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It’s Okay To Not Be Okay!

Sending love and well wishes to everyone, but especially to the people who feel like they don’t deserve it or they haven’t earned it. You are appreciated, loved, needed, and the world is better for having you in it.

It is officially the last day of 2021 and I don’t know how I am feeling about it. Honestly from the past two years a lot of things happened in my life, some were good and some were not so good. But all those moments taught me a lot of things, a lot of lessons and those learning I can’t ever forget or better way to say I don’t want to forget. I never knew that a person can go through so many emotions at once but it is just a matter of time that passes but leaves a big impact on me. Sometimes you learn a hard way and believe me it shows a whole different world to you. The biggest learning I learned by myself was – “It’s okay to not be okay!” We all are so busy making ourselves perfect that the real us just hide behind and that makes a person to commit mistakes. Every year we learn, relearn, unlearn so many things as we grow up. Every year the aspects of learning go the same and it should be in the upcoming time. I want people to understand that it is okay if something does not go as you expected it is not the end of the world. Remember if one door is closed another one is ready to be open but only with patience. It is okay to make mistakes, it is okay to be demotivated, it is okay to be a failure sometimes because these things only take you where you want to be. Normalize the failure, the unhappy days, the imperfect you, the hardships, the judgements. Focus on only you and you because you are the owner of your life and you have seen what you were and now where you are. Be proud of where you have come, be proud of yourself, give yourself the credit of fighting through the times and ahead, never stop being proud of yourself as it is okay to not be okay!

I hope the time ahead goes the way you want it, become a better version of yourself, live life the way you want. Never stop believing in yourself and never stop being an imperfect but real you! Live Life To The Fullest:)

Be proud of how far you’ve come even if it’s not where you thought you would be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life Cycle!

Self care isn’t just drinking water and going to sleep early. Self care is taking a break when things become overwhelming, saying no to things you do not want to do, allowing yourself to cry and doing things that makes you happy.

Eat, sleep, write and read is my life cycle. From these four I must do at least all (Haha). Some people I have seen are not present in this world mentally. They are so much involved in their work that they don’t know what is happening in the world or themselves. From past years I have learned that the best time to know yourself or to understand yourself is to spend time with yourself. Headphones on with your music playlist and a book or whatever you love as a hobby with you is what a self moment should look like. As you grow up you understand that self-time is way more important than people who keep buzzing in your ears. For me, I can’t even sit for a two hours movie because my concentration is not good. Well let’s be honest I am not a movie person, I will anytime prefer to enjoy my books. Yes! I am a nerd but not in my studies;) Most people have a to-do list, but tell me honestly how unsuccessful you have been in it. I am a person who likes to go with the flow, I don’t like to plan my future because it then gives me a headache from now. I mean it depends on the person, some are going towards their goal while others are finding happiness in their goal. Now one thing that makes me realize is that you should only do things that you love not what others are expecting from you. Because it’s your like not theirs ahead you have to face the challenges not them. An ideal life cycle should only include things that you love and things that make you feel like YOU!

It is never too late to choose yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Life to Remember!

You don’t always need a logical reason for doing everything in your life. Do it because you want to, because it’s fun, because it makes you happy.

Tell me truthfully once in your life till today you have told yourself that ‘I don’t want to live.’ If the common answer is yes then it is normal. You have heard thousands of times that ‘you only have one life so live according to it.’ Nobody knows what is going to happen in life and it’s so foreign to even think about it. Life is never easy, there is something that is always going on no matter how rich, happy you are. Problems are meant to come but smiling through them solving them is what you need to learn and you do as time passes by. The memories are something that we can cherish the most because time is not coming back so the only thing that remains with us is our memories. It can be happy, sad, painful but among them, there is always something that we learn. The decision of your life is always hard as you are not sure where to go but as you come to a point in your life where everything starts to make sense and for you, that is your turning point. The first step is always wrong so that by taking the second step you know what you are doing. Make life just like you want which I know is going to be super hard but if you have the will for achieving what you want then nobody can stop you. Keep going, you are almost there!

Don’t waste your time looking back on what you’ve lost.

Move on, for life is not meant to be traveled backwards.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Back To The Grind!

The day you plant the seed is not that day you eat the fruit.

Finally, the time came for what I wanted and also what I did not want. The back to school is the time every student desires for as well as back to vacation after attending one day of school the ranting of it starts. The new normal was becoming my headache but as everything started to get back, especially the friend meeting session for which most of us go to school is coming back and I am loving every second of it. I am in a university right now and trying to get my interest back so that I can graduate peacefully (sighing). Yes, I am a young adult! My start off was online and I hope my finish off will be offline while wearing my graduation gown and throwing my cap so that in future I can have proof that I was indeed in a university. My first day was honestly much better than what I expected, I met professors, got bored and talked a lot. I still clearly remember when I was in my last year of high school the memories I made with my lifetime friends can and never will be the same ahead in any period. I feel like whatever you are doing at what phase you are try to enjoy it to the fullest because it’s never going to come back and ahead nothing is going to be the same as it was. Learning in any step you are on, one thing is that you will be a student that means enjoy it to the fullest, have fun, talk a lot, make dozens of memories because that is what you are going to take with you. I hope you all enjoy my ranting because I wanted to share a little part of me so I decided to write about it. In any part of the world, you are I hope you are back to the grind.

