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Thoughts…

Your mind is a powerful thing. When you fill it with your positive thoughts your life will start to change.

There is no single second in our day that we don’t have a thought running through our mind. A small thought can make a big difference that maybe you don’t know. One day you suddenly thought of doing sky diving and the next moment you are falling from the sky, this falling is called intentionally falling and boom you are on the ground and thinking – ‘How the hell I did that?!’ and screaming so loud that a person drinking tea on the other side of the world can hear it and think that – ‘what in the world a cow is screaming so loud!?’ Well honestly I want to be that cow;) Thoughts have so much power over you, that a good thought will bring positivity while a bad thought will bring negativity. Your mind set will decide your strength, your ability, your future. Don’t be a slave of your thoughts that just give out negativity every time. If you will think negative your life can never be positive, but if you can find a way to remove your negative thoughts or at least try it will be worth it. It’s very hard to be positive everything because the world around us has so much negativity store in them which somewhere gives us too. As it is said that every problem has a solution just like that you need to find your solution, what makes you happy, what helps you keep your mind positive and believe me you will find solutions quickly because finding solutions is never impossible! Nobody can ever understand you better than yourself, spend your time bettering yourself rather than paying attention to all the negativity which makes no difference in your life. A beautiful life begins, with a beautiful mind set. Make a clear mind about things you want in your life. What happened in you past leave all of those and start bringing positive and fresh thoughts in your mind to make your present as well as future better. It is righty said that – ‘Your past does not define your future’. Work and focus for things you want in your life and it will never let you thoughts wander away without any purpose!

The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Learnings.

I’m tough, I’m ambitious, and I know exactly what I want. If that makes me look bad, I’m okay!

Everything in life starts from learning till the end. It’s funny when we think that learning is just till we are in school, till we are getting our educations done. But honestly it’s just a education what everybody learns, it’s fixed, it’s limited, it’s something that a person teaches us. I have always believed that learning is far more than just the four walls of the classrooms; it’s far more than limited sets of books. Learning from the books and learning from the life lessons of your life is a two different kind of aspects. When you learn from the books, it’s someone else’s story or someone else’s perspective, but when you are learning from the lessons you, yourself learned it from your life is a whole new different aspect. For me, the lessons and learning you learned after doing mistakes is unforgettable. It’s always said that a person can learn hard and well from a hard way because the struggles, the time, the hardships and most important the mind which can’t be on the ease is the result of hard lessons and learning’s. You can lose in front of the whole world, but never in your mind and heart because it’s where you learn, you learn from you lose that world will never know how much you have put you hard work in it except yourself, it’s a way you learn in your life. My goal is to always be kind in whatever I learn, I earned the kindness in me should never go; it should be with me till the last breath of mine. How rich you are, how good you are, a person is always remember with a good attitude they carry, with a good heart that is filled with kindness, open to all for the love and care. ‘Always be Kind no matter what’ – is the lesson I have received and I want to give you all because believe me it’s a best lesson any one could ever receive! You are kind, you are amazing, and you are beautiful, if you want to do it, you can do it, give this pep talk to yourself and you will never regret it. And let your life gives you learning and lessons every now and then to let you know that you are on a right path:)

Do something today that your future self will thank you for!

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Disappointments!

What you think, you become.

What you feel, you attract.

What you imagine, you create.

Disappointments are the first step of failure. It’s the first step for you to recognize how bad you are! You are a disappointment to the world. Blah and Blah! I mean everybody in this world wants everybody to be perfect. Wow! And what really perfect means?? Does it means you should never disappoint, you should do whatever world tells you, it’s simply means you should be a PUPPET to this world, because if you will do things according to them then you will be a ‘perfect’ human being and there will be no disappointments anywhere. If you are believing or thinking all of this, the ‘special’ theory then let me clear one thing that you are yourself a big disappointment in you than! You are a solely human being which lives on this planet but on others expectations, you are afraid to do something because if it goes wrong then a face of disappointment is seen by you. First thing always remember you are responsible for yourself, nobody is to be blame for something you yourself have done it. Your success, your failure, your disappointments all is of yours, if you take you disappointments in a way where you are trying to make them your strength by doing it all again but the right way. Expectations are the biggest disappointments if to be asked. Trying is a not a crime that you can’t commit. Not every person deserves your good heart. If you are doing well for others, it will never be unseen by the God. Just trust yourself and your God and you are on the right path. Don’t grave about your disappointments that you faced today, remember to make you disappointment in to your satisfactions and happiness that you deserve for tomorrow. And remember – Never become bad person because of bad people!

