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Focus on the Good!

Give More Attention to what is right in your life than what is wrong.

It’s much harder to be grateful than to complain about them. Focusing on what is good for us rather than complaining about things that don’t matter to us. I truly believe that how much of a good thing you do for others one bad thing will destroy everything. People never talk about how good people are to them, how much help they received but just one bad thing from that person then everything becomes sour. Honestly, I have seen so much of this as well as felt that now I don’t even care. I just know that kindness is the greatest gift one can receive and if you have them never lose them. Focusing on things takes a lot of effort, actually positive things but when it comes to irrational and negative things it’s never hard. Take your hands off of what you can’t control and get your hands on what you can change. Blaming things, time and people are never going to work out it’s all you, if you decide to focus on yourselves, your positive changes and there you will know that everything is good if you focus on good. Just focus on positive vibes, things that bring you happiness, I know it’s hard but life is too short to focus on the negatives.

we’re all works

in progress.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Self-Consciousness!

The level of your consciousness depends on the calmness of your mind.

Nitin Namdeo.

I got a lot of questions about how to deal with self-consciousness? What exactly does it mean? Is it bad to feel self-conscious? So I thought to write about it because it is an important part of overcoming a lot of things about themselves. Honestly, the talks about all of these things are just talks, they mean nothing let me start from that. First of all, nobody has any right to say or point out people’s flaws, it should be illegal. We don’t know a small point out about someone’s weight can do a lot of bad things to that person, it can trigger their mind. We never know the power of words until they become a reality. Self-consciousness is a pretty normal thing, it’s not only about looks but there are so many things that people feel they are not good at. From giving a speech to asking for a water bottle, it’s just in our minds. All the feelings you feel are because you allow that, nobody can make you feel anything but only you can. Before doing anything, take a deep breath, remind yourself – you are the best, you can do it and just go for it. Believe me, you will feel better because you trust yourself, you did what others told you can’t and that’s how you deal with self-consciousness. If you have a hard time doing something remember nobody is perfect and it takes a lot of practice, belief and you have already reached half of your goal. Trust yourself rather than others, you make you, you deal with your self-consciousness nobody else can do it. A reminder that you should also give yourself every day – nobody can be you and that’s your power. You are beautiful, you are powerful and you are loved:)

To change the way you feel.

Change the way you think.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Uselessness!

Just a reminder in case your mind is playing tricks on you today –

You matter. You’re important. You’re loved.

People who just randomly sit and start something becomes everything in their life. Best thoughts come when you are just ideally sitting in a park and contemplating your life. Whenever I think of something that is really out of the box it usually comes at the weirdest time and place. Random thoughts are the best one because it comes from the emotions you are feeling at that time. It is said that when you are too deep in emotions the mind and heart both make you feel the power of the thoughts and words. A fact is when someone feels they are wasting time but that is the time one is more motivated than ever before. For me, my uselessness meant me the whole day being in bed and doing NOTHING absolutely NOTHING. Because the whole week I am so busy and I don’t get time to properly enjoy it, so at weekends I am a stranger to the world. I need my sleep, I need to spend the day as I love without having any tension of my busy life. Just like you need to take steps back to jump ahead exactly, you need to take a break to come back fresh. Whenever I have so many things in my mind and it is tiring me then too I need to work but I can’t because the energy is being drained out as so much was on my mind. I think the meaning of rest should be you being entirely selfish. That means doing something that makes you happy without any tension of the time. Like most people do something useful in their free time but I believe that uselessness is useful! You need to have days that others think are useless but to you, it is able to focus more on useful things later! Just be your free self because it is what helps you be useful:)

Never force anything. Just let it be if it’s meant to be, it will be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Back To The Grind!

The day you plant the seed is not that day you eat the fruit.

Finally, the time came for what I wanted and also what I did not want. The back to school is the time every student desires for as well as back to vacation after attending one day of school the ranting of it starts. The new normal was becoming my headache but as everything started to get back, especially the friend meeting session for which most of us go to school is coming back and I am loving every second of it. I am in a university right now and trying to get my interest back so that I can graduate peacefully (sighing). Yes, I am a young adult! My start off was online and I hope my finish off will be offline while wearing my graduation gown and throwing my cap so that in future I can have proof that I was indeed in a university. My first day was honestly much better than what I expected, I met professors, got bored and talked a lot. I still clearly remember when I was in my last year of high school the memories I made with my lifetime friends can and never will be the same ahead in any period. I feel like whatever you are doing at what phase you are try to enjoy it to the fullest because it’s never going to come back and ahead nothing is going to be the same as it was. Learning in any step you are on, one thing is that you will be a student that means enjoy it to the fullest, have fun, talk a lot, make dozens of memories because that is what you are going to take with you. I hope you all enjoy my ranting because I wanted to share a little part of me so I decided to write about it. In any part of the world, you are I hope you are back to the grind.

