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Insecurities…

“I found I was more confident when I stopped trying to be someone else’s definition of beautiful and started being my own.”

Remington Miller.

The biggest drawback as a human being is having to deal with insecurities about oneself that others make you realize. Not going to lie that I never feel insecure about myself. Growing up I got pimples on my face at a pretty young age but at that, I never felt that insecure about myself and by the grace of God, no one ever teases me about it. But now in the stage of adulthood my pimples are somewhat gone but the marks that it has left behind me are now stirring up my insecurities, why don’t I have a clear face, why do I have pimples and a lot of them? And to be honest that’s totally okay having questions because I am a human and it’s my nature but getting over it is what I am learning about. In school I was a good student I guess got good marks and that’s all. I was afraid to stand up on the stage and present things, I was afraid to even say the right answer, and I was not good at drawing and any kind of competition while my friends were. Now that I am writing this, I feel so proud of myself that how far I have come. Since then till today I have changed a lot back then those things matter to me even in family gatherings I was an outcast because I can’t make conversation and talk freely to people I meet once a year…while people around me can. But you all want to know what has changed today, I have gotten a lot of confidence in going on the stage even though I stutter and maybe messed it up, but I don’t feel bad about it anymore. I don’t feel bad for not getting mixed up in the conversation because I have realized my own personality and I don’t want to change anything about it. I have learned the introvert and extrovert personalities, which has made me realize who and what I am today. I have also been taken for granted as I was never great at anything and now I want to prove myself by doing better and better at what I am.

I am so proud of myself that despite my insecurities not only mentally but physically I have reached a point where I started to appreciate myself and be thankful for overcoming the problems on my own. I have learned to never compare myself to others as they can’t be me and vice versa. I know ahead of time that when I am going to feel low about myself what I need to do it, I have figured that out almost, and honestly, I would like to tell you that as well YOU ARE GORGEOUS, I REPEAT and you are enough and perfect for yourself. Insecurities are something that can’t go away, you just need to accept and love them so that others will also appreciate you as you do them.

“You are so used to your features, you don’t know how beautiful you look to a stranger.”

Keep Smiling, You’re Loved:) ~ MA

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Feelings!

It’s all in the PAST now, let it pass.

It’s okay! We all have changes like these.

Let’s just focus on the FUTURE! Okay?

What can you describe as feelings in terms of a verb? There is a total of 26 alphabets that one can use to express feelings but they are not enough because feelings go beyond words. What you really feel only you can understand even if you have people who are very close to you too if you can’t understand yourself never expect others to do so. I have always believed in your supremacy as your biggest cheerleader because you know yourself best andshould only think about yourself and become your best version. The biggest lesson I have learned while accepting my own feelings, and emotions is that no part of you is worthless, there is nothing wrong with you, you have talent as well, maybe different from others and that is what makes you unique. How will you understand yourself if you can’t accept your flaws? I have learned that it is okay to feel uneasy, weak, and tired because you are a human, and it’s totally okay to feel like that sometimes believe me when I say negative powers have magic in them that motivates you to work harder just like after storm there is a rainbow waiting to shine on the people. Always learn to accept your feelings and you have every right to feel the way you want about any situation, just don’t let your feelings control your mind. You know sometimes it hurts the most that you are giving 100% of your feelings; in return, you don’t even receive 1% of it, and letting go of that is the biggest challenge. But if you don’t feel like yourself or do not receive the love you deserve, let go of that thing, and people because you deserve so much better than you think.

“We’re really strong let’s believe in ourselves.”

There is another of my post on feelings, if you want you can check that out as well:)

Keep Smiling, you are loved:) ~ MA

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A Life Reality.

Remember that when things don’t go according to plan, they go according to truth. No matter how painful the reality, it is reality nonetheless. There is dignity in facing the truth without trying to cut it down to a manageable size. There is honor in acceptance.

Vironika Tugaleva’s, The Art of Talking to Yourself.

To reach somewhere you have to go through a lot of things like if you want to earn a good income or work in a good company, you have to have good marks in school. To be honest it is just a life cycle that used to work in our parent’s generation yet everything changed from that time till today except the mentality of getting good marks can’t seem to be on the list anywhere. For decades we have heard if you are good in studies then you are an all-rounder and good in everything and not so good news it’s still going on the tradition of everything based on good marks. Don’t get me wrong, studies are important and one should definitely lift up to their expectations and not others. What I am saying is that I have always believed that learning never stops and beyond the four walls of the classroom is the real learning that not many make us understand in our school years. Nobody will ask you what your talents are and how good you are in various things, your grades matter the most and honestly, it’s a living reality that everyone has to somehow face. To be able to identify the talent one has is not a quality many people possess. Will just say work hard, have patience, do things that make you at ease and most importantly be happy because you deserve it.

