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Dreams!

The world has never let us dream, nor has it ever taught us how to dream. They say it’s your fault, but it’s not. Don’t blame yourself. It’s okay to lean back when you are tried. If someone’s tired, become their pillar of support. This is the reason why I started making music. I hope our music can become your little source of strength.

SUGA of BTS. (Dispatch ‘Dicon’ Magazine – BTS Issue.)

You will become something only if you have a dream. You are on the right path if you have a dream. If you have dreams you will be successful. How much have we heard about this? Like when somebody asks you what you want to become and if you have no answer then you have no future that’s the most common reaction we get from people. But honestly, if you are doing nothing, thousands of people will be there telling you how worthless you are and if you are doing something nobody will encourage you. Funny isn’t it? How this world wants you to do something yet never let you? I just want to say that – It’s okay if you have no dream, it’s okay if you do not think like others, and it’s not possible for everyone to have a dream of doing something. You will figure it out as you grow up and you will understand what makes you happy and what is worth your time. Being an adult makes you more mature in things that interest you and whatnot, it’s just you who need to figure it out. I saw so many people took things either their parents told them or they just winged it and let me tell you that nor your parents or anyone is going to live the life you have chosen but you are going to do, so choose something that makes you happy, make the decision for yourself because you are going to sit in that damn chair in the office for hours where you could have done things that light up your heart even if takes more time. Just be happy and don’t give up, I know you are going to figure it out like you always have:) Do what makes you happy and not this damn world because if you love yourself and believe in yourself then you don’t need anyone else to dream for you!

“It was just about being me, doing what I want to do”

Keep Smiling, you are loved:) ~ MA

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A Piece Of Random!

“Character is how you treat those that can do nothing for you.”

Nelson Mandela.

The world we live in is like one big box which looks small from afar but when you look at it from close it’s like finding a piece of sugar from a bag of salt. You may think about what kind of comparison I just wrote but in a true sense, it makes the most sense. There are billions of people residing on the same planet as you but yet so different but somehow similar. Honestly, I can never understand the game of fate, the destiny like two people living in different corners of the world who know nothing about each other can meet randomly and become best friends or even worse enemies;)

From afar everything looks good but as you get closer the clarity and the flaws start to make an appearance that is binding by the distance. The world becomes hasher when everything starts to make sense, the innocence that one has in their childhood period left without one knowing when and why. When people say childhood is the best time in the life of a child, I believe never more true words have ever been spoken. I mean it’s time that can’t be controlled just like your desire to have the best for you. Just like everyone wants happiness, peace, and prosperity in their life, I feel like pain, suffering, and misery is the part that makes all of these things possible.

Because after every storm comes a rainbow.

An apple a day keeps anyone away if you throw it hard enough;)

Until We Meet Again,

– Signing off

~ MA

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Self-Care

Perfect people aren’t real and real people aren’t perfect.

The most neglected thing I have seen and done as well is not paying attention to myself. There is a saying, which some people accept while some don’t – “We know least about ourselves.” Self-care starts with skin-care for most people but for me, it’s a good amount of sleep. According to me, there are two types of people when it comes to skin-care, the first obsessed one and the other who doesn’t even care. I am definitely the second one because I am too lazy and skin-care just doesn’t make sense to me, no offense to all the skin-care lovers out there:) More in my favor whatever I do and apply nothing works for me. I don’t know, maybe my skin is as stubborn as me;) Honestly, there are a lot more things in self-care that actually matter the most. I always believe that the internal matters more than the external. Mental health is the biggest thing one should worry about because if it is not going well then anything is not going well. Self-care is all about how you are treating yourself, are you taking care of yourself? Are you cutting down the toxic people in your life? Are you keeping yourself first? Are you getting the rest you need? These are all the things that one should self-care about themselves. The reminder for today is to do it for yourself not for others because you only deserve it nobody else.

Work on you, for you.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Self-Improvement Tips!

“Life is tough and things don’t always work out well but we should be brave and go on with out lives.”

-Suga of BTS.

In the last post, I shared my thoughts on Self-Improvement and what it really means. But that post will be incomplete if I do not share my tips on how to keep getting better and keep yourself in check.

