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The Story of Broken Relationships!

Sometimes you have to make a decision that will break your heart but will give peace to your soul.

Any relationship is the effort of both parties, a person will receive and need to give for the relationship to develop a strong bond. However, it doesn’t seem as easy as said because each person has their own thoughts which might clash and that is why communication is very important which leads to understanding and mature bonds in any relationship. Any broken piece of glass be it big or tiny can pierce the skin of people very badly and it’s just a physical cut, it will heal. However, it is said when a relationship is going to break people can feel it just like glass it pierces the skin exactly the relationship which is broken breaks the person’s existence and makes them question what they did wrong. And the difference between them is the physical cut of glass will heal and will be long forgotten but broken relationships will always stay in the memories and whenever something related to them comes forward we are thrown into a flashback which is more intense as we relive all the pain again. There are always two sides to a story, one where a person chooses a relationship over him/her or where a person chooses him/her over the relationship. When decades of a relationship come to an end it hurts a lot and some might not even want to end it because the memories the relationship has created the bond everything from so many years will make one feel that it will all be waste and that is why people tend to be in a relationship where they just want to escape but not want to end it. I always watched people having such big groups of friends including myself but I only have a few whom I talk to daily and now I have realized that having only one friend that I talk to daily is heavenly for me because that one friend of mine doesn’t make me feel like I need another one and that one friend of mine is enough for me.

It hurts to let go of a relationship especially friendship when the flashback appears or the moments in the present or the future which you both talked about in the past take place but with whom you planned out everything is just not there or they are there but not like before it’s more formal now. I always heard that with time people change and you lose them and now I truly believe in it because it’s not time or people that change them, it’s just them they wanted to change and they allow it which leads to the story of broken relationships!

You can miss someone

and heal at the same time.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Scared.

That move you are scared to make might just be the one.

Tell me honestly how many of you are scared of your own feeling and thoughts that made you stop taking steps in your life. I am one of them because of my insecurities and my fear of making the wrong decision because as many people say, life does not always give you a second chance. After all, moving on is not at all easy. Feeling scared before and after taking a big decision is a part of my dictionary because of how uncertain I am with myself and not being able to believe in myself leads to this but only for a small time. I have realized that in the beginning I always let my insecurities and my fear take over control especially when I am starting a new chapter in my life but it’s totally normal it’s a human tendency to do it because it takes our mind to adjust to new things to new pressure which makes us scared. Let me tell you that if something big happened that made people scared to do it again or to move forward is not at all easy, to begin with. But this life we are living at the moment is playing hide and seek with us every second it will scare us and challenge us to move forward and that is where we have to be brave and try to tell ourselves that being scared will lead was nowhere that is why we have to be brave and let me tell you after being scared when you get the courage to move forward will lead to another level of satisfaction for yourself trust me. It’s okay to be afraid of never let your mind makes you feel guilty about it just remember to not let fear control it calmly find out the way and slowly move to clear the path for yourself. Taking chances is always scary but there is something more scary that one should fear missing out on the beautiful chances you will get by taking the chance just because you are scared.

If it excites you and scares you at the same time, it probably means you should do it.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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The Reality of Loss!

there will always be a tiny piece of my heart that silently breaks when I catch myself having fun.

You know it really sucks that there is so much you want to say yet you can’t it’s like some force has been used that you just can’t open your mouth and the frustration because of it makes you lose inside your mind and this is what I call it as the reality of loss. It is as bad as you think because nothing in this world can repay for the loss one goes through, not even themselves. No matter what people say or their motivation nothing worked out and that really sucks because nothing can cheer you up, it’s like finding a piece of sugar from a bag of salt which we all know is not possible. I just know what has happened it can’t be made right how much you try it will always haunt you in the back of your mind ALWAYS. Talks, people, and moments are some of the precious things that people have in their life and among them if something is lost it becomes a pain forever. No matter what people say if it but pain can never be forgotten and it can’t be made better, IT JUST CAN’T. I have learned that pain and loss don’t need solutions because in the first place they don’t even have them they are not exactly problems but a phase of life that can never be forgotten. If you see people happy that doesn’t mean that they are over with the loss because some loss can’t be cheered up and reality is far from it. I just know you don’t want people to give you a solution for it but acknowledge them telling you to cry, scream whatever makes you feel better you need people to see through your eyes about the feeling that you feel. It’s like you are alone sitting in a dark room and you don’t want people to open up the door for you because it’s you who have to do it you just need them to sit with you in a dark room and give you encouragement words to assure you that they are with you and give your the courage until you are ready to open up the room by yourself.