This is just a mere thought of mine that I wrote in the free lecture and that’s why it’s based on one of many thousands of life realities;) I hope you enjoyed this random post that somewhere is everyone’s life reality including mine. But I have learned that – “don’t compare yourself to others because they will never have the thing that makes you different and that thing is being you.”

Keep Smiling, you are loved:) ~ MA

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Don’t Be Beautiful!

Be addicted to bettering yourself.

If you are beautiful you have everything, the fact that if someone is good-looking they are highlighted for everything even in things where someone else can fit perfectly. Don’t get me wrong about saying that beautiful people are bad, this is not what I am saying. Firstly I don’t even understand what and how to describe beautiful people, maybe by physical features like eyes, nose, and mouth which everybody has. I don’t know about you all but for me, the most attractive feature about others is a sense of humor, attitude and all-over personality.

I believe that how you carry yourself, how you describe yourself, and how you use your sense of humor should be attractive. If you love yourself, if you love all your flaws, if you accept yourself the way you are then that is what is beautiful. Nobody in this world came to be beautiful but be however you want, be powerful, be silly, be dramatic, be intelligent, be real, and most importantly be you. Everyone in this world is beautiful but not with how they look but with all shades of dramatic of them being themselves. It’s very hard to accept yourself and I know that very well but there is nothing about you that is not worthy of not loving let me tell you this don’t be beautiful but be powerful to love yourself.

“They keep saying that beautiful is something a girl needs to be. But honestly? Forget that. Don’t be beautiful. Be angry, be intelligent, be witty, be klutzy, be interesting, be funny, be adventurous, be crazy, be talented – there are an eternity of other things to be other than beautiful. And what is beautiful anyway but a set of letters strung together to make a word? Be your own definition of amazing, always. That is so much more important than anything beautiful, ever.”

Nikita Gill.

Until we meet again,

-Signing off

~MA

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12 New Chapters… 365 New Chances

And Suddenly, I Know…

It’s Time To Start Something New

And Trust The Magic Of

New Beginnings.

14th July 2021

I don’t know where to start it off but I can’t believe that one year ago on this same date on the same device a girl was sitting and writing something random to make the world aware of her existence. The girl just started because she never believed that she had a talent in her, but decided to trust her instinct and go for it. She just believed that if she didn’t take a risk then there was nothing she could do. So she took the first step and the changes she learned, the confidence she gained, the emotions she felt, knowing how to overcome the hurdles and among them the most important lesson she learned to love and appreciate herself. And now I can proudly say I am Her and She is Me.

When I started I didn’t know that there were people who would land on my page and take a few minutes from their life to read my thoughts and appreciate it. I am someone who can’t express my feelings very well but all I can say is Thank You So Much for appreciating me and my work. I will always be grateful to all of you and I hope you all have the best wishes in what you are doing. A reminder if you feel that there is no one for you please remember that there is a girl in a small part of the world who appreciates you and is grateful for your existence.

THANK YOU, YOU ARE AMAZING AND APPRECIATED:)

….this chapter of my life is called,

“Smiling Again!”

Until We Meet Again,

– Signing off

~ MA

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Work In Progress.

“No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.” Tony Robbins.

Tony Robbins.

When it is said that the journey is more memorable than the destination I somehow believe in that. Because it takes a lot of time and effort to reach somewhere we dreamed and desired. In life, we don’t know what will happen next in the process of living but we do know that in the end there will be death waiting for us. Just like life, we know our destination but the process of reaching the place will have so many hurdles among them that we never know and this is what I named the Beauty and the Beast. Because according to the first reason that I learned while finding my destination was that to have a positive impact there will be a lot of negativity you have to go through. To find the happiness you need to go through the pain and the reason behind is that what pain, and misery can teach you, happiness can’t. Happiness will make your heart full but the pain will make your heart strong, yourself strong. And to live up to the life you want, the heart and mind need to be strong and brave enough to not let your destination of yours fade away. Time is very important and if you learn the importance of time the word patience will be your reason to enjoy the journey you need for yourself. Because patience is the key to everything, nothing happens overnight and if it does if not you. To enjoy the destination to the fullest you need to experience your journey in every form of emotions and feelings. Take your time and enjoy the learning it taught you in your journey because in the end life is a Work in Progress.

This time, love the Work in Progress

that is you.

Until We Meet Again,

– Singing off

~ MA

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A Piece Of Random!

“Character is how you treat those that can do nothing for you.”

Nelson Mandela.

The world we live in is like one big box which looks small from afar but when you look at it from close it’s like finding a piece of sugar from a bag of salt. You may think about what kind of comparison I just wrote but in a true sense, it makes the most sense. There are billions of people residing on the same planet as you but yet so different but somehow similar. Honestly, I can never understand the game of fate, the destiny like two people living in different corners of the world who know nothing about each other can meet randomly and become best friends or even worse enemies;)

From afar everything looks good but as you get closer the clarity and the flaws start to make an appearance that is binding by the distance. The world becomes hasher when everything starts to make sense, the innocence that one has in their childhood period left without one knowing when and why. When people say childhood is the best time in the life of a child, I believe never more true words have ever been spoken. I mean it’s time that can’t be controlled just like your desire to have the best for you. Just like everyone wants happiness, peace, and prosperity in their life, I feel like pain, suffering, and misery is the part that makes all of these things possible.