I don’t want to look back and say I wish I could have done better.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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To make a Difference.

Don’t be easy to define. Let them wonder about you.

Picking up the stone from the middle of the road, throwing garbage in the trashcan while walking on the path, helping another even without them knowing about it, ‘Yes!’ It makes a difference. It’s a basic thought that the other person will do it so there is no need for me to do it and the same thoughts run in the mind of the other person. Making a small difference is a lot more beneficial than doing a lot more together. When your path is all messed up and you don’t know which to take, if it is really for you, then you will be naturally drawn to it, even if you decide something else but at every step, you find yourself back at it again, that is your sign that it is the path for you. Just have the courage to follow them and it will make a big difference in your life. In this world, people do not appreciate different things because they are different from them. We are so used to seeing the same thing, doing things the same every day and even if something happens a bit different then we name it a problem. You know a little difference, even a small moment in a day makes you so fresh and you don’t even know you need it. Make a difference in what you think you need in your life, try to find even a little difference because if it makes you smile, takes you away from your problems then it is worth it. If you want an escape from your daily routine, instead of doing your usual do something unusual like if you are a coffee drinker try to switch out the mood make some tea it helps, telling you by experience. You know that every day the same is going to happen so take out some time and do something else to fresh out your mind. A little difference can make a big difference in your life.

“No one ever made a difference by being like everyone else.”

P.T. Barnum.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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You are a Hero!

Hard times don’t create heroes. It is during the hard times when the ‘hero’ within us is revealed.

Bob Riley.

All the heroes do not wear a cap. Yes! Right just like you. When we think about a hero, what comes to our mind is saving people and doing things that help people and all of that. But according to me, a hero is someone who knows how to deal with his weakness and is kind enough to have a strength of heart that is strong for him to choose with he love. There is also a saying that emotional pain is worse than physical pain. You can deal with and heal your physical pain very easily but emotional pain takes a lot of time and patience. Be your hero for yourself, you need strength to make your heart feel like it is strongest for you. No matter how much weak you feel in doing something, how much you want to give up, you are a hero if you never stop trying or backing off because that is what makes you are truly a saviour by a hero aka yourself. You know the true meaning of knowing what you want, understanding yourself better when you are dealing with hard times. Hard times make you feel that everything in life is a chapter that will close someday and a new chapter will be opened but in that one chapter there is so much that could happen to you and all of those just make you stronger and a hero in your own eyes. Fear was, is and will also be a constant factor in whatever you are doing, but you need to learn how to make it your biggest strength. A hero is known as someone who learns how to overcome obstacles by feeling the emotions of insecurity and fear and that is what makes a hero. You are doing great, take a deep breath and continue trying.

Live your life like you’re the hero in your own movie.

Joe Rogan.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Giving up is a Sin.

You are fighting so hard and I am so proud of you, I know you’re tired, but please don’t give up. I have so much faith in you. Like countless times before this, you can and will do this.

It is very easy to give up and grieve about it the next day. Making decisions about things that don’t interest you is quite understandable because wasting time on something which is not for you is bizarre. But something that you are finding hard, and not getting through, you just decide to give up and stop trying. Making the mind up for doing is the first step towards the goal you want to achieve. Nothing is easy until you do it. When you arrive at the goal and when you look back everything you will find is easy but at the last step. There are so many steps to reach the final destination because it takes time to make yourself what you dream of. Taking a break is mandatory to come up with a clear and focused mind to begin the journey again. But giving up because you can’t do it anymore, or you are fed up is a feeling that everyone gets but that is where a decision is a crucial part. Take a break for some time, refresh your mind, make up your mind, dream about the final goal of yours and then you are ready to start again. Before starting your journey make some promises to yourself like huddles will stop you but can’t beat you, giving up should be the last thought in your mind, above all the biggest promise is to keep going, never stop until you achieve the goal you have decided for yourself. The struggle is the best thing you should be proud of throughout your journey and after your journey. Struggle makes you strong to deal with every part of problems in your life. Struggle makes you learn to handle the situation by yourself. You can do it if you want. By all of this, I want to say don’t give up no matter how hard it is because in the end it will be worth it and you will be so proud of not making a decision that is not for you. Giving up is not a solution for anything but a sin.

You don’t have to be brave,

you just have to keep trying.

You don’t have to be strong,

you just have to keep going.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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The Hidden Talent.

First simple rule in life:

If you don’t go after what you want,

you’ll never have it.

