disappointments – A girl who likes to write

What if it doesn’t get easier like everybody says?

There are things you learn when you become an adult, things that nobody wants to learn but it happens. However, amidst that the most hurtful is when you see that life is going too far, everything is moving too fast and too suddenly. People around you are building their dreams, working their way to the future, you are seeing them in places where you are also supposed to be. Then you see yourself and realize that you are stuck with all the unmatched pieces of failed attempts to be something, and it hurts. When you see the hard work you have done, it brings you nothing but disappointment. When you see people of your age achieving great heights while you are standing at the bottom and seeing the strings of disappointments that have tied you to the ground. Life is so funny; it never misses showing how miserable you are in front of others. It shows you things that make up your list of disappointments. I have been in a place where I just thought they could but why I can’t, I was that child that lacked social skills and an aura of being a talked child. It is depressing to see people expect so much from a mere child who should be given the liberty to live freely rather than reaching expectations because adult life is all about getting stuck by numerous frustrations and disappointments. It is wild when you see that in the middle of the crowd, everyone is perfectly moving with their lives and then there is you whose steps just don’t move. You are drowning in your own self, failures, disappointment, and every possible word that screams you are not enough.

But then I remember that when you become an adult you realize that your competition is not with others but with yourself and even it hurts a lot seeing yourself stuck at a place but that doesn’t mean you can’t cut the strings. If you can’t find scissors then you have your teeth means it’s in you. Nobody can be you and that’s your power – memorize it for days when you are stuck.

Sometimes, we are stuck in the dark for so long, that we forget what light looks like, and what hope and love feel like.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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What you think, you become.
What you feel, you attract.
What you imagine, you create.

Disappointments are the first step of failure. It’s the first step for you to recognize how bad you are! You are a disappointment to the world. Blah and Blah! I mean everybody in this world wants everybody to be perfect. Wow! And what really perfect means?? Does it means you should never disappoint, you should do whatever world tells you, it’s simply means you should be a PUPPET to this world, because if you will do things according to them then you will be a ‘perfect’ human being and there will be no disappointments anywhere. If you are believing or thinking all of this, the ‘special’ theory then let me clear one thing that you are yourself a big disappointment in you than! You are a solely human being which lives on this planet but on others expectations, you are afraid to do something because if it goes wrong then a face of disappointment is seen by you. First thing always remember you are responsible for yourself, nobody is to be blame for something you yourself have done it. Your success, your failure, your disappointments all is of yours, if you take you disappointments in a way where you are trying to make them your strength by doing it all again but the right way. Expectations are the biggest disappointments if to be asked. Trying is a not a crime that you can’t commit. Not every person deserves your good heart. If you are doing well for others, it will never be unseen by the God. Just trust yourself and your God and you are on the right path. Don’t grave about your disappointments that you faced today, remember to make you disappointment in to your satisfactions and happiness that you deserve for tomorrow. And remember – Never become bad person because of bad people!

Be gentle with yourself, you’re doing the best you can.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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