Tag: positive words

Expectations!

One of the greatest tragedies in life is to lose your own sense of self and accept the version of you that is expected by everyone else!

Expectations always hurt because it’s a result we expect from others. We always thinks about what will be the reaction of others, will I be able to reach up their expectations or again I will disappoint them. This is the common feelings going through your mind, but amidst the chaos YOU have lost yourself by thinking and reaching the expectations of OTHERS. What about you? What are your feelings? How much you will do to satisfy others, until and unless it will not satisfy you it is all in vain. We are so use to put everyone ahead of us that it never crosses our mind that we are lost somewhere, to make someone happy, to reach others expectations, to satisfy them. But between this entire things where are YOU, what are your expectations? Are you satisfied? Are you happy? This all things are forgotten when you forget yourself to make everyone happy. Well it sounds very crude that making others happy is bizarre right? No! The life lesson I have learned is that you can’t make others happy, satisfied if you are not feeling it. If you are not happy, you can’t make someone happy. It’s like living without your soul! In this world you are not here to make everyone’s life, you are here to make YOURS life. Keeping expectations from others will destroy you, but keep expectations from YOURSELF will BUILD you. Be yourself; choose yourself that how you are going to make you as well as your love one’s happy. You are a free bird which is not meant to keep in the cage full of expectations, opinions, and talks from others. Fly like you own your life, you own your expectations, you own yourself! It’s a free world; nobody is going to put interest on you, interest come when you own something to somebody. You give the power to others to choose for you, but why can’t you give yourself the power to choose YOU?! When you reach your own expectation, the one you made on yourself the feeling you will feel will be like you are on the top of the world, telling it by experience. Break you own record rather than focusing on others it will be more feelingly than everything else in the world. The pitiful feeling when you are losing yourself in the expectations of others. Don’t expect much, don’t give much and there’s were you know you are doing perfect.

Life is not about Expecting, Hoping and Wishing;

It’s about Doing, Being and Becoming.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Feelings!

“You keep a lot to yourself because it’s difficult to find people who understand.”

What describes you as a HUMAN BEING?! Having feelings to express, well some people don’t like to express their feelings. Does that mean they are not human beings, than what they are a ALIEN like ME:) Everybody in this world is living to care for the feelings others have. But what about the feeling you have? Who is going to care for it? If you care for somebody you are good enough, if not than you are not a human being because you have no feelings to care about others. If you are still there, than let me tell you that the world and the world people’s have already pass the phase of not caring about others and their opinions, those ‘others’ who just want to make everyone believe that they are only ‘right’. If you want to live in this generation you have to let go of the ‘irrational feelings’ you have in you to survive in this world. When you grow up, reached your teenage period the feelings you used to show to the people will become opaque. Everything should have a certain limit, if you let people in your life limitless they don’t just come alone but with thousands of feelings which you are attached to. Attachment is a punishment of a crime you never committed. Having feelings make you ‘human being’ and not having feelings make you ‘robot’!? Overpowering the feeling of hate with love, overpowering the feeling of vengeance with forgiveness, overpowering the feeling of complain with gratefulness, overpowering the feeling of failure with proud, this will make only YOU the person you ever wanted to be. Learn to control your feelings whatever it is maybe of disappoint, guilt, revenge it just in the heat of moment relax your mind, look in the depth of your feelings that is what YOU actually want! When you reach a certain point of your life you realize that some feelings should be kept to ourselves before it becomes a joke. When you learn to control your feelings the way you want is a step ahead in your life. Make yourself the priority and keep your feeling in the cage don’t let them free like a bird otherwise it will be hard to bring them back. Just hold on in there, everything is going to be okay! Just don’t give people the right to walk over your feelings like it mean nothing.

“Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind!”

DODINSKY.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Good Friendship – Precious Treasure!

Friend

(noun)

one who listens, doesn’t judge, and somehow makes everything all right.

Happy Friendship Day to all my friends out there:) You are amazing, beautiful they way you are! I always believe that friendship is the most superior relationship one could have maybe with their parents, siblings or your love ones. When you are with friends you have no filter in you, you are as free as you can, can express yourself the way you want, behave being you. Friendship is a gift from God. A friend can see through you like a glass. One good friend can change your entire world. Friendship does not mean gifting each other but showing love with your close eyes. Friends are not with us all the time, but their prayers are always upon us just like stars you can’t see them but still they are in the sky shining brightly upon you. How rare is to find true love but finding friendship is rarer. I have a small group of friends to some I talk daily and to some talks happens in months. Yet friendship is as strong as ropes. Daily conversations with friends start with – “You know what happened today?”, even we know that they don’t know a single things about it. Well it happens with me and my friend we always start our conversations like this. If you have one trustworthy friend in your life you are the most luckiest person in the entire world. A friend who gives you advices when needed, console when you are crying, cracks joke in the worst time, make you smile in your worst, never leaves you when you needed them the most is the most beautiful friendship. Friendship never happens with special person, but when friendship happens they automatically becomes SPECIAL! I can tell, I am crazy and my friends are crazy too;) Friendship never means expensive gifts but handmade letters, Friendship never means sharing the food but eating all the food of other. Friends know the side of yours that nobody knows. Cheers to all the friendship out there! Be the amazing friend you are and always spread love:)

I LOVE YOU MY DEAR FRIEND👩‍❤️‍👩

The most beautiful things in life are not things. They’re people and places and memories and pictures. They’re feelings and moments and smiles and laughter.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Comparison….