Be gentle with yourself, you’re doing the best you can.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Understanding.

Understanding is deeper than knowledge. There are many people who know you, but very few who understand you.

– Nicolas Cage –

The most complicated thing in this world is finding understanding between peoples or things. It’s a fact according to me that understanding between two peoples is the core of a relationship. Understanding does not come when you first time open your eyes in this world. It does not come when your fairy tooth comes out. It’s the experience of your life, from first time crying to coming in the zone of time where every little thing matters. Understanding comes when your mind starts to not only recognising the surrounding but also the peoples. Nobody will ever understand the life you want until you will try to make them understand and there are only few who will understand! It’s okay to do things which people don’t understand because there are things which you will not understand of them it’s equal. Pleasing people in 21st century is hard and time wasting because as time move forward the difference between the generations is pretty much large. What we do maybe our parents don’t understand, maybe they find it weird I mean if I will tell my grandparents about me writing blogs that is pretty easy that they will not understand because the difference and understanding is not the same. It’s not that your parents don’t understand you, it’s just that maybe they have never seen all of the things we find fun, that’s why they interfere but they will never want bad for their children’s. If I will tell that I am not so easy to understand but there are people in my life that understands me easily. Everyone in their life has someone to understand them, if you don’t have someone that does not mean you are hard to understand it just mean that you don’t need people to understand you. You yourself are enough to understand YOU! Everyone in their life has went through a phase or going, that their sense of getting something in there mind has been shut down and they are not understanding anything, they are not in the position to understand anything because some feelings or people talks have kept their mind blocked and they are losing their shit. OMG! I am literally feeling that I am scientist writing all of this, Lol! It just came in my mind and I wrote this… Some people will never understand that sitting in your damn house, alone in peace, eating snacks and minding your own freaking business is another level of understanding that people need to upgrade themselves! Well I hope you understood my random rambling that I just start writing and here we are:) Have a good day!

Don’t try to understand everything. Sometimes it is not meant to be understood, just accepted.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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EMOTIONS:)

‘Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow anything outside of you to control your emotions.’

EMOTIONS are pretty hard to control when you don’t know how and what emotions to show either than being angry, happy, and sad. Specially someone who has a sarcasm filled in there body from head to toe. A escape with all the funny and sarcasm filled talks just so they can escape it for a second maybe. We all are surrounded with a lot of peoples and their emotions that are attached to them as well as ‘us’. Emotions are pretty much our slaves that I would like to say because if we want to control them we can it’s quite a tough job though to control the emotions in us. Honestly emotions for me are the inner feelings of a person because they are something I would like to name wordless feelings of a person, who just want somebody to understand him/her by not uttering a word. I feel like emotions just come out when you are with a right person, when you are okay to show your vulnerable side to them. Emotions does not means the feeling of sadness, crying all those sad kind of feelings but emotions of strong, of dedications, of kindness all these emotions which makes us a better and a stronger person. Emotions, believe me is a spirit to do better next time, the spirit when you fail ,you will feel the emotions of anger, the frustration of emotions mixing together it’s just a sign that a small little failure does not stop you from getting the success you deserve. Emotions are hard to explain but not to understand by a right person who can see through you fake laughs! Its okay to be the person who just let the emotions out it’s totally okay, we are humans who always learn from lesson of our life’s and definitely learning is always a button in our life which we can press without any charges and time limit. Just be a human that knows what is good for them and what is not; never just be so much emotionally attached to anything that in the end which damage you. Be a happy emotional person that you love. Always remember showing emotions does not mean you are weak it just means you are being yourself, you are good enough, you are STRONGER!

‘You become very dangerous when you learn to control you emotions!’

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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BELIEVE!

Believe in

What You

Pray For!

