Understanding.

Understanding is deeper than knowledge. There are many people who know you, but very few who understand you.

– Nicolas Cage –

The most complicated thing in this world is finding understanding between peoples or things. It’s a fact according to me that understanding between two peoples is the core of a relationship. Understanding does not come when you first time open your eyes in this world. It does not come when your fairy tooth comes out. It’s the experience of your life, from first time crying to coming in the zone of time where every little thing matters. Understanding comes when your mind starts to not only recognising the surrounding but also the peoples. Nobody will ever understand the life you want until you will try to make them understand and there are only few who will understand! It’s okay to do things which people don’t understand because there are things which you will not understand of them it’s equal. Pleasing people in 21st century is hard and time wasting because as time move forward the difference between the generations is pretty much large. What we do maybe our parents don’t understand, maybe they find it weird I mean if I will tell my grandparents about me writing blogs that is pretty easy that they will not understand because the difference and understanding is not the same. It’s not that your parents don’t understand you, it’s just that maybe they have never seen all of the things we find fun, that’s why they interfere but they will never want bad for their children’s. If I will tell that I am not so easy to understand but there are people in my life that understands me easily. Everyone in their life has someone to understand them, if you don’t have someone that does not mean you are hard to understand it just mean that you don’t need people to understand you. You yourself are enough to understand YOU! Everyone in their life has went through a phase or going, that their sense of getting something in there mind has been shut down and they are not understanding anything, they are not in the position to understand anything because some feelings or people talks have kept their mind blocked and they are losing their shit. OMG! I am literally feeling that I am scientist writing all of this, Lol! It just came in my mind and I wrote this… Some people will never understand that sitting in your damn house, alone in peace, eating snacks and minding your own freaking business is another level of understanding that people need to upgrade themselves! Well I hope you understood my random rambling that I just start writing and here we are:) Have a good day!

Don’t try to understand everything. Sometimes it is not meant to be understood, just accepted.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

Feelings!

“You keep a lot to yourself because it’s difficult to find people who understand.”

What describes you as a HUMAN BEING?! Having feelings to express, well some people don’t like to express their feelings. Does that mean they are not human beings, than what they are a ALIEN like ME:) Everybody in this world is living to care for the feelings others have. But what about the feeling you have? Who is going to care for it? If you care for somebody you are good enough, if not than you are not a human being because you have no feelings to care about others. If you are still there, than let me tell you that the world and the world people’s have already pass the phase of not caring about others and their opinions, those ‘others’ who just want to make everyone believe that they are only ‘right’. If you want to live in this generation you have to let go of the ‘irrational feelings’ you have in you to survive in this world. When you grow up, reached your teenage period the feelings you used to show to the people will become opaque. Everything should have a certain limit, if you let people in your life limitless they don’t just come alone but with thousands of feelings which you are attached to. Attachment is a punishment of a crime you never committed. Having feelings make you ‘human being’ and not having feelings make you ‘robot’!? Overpowering the feeling of hate with love, overpowering the feeling of vengeance with forgiveness, overpowering the feeling of complain with gratefulness, overpowering the feeling of failure with proud, this will make only YOU the person you ever wanted to be. Learn to control your feelings whatever it is maybe of disappoint, guilt, revenge it just in the heat of moment relax your mind, look in the depth of your feelings that is what YOU actually want! When you reach a certain point of your life you realize that some feelings should be kept to ourselves before it becomes a joke. When you learn to control your feelings the way you want is a step ahead in your life. Make yourself the priority and keep your feeling in the cage don’t let them free like a bird otherwise it will be hard to bring them back. Just hold on in there, everything is going to be okay! Just don’t give people the right to walk over your feelings like it mean nothing.

“Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind!”

DODINSKY.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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