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Little Things!

Sometimes it’s just the little things that make you happy.

I decided to write about this because one of my seniors told me how amazing I am as a writer the day before yesterday. That person just wrote “You are an amazing writer” and till today it is stuck in my mind and now forever, whenever I think of it a smile snuck on my face and I just feel happy. I never really felt anything like that to be honest those few words hold so much power to me and now I see myself in a better place. I don’t know this is the first time in a while that I am genuinely happy like happy happy, and I am feeling good, all thanks to my senior. It is so true that we never appreciate small moments and things in our life so much, we just want to grab big things all the time. But those small moments really add a lot of happiness to our life, they just make us feel like yes we are on the right journey, they become our motivation to work more hard, and keep moving towards our goals. Just a tiny miracle of something that makes you feel genuinely happy, that makes you feel hopeful, and that makes you believe more in yourself. Trust me when I say that those tiny small things make so much difference in your life that will make you feel so happy about yourself. Sometimes we are so engaged in doing and accomplishing big things at once that so much stress comes upon us and we don’t even understand how much we are dealing with and that is where those small moments which you need for yourself come into the picture. It is said right that the small tiny things hold a lot of power because when they are joined together nothing can stop them from making you feel whole again, from making you believe in yourself, and from making you appreciate small things in your life and be happy about it. The second you start questioning yourself, remember those small moments and miracles that made you feel whole again and there is nothing those little things can’t do.

Remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.

Epicurus.

Till we meet again, Be happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Losing Hope…

Brain: Be patient

Heart: Until When?

The scariest thing in this world is when you are already on your journey of what you always wanted but in the middle of it just a random thought that nothing is working out, you are doing so much yet there is no result, you are seeing no progress of your hard work leads to a lot of scary thoughts like losing hope. The hope to see yourself successful in the future, the hope to see a great result of things that you are working hard for now, the hope to not let your sacrifice go to waste, and so many hopes we have with ourselves. And just a random thought about nothing working scares us the most and it happens a lot but sometimes it just randomly gets clicked in your mind that what you are doing is it right? Especially if you are already feeling low and when you think about anything the emotions and feelings just pass through them and will make you feel that there is no hope in things you are doing. You know there comes a time when it gets too much, you become so emotionless that you don’t feel anything, you just don’t care about anything, you just want to be left alone, and you just want to let go of hope because you are finding nothing to heal you, the lost hope just remains as lost hope only.

But still, after sunset, there is sunrise so after darkness there is hope believe me, if you feel like it is getting too much discharge yourself for a while, give yourself some time to heal, cry how much you want to, and let go of your bad feelings, scream how much you want, show yourself that its’ okay to feel vulnerable sometimes and when you feel okay you don’t even need to find hope, because it is hope that will find you and then there is nothing like losing hope for you.

“When we lose hope, we lose joy in the present because we have no confidence for the future.”

Till we meet again. Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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I’m (NOT) Okay!

Every feeling you feel is VALID.

You know when there are things you are feeling but just can’t put in words or when the day is going okay but then you remember all your problems and your mood becomes sour, yes that is what I am feeling right now. You all the past few days of mine have gone so rough whatever I did in those days makes me feel like I did everything wrong. Nothing is making sense to me and I am stuck in so many ways that I can’t even speak about it because I don’t know how to, everything is just so confusing. I just don’t know where I belong, I wanted to do so many different things and I took the risk but now everything is just going downfall. I am so frustrated right now, just nothing is making sense but as I am writing this down I am understanding that it’s okay to not be okay with what happened has happened now I need to let go of it and look at the positive side that I learned from my mistake and in the future I can stop myself and others from doing it. But sometimes you just can’t ignore the negative side. I understand not everything in my life is going to be right, there will be phases where I will make mistakes and will be so wrong but I need to let go of it and just say that it’s okay I made a mistake now I need to just let go of it and move forward in my life.

Now actually I am feeling okay as I wrote down, the confusion I had is now sorted but there is something that I lost as well as gained from my mistake so I am not entirely sad about it, it’s just making me mad that what I thought nothing like nothing happened like that so that is making me mad and frustrated but it’s okay it was my first time and I made a mistake and nothing turned out the right way and what is the possible way to learn from mistakes – yes right it’s the hard way;)

Everything will be okay in the end.

If it’s not okay,

it’s not the end.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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The New Season!

So, I close my eyes to old ends

And open my heart to new beginnings.