Tips:

  1. The first thing in the morning is not to check your phone. That is a great way of not getting carried away.
  2. Make your bed.
  3. Meditate or walk in the park, just spend time with yourself.
  4. Get ready for the day.
  5. Have a good breakfast with you and your thoughts.
  6. Glass of water for clearing out the negativity.
  7. If things of yesterday are still lingering on you then give yourself a reminder of doing better today.
  8. Write two things you are grateful for and two things you want to be proud of yourself.
  9. The best way to improve yourself is to limit the time on social media because it really influences people in a good way or in the worst way.
  10. Read a book or watch a movie or listen to a podcast.
  11. Do something that makes you laugh and happy. For example, there are thousands of funny videos on YouTube:)
  12. Organizing your house really helps in organizing your thoughts as well.
  13. Start learning things you want to learn but you are not taking initiative. Just start and you will be grateful in the future.
  14. Before going to bed, do something that makes you happy and motivated. Like your favourite quote, book or talk to your favourite person.
  15. The sleep will be more peaceful and wake up early to continue becoming a better version of yourself.

Honestly, you can do as you like just make sure nothing is affecting you in a bad way. These are the tips that really help me. Sometimes we are so into our work that putting ourselves first becomes our last priority. So spending time on yourself is a great way of moving forward.

“People succeed when others say negative things.”

-Jin of BTS.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Self-Improvement!

“Talk to yourself like someone you love.”

Brene Brown.

Everything starts within you. You don’t even know how much power you have to change yourself for good. Just like it is said, if one doesn’t know how to use their power then it will lead to damage beyond repair. The time which is going on right now made so many people realize, including me that everything starts from you and ends with you only there is no in-between. If you love yourself irrespective of your flaws then there is no one to make you feel anything bad about yourself. Self-improvement is all about feeling your soul and knowing what it truly deserves. If you want to repair yourself that means you need to understand yourself. Every day it is all about self-improvement that makes it you are trying your level best. If you notice a small improvement about yourself, pat yourself on the shoulder and keep going. Self-improvement is not all about internal but your surrounding you are in matter as well. The company you surround yourself with, the feelings you are going through it all matters because you are a part of it. When you change the things that don’t matter to you but only make you feel depressed, that will be your sign of getting better at improving yourself. Remember that every day brings a new challenge and every day there is a sign of self-improvement.

I am still a work in progress, and hope to always be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Perfection!

Flawed and fabulous

..because perfect doesn’t exist

and normal is boring.

What is the meaning of perfection? Does it mean physical beauty? Honestly, it’s just “YOU”, the imperfectly perfect you. Your flaws make you different from others and I think that is the meaning of perfection, the real you. Because people are not some icing that one can smooth out on a cake and make it look perfect. But every human being has a lot of flaws and that makes them more beautiful and it can never be smoothed out. Growing up I understand that no one can make you beautiful but only you can. If you just feel like your confidence is going down just stand in front of the mirror and say to yourself that you are beautiful and trust me it helps a lot. I believe if you have confidence in yourself then you are perfect in everything. Let me tell you the power you have in yourself can do anything you want, you just need to understand how to control it. Nothing happens in mere time but it takes a lot of time to understand every aspect of you is beautiful. Don’t always look for yourself to be perfect for others but you. Remember you are the leader of your life, you are here not to impress anyone but to do it for yourself. The real you is more attractive than your perfect you. Never feel your mistakes as your embarrassment but the reason behind your success. Everything that happens in your life, happens for a reason so embrace your every flaw because that makes you unique and perfect.

Make Mistakes.

It’s Much Better Than Faking Perfection.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A little of something I want to share:)

As dark as the stormy night as tall as the lighthouse, people see him as a curse of the world yet nobody knows that his world is nothing but a black hole in which he is falling very quickly and nobody can stop him except the motive of vengeance with her. He stands tall at 6’5 inches, has broad shoulders that never slough, grey eyes that complement his midnight black hair with his eyes always alert and looks at people with doubtfulness. Rough hands but nobody sees the marks of his past on them, the jaw is as sharp as his mind that is always running to find his lost vengeance with her, the killer of his sister. People also say that he is always ready to snap at things all the time, ready to fight if someone disturbs him, and nobody goes to his house which is always filled with darkness just like his mood. Arrogance is his second name and rudeness is his brother but nobody sees what he has seen, his sister is on the end of the pathway of the world, and in the next moment she is gone forever. The nightmares never leave him alone until his motive is done. The guilt of not saving his sister will never leave him until he leaves the world and the fire of vengeance of his sister’s murderer who bullies her and makes the life of his sister hell and now he is going to make her life hell because death is an easy punishment there is so much to come. Vengeance is what will make him free from the guilt and for his sister to be finally at peace. Nobody will help her, the murderer just like nobody did for her sister and then the motive of him will be successful and he will be at ease and his guilt will be erased a little. 

