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Advice for an interview. (My first ever interview experience!)

I never really thought in my whole blogging journey I would write about the advice this early, but you can’t say anything now because everyone is familiar with ‘unexpected things in life.’ I am writing this blog after I gave an interview for an internship and I must point out that – “It was my first ever interview that I gave.” If this was the old me I would be freaking out, sweating the hell out and telling my father I don’t want to do it because of my lack of confidence in me. But this in front of you all is the new me, the one who has gotten the confidence from God knows where. I was so calm and was me the whole time. Put out my perspective and goal to do everything. If I do not get selected you know I will not feel bad but will feel like I did amazing but luck was not on my side and I need to work harder. The thing here is you know what I learned was the result did not matter if you have given you 100% and that is what I am feeling right now because I know I did my best. I don’t know if I am the perfect person to take advice from but as a learner like you all and I want to share my experience and don’t know maybe you are looking for something like this now or ahead. Honestly speaking, an interview is like a test where you know the test is going to happen but without knowing the questions. Heck! It is difficult to learn the answers to the questions that we already know are going to come. I know one thing that in an interview you just need to remember is to be YOU the whole time. Be confident and relax because if you are looking stressed the whole time it will just going to affect you and the answers might not go as expected. It’s totally fine if you are stressed about giving an interview because anybody can get stressed while talking to professionals or even strangers. I understand one thing the most is as time goes, your mind starts to adjust the way you think and it shows when you speak, or even in the circumstance that you can’t handle before. As you grow up the confidence that was building inside you from your childhood, it just appears and shows the way you thought it will be. Just have your skills with you, and boom you’re blooming. Have a belief in yourself, the skills you have, just go with the flow and it will just grow the confidence in you. And again a reminder that BE YOURSELF the whole time in an interview of anything you are doing because it is the way you are described.

I hope you all like my random rambling that just appears in my mind and thought to share with you all. Always in advance ‘All The Best‘ if something like this is going to happen in your future:)

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life is unpredictable.

Life is rare, life is unpredictable. Nothing last forever and people change. So live every moment to its fullest.

When we expect something from life it never happens the same way but it happens unexpectedly because life does not work according to us. We are the prey to the predators of life. When we share our problems with someone there are two replies you can get according to me the first one if the other person also starts to cry out the problems like yours and the second one if the person replies and says that – “Life is life, it can’t be controlled as it is said that life is unpredictable!” I will let you decide to choose what reply you feel is right and what will you reply if the same happened to you and what you will expect in the situation? Future is the word I feel afraid of as well as look forward to because no one in the whole world knows what will happen the next second in life, so thinking about the future is just nothing to think about. I feel like going with the flow of life is mandatory because if things are going to happen in life, nobody can stop it, you just need to deal with it and let it flow. One moment you are planning something and the other moment something unexpected happens and there goes that life is unpredictable. Fear of unexpected things can lead to the loss of beautiful things so like I said go with the flow of the cycle of happiness, than problems, than happiness and so on, it will never stop. But as always after every storm, there is a rainbow and after every sunset, there is a sunrise. Just put a smile on your face and enjoy the life that has been given to you because “You only live once!” If things are meant to happen, take them positively because I believe everything has two effects on life, positive and negative. They are bound together and you can’t separate them but learn to live with them. Learn how to control the panic in you, problems that come unexpectedly knocking on your doors because life can’t walk the way you want, you need to make it the way you want! Have a lovely day:)

We are always going to have challenges. When we make it through one, another on is going to come along. Life is unpredictable. You can’t always see what’s coming next, and you have to be okay with that. Make decisions that you think are best for you, but accept that things might not go the way you planned.

Laura Brown.

Till we again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

“Believe in Yourself. You are Braver than you think, more Talented than you know, and Capable of more than you Imagine.”