I don’t want to look back and say I wish I could have done better.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Meaning To Your Life.

The meaning of life is to give life meaning.

Viktor E. Frankl

A confused soul is more dangerous than a lost soul because somewhere the lost soul will find its destination but a confused soul will walk through its destination so many times yet can’t find it. We all have been wandering on this planet for so many years yet we are still confused about what life is and why life is given to us? We all know that someday we all are going to die when an unanswered question that can never be answered. It takes a lot of time to figure out what we want from life, I am still figuring it out. Because I feel like it somehow sounds very easy to do but as it is said that “what sounds easy is as difficult to get” here the case is the same. A word that sounds hard, its meaning is easy while the word which sounds easy its meaning cannot be found exactly. It takes a lot of time to find out what you want. Finding the meaning of life is like Finding Nemo. It takes time to think, to find the meaning which reflects you in the chaotic world where everybody is running behind something every day. The real meaning of life is to find the inner yourself and to explore everywhere to see where you find your happiness. If you have no motive in your life then it is not a life but a way to just move on without any motive. Finding the meaning of your life should be your biggest motto. That meaning brings you happiness and not just for you to have something to pass. You have given life, you are still breathing, be grateful and blessed. Don’t make your day like waking up in the morning, doing the basic work, surviving and then off to bed. Try to make every day a fun day where you cherish your little moments because time will never come back and you can’t pause it. Finding the meaning of life is not easy, the destination is way far than you think, sometimes you take some journey that is not for you but it’s a sixth sense that comes to you when you know that this is not for you. Don’t stop until you find what you want, what is your desire with your life. This is your life, so live the way you want. Never stop finding the meaning of your life and that is how you are going to find the meaning of your life. Find the meaning of your life in happiness because if there is no happiness from your side in what you are doing then there is no meaning to your life.

Everything comes to you at the right time.

Be Patient.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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My Blogging Journey!

Stop being afraid of what could go wrong,

and started getting excited about what could go right.

Tony Robbins.

Tell me honestly, when you started blogging and someone asked you what you do? And your answer will be -“I do Blogging!” But there will be a majority people of who don’t know what blogging is, and then you go on explaining them. Honestly, it happened to me so many times. It’s fun to explain them but not too much! The biggest question I get is why did I start blogging? So let’s start with my blogging life or journey wherever you want to call it. Let’s start way back when I was in my childhood years. I was socially awkward but was an extrovert and had a blunt mouth (I still have*wink wink*) When I was a child, I used to think I had no talent at all because I could do nothing like painting, making crafty stuff, basically nothing good. But in my 10 grade, my professor told me –“You have so many good thoughts, just find a way to put in on the paper!” this belief and advice of him I remember so clearly because it is where I started my blogging journey and the lost confidence came knocking. You just need a little push in which you are not confident enough if it will work out or not. But if it is meant for you and is a desire of yours to have it, it will happen just open your damn eyes and ears to not miss anything;) A belief in you is the advice I followed for myself without thinking if it is going to work out or not. If your belief is as strong as the rock that is hit by the waves so many times that it does not move, it is the best way to keep yourself motivated everything will take time to be the way you want, you just need to have your faith and patience in yourself without losing it to the demons of your dreams. Take a good deep breath when you make your dream a reality. Never stop working hard if you want to be proud of yourself in the future and the journey when you look back. You are amazing and be the way you are, go ahead and do what you love:)

The best way to predict your future is to create it.

Abraham Lincoln.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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When there is a will, there is a way!

When you really want something you will find a way. When you don’t really want something, you’ll find an excuse.

Rachel Hollis.

Growing up my mother always used to tell me when there is a will, there is a way, but at that time the meaning behind those words never really made any sense to me. But as time passed I understood that every word has its meaning. We just need to find it and also those words which make you want to wake up in the morning and keep going. I understood that whatever you want in your life, you need to fight for it. Nothing is easy to get if you are a tough person with impossible dreams that people think but not you. You should know that if you want to make a life for yourself, the road to it will never be easy because if it is not then it means it’s not for you. The stubbornness you have in you will help you overcome the feeling of giving up. The harder, the want of your life the harder you will be in the end. Every day there will be problems that you need to deal with, at some point you may just want to leave everything and stop trying. But as always if you have willingness in you to fulfil your dreams, to make your dreams a reality then there will always be a way for you to reach there. You just need to have patience and faith in what you are doing and as always everything is going to work out. God is always with you, just trust him he knows what is right for you and will put you on the right path. Have the power to choose what you want, to choose what is best for you, to choose yourself. If you have the courage, the faith in yourself, the stubbornness of not giving up then you will not find the way but the way will find you. If all the doors to your life are closed and you don’t know what to do, take a deep breath and tell yourself that ‘you got this’ and the door to move ahead will be visible to you but at that time you will be stronger and ready to achieve whatever you dream of. If you feel like you need to take a break, do it without any second thought because the comeback is always stronger. Just follow the path of your dreams with patience, hard work, faith and hope and you are going to find problems but remember when there is a will, there is a way!

