courage – A girl who likes to write

Don’t look back. You’re not going that way.

In my life, I have reached that stage where I have gained confidence, where I have learned to believe in myself, and I have finally started to learn how to handle my insecurities. And this happened because I made myself and my mind strong. However, there are moments when I feel my insecurities getting the best of me but I know how to handle them.

The way I have learned is by not letting myself look at my past mistakes as mistakes, but rather as my learning points. I believe we should only look back to see how far we have come. Sometimes we dwell so much in our past and its mistakes that we forget that the entire present and future are there to live through. In life, we have a lot of moments, many of them are about learning, which definitely makes us feel bad about ourselves; however, that’s all the moments that make us strong, as much as we are fighting and still standing strong.

We have to live in our present; we don’t have to dwell on our past, nor do we have to think too much about our future. It always works out, maybe in a hard way, but it works out, and that’s what is important. The present is the most important time in our lives as we fight through so much just to live in the moment, so don’t just look back and feel how much better you could have done. Believe me, you tried your best, and maybe life wanted you to be tougher for better experiences.

I always have the motto to never look back and regret things because that only makes me feel horrible about myself and how I was unable to achieve things. And always, that was a phase for me to grow, and now, when I look at myself, I feel so proud because the things that made me doubt are now just mere things. Now I can achieve more because of my stronger mindset, and I am so happy and grateful about it.

So remember, look back only when you need to feel proud of yourself, to see how far you have come, to appreciate your strength, and just to see how much better you have gotten.

Wake up and live.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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I do not know how it will happen but I do know that it will happen.

My life has been crazy right now, but in a good way. I am at that stage of my life where I always used to dream, and now I am here, actually working and living in it. Not just that, but I have taken up so many challenges that the mini me would have never thought of because of how self-conscious I was back then. I am always so ready to take up challenges, and guess what, I am not even a little bit afraid of how I am going to do it, but I want to experience it and learn from it. And this habit of mine has taken me to places which I always thought would be out of my dreams, but now I am actually living it. What I have realised is that no matter how tough it looks, it will happen, and you will probably feel wondering how it happened, and you are actually living it. I believe that working on your passion will definitely lead you to the path that once felt impossible. It will take time, but speaking from my personal experience, someone who didn’t even think that what she is doing right now would be even 1 per cent possible, but it happened because I never let go of my passion and believed in myself. The advice I am giving to you is no matter how impossible it looks and how much you are afraid, take that challenge and do it, at least you will get to experience it as well as learn, which is more important than not doing anything. The important thing I have learned is that from doing only you are going to learn; if you want to go big, then you need to do it irrespective of the result. How would you know how capable you are unless you try it? If you want to achieve more, then you need to test yourself by taking up challenges that seem impossible, but that’s how you are going to learn and be ready to take on more challenges ahead. So, trust yourself; it will happen, and in a way that will really make you appreciate taking that step and making it happen.

Maybe you should stop overthinking and just trust the way life happens.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write

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you feel unsettled because you know you are meant for more.

Everything that we want to do is held by something or other, maybe in the form of worry, overthinking about choices that we don’t know are right or wrong, discouragement, and whatnot have filled our mind with the fear of not taking the step. For so many years our hearts have desired so many things yet we are unable to take the step because we are afraid of things that don’t even concern us but others. The decision you have to take will never concern or harm you if it’s for you or if it’s in your favor but we the whole life just think what is the thought of others for us which even means breaking our own hearts. You allowed yourself to courageously think about the future you want, yet you never run behind it. Why? Just so after everything ends, without you even trying what is the outcome that came in your favor nothing? Hear me out this is your year what has ever held you back cut out all the ties from it and run behind your dreams, take a deep breath, keep your eyes wide open and whisper yes and run behind those things that you deserve, and trust me, in the end, it’s your courage that is going to help you survive. Dream as much as you want but have the courage to achieve those dreams without fearing anything. If you decided to follow the path you have longed for, you will have the courage and strength that you will not find but it will be the other way around because getting ready for something is a big decision to make, and if you have done that then I’m so proud of you:). You have to get through vulnerability to find the courage and to be brave but once you get those things you have to put yourself first and find that courage that has hidden behind your fear for so many years and chase after things you always wanted by finding courage.

The courage it takes to leave behind what’s not for you anymore is the same courage that will help you find your way to what is.

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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Don’t Look Back.

It will happen…

Finding Courage.