Tag: life

YOU…

“Make the little girl you used to be, proud of the women you are now!”

The world is filling with lots of people some are real some are not so real. I feel like the biggest insecurities for anybody is can any other person will like us the way we are. I want to point out that – “you are not here to impress anybody, you are here for yourself!” This belief taught me a lot of things that was missing from my life. I have learned that you can’t impress someone until you are not satisfied with it. You are the owner of your own life; you have to make your life the way you want to live your life. You are responsible for the things that happen in your life. It’s okay if you have taken a decision that maybe is not right for you, but correcting that decision is what I call a perfect way to start your life again but in a better way. Take the responsibility of yourself, shape and built yourself like a shield for you to overcome your problems. You are the only limit for yourself, nobody is going to stop your beside yourself. Work hard to make yourself proud. The feeling of making yourself proud will be a portion of your life where you know you are going perfectly on a right path. Be the writer of your own life. Play around with fonts, colours, texts give your life a summary for you to keep going better and better. YOU get to design your own life; you have to have the willingness and the drive to get out of whatever you’re going through. Sow the seeds of your life like when you are going to look back from where you have come; the smile of proud will be on your face for yourself. Never give anybody the right to hold the power of your life, nobody deserves it expect you. If your goals are bigger and you want to make yourself proud you need to look after yourself, make yourself feels like you can do want ever you want you just need to keep going. Because after everything what is going to matter is ‘YOU!’

“Cherish your visions; cherish your ideas; cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts, for out of them will grow all delightful conditions, all heavenly environment; of these, if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built.”

-By James Allen, from his book ‘As A Man Thinketh’.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Understanding.

Understanding is deeper than knowledge. There are many people who know you, but very few who understand you.

– Nicolas Cage –

The most complicated thing in this world is finding understanding between peoples or things. It’s a fact according to me that understanding between two peoples is the core of a relationship. Understanding does not come when you first time open your eyes in this world. It does not come when your fairy tooth comes out. It’s the experience of your life, from first time crying to coming in the zone of time where every little thing matters. Understanding comes when your mind starts to not only recognising the surrounding but also the peoples. Nobody will ever understand the life you want until you will try to make them understand and there are only few who will understand! It’s okay to do things which people don’t understand because there are things which you will not understand of them it’s equal. Pleasing people in 21st century is hard and time wasting because as time move forward the difference between the generations is pretty much large. What we do maybe our parents don’t understand, maybe they find it weird I mean if I will tell my grandparents about me writing blogs that is pretty easy that they will not understand because the difference and understanding is not the same. It’s not that your parents don’t understand you, it’s just that maybe they have never seen all of the things we find fun, that’s why they interfere but they will never want bad for their children’s. If I will tell that I am not so easy to understand but there are people in my life that understands me easily. Everyone in their life has someone to understand them, if you don’t have someone that does not mean you are hard to understand it just mean that you don’t need people to understand you. You yourself are enough to understand YOU! Everyone in their life has went through a phase or going, that their sense of getting something in there mind has been shut down and they are not understanding anything, they are not in the position to understand anything because some feelings or people talks have kept their mind blocked and they are losing their shit. OMG! I am literally feeling that I am scientist writing all of this, Lol! It just came in my mind and I wrote this… Some people will never understand that sitting in your damn house, alone in peace, eating snacks and minding your own freaking business is another level of understanding that people need to upgrade themselves! Well I hope you understood my random rambling that I just start writing and here we are:) Have a good day!

Don’t try to understand everything. Sometimes it is not meant to be understood, just accepted.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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EMOTIONS:)

‘Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow anything outside of you to control your emotions.’