Comparison is an act of violence against the self.

Iyanla Vanzant.

In this whole universe everybody is different, not a single person is same. Heck! Even the fingerprint of the twins are different. Yet the comparison happening between two person’s who are the single souls in the entire world is just bizarre. You can’t be somebody and nobody can be you. Well adapting other people life is easy, but living like them will never satisfy you because you are trying to become someone who you are NOT. Adapt good beliefs, adapt good thinking, adapt to be kind rather than comparing someone’s success to others failure. Comparison can be in both ways good or bad. You should not think about what others are going to say, do it in your own way, have a unique way of doing that defines YOU. You don’t have to tell people out there why you did it, how you did it and all those stuffs. You found the happiness that the great achievement you should enjoy. Comparison are only made when people do not expect you to do anything and they will show you things that they believe is perfect for you or they believe “you can only do that!”. Well prove them wrong you have every right to do it. Everybody in this universe have some goals, everybody is born with a ambition and YOU DO TOO. You are your own person, nobody can do it the way you did it. Make your name in your own rather than doing it by somebody’s way. The way you look at the things are unique, its your insight it can’t be seen by others the way you are seeing. Comparison is not a word to properly describe but ADMIRE we all do like admiring celebrities, famous personality that’s a great think you can learn from them the wonderful things they have done. But the important thing while admiring is to NEVER QUESTION YOURSELF. You should never compare yourself to others nor the people have the right and also vice versa. Every person have their own perspective and everybody should respect that rather than doing comparison. Let your beauty shine by being YOU.

A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it, it just blooms.

Zen Shin.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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You are enough!

YOU ARE ENOUGH. IT’S RIDICULOUS HOW ENOUGH YOU ARE.

Things are pretty much out of our control, if we are dependent on others for our happiness, feelings, decisions, every aspect of our life. We human beings are just like this, to share our life with others and it’s not a bad things to do, it’s just that their are certain things in everyone’s life that need to be store with themselves. Having your love one’s with you in every step of your life is a wonderful thing to have, you have supporters to support you when you need them. But there our certain steps that you alone need to take. You won’t be able to understand what you ALONE is capable of doing, until you yourself become independent. You will never know you worth and what you can do until you start to recognize yourself, test yourself. Put yourself to test that how much you can do, once you know your flaws, your ability then you will be ENOUGH FOR YOURSELF. I will tell you that I have been through that phase where I just did what I want to do without having anyone, my blog is one part of that. I stop thinking that how I am going to write, is it worth enough that someone will read it. But I stopped thinking what people are going to say, they are not the part of my failure or my success its only ME. I learned that I am more that enough for myself. That’s what I want to tell you all that you are enough for yourself. Test your patience, you should be the only one to point out your flaw and make it flawless. There are certain things that can be understood by being alone. Siting in a corner of space making list of what you want to do in your mind with a cup of coffee/tea is absolutely PERIODT! I hope I was able to bring smile on your face:)

‘When you learn to love yourself, you will stop putting your self esteem in the hands of others’.

Thema Davis.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Grateful!

“What a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love!”

Marcus Aurelius.

If you are breathing while reading this, you should be grateful as I am writing this. Being alive in 2021 after the horrific pandemic has made all of us realize the importance of small things. We all have so many complains with life, like I wish my life was not boring, I wish I had the life like her/him, why my life is so complicated, etc etc. But do we ever be grateful for having roof over our head, do we ever be grateful for having three meals a day, do we ever be grateful for a wonderful life that someone else wish to have. Be grateful for every little thing in you life, life is too short to wait till tomorrow. Find beauty in everything and you will be grateful. Start appreciating small things in you life and you will be happy as ever you could be. Start being grateful for the things we never would have thought matters to us and a permanent smile will be their on your face which comes from your heart being happy. Small little things make a big difference, small amount of gratefulness every day will make you life much much better and happy going. Just being grateful for yourself is not enough, be grateful by helping others, be grateful for having loved one’s in your life too. You will never know how much it makes a difference one’s you start being happy, grateful for the things you never know it matters. Be grateful if you got a small achievement today smile and say – “tomorrow you will do more better and gratefulness will follow you in a heartbeat”. The more grateful you will be, the more beauty you will see!

Appreciate life even its not perfect. Happiness is not fulfilment of what we wish for, but an appreciation of what we have.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Winning & Losing

“Sometimes you WIN, sometimes you LEARN!”

John C. Maxwell.