You spend most of your life inside your head. Make it a nice place to be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life is unpredictable.

Life is rare, life is unpredictable. Nothing last forever and people change. So live every moment to its fullest.

When we expect something from life it never happens the same way but it happens unexpectedly because life does not work according to us. We are the prey to the predators of life. When we share our problems with someone there are two replies you can get according to me the first one if the other person also starts to cry out the problems like yours and the second one if the person replies and says that – “Life is life, it can’t be controlled as it is said that life is unpredictable!” I will let you decide to choose what reply you feel is right and what will you reply if the same happened to you and what you will expect in the situation? Future is the word I feel afraid of as well as look forward to because no one in the whole world knows what will happen the next second in life, so thinking about the future is just nothing to think about. I feel like going with the flow of life is mandatory because if things are going to happen in life, nobody can stop it, you just need to deal with it and let it flow. One moment you are planning something and the other moment something unexpected happens and there goes that life is unpredictable. Fear of unexpected things can lead to the loss of beautiful things so like I said go with the flow of the cycle of happiness, than problems, than happiness and so on, it will never stop. But as always after every storm, there is a rainbow and after every sunset, there is a sunrise. Just put a smile on your face and enjoy the life that has been given to you because “You only live once!” If things are meant to happen, take them positively because I believe everything has two effects on life, positive and negative. They are bound together and you can’t separate them but learn to live with them. Learn how to control the panic in you, problems that come unexpectedly knocking on your doors because life can’t walk the way you want, you need to make it the way you want! Have a lovely day:)

We are always going to have challenges. When we make it through one, another on is going to come along. Life is unpredictable. You can’t always see what’s coming next, and you have to be okay with that. Make decisions that you think are best for you, but accept that things might not go the way you planned.

Laura Brown.

Till we again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

“Believe in Yourself. You are Braver than you think, more Talented than you know, and Capable of more than you Imagine.”

“Believe in Yourself!” was and is the mantra I use in my life, in what I am doing. When I was in school I used to think that I will do this, but there were some “well-wishers” of mine who used to say, you are not able to do it and at that time was not at all confident in me. But now years later here I am with my passion of writing that I also wanted to do since I found out that I can share my thoughts with the world. Same like me, if you want to do something but there will always be second thoughts and that is totally normal. I have learned that you just need to do it without thinking what is going to happen because if you are confident enough to know that you can do it and your believe in yourself and you are halfway there. Believe that you are going to do it, believe that there is nothing that can stop you from getting things the way you want, believing in yourself will help you gain the confidence in yourself, just go with the flow and you are on the right path. You are unstoppable when you will make the motive to lose yourself with yourself. Make challenges with yourself that you will do better than yesterday and more better tomorrow. There will be thousands of “well-wishers” of yours, who will try to let you down plenty of times; you don’t need to put yourself in that work. Prove all of them wrong because they aren’t right in the first place you are just putting them in their place. When you are stubborn with the dreams of yours, with the wants of your life than there is no single soul out there who can stop you from getting what you want. You just need to Believe in Yourself and in the end everything is going to work out.

“Self confidence is a super power. Once you starts to believe in yourself, magic starts happening.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Patience!

PATIENCE IS BITTER,

BUT IT’S FRUIT

IS SWEET.

Jean-Jacques Rousseau.

From the time I remember I have always learned from my parents that if you have patience in what you are doing you are going to definitely succeed in that despite how much impossible it looks to you. I believe that patience is the key to the doors that looks impossible to open. I just stated blogging like almost two months ago and when I was going to start it I know that it will require a lot of patience for me to reach somewhere in this massive blogging world. It is difficult let me tell you, to have patience while you are doing so much behind something but let me also remind you that overnight success can never satisfy you for a long time that a success came from the nights and days of your hard work. Things which are easy to achieve can never makes to happy or satisfied than the things which are hard but not impossible to achieve. The things which we do with patience than the things we do in hurry are two aspects that instantly shows the result of which is better. Let me give you guys an example, when we come from a large trip of grocery shopping and we are alone to bring all the groceries inside the house, so we try to carry all the bags at a one go because we don’t have much energy and patience to go again and again, we tried to but we need to go gym regularly to do such a heavy stunt by ourselves and in the end we just dropped it and now the energy and patience will be needed double the amount which we needed earlier. As always after even sunset there is a sunrise and after every storm there is a rainbow you just need to have a lot of patience to see what you really can do. Nature is the best example that I look up to. The nature goes through so much to look beautiful but after a long time of period. When you sow a seed for a fruit, it doesn’t grow in one day but it has to go through so much different situations for it to become a fruit. Just like that we need to go through so many and sudden situations which can come from anywhere you just need to be ready to tackle it gracefully, if you want to eat the fruit of the seed you sowed. Just one minute of patience can give you years of peace. Have patience and read this post with a hot cup of tea;)

“With patience, it is possible to dig a well with a teaspoon.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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