EMOTIONS are pretty hard to control when you don’t know how and what emotions to show either than being angry, happy, and sad. Specially someone who has a sarcasm filled in there body from head to toe. A escape with all the funny and sarcasm filled talks just so they can escape it for a second maybe. We all are surrounded with a lot of peoples and their emotions that are attached to them as well as ‘us’. Emotions are pretty much our slaves that I would like to say because if we want to control them we can it’s quite a tough job though to control the emotions in us. Honestly emotions for me are the inner feelings of a person because they are something I would like to name wordless feelings of a person, who just want somebody to understand him/her by not uttering a word. I feel like emotions just come out when you are with a right person, when you are okay to show your vulnerable side to them. Emotions does not means the feeling of sadness, crying all those sad kind of feelings but emotions of strong, of dedications, of kindness all these emotions which makes us a better and a stronger person. Emotions, believe me is a spirit to do better next time, the spirit when you fail ,you will feel the emotions of anger, the frustration of emotions mixing together it’s just a sign that a small little failure does not stop you from getting the success you deserve. Emotions are hard to explain but not to understand by a right person who can see through you fake laughs! Its okay to be the person who just let the emotions out it’s totally okay, we are humans who always learn from lesson of our life’s and definitely learning is always a button in our life which we can press without any charges and time limit. Just be a human that knows what is good for them and what is not; never just be so much emotionally attached to anything that in the end which damage you. Be a happy emotional person that you love. Always remember showing emotions does not mean you are weak it just means you are being yourself, you are good enough, you are STRONGER!

‘You become very dangerous when you learn to control you emotions!’

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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BELIEVE!

Believe in

What You

Pray For!

BELIEVE! The first step towards anything you are going to do. You will not get anything until you yourself believe in it. Create magic by believing that you can do so much, that it will shock your own self. Give yourself a shock every day with your own yourself and say – ‘WOW! I can do so much, Yes you can, no doubt about that. Encourage yourself it is one of the best tools to overcome the hardships in your life. Make the magic happens just by BELIEVING IN YOURSELF! Everything in life happens for a reason maybe it can be a good reason or maybe it was for you so let go of it even though it hurts because it’s for your own good. Remember good things happen you deserve them but when something not right happens that means God had planned something better and better and more deserving for you. You are the creator of your life when you start to understand what is good and bad for you. The decision-making process is hard but not impossible. When you have the courage and stubbornness in things you want to do, then nobody can stop you from having it. Believe in yourself has been my favorite quote in the entire world because in my life I think it helped me a lot and believe me it worked pretty hard. When we want to start something the whole universe’s negative power just suddenly starts to appear from nowhere. It’s a fact people say because it’s a negative force of energy that wants you to quit that’s why hard times come when you are on the road to success. I always believe that whatever is going to happen it’s going to happen if it’s not right just remember that it was not good for you and better things are coming your way! To ignore negative power like how we ignore ‘negative peoples’, I think we are pros in that;) The mantra of ignore to all of those things which does not make any good difference in your life stay away from them and just do what feels right to your heart. Believe in yourself and create your own magic, create your own life in which you are a leader ruling your own kingdom alone!

Magic is believing in yourself. If you can do that, you can make anything happen.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Hope…

Hope is being able to see that, there is light despite all of the darkness.

Desmond Tutu.

Hope to see my slice of cake or the box of chocolates that I had hidden from my siblings to find them as I reach home. Well my talk have to be start from the topic of food because food is love! A small ray of hope will make you feel that you are on the correct path or you are going to be. Hope is the start of new things for new beginnings. A quote that has always been my favourite that – ‘after every sunset there is a sunrise!’ After every problems there has to be a solution as a hope for you to not give you. Giving up means you are losing the hope you have in yourself. Losing yourself is the biggest failure of your life. Just keeping hope means so much that still you are not letting yourself down. Despite all the hardships there is a tunnel for prosperity at the end of it. We are here to hope that the things we dreamt, we are closed to getting it. Hope to become a billionaire one day, well don’t laugh a girl can dream and you can too;) Hope to bring a smile on people’s face, to see the kindness around, to make someone’s day; hope to be a good person with a good heart and thousands of hopefulness is still remaining. Don’t lose hope as there are thousands of things waiting for you, just be a little patience and boom you are almost there. Always be stubborn as hell in what you want, be stubborn of not letting things go; with the stubbornness of yours make a tight rope in the mind that you will accomplish what you want in your life. When you have your choices ready, your goals to accomplish, automatically the hope will reflect it! Once you choose hope, anything is possible for you to conquer it. May all the hopes of your life come back to you in the way you want:) I hope that you become filled with so much happiness that it heals every part of you!

Choose Hope!

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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CHILDHOOD!

I miss when I was little, and didn’t care about my weight, clothes or hair.

I just did what made me happy.

