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A Long Hectic Day!

Be silly. Be fun. Be different Be crazy.

Be you, because life is too short to be anything but happy.

Life is too short to just sit in front of the computer and pass it. I miss the era of going to school and planning out the day and enjoying it with friends. Now everybody is as busy as Einstein that even going out means planning before weeks. Days are passing like a blur of wind and we are like fall leaves coming every year looking beautiful as always but every year there is a difference in the number of trees as they are not there anymore. In this life, everyone is running behind completing their work as fast as possible so they could get time just like a dream for themselves, but I never saw it become a reality. Do you ever feel like just getting away from things, people? Do you ever feel like you don’t even care if you are having a deadline tomorrow? If not then you are a lot behind than you think. When we are enjoying ourselves with friends and time just goes by even if you have days or many months then it’s not enough and sometimes you want the day to be over then too it is going as slow as a turtle. Just to make you better understand the difference between how time goes during your last lecture and how time goes when you are giving an exam. I don’t think anyone can ever understand the logic behind it and nobody wants to. Hectic days are now a cup of tea but finding peace and relaxing is not everyone’s cup of tea. Finding peace is like finding a good piece of clothing in the seas of human fighting over it. What you do in your day should satisfy you that you did great today but some days are just to teach you the lessons that are needed in your life.

No matter how hectic your day went, I pray that all your hard work brings nothing but strength and refreshment you need.

mysteriousalien.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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A Meaning To Your Life.

The meaning of life is to give life meaning.

Viktor E. Frankl

A confused soul is more dangerous than a lost soul because somewhere the lost soul will find its destination but a confused soul will walk through its destination so many times yet can’t find it. We all have been wandering on this planet for so many years yet we are still confused about what life is and why life is given to us? We all know that someday we all are going to die when an unanswered question that can never be answered. It takes a lot of time to figure out what we want from life, I am still figuring it out. Because I feel like it somehow sounds very easy to do but as it is said that “what sounds easy is as difficult to get” here the case is the same. A word that sounds hard, its meaning is easy while the word which sounds easy its meaning cannot be found exactly. It takes a lot of time to find out what you want. Finding the meaning of life is like Finding Nemo. It takes time to think, to find the meaning which reflects you in the chaotic world where everybody is running behind something every day. The real meaning of life is to find the inner yourself and to explore everywhere to see where you find your happiness. If you have no motive in your life then it is not a life but a way to just move on without any motive. Finding the meaning of your life should be your biggest motto. That meaning brings you happiness and not just for you to have something to pass. You have given life, you are still breathing, be grateful and blessed. Don’t make your day like waking up in the morning, doing the basic work, surviving and then off to bed. Try to make every day a fun day where you cherish your little moments because time will never come back and you can’t pause it. Finding the meaning of life is not easy, the destination is way far than you think, sometimes you take some journey that is not for you but it’s a sixth sense that comes to you when you know that this is not for you. Don’t stop until you find what you want, what is your desire with your life. This is your life, so live the way you want. Never stop finding the meaning of your life and that is how you are going to find the meaning of your life. Find the meaning of your life in happiness because if there is no happiness from your side in what you are doing then there is no meaning to your life.

Everything comes to you at the right time.

Be Patient.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Forgiveness is the new beginning!

Remember, when you forgive, you heal.

And when you let go, you grow.

In this world, people’s minds and hearts are not about love, forgiveness or thinking a little better for the people. But this world is known for the bitterness in people’s minds and heart that is eating themselves not others. I have always heard that if you forgive people easily then you are weak. I don’t think this is any way to say that you are weak but that you are not strong enough to deal with it. What I think is that you are superior enough to let go of the things which do not matter to you anymore. I feel like giving up the space for the things which are nothing but absurd that you should just let it go. The person who forgives is the person who succeeds. You will be the only person who will suffer in the end. You are the person who is carrying the weight of something that is not even a thing for you to care about. I also believe in doing something unexpected by people. So forgiving someone who does not expect that will be a relief moment for YOU. Smile and forgive that person not because of that person but for you. You want to start fresh, which means you need to say bye forever to those memories and people who do not matter to you anymore. You don’t want people who do not make any good difference in your life when you start your new and fresh beginning. A beginning is said to be with the memories that matter to you, not those that do not matter to you. Admit all of these things, never forgot what you have gone through, your trust should be kept safe, the journey you have from the darkness to the lightness. Always forgive not forget, the pain, the memories because the painful and bad memories make you stronger than you think. You are still caged with all of the mistakes of others, you need to let go of it and get the freedom you deserve. You need to understand that being selfish is mandatory for yourself. If you are not selfish about yourself then you are already lost. Always be kind for yourself first and then for others who you feel are worthy because you are WORTHY!