“Believe in Yourself!” was and is the mantra I use in my life, in what I am doing. When I was in school I used to think that I will do this, but there were some “well-wishers” of mine who used to say, you are not able to do it and at that time was not at all confident in me. But now years later here I am with my passion of writing that I also wanted to do since I found out that I can share my thoughts with the world. Same like me, if you want to do something but there will always be second thoughts and that is totally normal. I have learned that you just need to do it without thinking what is going to happen because if you are confident enough to know that you can do it and your believe in yourself and you are halfway there. Believe that you are going to do it, believe that there is nothing that can stop you from getting things the way you want, believing in yourself will help you gain the confidence in yourself, just go with the flow and you are on the right path. You are unstoppable when you will make the motive to lose yourself with yourself. Make challenges with yourself that you will do better than yesterday and more better tomorrow. There will be thousands of “well-wishers” of yours, who will try to let you down plenty of times; you don’t need to put yourself in that work. Prove all of them wrong because they aren’t right in the first place you are just putting them in their place. When you are stubborn with the dreams of yours, with the wants of your life than there is no single soul out there who can stop you from getting what you want. You just need to Believe in Yourself and in the end everything is going to work out.

“Self confidence is a super power. Once you starts to believe in yourself, magic starts happening.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Guilt.

Sometimes you don’t realize the weight of something you’ve been carrying until you feel the weight of it’s release.

According to me the two strongest feelings in the world is of hate and guilt. When the feeling of hate or guilt overcome your mind it makes the goodness in you get far behind your mind. Being guilty about things especially of your past can deeply hurt your present and future. We are so connected to our past that if something happened in your past, still in your present you are guilty about it and afraid to do something that is connected to it. As the sayings goes by that we are humans and it’s okay to make mistakes. Making mistakes is mandatory for you to learn and grow more. Accepting your mistakes is what makes you feel like that you are learning to correct your mistakes. Everything comes with a baggage happiness with grief, hard work with scarifies; everything is connected to each other. Feeling of guilt comes from so many other things that we feel, like the opportunities we don’t take, when we lose from one point, when we gave our hundred per cent but did not make it. The feeling of guilt in our mind has stopped us from taking something that we are afraid if we failed again. The inner mind of ours tell us that we should’ve done that, we should’ve gone with that and what not so but remember whatever happens, happens for good. Maybe at that time you will make yourself responsible for what happened but as the time pass you will understand that you are not responsible or guilty about what happened, it was meant to happen so it happened. There are times in life where people purposely will make you feel that it was your fault and you should be guilty about it but it takes two to clap the hand. What happened in your life can never change you just need to accept it and move on because until and unless you will not accept it you will never move on completely with you mind and heart. Nobody is perfect so you are, you are imperfectly perfect!

If you don’t take it off your chest, you’ll never be able to breath.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Patience!

PATIENCE IS BITTER,

BUT IT’S FRUIT

IS SWEET.

Jean-Jacques Rousseau.

From the time I remember I have always learned from my parents that if you have patience in what you are doing you are going to definitely succeed in that despite how much impossible it looks to you. I believe that patience is the key to the doors that looks impossible to open. I just stated blogging like almost two months ago and when I was going to start it I know that it will require a lot of patience for me to reach somewhere in this massive blogging world. It is difficult let me tell you, to have patience while you are doing so much behind something but let me also remind you that overnight success can never satisfy you for a long time that a success came from the nights and days of your hard work. Things which are easy to achieve can never makes to happy or satisfied than the things which are hard but not impossible to achieve. The things which we do with patience than the things we do in hurry are two aspects that instantly shows the result of which is better. Let me give you guys an example, when we come from a large trip of grocery shopping and we are alone to bring all the groceries inside the house, so we try to carry all the bags at a one go because we don’t have much energy and patience to go again and again, we tried to but we need to go gym regularly to do such a heavy stunt by ourselves and in the end we just dropped it and now the energy and patience will be needed double the amount which we needed earlier. As always after even sunset there is a sunrise and after every storm there is a rainbow you just need to have a lot of patience to see what you really can do. Nature is the best example that I look up to. The nature goes through so much to look beautiful but after a long time of period. When you sow a seed for a fruit, it doesn’t grow in one day but it has to go through so much different situations for it to become a fruit. Just like that we need to go through so many and sudden situations which can come from anywhere you just need to be ready to tackle it gracefully, if you want to eat the fruit of the seed you sowed. Just one minute of patience can give you years of peace. Have patience and read this post with a hot cup of tea;)

“With patience, it is possible to dig a well with a teaspoon.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Favourites: #5

If your path demands you to walk through hell

walk as if you own the place!

