expectations – A girl who likes to write

you don’t have time to live someone else’s dream, you only have enough time to live your own dreams.

The last blog post I posted was the review of ‘Love Next Door’ K-drama and when I wrote the review the only thing that kept running through my mind was how the female lead never had a dream because she never thought what she liked she just knew she has to top the school and secure a very good job to make her parents proud. And when a question was raised about her dream when she was in school she did not have any answer and that was astonishing to think about. Having a dream or not both is okay but living off on another person’s dream, on another person’s expectations and on another person’s will is something we never understand until we realize that the pin has reached its limit and is now poking you every now and then. Everyone should have the right to think about what they want. In school, it is not known to us how adulthood is and we are ready to live off our parents’ dream of us becoming what they want. But I have seen that the fuel of it doesn’t last a long run and with that, all fears of breaking our parent’s expectations, starting new, and finding out what we like, get a lot real. I fear that when someone in the future will ask me what my dream was, how I am going to answer them, and if I am happy with what I am doing right now. I don’t know what I will answer to them because in school you don’t realize the importance of what a dream is. You don’t realize that living off another person’s dream will make you so exhausted and fill you with a lot of fears about upsetting people around you. I just want to let you know that the dream and the life you are living should only be worthy of you, you should only be afraid of upsetting yourself, and you should have your own expectations of yourself, and it’s your life. At the end of the day, you will realize that no matter how much you do people are still going to be upset with you so live the life the way you want. Start fresh and I know it is frightening but what makes you happy is worth everything.

Life is too short to be working on someone else’s dream.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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One of the greatest tragedies in life is to lose your own sense of self and accept the version of you that is expected by everyone else!

Expectations always hurt because it’s a result we expect from others. We always thinks about what will be the reaction of others, will I be able to reach up their expectations or again I will disappoint them. This is the common feelings going through your mind, but amidst the chaos YOU have lost yourself by thinking and reaching the expectations of OTHERS. What about you? What are your feelings? How much you will do to satisfy others, until and unless it will not satisfy you it is all in vain. We are so use to put everyone ahead of us that it never crosses our mind that we are lost somewhere, to make someone happy, to reach others expectations, to satisfy them. But between this entire things where are YOU, what are your expectations? Are you satisfied? Are you happy? This all things are forgotten when you forget yourself to make everyone happy. Well it sounds very crude that making others happy is bizarre right? No! The life lesson I have learned is that you can’t make others happy, satisfied if you are not feeling it. If you are not happy, you can’t make someone happy. It’s like living without your soul! In this world you are not here to make everyone’s life, you are here to make YOURS life. Keeping expectations from others will destroy you, but keep expectations from YOURSELF will BUILD you. Be yourself; choose yourself that how you are going to make you as well as your love one’s happy. You are a free bird which is not meant to keep in the cage full of expectations, opinions, and talks from others. Fly like you own your life, you own your expectations, you own yourself! It’s a free world; nobody is going to put interest on you, interest come when you own something to somebody. You give the power to others to choose for you, but why can’t you give yourself the power to choose YOU?! When you reach your own expectation, the one you made on yourself the feeling you will feel will be like you are on the top of the world, telling it by experience. Break you own record rather than focusing on others it will be more feelingly than everything else in the world. The pitiful feeling when you are losing yourself in the expectations of others. Don’t expect much, don’t give much and there’s were you know you are doing perfect.

Life is not about Expecting, Hoping and Wishing;
It’s about Doing, Being and Becoming.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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living someone else’s dream.

Expectations!