deep feelings – Page 2 – A girl who likes to write

“Always wish people well. Even when you let them go. Letting go never meant loving less. It just means you have chosen to love them from afar.”

Is it okay to love someone from afar rather than sacrificing oneself and staying close to that person? It was mother’s day recently and I saw so many posts about the contribution mom makes to a child’s love, but there is another side that needs to be looked upon. People are so lucky to have a mom who truly acts like a mom and the love that the child truly needs from mom. Moms are superheroes who survive a lot to bring a child into this world, but is every mom the same for every child? Does every child receive the love that they deserve from mom? Does every mom stand like a shield for the child? The answer that I will give is that it is okay to love your mom from afar. It is okay if you choose yourself rather than the societal norms about mothers. It is different for every child and mom in terms of the love they show and receive. It is okay if your love for your mom is different from others that you see on the internet. Nobody is wrong, it is the feelings and time that make everything different. If you are loving someone from afar and that makes you happy then it is okay don’t let anyone guilt trip you anyway, you know yourself the best. You are not wrong, you are just choosing yourself over anyone and that is okay because in the end you only have you.

You are lucky if you have a mom who truly deserves the title of best mom in the world. Please give them a hug and appreciate that they have tried everything so that they can hear Happy Mother’s Day from their children. It is not easy to take care of a child and give them the love that they truly deserve and the kids love their mom 9 months more than they love anybody. So all the moms out there, I know it’s hard but you are doing amazing and I hope the sacrifice you make today for your children will be fulfilled by seeing your child grow into a good human being.

Love from afar when needed.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.

It is really dangerous when you start to feel, and it is more difficult when you don’t know what are you feeling and why are you feeling? I was never good at handling my feelings because I didn’t know how to. As an adult, it is so much that with our own feelings, we have to look at what others feel too, how brutal is that. Here I can’t even deal with managing mine yet, I have to care about others as well, funny isn’t it? Now that I am writing about this post my feelings are all over the place, and I am unable to figure out what actually is happening to me. However, in my course of going through so many feelings, I have realised that you just need to give time that is what I have done and will be doing. You are mistaken if you think that feelings are always about the present or the future no absolutely not it’s about the past that comes crashing down on you. Past feelings and how much regret we have is another kind of inner battle we have to deal with every single night. Sometimes the wound is so deep that it doesn’t even heal physically. Have you ever done just opening up the window and staring right at the moon closing your eyes and just thinking about what is happening to you? Even though the wind is blowing around you and you have plenty of space to breathe, something is suffocating you and the worst is that you don’t know what is suffocating you.

But at the same time when you open your eyes, you see how beautiful the moon is amidst the dark night which everyone is afraid of. But remember the moon and stars will not shine if there is no darkness. Everyone is afraid of darkness but forget once they see how beautiful it makes the world. Just like that if your life is not going great that doesn’t mean nothing will fall in place remember moon also has to go through phases just so that it can be whole and more beautiful.

everyone has a chapter that they don’t read out loud.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Deep Feelings!