BELIEVE! The first step towards anything you are going to do. You will not get anything until you yourself believe in it. Create magic by believing that you can do so much, that it will shock your own self. Give yourself a shock every day with your own yourself and say – ‘WOW! I can do so much, Yes you can, no doubt about that. Encourage yourself it is one of the best tools to overcome the hardships in your life. Make the magic happens just by BELIEVING IN YOURSELF! Everything in life happens for a reason maybe it can be a good reason or maybe it was for you so let go of it even though it hurts because it’s for your own good. Remember good things happen you deserve them but when something not right happens that means God had planned something better and better and more deserving for you. You are the creator of your life when you start to understand what is good and bad for you. The decision-making process is hard but not impossible. When you have the courage and stubbornness in things you want to do, then nobody can stop you from having it. Believe in yourself has been my favorite quote in the entire world because in my life I think it helped me a lot and believe me it worked pretty hard. When we want to start something the whole universe’s negative power just suddenly starts to appear from nowhere. It’s a fact people say because it’s a negative force of energy that wants you to quit that’s why hard times come when you are on the road to success. I always believe that whatever is going to happen it’s going to happen if it’s not right just remember that it was not good for you and better things are coming your way! To ignore negative power like how we ignore ‘negative peoples’, I think we are pros in that;) The mantra of ignore to all of those things which does not make any good difference in your life stay away from them and just do what feels right to your heart. Believe in yourself and create your own magic, create your own life in which you are a leader ruling your own kingdom alone!

Magic is believing in yourself. If you can do that, you can make anything happen.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Hope…

Hope is being able to see that, there is light despite all of the darkness.

Desmond Tutu.

Hope to see my slice of cake or the box of chocolates that I had hidden from my siblings to find them as I reach home. Well my talk have to be start from the topic of food because food is love! A small ray of hope will make you feel that you are on the correct path or you are going to be. Hope is the start of new things for new beginnings. A quote that has always been my favourite that – ‘after every sunset there is a sunrise!’ After every problems there has to be a solution as a hope for you to not give you. Giving up means you are losing the hope you have in yourself. Losing yourself is the biggest failure of your life. Just keeping hope means so much that still you are not letting yourself down. Despite all the hardships there is a tunnel for prosperity at the end of it. We are here to hope that the things we dreamt, we are closed to getting it. Hope to become a billionaire one day, well don’t laugh a girl can dream and you can too;) Hope to bring a smile on people’s face, to see the kindness around, to make someone’s day; hope to be a good person with a good heart and thousands of hopefulness is still remaining. Don’t lose hope as there are thousands of things waiting for you, just be a little patience and boom you are almost there. Always be stubborn as hell in what you want, be stubborn of not letting things go; with the stubbornness of yours make a tight rope in the mind that you will accomplish what you want in your life. When you have your choices ready, your goals to accomplish, automatically the hope will reflect it! Once you choose hope, anything is possible for you to conquer it. May all the hopes of your life come back to you in the way you want:) I hope that you become filled with so much happiness that it heals every part of you!

Choose Hope!

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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CHILDHOOD!

I miss when I was little, and didn’t care about my weight, clothes or hair.

I just did what made me happy.

The importance of childhood will only be understood when we grow up. The beautiful moments, the most embarrassing moments which will never leave you alone, the lessons we learn while growing up, the amount of time we fell and hurt ourselves and so many memories we never want to forget. So nostalgia! To remember all of the childhood memories. It’s a past we will always remember and it’s the only past we want to remember! Time flies like a wind and there is no false in it. It’s a sarcasm for me that whenever I try to remember the moments of my childhood, I don’t know why in the world the embarrassing moments are the first one to reach my mind than any beautiful moments?!?! I think they are waiting every time to make me realize what kind of embarrassing moments happens with me. Honestly I think it has its own charm because at that time the mind of a child is learning and understanding the world. Is this only me or there are people who wants to join me in my “beautiful moments”;) Honestly my childhood was all about me playing 24/7 outside, the amount of sports I had played was just so remarkable. OMG! I can’t believe I was such a sporty person and you know I also brag about it (feeling so proud)! You can still play them but playing in childhood was just out of the world feeling. I was that extrovert who HATES studying and just want to play;) I am literally laughing while writing this and remembering my moments when I had no care in the world. When I passed my school, I was a child and now after one more year added to my life, like five days ago I am still feeling child inside me:) It really hits you when you know a long time passed of you sitting on the shoulders of your grandparent’s, when all the relatives gives you money while leaving, when you doing mischiefs and putting the blame on your siblings (we still do), fake refuse to eat as you are mad on your parents for not giving you chocolate or not buying you toys are the memories we cherish for lifetime. Those days were golden when we don’t care for things which we have to do now. One of my favourite memories has to be ringing the bell of the neighbours and to run away:) The talks we listen in the childhood and now. He/she are a child will not understand and now you are grown up be mature! Everyone has to grow up as time does not stop for anyone. In whatever phase you are living, try to make it memorable and remarkable for you to remember:)

Childhood dreams are forever stuffed in our souls.

