independent – A girl who likes to write

Not everything that weighs you down is yours to carry.

Why does every responsibility need to be a burden? As we learn to take responsibility, why does it keep increasing slowly, and why does every person need to make us aware of how little we are doing? Why can’t anyone see how hard we are trying every single day, every single minute? The burden becomes so much that we don’t even realise when we stop laughing, zoning out in the crowd and stop doing what we really love. Then I ask myself the question, who is going to save me? And the instant answer that I get is myself. My courage and my abilities to know my capabilities. As an adult, I know that I should keep myself as the biggest priority, and I should take care of myself. The day we start thinking for ourselves and saying no, which is necessary, everything will change, but for ourselves, everything will get better. What we like, what we love to do, what we want to be in the future, all of these questions are answered by ourselves only. There is no one to share the burden, and I don’t think we need anyone. It’s life, it is going to be full of responsibilities; however, when it starts to suffocate you, it’s time to take action and think for yourself. Keeping boundaries while choosing yourself is very important and healthy. I feel like the world doesn’t allow a person to live their life but to care for others, but that’s not right. Aren’t we supposed to live the life that is given to us? So just focus on yourself and don’t let the responsibilities of others ruin your life. Speak up for yourself and do it because you want it, not because others expect from you. Others will go; they will live their life while putting responsibility on you. But you have to speak up for yourself, don’t allow others to control your life. You live once, so live it to the fullest.

Lay your burden down.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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“You’re gonna be happy,” – said life,
“But first I’ll make you STRONG.”

The other day certain memories of my childhood came into my mind, how that was the time when I was so dependent on my parents and can’t do various things and now as I am a legal adult everything is so different. A lot of people think at 17 years old that yes they are going to turn 18 years old but for me, at the age of 17, I somehow was an 18-year-old self where I noticed many things and everything started to make sense. That was my age when I became an independent self and I learned other than money various things make a person independent. Let’s start with shopping not basic shopping but grocery shopping and let me tell you it’s the toughest when you are without your parents and have no idea what rate is what thing.

Being independent is so important in today’s generation, when we talk about independence it starts with financial terms, how much one earns in one month it’s their money that they earned with their hard work, their skills and everyone should be proud of it. You know you are financially independent when you spend your money in whatever way you want and nobody asks you where it all went, wait actually nobody should have the right to do so. Other than finance, making decisions, supporting loved ones, and doing what one loves but it comes with a price, a price of responsibility that makes the biggest difference in one’s life. So for me, it’s how you manage to settle things perfectly, to get the solution for the problem, calming down the last minute problems is something I believe in being independent.

“Money doesn’t buy you happiness but it buys you freedom.” – MA.

I aspire to be a woman with
financial freedom
crazy dreams
loyal friends
jerk cats
the privilege to help others

Until we meet again,

-Signing off

~MA

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