Just like when a new season starts to begin after another one the adjustments humans have to make in terms of house decorations, skincare, clothes, and the preparation for coming festivals but before going into a new season we need to learn to let go of the old season and its vibe before finally adjusting into the new season. Just like moving countries and learning more about their season and slowly adjusting to it. Every morning just like the beginning of a new season we have to make so many adjustments I tell myself that it’s going to be a day that will make me happy or make me adjust my feeling to new things by making me learn new emotions of things that I couldn’t complete to do. I make myself remember that yesterday is gone, the past is gone now it’s time for a new day, a new season is going to begin for me, and with that, I need to make more progress or start new beginnings of things that I wanted to do for so long. People say with a new season with a new year comes a new you however according to me when you decide that you are going to change yourself for the better the time of your new season begins. It’s never too late to start something, just go for it, do it, and start your new season by doing things that you truly love and I know it will turn out great.

The new season is something we know nothing about but it definitely guarantees that we are going to feel so many emotions of excitement, happiness, fear, and so many unknown feelings as the new season brings a new phase of life that we need to learn to adjust to. But I hope you can begin this new season of yours with a heart full of excitement, a mind full of eagerness to learn new things and I hope everything you feel will make you have a different calmness and happiness of entering into new things just like New Season!

One day you will look back on this season and know that you are truly blessed, and not because things were perfect but because you found perfect grace in the worst of it.

Morgan Harper Nichols.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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MAGIC!

MAGIC is believing in yourself. If you can do that, you can make anything happen.

The concept of magic was brought to my attention when I watched my first animated movie of Cinderella. You’ll never know how obsessed I was with the animated movie version of Cinderella the second I got the key to open up the keyboard compartment of my computer table I used to hurry as fast as I could to watch the movie so many times. Actually, Cinderella was the first movie that got me into Barbie and still today I adore watching Cinderella movies but time has changed so much back then when I was a kid there was no YouTube where you can type any movie and it will come up but back then it was a struggle to download it and transfer it to computer without getting it corrupted. Nowadays whatever you want just type it and you will get it quickly but at those times the beauty and eagerness to find the movie and watch it with family all cuddled up was everything. In real life, there is a minus possibility of finding a prince charming but there is not even a minus possibility of finding a fairy godmother to cure us from our problems. Back then I used to think why can’t it be the same in real life but now at this age where I have seen so much I understood that only you can create your own magic there is absolutely no one other than you who can do it. What magic even means the potential of bringing the best out of us is magic, fighting through hurdles is magic, starting over with new motivation is magic, and so much within you is magic. Only you have the power to bring the magic inside you blink in a way of success that you always wanted. I hope your magic of yours blinks as much as the stars do on the starry night and I can vision it so you can with the help of your own MAGIC!

MAGIC is something you create.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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PLEASE BE KIND!

Have courage and be kind, where there is kindness there is goodness and where there is goodness there is MAGIC!

Cinderella.

Nobody is going to remember your face or your physical features as much but your behavior towards them and your kindness towards them will be forever embarked in their memories. Heck, I still remember when my family members were struggling to go on the escalator and I alone was not able to handle so there is were many people from behind they didn’t ignore us but as fast as they saw us they run to help us, they lend their hands to us and it makes me remember that there is still humanity and kindness alive in this world. While helping someone, that someone will go and spread the news about how a nice person helped them but not by your physical features but your actions will forever be embarked in their mind, and in the future when they will remember you an instant smile will come on their face. The hardest thing to do in this world is to be kind, some people are so selfish that in their dictionary a word like selfless does not even exist. I was always told by my mother that not using your words carefully can hurt someone very much even though you don’t mean it then too be mindful of what you say. There where I learned the importance of staying quiet it’s very hard but it’s so beneficial for both parties. No one knows what one goes through, you see people online and people sitting beside you in the restaurant that you know nothing about what they are going through so the only way to help them is to be kind and if you can’t be kind then keep quiet. If you don’t like anybody, stay away from them leave them, alone, and let them be happy and you as well. The moment this world will realize how important it is to be kind, that moment will be when half of the problems of people will flow away automatically so please be kind.

In a world where you can be anything be KIND!

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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You are a Blessing!

You are an amazing person.

Never forget your power!

I have noticed that we never appreciate ourselves, we never say that we did good, and we always scold ourselves because we think we could do better. But at least we tried, try to give ourselves that credit but we never give ourselves the blessing of how much we have fought to be here, how much we have become better. Let’s sit down and appreciate ourselves for all the good things we did and be proud of it. The things that taught us and tested our potential but we still did better because we have the blessing to move forward with every step and appreciate ourselves for every little thing. I have noticed in myself how much I do, but when I see someone of my age doing better, I scold myself why I can’t be that good, and why I can’t be in their position. It’s very hard to love and appreciate yourself, to accept all your flaws I know it’s one of the toughest things in this world to do. But as I grow up I learned to accept myself and yes that they are unique in something that doesn’t mean I have to be unique in something too what I am doing if it’s best for me and I am happy about it then that thing will bring the uniqueness in me because I accept the fact that I am a blessing to myself. I just want to say that you are blessed if after hard times you still have the strength to raise, if you have trembled still you controlled yourself, and for getting so strong for yourself I am so proud of you and you are truly a blessing. Be thankful to yourself, appreciate yourself, give yourself gratitude for how much you have fought for yourself, say that you are proud of yourself, and admire that you are truly a blessing to yourself.