Take them out and play sometimes.

Angie Weiland-Crosby.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Expectations!

One of the greatest tragedies in life is to lose your own sense of self and accept the version of you that is expected by everyone else!

Expectations always hurt because it’s a result we expect from others. We always thinks about what will be the reaction of others, will I be able to reach up their expectations or again I will disappoint them. This is the common feelings going through your mind, but amidst the chaos YOU have lost yourself by thinking and reaching the expectations of OTHERS. What about you? What are your feelings? How much you will do to satisfy others, until and unless it will not satisfy you it is all in vain. We are so use to put everyone ahead of us that it never crosses our mind that we are lost somewhere, to make someone happy, to reach others expectations, to satisfy them. But between this entire things where are YOU, what are your expectations? Are you satisfied? Are you happy? This all things are forgotten when you forget yourself to make everyone happy. Well it sounds very crude that making others happy is bizarre right? No! The life lesson I have learned is that you can’t make others happy, satisfied if you are not feeling it. If you are not happy, you can’t make someone happy. It’s like living without your soul! In this world you are not here to make everyone’s life, you are here to make YOURS life. Keeping expectations from others will destroy you, but keep expectations from YOURSELF will BUILD you. Be yourself; choose yourself that how you are going to make you as well as your love one’s happy. You are a free bird which is not meant to keep in the cage full of expectations, opinions, and talks from others. Fly like you own your life, you own your expectations, you own yourself! It’s a free world; nobody is going to put interest on you, interest come when you own something to somebody. You give the power to others to choose for you, but why can’t you give yourself the power to choose YOU?! When you reach your own expectation, the one you made on yourself the feeling you will feel will be like you are on the top of the world, telling it by experience. Break you own record rather than focusing on others it will be more feelingly than everything else in the world. The pitiful feeling when you are losing yourself in the expectations of others. Don’t expect much, don’t give much and there’s were you know you are doing perfect.

Life is not about Expecting, Hoping and Wishing;

It’s about Doing, Being and Becoming.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Feelings!

“You keep a lot to yourself because it’s difficult to find people who understand.”

What describes you as a HUMAN BEING?! Having feelings to express, well some people don’t like to express their feelings. Does that mean they are not human beings, than what they are a ALIEN like ME:) Everybody in this world is living to care for the feelings others have. But what about the feeling you have? Who is going to care for it? If you care for somebody you are good enough, if not than you are not a human being because you have no feelings to care about others. If you are still there, than let me tell you that the world and the world people’s have already pass the phase of not caring about others and their opinions, those ‘others’ who just want to make everyone believe that they are only ‘right’. If you want to live in this generation you have to let go of the ‘irrational feelings’ you have in you to survive in this world. When you grow up, reached your teenage period the feelings you used to show to the people will become opaque. Everything should have a certain limit, if you let people in your life limitless they don’t just come alone but with thousands of feelings which you are attached to. Attachment is a punishment of a crime you never committed. Having feelings make you ‘human being’ and not having feelings make you ‘robot’!? Overpowering the feeling of hate with love, overpowering the feeling of vengeance with forgiveness, overpowering the feeling of complain with gratefulness, overpowering the feeling of failure with proud, this will make only YOU the person you ever wanted to be. Learn to control your feelings whatever it is maybe of disappoint, guilt, revenge it just in the heat of moment relax your mind, look in the depth of your feelings that is what YOU actually want! When you reach a certain point of your life you realize that some feelings should be kept to ourselves before it becomes a joke. When you learn to control your feelings the way you want is a step ahead in your life. Make yourself the priority and keep your feeling in the cage don’t let them free like a bird otherwise it will be hard to bring them back. Just hold on in there, everything is going to be okay! Just don’t give people the right to walk over your feelings like it mean nothing.

“Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind!”

DODINSKY.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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