If your childhood was not spent in mud, puddles basically you being dirty or messy without any care by playing so much outside you have not lived your childhood any way. An extrovert like me have played so much outside, like what not I have played, just name a sport and I can guarantee you I have played. For me sports are like an exercise which you don’t procrastinate, you willingly go by yourself and ENJOY it. Playing sports was and is my favourite time and hobby to do in my free time. Being sporty in any sport makes me proud then at least I can play a SPORT. I can play good but not on Olympics level, I wish I could and I believe I could but that is not my priority, I just play for fun. In my childhood I never really learned any sport from a professional, it is said right when you have a heart in something you want to learn, without you knowing you just become good in it. When I was in my secondary school, we had a lot of sports but one catch my attention and that was BADMINTON! In my secondary school I tried for the first time and won third place and honestly it was not excepted by me at any means. My whole secondary school got finished and I have about six medals including all the three rank medals. Now I play badminton so good and enjoy it to the extent of my energy. I wanted a good badminton set that can be approved by me as I very picky when it comes to the things that have my heart. Playing badminton can have a bad impact on your hand especially wrist, so I wanted a racket which is of a good quality and weight light that was my priority and on amazon I found it. Now after playing so much my hand is perfectly well and that’s how I am typing to you all. I hope you guys liked my ‘sporty sport story!’ And that’s all for today have a great day:)

https://amzn.to/2X8RhTp – Badminton link from amazon!

“If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can’t hear them anymore.”

Michele Ruiz.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Favourites: #4

As I have grown older, I’ve learned that pleasing everyone is impossible, but pissing everyone off is a piece of cake.

The era of technology that has come so far like I remember when I was a child, we never had WIFI and never really know at that time what WIFI was. Network never was known until 2015 or maybe more than that or less, I am just telling you my time when I started to know that WIFI is something you can use for anything you want to do. When WIFI came I hardly watched T.V. and now the T.V. is smart, you can connect your WIFI to it, that’s pretty insane to be honest. I feel so old even though it’s just some years that went by and so much changed and is going to be. Now everything is smart and very much digital and I wanted to try and see some other electronics apart from mobile and computer. So I began my hunt and found the perfect smart item that I wanted to try out, and that was a WATCH. If you guys have not read my other article about me why being obsessed with watch read here. Now my picky self just started to look what smart watch to buy, which is affordable because first time I was buying it and a person can be paranoid. Then, I was confused that which one to buy, should I buy round or square and there were thousands of options and when you are ordering online you can’t even try it on right! After looking for hours finally I got my hands on it and I loved it so much. I feel like smart watch is very much modern and slick and it can go with everything pretty much, and if you are a picky person like me then you should definitely try smart watch if you haven’t. Nether less I hope you all enjoyed my random rambling for today. Have a great and wonderful day ahead:)

https://amzn.to/3h3lF91 – my smart watch link, if you guys wanna check it out!

Some people are such treasures that you just want to bury them.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Take a deep breath…

Choose your Happiness

Choose your Wellbeing

Choose your passion

Choose Yourself,

every time.