The importance of childhood will only be understood when we grow up. The beautiful moments, the most embarrassing moments which will never leave you alone, the lessons we learn while growing up, the amount of time we fell and hurt ourselves and so many memories we never want to forget. So nostalgia! To remember all of the childhood memories. It’s a past we will always remember and it’s the only past we want to remember! Time flies like a wind and there is no false in it. It’s a sarcasm for me that whenever I try to remember the moments of my childhood, I don’t know why in the world the embarrassing moments are the first one to reach my mind than any beautiful moments?!?! I think they are waiting every time to make me realize what kind of embarrassing moments happens with me. Honestly I think it has its own charm because at that time the mind of a child is learning and understanding the world. Is this only me or there are people who wants to join me in my “beautiful moments”;) Honestly my childhood was all about me playing 24/7 outside, the amount of sports I had played was just so remarkable. OMG! I can’t believe I was such a sporty person and you know I also brag about it (feeling so proud)! You can still play them but playing in childhood was just out of the world feeling. I was that extrovert who HATES studying and just want to play;) I am literally laughing while writing this and remembering my moments when I had no care in the world. When I passed my school, I was a child and now after one more year added to my life, like five days ago I am still feeling child inside me:) It really hits you when you know a long time passed of you sitting on the shoulders of your grandparent’s, when all the relatives gives you money while leaving, when you doing mischiefs and putting the blame on your siblings (we still do), fake refuse to eat as you are mad on your parents for not giving you chocolate or not buying you toys are the memories we cherish for lifetime. Those days were golden when we don’t care for things which we have to do now. One of my favourite memories has to be ringing the bell of the neighbours and to run away:) The talks we listen in the childhood and now. He/she are a child will not understand and now you are grown up be mature! Everyone has to grow up as time does not stop for anyone. In whatever phase you are living, try to make it memorable and remarkable for you to remember:)

Childhood dreams are forever stuffed in our souls.

Take them out and play sometimes.

Angie Weiland-Crosby.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Expectations!

One of the greatest tragedies in life is to lose your own sense of self and accept the version of you that is expected by everyone else!

Expectations always hurt because it’s a result we expect from others. We always thinks about what will be the reaction of others, will I be able to reach up their expectations or again I will disappoint them. This is the common feelings going through your mind, but amidst the chaos YOU have lost yourself by thinking and reaching the expectations of OTHERS. What about you? What are your feelings? How much you will do to satisfy others, until and unless it will not satisfy you it is all in vain. We are so use to put everyone ahead of us that it never crosses our mind that we are lost somewhere, to make someone happy, to reach others expectations, to satisfy them. But between this entire things where are YOU, what are your expectations? Are you satisfied? Are you happy? This all things are forgotten when you forget yourself to make everyone happy. Well it sounds very crude that making others happy is bizarre right? No! The life lesson I have learned is that you can’t make others happy, satisfied if you are not feeling it. If you are not happy, you can’t make someone happy. It’s like living without your soul! In this world you are not here to make everyone’s life, you are here to make YOURS life. Keeping expectations from others will destroy you, but keep expectations from YOURSELF will BUILD you. Be yourself; choose yourself that how you are going to make you as well as your love one’s happy. You are a free bird which is not meant to keep in the cage full of expectations, opinions, and talks from others. Fly like you own your life, you own your expectations, you own yourself! It’s a free world; nobody is going to put interest on you, interest come when you own something to somebody. You give the power to others to choose for you, but why can’t you give yourself the power to choose YOU?! When you reach your own expectation, the one you made on yourself the feeling you will feel will be like you are on the top of the world, telling it by experience. Break you own record rather than focusing on others it will be more feelingly than everything else in the world. The pitiful feeling when you are losing yourself in the expectations of others. Don’t expect much, don’t give much and there’s were you know you are doing perfect.

Life is not about Expecting, Hoping and Wishing;

It’s about Doing, Being and Becoming.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Feelings!

“You keep a lot to yourself because it’s difficult to find people who understand.”