Forgiveness is the best form of love. It takes a strong person to say sorry and even stronger person to forgive.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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My Blogging Journey!

Stop being afraid of what could go wrong,

and started getting excited about what could go right.

Tony Robbins.

Tell me honestly, when you started blogging and someone asked you what you do? And your answer will be -“I do Blogging!” But there will be a majority people of who don’t know what blogging is, and then you go on explaining them. Honestly, it happened to me so many times. It’s fun to explain them but not too much! The biggest question I get is why did I start blogging? So let’s start with my blogging life or journey wherever you want to call it. Let’s start way back when I was in my childhood years. I was socially awkward but was an extrovert and had a blunt mouth (I still have*wink wink*) When I was a child, I used to think I had no talent at all because I could do nothing like painting, making crafty stuff, basically nothing good. But in my 10 grade, my professor told me –“You have so many good thoughts, just find a way to put in on the paper!” this belief and advice of him I remember so clearly because it is where I started my blogging journey and the lost confidence came knocking. You just need a little push in which you are not confident enough if it will work out or not. But if it is meant for you and is a desire of yours to have it, it will happen just open your damn eyes and ears to not miss anything;) A belief in you is the advice I followed for myself without thinking if it is going to work out or not. If your belief is as strong as the rock that is hit by the waves so many times that it does not move, it is the best way to keep yourself motivated everything will take time to be the way you want, you just need to have your faith and patience in yourself without losing it to the demons of your dreams. Take a good deep breath when you make your dream a reality. Never stop working hard if you want to be proud of yourself in the future and the journey when you look back. You are amazing and be the way you are, go ahead and do what you love:)

The best way to predict your future is to create it.

Abraham Lincoln.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Advice for an interview. (My first ever interview experience!)

I never really thought in my whole blogging journey I would write about the advice this early, but you can’t say anything now because everyone is familiar with ‘unexpected things in life.’ I am writing this blog after I gave an interview for an internship and I must point out that – “It was my first ever interview that I gave.” If this was the old me I would be freaking out, sweating the hell out and telling my father I don’t want to do it because of my lack of confidence in me. But this in front of you all is the new me, the one who has gotten the confidence from God knows where. I was so calm and was me the whole time. Put out my perspective and goal to do everything. If I do not get selected you know I will not feel bad but will feel like I did amazing but luck was not on my side and I need to work harder. The thing here is you know what I learned was the result did not matter if you have given you 100% and that is what I am feeling right now because I know I did my best. I don’t know if I am the perfect person to take advice from but as a learner like you all and I want to share my experience and don’t know maybe you are looking for something like this now or ahead. Honestly speaking, an interview is like a test where you know the test is going to happen but without knowing the questions. Heck! It is difficult to learn the answers to the questions that we already know are going to come. I know one thing that in an interview you just need to remember is to be YOU the whole time. Be confident and relax because if you are looking stressed the whole time it will just going to affect you and the answers might not go as expected. It’s totally fine if you are stressed about giving an interview because anybody can get stressed while talking to professionals or even strangers. I understand one thing the most is as time goes, your mind starts to adjust the way you think and it shows when you speak, or even in the circumstance that you can’t handle before. As you grow up the confidence that was building inside you from your childhood, it just appears and shows the way you thought it will be. Just have your skills with you, and boom you’re blooming. Have a belief in yourself, the skills you have, just go with the flow and it will just grow the confidence in you. And again a reminder that BE YOURSELF the whole time in an interview of anything you are doing because it is the way you are described.

I hope you all like my random rambling that just appears in my mind and thought to share with you all. Always in advance ‘All The Best‘ if something like this is going to happen in your future:)

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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When there is a will, there is a way!

When you really want something you will find a way. When you don’t really want something, you’ll find an excuse.

Rachel Hollis.