Life is a race, where everyone knows that only one is going to win and if you win you will be successful, known and if you lose you will be no where. This all kind of talks, believe are put in our mind from the childhood. When we win all the people around us celebrate our winning but when we lose they will say its a LUCK you just got before. Nobody knows what future holds for us and for them. Nobody will ever able to tell how far you are going to be, how successful you are going to be, where you will stand in the future when I say nobody I mean NOBODY except only one and that is – “YOU”. Your limit is you remember that. If you think you are going to do this YOU ARE. Believing in people’s talks other than you ability is a sin you are performing. Life is all about learning and learning and LEARNING. Winning every time will give you happiness but will you be “satisfied”? Well I think its a big ‘NO’, because every time you are having the same taste definitely the taste of Winning or Victory will be lost somewhere. You just need to take one step back for you to take four step ahead. Losing doesn’t means you are not good at it, you are not capable of it. It just simply means you need time to come back more stronger and more YOU. You will win every time but when you lose one time, you know what you think that how people are going to make thousands of talks. That’s where you should know that you doesn’t lose, still people are talking about you. People will not talk much about you winning than about you losing. You win, You lose people are going to talk and its up to you that how you take it. I just love this quote so much – “Win as if you were used to it, Lose as if you enjoyed if for a change”. There you go that quote explains everything which will make you believe that – “Losing is as important as Winning”. Its the motto of life that sometime you will win and sometime you will lose. In the journey of ‘winning and losing’, ‘successful or unsuccessful’ one thing should be constant that is YOUR BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. Never quit how hard it is, its only the time and we all know how hard the time is it will always pass no matter what, you just have to hold on it with patience and that’s how you will be where you want to be!

“WINNING IS A CHOICE, BUT LOSING IS AN OPTION.”

M.F MOONZAJER.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL:)

BEAUTIFUL!

Definition:

A person who is reading this;)

Does beauty really defines from how you look, what colour is your skin tone, how pretty your eyes is, how perfect you nose is?! Beauty is just a word but what’s the inner meaning of it. Does it mean beauty of soul, does it mean beauty of personality, does it mean beauty of a person does it mean beauty of nature?!?! A common saying that “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”, which is straight as the stick it does not matter how the world sees it, matters is how YOU sees it. Beauty is not created on its own it depends on the observer. Every thing is beautiful in this world, its just depend on us to see it in that way. It is always said that your eyes can betray you well for example; you are finding a thing which is in front of you yet you are unable to see it. Why this happens? Well I was thinking about this too and the conclusion that came out according to me is, beauty is a very depth part of a person if we look closely to the person we never found attractive, yet to find them beautiful you wanna know why?! Because beauty does not resides in the face but in the HEART. When we get to know someone by talking to them, knowing them, observing them we find them the most beautiful. That’s how we describe “Beautiful in Every Sense”. Never underestimate yourself you can’t imagine what you can do. If you feel insecure about yourself first of all I wanna tell you its totally normal to feel that way but to not let it take over your mind is what is important. Stand in front of the mirror and give yourself “THE PEP TALK” that you are beautiful, you are amazing, you can do anything, you are marvellous and the list goes on. Honestly speaking I do this all the time and I wanna tell you all as well to try this believe me IT WORKS. No beauty shines brighter than that of a good heart!

REMEMBER THIS:

But there’s a hope that’s waiting for you in the dark

You should know you’re beautiful just the way you are

And you don’t have to change a thing

The world could change it’s heart

No scars to your beautiful

We’re stars and we’re beautiful

-Scars to Your Beautiful

-Song by Alessia Cara.

MY READERS JUST WANNA LET YOU KNOW THAT “YOU ALL ARE AMAZING, TALENTED, STRONG AND BEAUTIFUL 🖤!”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Words of Kind.

Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from negativity.

It’s a great and true saying that “Time flies like a wind”. It’s 2021 mid and yet it feels like we are still the same where we was. I don’t know what this year will bring us because nobody can predict what future holds for us and we should stop thinking about the future as 2020 taught as to live in our present without worrying about the future and also the most important thing that is don’t wait for your future to come make your present look like your future. 2020 was the year which taught us so much at once specially the feelings, emotions just overflow of everything. Well the most important thing I learned in the past year was that you can’t feel anyone’s pain until you go through it. We never know what someone is going through, what we see maybe it is not actually like that. Always be kind to everybody as I said that you never know what they are facing, saying bad words maybe just in anger you don’t mean it but that too can do what we can’t imagine because words hold so much power in them that can destroy anyone maybe its a small word or a full sentence. You may move on but the words will always be there somewhere in the back of the mind taunting , making people believe in that words even though its far away from truth. Good words will bring happiness, joy but bad words will bring bad energy with them. So always be carefully with what you say to others. Its truly said that when your feelings are overpowering your soul, never promise something, commit something or anything which you are not sure about because at that time you are not in your sense, you are just too happy or too sad to understand anything. Always remember what you do to others, will always come back to you so be kind, always spread positivity around you so you can be happy as well as others.

I pray you heal from things no one ever apologized for.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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