want. It takes a lot of thought to start something that you are not an expert of but as time goes the learning never stops and that’s how you become an expert. Sometimes things just do not go as planned and it makes the confidence go down. We will never know the second step if we never took the first step. Starting somewhere is going to be just like a test where you don’t know what the result is going to be but one thing that will depend on you is the result that shows that you pass or fail. Honestly, it does not matter what will be the result, all that matters is what you learn from it, are you going on the right path so many questions arise and that helps you to become and achieve what you want in your life. There is also a beginning and an end to any story or part of one’s life. For starting anything new a part of your life needs to be closed to start up a new you with a new goal. If something does not work out and you wanted that but life takes a completely different turn, and there is where you realize this is what you needed not before what others wanted from you. A fresh start is a new beginning where you are more experienced, more confident and a change in yourself will be a bonus for you to never stop trying. Change is a need where everything you wanted is within your reach. If now you want a break do it and then start again with a new aura to never stop.

And suddenly, you know…

It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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You are a Hero!

Hard times don’t create heroes. It is during the hard times when the ‘hero’ within us is revealed.

Bob Riley.

All the heroes do not wear a cap. Yes! Right just like you. When we think about a hero, what comes to our mind is saving people and doing things that help people and all of that. But according to me, a hero is someone who knows how to deal with his weakness and is kind enough to have a strength of heart that is strong for him to choose with he love. There is also a saying that emotional pain is worse than physical pain. You can deal with and heal your physical pain very easily but emotional pain takes a lot of time and patience. Be your hero for yourself, you need strength to make your heart feel like it is strongest for you. No matter how much weak you feel in doing something, how much you want to give up, you are a hero if you never stop trying or backing off because that is what makes you are truly a saviour by a hero aka yourself. You know the true meaning of knowing what you want, understanding yourself better when you are dealing with hard times. Hard times make you feel that everything in life is a chapter that will close someday and a new chapter will be opened but in that one chapter there is so much that could happen to you and all of those just make you stronger and a hero in your own eyes. Fear was, is and will also be a constant factor in whatever you are doing, but you need to learn how to make it your biggest strength. A hero is known as someone who learns how to overcome obstacles by feeling the emotions of insecurity and fear and that is what makes a hero. You are doing great, take a deep breath and continue trying.

Live your life like you’re the hero in your own movie.

Joe Rogan.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Giving up is a Sin.

You are fighting so hard and I am so proud of you, I know you’re tired, but please don’t give up. I have so much faith in you. Like countless times before this, you can and will do this.

It is very easy to give up and grieve about it the next day. Making decisions about things that don’t interest you is quite understandable because wasting time on something which is not for you is bizarre. But something that you are finding hard, and not getting through, you just decide to give up and stop trying. Making the mind up for doing is the first step towards the goal you want to achieve. Nothing is easy until you do it. When you arrive at the goal and when you look back everything you will find is easy but at the last step. There are so many steps to reach the final destination because it takes time to make yourself what you dream of. Taking a break is mandatory to come up with a clear and focused mind to begin the journey again. But giving up because you can’t do it anymore, or you are fed up is a feeling that everyone gets but that is where a decision is a crucial part. Take a break for some time, refresh your mind, make up your mind, dream about the final goal of yours and then you are ready to start again. Before starting your journey make some promises to yourself like huddles will stop you but can’t beat you, giving up should be the last thought in your mind, above all the biggest promise is to keep going, never stop until you achieve the goal you have decided for yourself. The struggle is the best thing you should be proud of throughout your journey and after your journey. Struggle makes you strong to deal with every part of problems in your life. Struggle makes you learn to handle the situation by yourself. You can do it if you want. By all of this, I want to say don’t give up no matter how hard it is because in the end it will be worth it and you will be so proud of not making a decision that is not for you. Giving up is not a solution for anything but a sin.

You don’t have to be brave,

you just have to keep trying.

You don’t have to be strong,

you just have to keep going.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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