What describes you as a HUMAN BEING?! Having feelings to express, well some people don’t like to express their feelings. Does that mean they are not human beings, than what they are a ALIEN like ME:) Everybody in this world is living to care for the feelings others have. But what about the feeling you have? Who is going to care for it? If you care for somebody you are good enough, if not than you are not a human being because you have no feelings to care about others. If you are still there, than let me tell you that the world and the world people’s have already pass the phase of not caring about others and their opinions, those ‘others’ who just want to make everyone believe that they are only ‘right’. If you want to live in this generation you have to let go of the ‘irrational feelings’ you have in you to survive in this world. When you grow up, reached your teenage period the feelings you used to show to the people will become opaque. Everything should have a certain limit, if you let people in your life limitless they don’t just come alone but with thousands of feelings which you are attached to. Attachment is a punishment of a crime you never committed. Having feelings make you ‘human being’ and not having feelings make you ‘robot’!? Overpowering the feeling of hate with love, overpowering the feeling of vengeance with forgiveness, overpowering the feeling of complain with gratefulness, overpowering the feeling of failure with proud, this will make only YOU the person you ever wanted to be. Learn to control your feelings whatever it is maybe of disappoint, guilt, revenge it just in the heat of moment relax your mind, look in the depth of your feelings that is what YOU actually want! When you reach a certain point of your life you realize that some feelings should be kept to ourselves before it becomes a joke. When you learn to control your feelings the way you want is a step ahead in your life. Make yourself the priority and keep your feeling in the cage don’t let them free like a bird otherwise it will be hard to bring them back. Just hold on in there, everything is going to be okay! Just don’t give people the right to walk over your feelings like it mean nothing.

“Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind!”

DODINSKY.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Good Friendship – Precious Treasure!

Friend

(noun)

one who listens, doesn’t judge, and somehow makes everything all right.

Happy Friendship Day to all my friends out there:) You are amazing, beautiful they way you are! I always believe that friendship is the most superior relationship one could have maybe with their parents, siblings or your love ones. When you are with friends you have no filter in you, you are as free as you can, can express yourself the way you want, behave being you. Friendship is a gift from God. A friend can see through you like a glass. One good friend can change your entire world. Friendship does not mean gifting each other but showing love with your close eyes. Friends are not with us all the time, but their prayers are always upon us just like stars you can’t see them but still they are in the sky shining brightly upon you. How rare is to find true love but finding friendship is rarer. I have a small group of friends to some I talk daily and to some talks happens in months. Yet friendship is as strong as ropes. Daily conversations with friends start with – “You know what happened today?”, even we know that they don’t know a single things about it. Well it happens with me and my friend we always start our conversations like this. If you have one trustworthy friend in your life you are the most luckiest person in the entire world. A friend who gives you advices when needed, console when you are crying, cracks joke in the worst time, make you smile in your worst, never leaves you when you needed them the most is the most beautiful friendship. Friendship never happens with special person, but when friendship happens they automatically becomes SPECIAL! I can tell, I am crazy and my friends are crazy too;) Friendship never means expensive gifts but handmade letters, Friendship never means sharing the food but eating all the food of other. Friends know the side of yours that nobody knows. Cheers to all the friendship out there! Be the amazing friend you are and always spread love:)

I LOVE YOU MY DEAR FRIEND👩‍❤️‍👩

The most beautiful things in life are not things. They’re people and places and memories and pictures. They’re feelings and moments and smiles and laughter.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Comparison….

Comparison is an act of violence against the self.

Iyanla Vanzant.

In this whole universe everybody is different, not a single person is same. Heck! Even the fingerprint of the twins are different. Yet the comparison happening between two person’s who are the single souls in the entire world is just bizarre. You can’t be somebody and nobody can be you. Well adapting other people life is easy, but living like them will never satisfy you because you are trying to become someone who you are NOT. Adapt good beliefs, adapt good thinking, adapt to be kind rather than comparing someone’s success to others failure. Comparison can be in both ways good or bad. You should not think about what others are going to say, do it in your own way, have a unique way of doing that defines YOU. You don’t have to tell people out there why you did it, how you did it and all those stuffs. You found the happiness that the great achievement you should enjoy. Comparison are only made when people do not expect you to do anything and they will show you things that they believe is perfect for you or they believe “you can only do that!”. Well prove them wrong you have every right to do it. Everybody in this universe have some goals, everybody is born with a ambition and YOU DO TOO. You are your own person, nobody can do it the way you did it. Make your name in your own rather than doing it by somebody’s way. The way you look at the things are unique, its your insight it can’t be seen by others the way you are seeing. Comparison is not a word to properly describe but ADMIRE we all do like admiring celebrities, famous personality that’s a great think you can learn from them the wonderful things they have done. But the important thing while admiring is to NEVER QUESTION YOURSELF. You should never compare yourself to others nor the people have the right and also vice versa. Every person have their own perspective and everybody should respect that rather than doing comparison. Let your beauty shine by being YOU.

A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it, it just blooms.

Zen Shin.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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