By saying hidden talent does not mean the talent of touching your nose by your tongue to find out your hidden talent. By the means of what I am saying is that the diamonds are not found on the roadside but deep inside the earth. That’s how your talent is hidden inside you. It’s not easy like a hide and seeks that you will find in a matter of few seconds. It takes time to develop something that you also don’t know about. The main clause here is to find out the missing puzzles that are somewhere hidden inside you. To become a wholly imperfectly perfect person the first step is to know yourself perfectly. To make the perfect puzzle of your life, you need to find out the hidden pieces then collect them and make the life you choose to live. Everything which has an important value is precious but hard to get is always buried deep inside that no ordinary person can find it but the person who has the will to have it is the person who gets it. Talent is not made for you, you are made for them. The things which come easily are the things that do not stay for a long time, just like an ice cream;) Life is too short to think if it is going to work out or not, you need to show off your talent like you are the ruler of it. Don’t play with your talents in small pieces of puzzles, collect them all together and then show the world and yourself ‘your masterpieces.’ It will take a lot of time but you need to work hard on it and never leave the hope of not finding them because hope and patience is the key to everything. Smile with your chin up and do the hell you want with the talent you are blessed with to create your present and future. Also, remember that the things which take time, in the end, are the things you will be most grateful for. As it said, “It is also fun to find something which we all know will be worth it in the end!” – mysteriousalien:)

you’re the only one who can fix or ruin everything in an instant.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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When there is a will, there is a way!

When you really want something you will find a way. When you don’t really want something, you’ll find an excuse.

Rachel Hollis.

Growing up my mother always used to tell me when there is a will, there is a way, but at that time the meaning behind those words never really made any sense to me. But as time passed I understood that every word has its meaning. We just need to find it and also those words which make you want to wake up in the morning and keep going. I understood that whatever you want in your life, you need to fight for it. Nothing is easy to get if you are a tough person with impossible dreams that people think but not you. You should know that if you want to make a life for yourself, the road to it will never be easy because if it is not then it means it’s not for you. The stubbornness you have in you will help you overcome the feeling of giving up. The harder, the want of your life the harder you will be in the end. Every day there will be problems that you need to deal with, at some point you may just want to leave everything and stop trying. But as always if you have willingness in you to fulfil your dreams, to make your dreams a reality then there will always be a way for you to reach there. You just need to have patience and faith in what you are doing and as always everything is going to work out. God is always with you, just trust him he knows what is right for you and will put you on the right path. Have the power to choose what you want, to choose what is best for you, to choose yourself. If you have the courage, the faith in yourself, the stubbornness of not giving up then you will not find the way but the way will find you. If all the doors to your life are closed and you don’t know what to do, take a deep breath and tell yourself that ‘you got this’ and the door to move ahead will be visible to you but at that time you will be stronger and ready to achieve whatever you dream of. If you feel like you need to take a break, do it without any second thought because the comeback is always stronger. Just follow the path of your dreams with patience, hard work, faith and hope and you are going to find problems but remember when there is a will, there is a way!

You spend most of your life inside your head. Make it a nice place to be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Another Day Another You!

Mirror Mirror on the wall, I will always get up when I fall, and whether I run, walk or have to crawl, I will set my goals and achieve them all.

It’s okay to be sad; it’s okay to be not okay, it’s okay if you are not feeling better today. It’s okay if you are not feeling yourself. Nobody is going to know the behind the scenes of where you have come from, your breakdowns, your low times, your moments of almost giving up except you. You need to overcome yesterday for your tomorrow. Your failure will help you become the person you are meant to be, when you will look back at the time you will be proud that you gave yourself a chance despite the thousands of barriers that were blocking your way but the only ray at that time was your hope, your faith in you, your dreams and now you are there. For taking one step ahead you need to take four steps back. The saying “your past does not define your future” is the perfect way to hold on to yourself and move ahead without looking back. Give yourself the time you need, prepare yourself mentally and physically to walk on the road where nothing is easy other than your stubbornness to win. Maybe your today will not be how you imagined it to be but that’s normal because you are going to make your tomorrow better, you have to. A reminder to you all if today was not a good day for you before you hit the pillow tonight, remind yourself that you are alright. You are doing a great job. Be patient with yourself, and remember that big things are achieved not all at once, but one day at a time. Maybe today was not for you but tomorrow it will be. As I said you need to take some steps back for you to come stronger, better and more YOU. Have faith in yourself; never lose it because it’s that kind of weapon that can change your life. Always be hopeful about things you want to achieve in your life, never lose hope if you do, you will lose yourself. If you can’t find a way then make a way to be there where you see yourself. Wake up with a smile on your face and say to yourself that today you are going to make another day and another you!

“If you are brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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