At the end of the day, I am thankful that my blessings are bigger than my problems.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Bad Days…

I’ll be ok.

Just not today

Just like there are two sides to a coin, exactly there are good days as well as bad days that a person goes through. Growing up I knew that positive quotes help the person in getting the motivation that they need but as I stepped into my blogging journey I got to experience that the power the negative quotes held is just mind blown. Don’t get me wrong, what I mean to say is that negative quotes challenge you to be better or do the worst, pick the side yourself. I love challenges, and I love to prove myself to people who assume things about me even though they don’t even know me. In life there will be people you will meet that can’t accept the fact that how far you have come, even though you are successful they will still challenge you to prove yourself, they just want to see you fall down and that is what I mean those challenges those bad days where you feel so unmotivated are the reason you will be successful. Obviously, this is life there will be days when things will go according to you and there will be days when you don’t even want to survive. But let me tell you just like after every storm there is a rainbow waiting, exactly like that after every bad day there will be a lesson waiting for you that will help you so much in the future. And the lesson is that it will help to make you stronger and more powerful and there you will remember that it’s okay to have bad days. It’s okay if you have a bad day, it’s okay if you can’t do it take a deep breath, and it’s okay to say that it will take time because nobody is perfect and there is no such thing as every day has to be perfect and you have to make progress every day, some days are just there to give you the lesson of a lifetime and they are disguised as bad days…

When you’ve been strong for so long, sometimes you just need time to be alone and let your tears out.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Guilt…

THE TRUTH IS,

unless you let go,

unless you forgive yourself,

unless you forgive the situation,

unless you realize the situation is over,

you cannot move forward.

Dr. Steve Maraboli.

The Guilt of not enjoying the moment to the fullest, the guilt of not crediting myself enough, the guilt of not saying how proud I am of myself, the guilt of living on the opinions of others, the guilt of making decisions depending upon the others, and the guilt of not forgiving myself for making wrong decisions like how much we have to capture ourselves with guilt. The feeling of guilt is far more worse than hate because someday hate might go but the guilt that has strangled our hearts is very hard to free. At this time I have learned to live the moments to the fullest and be happy in what I am living because those moments and memories are never going to come back and the feeling of guilt of not enjoying the moment to the fullest and wishes that we could go back and maybe live more will eat up our head. When we will learn to free ourselves from the guilt of the bad decisions that we made, it happened you don’t need to be thinking about that let go of it and make your present and future better than what you have imagined. Forgive yourself for things that you can’t control, forgive yourself for things that you didn’t do wrong, forgive yourself for those things that are not your responsibility, and forgive yourself for choosing yourself over others. Unless you won’t let the past guilt go you can’t move forward is something that I have learned so let go of the past and live in the present. The feeling of guilt is something that will never leave us but we need to learn how to process it and don’t let ourselves dwell in it. Let go of the guilt and make space for better things to enter your life and remind yourself to do better the next time rather than guilt about it.

It’s your life don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for living it your way.

There is another post of mine on GUILT if you want please check that out as well by clicking over here.

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA.

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TIMING!

When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against wind, not with it.

Henry Ford

One thing I have learned in life is that time waits for no one, what you want to do DO IT NOW otherwise it will be too late. Being able to do everything at a proper time is something we can’t control but being able to use it for proper things is something we can control. Time is changing in a blur, seasons are changing like clothes and some know what they are doing, and some are still confused. I am definitely the latter one but I do believe that timing of life is something we need to trust. Like when I started my blog I was dreading and looking for the perfect time to start but I soon realized that there is no such thing as perfect timing it’s me who has to make it my perfect time and here I am happily in my blogging journey. Now this made me realize that if I didn’t start at that time then I know I would still be looking for that perfect time which might never come because I didn’t take the first step in making my time worthy. If we did hard work and were consistent in our work then definitely time will be in our favor. Growing up till today a lot of time passed by but in those times I learned so much and ahead as well a lot of things are waiting for me to explore. People say with time people change but I want to say that with time you need to reflect on your work, how far you have gotten, what are the things that you did and what are the things that you need to complete. Time is not waiting for anyone and nor do we have to wait for the perfect opportunity just do it at the moment, start it where you can, and trust yourself and the timing will be perfect for you. If you think that right now the timing is bad I’ll start later but do it now because the timing is never going to be perfect you have to make it perfect. Let go of things that have passed and start over without wasting time and it will be worth it for you.

The moment you realize how important time is, you entire perspective will change.

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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