Because after every storm comes a rainbow.

An apple a day keeps anyone away if you throw it hard enough;)

Until We Meet Again,

– Signing off

~ MA

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Hatred!

“Hatred is like a long, dark shadow….

It is like a two-edged sword. When you cut the other person, you cut yourself.”

Haruki Murakami. (The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle.)

What does hatred mean to you? Does it mean doing the same thing they did to you or does it mean forgiving is an easy punishment for them? I feel like hating and disliking are the most different words that do not come near each other in terms of anything. The rage of doing exactly the same with others when they are in pain of what they do to you can’t be controlled easily. In this world, everyone is going through some or other things right now and to cope with that as well as people isn’t easy. You know hatred for someone not only causes them problems but as well as you. The very famous saying is that ‘to deal with hatred is by love, by goodness’, and to be honest I somewhere believe it. Obviously, there are people whom I don’t like and vice versa and it’s completely normal. Personality clashes, strong opinions, and not mutual understanding can be the reasons for not being comfortable with each other. But it does not mean spreading hate about each other, bringing them down will do anything. Instead, why not work on ourselves, why not work to prove all of them wrong by working hard every day. Because of how much of a good person you are, the people who are blind by jealousy, and hatred will never see them. So work on yourself, for yourself because you are not worthy of any hatred!

Ignore the drama.

Ignore the hatred.

Ignore the pain.

Find peace.

Find Happiness.

Find yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Self-Consciousness!

The level of your consciousness depends on the calmness of your mind.

Nitin Namdeo.

I got a lot of questions about how to deal with self-consciousness? What exactly does it mean? Is it bad to feel self-conscious? So I thought to write about it because it is an important part of overcoming a lot of things about themselves. Honestly, the talks about all of these things are just talks, they mean nothing let me start from that. First of all, nobody has any right to say or point out people’s flaws, it should be illegal. We don’t know a small point out about someone’s weight can do a lot of bad things to that person, it can trigger their mind. We never know the power of words until they become a reality. Self-consciousness is a pretty normal thing, it’s not only about looks but there are so many things that people feel they are not good at. From giving a speech to asking for a water bottle, it’s just in our minds. All the feelings you feel are because you allow that, nobody can make you feel anything but only you can. Before doing anything, take a deep breath, remind yourself – you are the best, you can do it and just go for it. Believe me, you will feel better because you trust yourself, you did what others told you can’t and that’s how you deal with self-consciousness. If you have a hard time doing something remember nobody is perfect and it takes a lot of practice, belief and you have already reached half of your goal. Trust yourself rather than others, you make you, you deal with your self-consciousness nobody else can do it. A reminder that you should also give yourself every day – nobody can be you and that’s your power. You are beautiful, you are powerful and you are loved:)

To change the way you feel.

Change the way you think.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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It’s Okay To Not Be Okay!

Sending love and well wishes to everyone, but especially to the people who feel like they don’t deserve it or they haven’t earned it. You are appreciated, loved, needed, and the world is better for having you in it.

It is officially the last day of 2021 and I don’t know how I am feeling about it. Honestly from the past two years a lot of things happened in my life, some were good and some were not so good. But all those moments taught me a lot of things, a lot of lessons and those learning I can’t ever forget or better way to say I don’t want to forget. I never knew that a person can go through so many emotions at once but it is just a matter of time that passes but leaves a big impact on me. Sometimes you learn a hard way and believe me it shows a whole different world to you. The biggest learning I learned by myself was – “It’s okay to not be okay!” We all are so busy making ourselves perfect that the real us just hide behind and that makes a person to commit mistakes. Every year we learn, relearn, unlearn so many things as we grow up. Every year the aspects of learning go the same and it should be in the upcoming time. I want people to understand that it is okay if something does not go as you expected it is not the end of the world. Remember if one door is closed another one is ready to be open but only with patience. It is okay to make mistakes, it is okay to be demotivated, it is okay to be a failure sometimes because these things only take you where you want to be. Normalize the failure, the unhappy days, the imperfect you, the hardships, the judgements. Focus on only you and you because you are the owner of your life and you have seen what you were and now where you are. Be proud of where you have come, be proud of yourself, give yourself the credit of fighting through the times and ahead, never stop being proud of yourself as it is okay to not be okay!

I hope the time ahead goes the way you want it, become a better version of yourself, live life the way you want. Never stop believing in yourself and never stop being an imperfect but real you! Live Life To The Fullest:)

Be proud of how far you’ve come even if it’s not where you thought you would be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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