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Feelings Nowadays…

And then suddenly I cared even less.

I was thinking is it good right that we stopped caring, we don’t feel anything, we are in a neutral mood, and we do not fear anything, what happens happens? But at the same time, another thought went through me: why is it bad to be caring, why is it bad to feel anything? Why did we stop caring because we went through something right? Because our voices are never listened to, before we stopped caring, something happened, something we went through that made us feel like this. We are humans and are bound to have feelings; there is nothing wrong with that. It is just up to us how to make ourselves strong and keep our feelings in check but that does not mean we are emotionless. I think the world has misunderstood the concept of keeping our feelings in check and on the other hand thinking it is good to have I don’t care aura. If a person is good at taking feelings that does not mean it will not hurt him/her.

And when things start to get better, you finally start to sort out your feelings that sudden realisation, that what if all those things happened again when you start caring and you see yourself at the same spot what if you are back at the square? And after a while, it feels good when you stop caring because nothing matters right? With less intervention, people just leave you alone and you are emotionless. But what about the inside war you are battling to be honest you also know that you have to do it alone anyway but it hurts more when it actually starts to feel like alone amidst people. And then they ask you why you changed, and what happened as if they are not the reason behind all of this.

And you know what sucks more that nothing can bring you enjoyment like after eating your favourite food, reading your favourite book, or watching your comfort show nothing brings you excitement it’s like you just feel nothing like you used to and now nothing can bring you happiness.

This blog post is very raw. I wrote this in pieces whenever I felt like my feelings needed to be poured out and now when I read this I can see that it’s better to stop caring…

And then one day with no explanation, she just didn’t care anymore.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Anniversary Post – Three Years of Blogging!

Happy Blog-i-versary to me!!!

Let us live like flowers

wild and beautiful

and drenched in sun

14th July 2024

When people say time flies by when you are having fun, it is so true but I also believe those times have speed breakers in between to slow down and truly make you feel those moments. And I also think those speed breakers are to slow down the vehicle and fasten the belt for ahead rocky roads. The above sentences are what three years of blogging looked like for me. I saw myself grow so much, I saw myself become so proactive, I saw myself become a better person, I saw myself become proud of myself, and I saw changes in myself that I wouldn’t have if I hadn’t started blogging. You know how sometimes you are asked to do something and are afraid because you might not know how but you just do it and wonder how. This is what blogging did to me. I became so confident, actually talk confidently, put my points out there, and think differently which I would never be able to do without blogging.

Having a place where I can pour out my feelings is a big privilege that I will forever be grateful for. I don’t know what the future holds for me and how many anniversary blog posts I am going to write. I don’t know what next year will bring but till now what blogging has done for me and the lessons it taught I will never forget and will forever be thinking about it.

Thank you to all of you. Without you all I wouldn’t be here. I am not good at expressing my feelings but I will try to open up more. I hope my blogging post brings some relief and happiness to you, I hope that this a girl who likes to write becomes a place where you can just lend on and read a post and find yourself within it. Remember this girl right here appreciates all of your efforts and will forever be grateful for your existence. Thank you so much.

Following are my past anniversary posts just in case you want to check it out. Click here.

I also read my first blog post to see how far I have come.

Life has no script. Live it.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Why are unfinished stories more beautiful?!

Love is like war…easy to start, difficult to finish and impossible to forget.

As I have already said, I am not a huge romantic type of a person so feelings naturally do not come to me. However, some days ago I watched a 17-minute short film where the love story remains unfinished and let me tell you I bawled my eyes out and then decided to write this post. It’s a controversial opinion but for me, the ending does not matter if the plot serves its purpose perfectly. The short film included two people who love each other yet can’t be with each other and never confess and trust me that kind of love definitely hurts the most. Love has many parts; one part makes us feel like we are on cloud nine. However, the biggest part about loving is being each other’s strength and facing challenges together. If I read a book or watch a drama I love to see the bonding and how the couple love each other despite the ending. Nobody can change the ending but that does not mean the story can’t be beautiful. Unfinished stories hurt the most, but those stories are like masterpieces about what a love went through to not have a happy ending. I think it’s common that we hear about ancient stories where it is always talked about how two souls have done so much for each other but fate plays its dice and not let the two soul mates be with each other. These are the stories that are more heard and more loved. Because it has such a beautiful depth that brings tears in the eyes and goosebumps on the body. And it is said truly that true love stories never have ended it is loved by everyone and heard by everyone. Unfinished stories set an example of how difficult love is and it is not about the physical but the soul that resides in it. I know it hurts to just think that two people who love each other are not destined to be with each other, nothing can bend fate but that does not mean that unfinished love is not beautiful. Trust me unfinished stories are so mesmerising that you just want to wrap your hand around them and ask how two people can love each other so much that they are ready to sacrifice. Ending this by writing that unfinished stories are the only thing people can find beautiful and heart-wrenching.

They call it a mystery. I call it love. In both cases, the story remains unsolved and incomplete…

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Feelings!