I know I know I missed two uploads because I am not feeling well for the past few days, it’s more emotional than physical feeling as I am dealing with it still a lot has to pass but in a few days I will be celebrating the second anniversary of my blog and I have prepared a little surprise for you all, hope that you will like it – a spoiler it’s my first attempt on it and I am eagerly waiting for your reactions.

imagine waking up in an alternate reality where everything is different and nothing looks familiar but you are still expected to function normally…

that’s how it feels

reality of loss.

Till we meet again, Be happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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I’m Changing…

“We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are.”

Max Depree.

I am the type of person that can’t handle change I just want to be in a comfortable zone in what I am doing and not want to take a new step in that thing because I can’t adjust to change and leave my comfort zone. But I read somewhere that if you are comfortable then you are in the wrong place. I learned that for better success, I have to take new risks I have to do, and why do I always need to think negatively and not trust myself but let’s look at the positive side and to gain something I need to lose something right? But now I am changing for good now I am learning more about myself because the step I have taken in my life is for myself it’s just for myself I am alone on this journey I didn’t ask anybody but I did it because I believe in myself, I believe in my talent. If you don’t take the first step, you won’t know how capable you are of it. It might be like that after the first step things might not go according to you but trust me after the first step you will gain all the confidence to take the second step. I trust myself and you, just like how I changed for myself, took the first step and believed in my dreams I want you all to just do it, believe in yourself, and change for good and better things in your life. Growth and change are a phase of things that might be messy, uncomfortable, and many feelings that you don’t even expect you will feel but those things you need to feel to do better for yourself and your future.

“I love who I’ve been, but I really love who I’m becoming.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling- a girl who likes to write.

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PLEASE BE KIND!

Have courage and be kind, where there is kindness there is goodness and where there is goodness there is MAGIC!

Cinderella.

Nobody is going to remember your face or your physical features as much but your behavior towards them and your kindness towards them will be forever embarked in their memories. Heck, I still remember when my family members were struggling to go on the escalator and I alone was not able to handle so there is were many people from behind they didn’t ignore us but as fast as they saw us they run to help us, they lend their hands to us and it makes me remember that there is still humanity and kindness alive in this world. While helping someone, that someone will go and spread the news about how a nice person helped them but not by your physical features but your actions will forever be embarked in their mind, and in the future when they will remember you an instant smile will come on their face. The hardest thing to do in this world is to be kind, some people are so selfish that in their dictionary a word like selfless does not even exist. I was always told by my mother that not using your words carefully can hurt someone very much even though you don’t mean it then too be mindful of what you say. There where I learned the importance of staying quiet it’s very hard but it’s so beneficial for both parties. No one knows what one goes through, you see people online and people sitting beside you in the restaurant that you know nothing about what they are going through so the only way to help them is to be kind and if you can’t be kind then keep quiet. If you don’t like anybody, stay away from them leave them, alone, and let them be happy and you as well. The moment this world will realize how important it is to be kind, that moment will be when half of the problems of people will flow away automatically so please be kind.

In a world where you can be anything be KIND!

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Letting Go…

“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what’ could’ve, would’ve happened… or you can just leave the pieces on the floor & move on.”

Tupac Shakur.

The hardest feeling I felt was when I had to let go of the ice cream that fell on the ground, making one more plus point in my clumsy diary. But on a serious note, why is it so hard to let off of something? Why do we have to think about it so much and why does it hurt so much? Honestly holding on to something that gives you no meaning yet just because you don’t want to waste all the time spent together, all those memories, and all those ahead moments where you both will pass each other like strangers, and trust me I know that feeling very well, it hurts. When we grow up a lot of things change in one’s life and it does affect various relationships as well. And in those times I have learned that a relationship is all about give and take if you are putting your hand forward then they need to do the same both parties need to put in an equal amount of effort. The most shocking thing when a person decides to let go of it is not only because they are not feeling any love but because everything changed, they changed and just thinking about what actually changed there is no answer. You are the same but that person is not the one you know. Letting go of something has the same feeling as when we feel tears leaking out of our eyes in the middle of the night just because our heart is sad but we don’t know the reason behind it. I have realized that letting go doesn’t mean you stop loving them or greeting them but because you stop pitting yourself, you tell yourself to move on, you let yourself get free from all the disturbing thoughts about them, and you just want yourself to be happy and letting go is the solution.

Closure happens right after you accept that letting go and moving on is more important than protecting a fantasy of how the relationship could have been.

Sylvester McNutt.

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA

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Worries!

Breath, darling.

This is just a chapter.

It’s not your whole story.

S.C. Lourie.

