Tag: Emotions

MOM…LOVE…

“Always wish people well. Even when you let them go. Letting go never meant loving less. It just means you have chosen to love them from afar.”

Is it okay to love someone from afar rather than sacrificing oneself and staying close to that person? It was mother’s day recently and I saw so many posts about the contribution mom makes to a child’s love, but there is another side that needs to be looked upon. People are so lucky to have a mom who truly acts like a mom and the love that the child truly needs from mom. Moms are superheroes who survive a lot to bring a child into this world, but is every mom the same for every child? Does every child receive the love that they deserve from mom? Does every mom stand like a shield for the child? The answer that I will give is that it is okay to love your mom from afar. It is okay if you choose yourself rather than the societal norms about mothers. It is different for every child and mom in terms of the love they show and receive. It is okay if your love for your mom is different from others that you see on the internet. Nobody is wrong, it is the feelings and time that make everything different. If you are loving someone from afar and that makes you happy then it is okay don’t let anyone guilt trip you anyway, you know yourself the best. You are not wrong, you are just choosing yourself over anyone and that is okay because in the end you only have you.

You are lucky if you have a mom who truly deserves the title of best mom in the world. Please give them a hug and appreciate that they have tried everything so that they can hear Happy Mother’s Day from their children. It is not easy to take care of a child and give them the love that they truly deserve and the kids love their mom 9 months more than they love anybody. So all the moms out there, I know it’s hard but you are doing amazing and I hope the sacrifice you make today for your children will be fulfilled by seeing your child grow into a good human being.

Love from afar when needed.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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12 New Chapters… 365 New Chances

And Suddenly, I Know…

It’s Time To Start Something New

And Trust The Magic Of

New Beginnings.

14th July 2021

I don’t know where to start it off but I can’t believe that one year ago on this same date on the same device a girl was sitting and writing something random to make the world aware of her existence. The girl just started because she never believed that she had a talent in her, but decided to trust her instinct and go for it. She just believed that if she didn’t take a risk then there was nothing she could do. So she took the first step and the changes she learned, the confidence she gained, the emotions she felt, knowing how to overcome the hurdles and among them the most important lesson she learned to love and appreciate herself. And now I can proudly say I am Her and She is Me.

When I started I didn’t know that there were people who would land on my page and take a few minutes from their life to read my thoughts and appreciate it. I am someone who can’t express my feelings very well but all I can say is Thank You So Much for appreciating me and my work. I will always be grateful to all of you and I hope you all have the best wishes in what you are doing. A reminder if you feel that there is no one for you please remember that there is a girl in a small part of the world who appreciates you and is grateful for your existence.

THANK YOU, YOU ARE AMAZING AND APPRECIATED:)

….this chapter of my life is called,

“Smiling Again!”

Until We Meet Again,

– Signing off

~ MA

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It’s Okay To Not Be Okay!

Sending love and well wishes to everyone, but especially to the people who feel like they don’t deserve it or they haven’t earned it. You are appreciated, loved, needed, and the world is better for having you in it.

It is officially the last day of 2021 and I don’t know how I am feeling about it. Honestly from the past two years a lot of things happened in my life, some were good and some were not so good. But all those moments taught me a lot of things, a lot of lessons and those learning I can’t ever forget or better way to say I don’t want to forget. I never knew that a person can go through so many emotions at once but it is just a matter of time that passes but leaves a big impact on me. Sometimes you learn a hard way and believe me it shows a whole different world to you. The biggest learning I learned by myself was – “It’s okay to not be okay!” We all are so busy making ourselves perfect that the real us just hide behind and that makes a person to commit mistakes. Every year we learn, relearn, unlearn so many things as we grow up. Every year the aspects of learning go the same and it should be in the upcoming time. I want people to understand that it is okay if something does not go as you expected it is not the end of the world. Remember if one door is closed another one is ready to be open but only with patience. It is okay to make mistakes, it is okay to be demotivated, it is okay to be a failure sometimes because these things only take you where you want to be. Normalize the failure, the unhappy days, the imperfect you, the hardships, the judgements. Focus on only you and you because you are the owner of your life and you have seen what you were and now where you are. Be proud of where you have come, be proud of yourself, give yourself the credit of fighting through the times and ahead, never stop being proud of yourself as it is okay to not be okay!