We all are so busy with the life of ours that taking a deep breath in a day is difficult task for us because we think that our time will be wasted. Life is moving so fast that, I don’t even understand where the hell my past two years went, I just don’t remember. Time is literally on a race, you just blink and it’s the next day. Amidst all the chaos it’s very important to find something that you are doing for yourself, doing that makes you happy, takes you away from the hectic of the world even it’s for just some time but trust me, you need it! A little silly things that makes you happy, like jumping in the puddle, baking even though it going to be a mess but who cares, just have fun. According to me hobby is something that is very different from the work you do, hobby is when you enjoy without having any pressure, expectations to do it perfect, and it’s perfect only for you. Taking a time for you is a very good medication required for the life of yours. Take as much time you need for yourself because everything comes after YOU. I usually when feeling low or just not myself, for me reading a book or even randomly sitting in the corner scrolling through phone helps. When you are feeling low it can be because of stress or things are not going according to you, it happens so just let your brain have some rest, just do what makes you relax and it will definitely help you to be back again but in more better and uplifting mood. The ‘Me Time’ is mandatory; it helps you to think outside of the stressful world of yours to the world where you can be as free as you want to. The ‘Walk of Talk’, I would like to say where you can think all about yourself, what you want to do for yourself, walk until you are yourself again. Don’t get too busy in the world because the world is not going to stop, it’s your duty to find the time for ‘yourself’ in the world!

It’s okay to take as many moments as you need for yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Favourites: #3

I wish everything was as easy as getting fat.

I eat a lot means a lot but still I don’t gain weight. I think there will be some other people as well who can relate to me. Actually I was skinny, yes now I understand why my mom freaks out when she gains one kg up. I used to walk a lot before the pandemic but after the pandemic the situation for everyone just got worse when it comes to the routine of the day. I believe that if you are skinny or not so skinny the way you describe yourself the main thing should matter is you should be healthy. Being healthy nowadays is just a very foreign word for all of us. Exercise just doesn’t go well with me, even though I love running, jogging and cycling. I feel like if you do exercise once in the day, it can be a big difference let me tell you. Exercise is for everyone the way you are it just makes you more healthy and active. I wanted to have some kind of equipment that I can do inside my home, which should be fun and enjoyable for me. So the other day I was scrolling through various shopping apps to find affordable exercise equipment which is very handy to use. Then suddenly I came across my childhood memory that I spend my whole time playing with it. It was a skipping rope. In my childhood the amount of jumping I did, it was just absurd you guys. The amount of skipping ropes I had at that time, like one I remember which counts how much you have jumped and many more and at that time I used to jump so my height can increase and as well as to have fun. Now it helps me to maintain myself, to be healthy and active because I have become so lazy because of pandemic and now I am working my way up. Hope you guys enjoy it and please let me know:)

https://amzn.to/3yw9Fm7

– Here is the link of the skipping rope, if you want to check it out!

The buttons on my jeans have started social distancing from each other!

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Young!

“Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again.”

C.S. Lewis.

We are too young to be rushing things and too old to be wasting time. I feel like from the age of teenager to being adult even though it’s a matter of years but the time period is too fast. It is the period when we start to recognize what we never understood in our childhood. It’s like when you are a teenager you want to be a young adult and when you are an adult you want to be a child it’s a harsh truth. I had always believed that we are too young to think about what our future hold for us. It’s better to live in present than to think about our future. My mother told me once that – ‘you are always young from your heart!’ and I loved that so much. I always remember my childhood and smile that I was such a mischievous child who used to be a troublemaker in her childhood and it was the best ever time of my life. That’s the same I want to remember in my old times that what a fun I used to have in my young age and want to smile by remembering that I spend my young age as a good time:) We will always be too young for everything, believe me. Don’t take stress of what your future is going to be. Smile that at least you have a chance to enjoy your adult age the way you want. When the time will pass, you should never have the words pass through your mouth that – ‘I should have done that before, now I can’t do it as time has already passed!’, time waits for no one and it’s ok if the time pass away, it’s never too late for anything, you just need to find the enthusiasm that you can still do it. Being young teaches us so many amazing lessons, to have so many beautiful memories, us being able to do what we want to do, to have so many missions to complete that’s the spirit we carry in our adult age. It’s an age we want to do so many things but at the same time having fun and enjoying the life as the time is never going to be same ahead. Do whatever you want to do, just be a happy going soul enjoying everything that comes your way.

“Growing old is mandatory, but growing up is optional.”

Walt Disney.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who like to write.

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