Hey you all, this is a character sketch that I wrote for one of my works. I thought of sharing it here so that I can get a lot of compliments Haha;) Hope you all like this, I wrote this in just a few minutes and I am really proud of it:)

Till we meet again Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life Cycle!

Self care isn’t just drinking water and going to sleep early. Self care is taking a break when things become overwhelming, saying no to things you do not want to do, allowing yourself to cry and doing things that makes you happy.

Eat, sleep, write and read is my life cycle. From these four I must do at least all (Haha). Some people I have seen are not present in this world mentally. They are so much involved in their work that they don’t know what is happening in the world or themselves. From past years I have learned that the best time to know yourself or to understand yourself is to spend time with yourself. Headphones on with your music playlist and a book or whatever you love as a hobby with you is what a self moment should look like. As you grow up you understand that self-time is way more important than people who keep buzzing in your ears. For me, I can’t even sit for a two hours movie because my concentration is not good. Well let’s be honest I am not a movie person, I will anytime prefer to enjoy my books. Yes! I am a nerd but not in my studies;) Most people have a to-do list, but tell me honestly how unsuccessful you have been in it. I am a person who likes to go with the flow, I don’t like to plan my future because it then gives me a headache from now. I mean it depends on the person, some are going towards their goal while others are finding happiness in their goal. Now one thing that makes me realize is that you should only do things that you love not what others are expecting from you. Because it’s your like not theirs ahead you have to face the challenges not them. An ideal life cycle should only include things that you love and things that make you feel like YOU!

It is never too late to choose yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Life to Remember!

You don’t always need a logical reason for doing everything in your life. Do it because you want to, because it’s fun, because it makes you happy.

Tell me truthfully once in your life till today you have told yourself that ‘I don’t want to live.’ If the common answer is yes then it is normal. You have heard thousands of times that ‘you only have one life so live according to it.’ Nobody knows what is going to happen in life and it’s so foreign to even think about it. Life is never easy, there is something that is always going on no matter how rich, happy you are. Problems are meant to come but smiling through them solving them is what you need to learn and you do as time passes by. The memories are something that we can cherish the most because time is not coming back so the only thing that remains with us is our memories. It can be happy, sad, painful but among them, there is always something that we learn. The decision of your life is always hard as you are not sure where to go but as you come to a point in your life where everything starts to make sense and for you, that is your turning point. The first step is always wrong so that by taking the second step you know what you are doing. Make life just like you want which I know is going to be super hard but if you have the will for achieving what you want then nobody can stop you. Keep going, you are almost there!

Don’t waste your time looking back on what you’ve lost.

Move on, for life is not meant to be traveled backwards.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Back To The Grind!

The day you plant the seed is not that day you eat the fruit.

Finally, the time came for what I wanted and also what I did not want. The back to school is the time every student desires for as well as back to vacation after attending one day of school the ranting of it starts. The new normal was becoming my headache but as everything started to get back, especially the friend meeting session for which most of us go to school is coming back and I am loving every second of it. I am in a university right now and trying to get my interest back so that I can graduate peacefully (sighing). Yes, I am a young adult! My start off was online and I hope my finish off will be offline while wearing my graduation gown and throwing my cap so that in future I can have proof that I was indeed in a university. My first day was honestly much better than what I expected, I met professors, got bored and talked a lot. I still clearly remember when I was in my last year of high school the memories I made with my lifetime friends can and never will be the same ahead in any period. I feel like whatever you are doing at what phase you are try to enjoy it to the fullest because it’s never going to come back and ahead nothing is going to be the same as it was. Learning in any step you are on, one thing is that you will be a student that means enjoy it to the fullest, have fun, talk a lot, make dozens of memories because that is what you are going to take with you. I hope you all enjoy my ranting because I wanted to share a little part of me so I decided to write about it. In any part of the world, you are I hope you are back to the grind.

I don’t want to look back and say I wish I could have done better.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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