I hope the time ahead goes the way you want it, become a better version of yourself, live life the way you want. Never stop believing in yourself and never stop being an imperfect but real you! Live Life To The Fullest:)

Be proud of how far you’ve come even if it’s not where you thought you would be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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EMOTIONS:)

‘Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow anything outside of you to control your emotions.’

EMOTIONS are pretty hard to control when you don’t know how and what emotions to show either than being angry, happy, and sad. Specially someone who has a sarcasm filled in there body from head to toe. A escape with all the funny and sarcasm filled talks just so they can escape it for a second maybe. We all are surrounded with a lot of peoples and their emotions that are attached to them as well as ‘us’. Emotions are pretty much our slaves that I would like to say because if we want to control them we can it’s quite a tough job though to control the emotions in us. Honestly emotions for me are the inner feelings of a person because they are something I would like to name wordless feelings of a person, who just want somebody to understand him/her by not uttering a word. I feel like emotions just come out when you are with a right person, when you are okay to show your vulnerable side to them. Emotions does not means the feeling of sadness, crying all those sad kind of feelings but emotions of strong, of dedications, of kindness all these emotions which makes us a better and a stronger person. Emotions, believe me is a spirit to do better next time, the spirit when you fail ,you will feel the emotions of anger, the frustration of emotions mixing together it’s just a sign that a small little failure does not stop you from getting the success you deserve. Emotions are hard to explain but not to understand by a right person who can see through you fake laughs! Its okay to be the person who just let the emotions out it’s totally okay, we are humans who always learn from lesson of our life’s and definitely learning is always a button in our life which we can press without any charges and time limit. Just be a human that knows what is good for them and what is not; never just be so much emotionally attached to anything that in the end which damage you. Be a happy emotional person that you love. Always remember showing emotions does not mean you are weak it just means you are being yourself, you are good enough, you are STRONGER!

‘You become very dangerous when you learn to control you emotions!’

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Feelings!

“You keep a lot to yourself because it’s difficult to find people who understand.”

What describes you as a HUMAN BEING?! Having feelings to express, well some people don’t like to express their feelings. Does that mean they are not human beings, than what they are a ALIEN like ME:) Everybody in this world is living to care for the feelings others have. But what about the feeling you have? Who is going to care for it? If you care for somebody you are good enough, if not than you are not a human being because you have no feelings to care about others. If you are still there, than let me tell you that the world and the world people’s have already pass the phase of not caring about others and their opinions, those ‘others’ who just want to make everyone believe that they are only ‘right’. If you want to live in this generation you have to let go of the ‘irrational feelings’ you have in you to survive in this world. When you grow up, reached your teenage period the feelings you used to show to the people will become opaque. Everything should have a certain limit, if you let people in your life limitless they don’t just come alone but with thousands of feelings which you are attached to. Attachment is a punishment of a crime you never committed. Having feelings make you ‘human being’ and not having feelings make you ‘robot’!? Overpowering the feeling of hate with love, overpowering the feeling of vengeance with forgiveness, overpowering the feeling of complain with gratefulness, overpowering the feeling of failure with proud, this will make only YOU the person you ever wanted to be. Learn to control your feelings whatever it is maybe of disappoint, guilt, revenge it just in the heat of moment relax your mind, look in the depth of your feelings that is what YOU actually want! When you reach a certain point of your life you realize that some feelings should be kept to ourselves before it becomes a joke. When you learn to control your feelings the way you want is a step ahead in your life. Make yourself the priority and keep your feeling in the cage don’t let them free like a bird otherwise it will be hard to bring them back. Just hold on in there, everything is going to be okay! Just don’t give people the right to walk over your feelings like it mean nothing.

“Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind!”

DODINSKY.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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