It’s all in the PAST now, let it pass.

It’s okay! We all have changes like these.

Let’s just focus on the FUTURE! Okay?

What can you describe as feelings in terms of a verb? There is a total of 26 alphabets that one can use to express feelings but they are not enough because feelings go beyond words. What you really feel only you can understand even if you have people who are very close to you too if you can’t understand yourself never expect others to do so. I have always believed in your supremacy as your biggest cheerleader because you know yourself best andshould only think about yourself and become your best version. The biggest lesson I have learned while accepting my own feelings, and emotions is that no part of you is worthless, there is nothing wrong with you, you have talent as well, maybe different from others and that is what makes you unique. How will you understand yourself if you can’t accept your flaws? I have learned that it is okay to feel uneasy, weak, and tired because you are a human, and it’s totally okay to feel like that sometimes believe me when I say negative powers have magic in them that motivates you to work harder just like after storm there is a rainbow waiting to shine on the people. Always learn to accept your feelings and you have every right to feel the way you want about any situation, just don’t let your feelings control your mind. You know sometimes it hurts the most that you are giving 100% of your feelings; in return, you don’t even receive 1% of it, and letting go of that is the biggest challenge. But if you don’t feel like yourself or do not receive the love you deserve, let go of that thing, and people because you deserve so much better than you think.

“We’re really strong let’s believe in ourselves.”

There is another of my post on feelings, if you want you can check that out as well:)

Keep Smiling, you are loved:) ~ MA

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EMOTIONS:)

‘Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow anything outside of you to control your emotions.’

EMOTIONS are pretty hard to control when you don’t know how and what emotions to show either than being angry, happy, and sad. Specially someone who has a sarcasm filled in there body from head to toe. A escape with all the funny and sarcasm filled talks just so they can escape it for a second maybe. We all are surrounded with a lot of peoples and their emotions that are attached to them as well as ‘us’. Emotions are pretty much our slaves that I would like to say because if we want to control them we can it’s quite a tough job though to control the emotions in us. Honestly emotions for me are the inner feelings of a person because they are something I would like to name wordless feelings of a person, who just want somebody to understand him/her by not uttering a word. I feel like emotions just come out when you are with a right person, when you are okay to show your vulnerable side to them. Emotions does not means the feeling of sadness, crying all those sad kind of feelings but emotions of strong, of dedications, of kindness all these emotions which makes us a better and a stronger person. Emotions, believe me is a spirit to do better next time, the spirit when you fail ,you will feel the emotions of anger, the frustration of emotions mixing together it’s just a sign that a small little failure does not stop you from getting the success you deserve. Emotions are hard to explain but not to understand by a right person who can see through you fake laughs! Its okay to be the person who just let the emotions out it’s totally okay, we are humans who always learn from lesson of our life’s and definitely learning is always a button in our life which we can press without any charges and time limit. Just be a human that knows what is good for them and what is not; never just be so much emotionally attached to anything that in the end which damage you. Be a happy emotional person that you love. Always remember showing emotions does not mean you are weak it just means you are being yourself, you are good enough, you are STRONGER!

‘You become very dangerous when you learn to control you emotions!’

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Feelings!

“You keep a lot to yourself because it’s difficult to find people who understand.”

What describes you as a HUMAN BEING?! Having feelings to express, well some people don’t like to express their feelings. Does that mean they are not human beings, than what they are a ALIEN like ME:) Everybody in this world is living to care for the feelings others have. But what about the feeling you have? Who is going to care for it? If you care for somebody you are good enough, if not than you are not a human being because you have no feelings to care about others. If you are still there, than let me tell you that the world and the world people’s have already pass the phase of not caring about others and their opinions, those ‘others’ who just want to make everyone believe that they are only ‘right’. If you want to live in this generation you have to let go of the ‘irrational feelings’ you have in you to survive in this world. When you grow up, reached your teenage period the feelings you used to show to the people will become opaque. Everything should have a certain limit, if you let people in your life limitless they don’t just come alone but with thousands of feelings which you are attached to. Attachment is a punishment of a crime you never committed. Having feelings make you ‘human being’ and not having feelings make you ‘robot’!? Overpowering the feeling of hate with love, overpowering the feeling of vengeance with forgiveness, overpowering the feeling of complain with gratefulness, overpowering the feeling of failure with proud, this will make only YOU the person you ever wanted to be. Learn to control your feelings whatever it is maybe of disappoint, guilt, revenge it just in the heat of moment relax your mind, look in the depth of your feelings that is what YOU actually want! When you reach a certain point of your life you realize that some feelings should be kept to ourselves before it becomes a joke. When you learn to control your feelings the way you want is a step ahead in your life. Make yourself the priority and keep your feeling in the cage don’t let them free like a bird otherwise it will be hard to bring them back. Just hold on in there, everything is going to be okay! Just don’t give people the right to walk over your feelings like it mean nothing.

“Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind!”

DODINSKY.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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