I was never the overthinking kind of person, never did I overthink what I want to become in the future, and never did I overthink when I waste my whole day doing absolutely nothing “Sigh.” I know you all will be thinking that I have changed now but that is totally wrong actually I am proud of myself, now that I think about it I never overthink like never my friends always say why are you so chill and to be honest I also don’t know maybe it’s my biggest flex “smirk.” To be honest, my mother is the biggest reason why worrying and overthinking don’t affect me because she always says “worrying about things will do nothing but will prevent you from achieving something”. Those words are like magic to me. You know you need some person to tell you that and the calmness after hearing those words from my mother helps me a lot. And I wanted to share those words with you I probably won’t be able to help to lessen your worry but I hope that maybe my trying did like 0.001 percent something and if it did I will be over the moon. I was reading a book the other day on worry and the way the book has conveyed today’s generation being surrounded by worrying without even thinking how torn they are getting from inside astonished me so much. Worrying about the future will not do any good to you, it will only destroy your today which is way more important. In the book, I learned that live for today, and at the end of the day quit all the worries of today and start the next day as your new life. Try to be patient with yourself and solve your problems by keeping your mind fresh and without worries. Because worries are going to come in every step of your life that doesn’t mean you will be drowning in them, learn to solve them and learn to control your mind from worries, I know you can do it:)

Thoughts are not FACTS!

Keep Smiling, you are loved ~ MA.

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Focus on the Good!

Give More Attention to what is right in your life than what is wrong.

It’s much harder to be grateful than to complain about them. Focusing on what is good for us rather than complaining about things that don’t matter to us. I truly believe that how much of a good thing you do for others one bad thing will destroy everything. People never talk about how good people are to them, how much help they received but just one bad thing from that person then everything becomes sour. Honestly, I have seen so much of this as well as felt that now I don’t even care. I just know that kindness is the greatest gift one can receive and if you have them never lose them. Focusing on things takes a lot of effort, actually positive things but when it comes to irrational and negative things it’s never hard. Take your hands off of what you can’t control and get your hands on what you can change. Blaming things, time and people are never going to work out it’s all you, if you decide to focus on yourselves, your positive changes and there you will know that everything is good if you focus on good. Just focus on positive vibes, things that bring you happiness, I know it’s hard but life is too short to focus on the negatives.

we’re all works

in progress.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Self-Consciousness!

The level of your consciousness depends on the calmness of your mind.

Nitin Namdeo.

I got a lot of questions about how to deal with self-consciousness? What exactly does it mean? Is it bad to feel self-conscious? So I thought to write about it because it is an important part of overcoming a lot of things about themselves. Honestly, the talks about all of these things are just talks, they mean nothing let me start from that. First of all, nobody has any right to say or point out people’s flaws, it should be illegal. We don’t know a small point out about someone’s weight can do a lot of bad things to that person, it can trigger their mind. We never know the power of words until they become a reality. Self-consciousness is a pretty normal thing, it’s not only about looks but there are so many things that people feel they are not good at. From giving a speech to asking for a water bottle, it’s just in our minds. All the feelings you feel are because you allow that, nobody can make you feel anything but only you can. Before doing anything, take a deep breath, remind yourself – you are the best, you can do it and just go for it. Believe me, you will feel better because you trust yourself, you did what others told you can’t and that’s how you deal with self-consciousness. If you have a hard time doing something remember nobody is perfect and it takes a lot of practice, belief and you have already reached half of your goal. Trust yourself rather than others, you make you, you deal with your self-consciousness nobody else can do it. A reminder that you should also give yourself every day – nobody can be you and that’s your power. You are beautiful, you are powerful and you are loved:)

To change the way you feel.

Change the way you think.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Uselessness!

Just a reminder in case your mind is playing tricks on you today –

You matter. You’re important. You’re loved.

People who just randomly sit and start something becomes everything in their life. Best thoughts come when you are just ideally sitting in a park and contemplating your life. Whenever I think of something that is really out of the box it usually comes at the weirdest time and place. Random thoughts are the best one because it comes from the emotions you are feeling at that time. It is said that when you are too deep in emotions the mind and heart both make you feel the power of the thoughts and words. A fact is when someone feels they are wasting time but that is the time one is more motivated than ever before. For me, my uselessness meant me the whole day being in bed and doing NOTHING absolutely NOTHING. Because the whole week I am so busy and I don’t get time to properly enjoy it, so at weekends I am a stranger to the world. I need my sleep, I need to spend the day as I love without having any tension of my busy life. Just like you need to take steps back to jump ahead exactly, you need to take a break to come back fresh. Whenever I have so many things in my mind and it is tiring me then too I need to work but I can’t because the energy is being drained out as so much was on my mind. I think the meaning of rest should be you being entirely selfish. That means doing something that makes you happy without any tension of the time. Like most people do something useful in their free time but I believe that uselessness is useful! You need to have days that others think are useless but to you, it is able to focus more on useful things later! Just be your free self because it is what helps you be useful:)

Never force anything. Just let it be if it’s meant to be, it will be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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