Growing up my mother always used to tell me when there is a will, there is a way, but at that time the meaning behind those words never really made any sense to me. But as time passed I understood that every word has its meaning. We just need to find it and also those words which make you want to wake up in the morning and keep going. I understood that whatever you want in your life, you need to fight for it. Nothing is easy to get if you are a tough person with impossible dreams that people think but not you. You should know that if you want to make a life for yourself, the road to it will never be easy because if it is not then it means it’s not for you. The stubbornness you have in you will help you overcome the feeling of giving up. The harder, the want of your life the harder you will be in the end. Every day there will be problems that you need to deal with, at some point you may just want to leave everything and stop trying. But as always if you have willingness in you to fulfil your dreams, to make your dreams a reality then there will always be a way for you to reach there. You just need to have patience and faith in what you are doing and as always everything is going to work out. God is always with you, just trust him he knows what is right for you and will put you on the right path. Have the power to choose what you want, to choose what is best for you, to choose yourself. If you have the courage, the faith in yourself, the stubbornness of not giving up then you will not find the way but the way will find you. If all the doors to your life are closed and you don’t know what to do, take a deep breath and tell yourself that ‘you got this’ and the door to move ahead will be visible to you but at that time you will be stronger and ready to achieve whatever you dream of. If you feel like you need to take a break, do it without any second thought because the comeback is always stronger. Just follow the path of your dreams with patience, hard work, faith and hope and you are going to find problems but remember when there is a will, there is a way!

You spend most of your life inside your head. Make it a nice place to be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Another Day Another You!

Mirror Mirror on the wall, I will always get up when I fall, and whether I run, walk or have to crawl, I will set my goals and achieve them all.

It’s okay to be sad; it’s okay to be not okay, it’s okay if you are not feeling better today. It’s okay if you are not feeling yourself. Nobody is going to know the behind the scenes of where you have come from, your breakdowns, your low times, your moments of almost giving up except you. You need to overcome yesterday for your tomorrow. Your failure will help you become the person you are meant to be, when you will look back at the time you will be proud that you gave yourself a chance despite the thousands of barriers that were blocking your way but the only ray at that time was your hope, your faith in you, your dreams and now you are there. For taking one step ahead you need to take four steps back. The saying “your past does not define your future” is the perfect way to hold on to yourself and move ahead without looking back. Give yourself the time you need, prepare yourself mentally and physically to walk on the road where nothing is easy other than your stubbornness to win. Maybe your today will not be how you imagined it to be but that’s normal because you are going to make your tomorrow better, you have to. A reminder to you all if today was not a good day for you before you hit the pillow tonight, remind yourself that you are alright. You are doing a great job. Be patient with yourself, and remember that big things are achieved not all at once, but one day at a time. Maybe today was not for you but tomorrow it will be. As I said you need to take some steps back for you to come stronger, better and more YOU. Have faith in yourself; never lose it because it’s that kind of weapon that can change your life. Always be hopeful about things you want to achieve in your life, never lose hope if you do, you will lose yourself. If you can’t find a way then make a way to be there where you see yourself. Wake up with a smile on your face and say to yourself that today you are going to make another day and another you!

“If you are brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Life is unpredictable.

Life is rare, life is unpredictable. Nothing last forever and people change. So live every moment to its fullest.

When we expect something from life it never happens the same way but it happens unexpectedly because life does not work according to us. We are the prey to the predators of life. When we share our problems with someone there are two replies you can get according to me the first one if the other person also starts to cry out the problems like yours and the second one if the person replies and says that – “Life is life, it can’t be controlled as it is said that life is unpredictable!” I will let you decide to choose what reply you feel is right and what will you reply if the same happened to you and what you will expect in the situation? Future is the word I feel afraid of as well as look forward to because no one in the whole world knows what will happen the next second in life, so thinking about the future is just nothing to think about. I feel like going with the flow of life is mandatory because if things are going to happen in life, nobody can stop it, you just need to deal with it and let it flow. One moment you are planning something and the other moment something unexpected happens and there goes that life is unpredictable. Fear of unexpected things can lead to the loss of beautiful things so like I said go with the flow of the cycle of happiness, than problems, than happiness and so on, it will never stop. But as always after every storm, there is a rainbow and after every sunset, there is a sunrise. Just put a smile on your face and enjoy the life that has been given to you because “You only live once!” If things are meant to happen, take them positively because I believe everything has two effects on life, positive and negative. They are bound together and you can’t separate them but learn to live with them. Learn how to control the panic in you, problems that come unexpectedly knocking on your doors because life can’t walk the way you want, you need to make it the way you want! Have a lovely day:)

We are always going to have challenges. When we make it through one, another on is going to come along. Life is unpredictable. You can’t always see what’s coming next, and you have to be okay with that. Make decisions that you think are best for you, but accept that things might not go the way you planned.

Laura Brown.

Till we again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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The Power You Hold.

I love the person I’ve become, because I fought to become her.

Kaci Diane.

When we were kids we used to think that supernatural power is everything. We wanted to be a Marvel with all of the power to fight. Spiderman interests me because he can climb a building; I mean you don’t have to climb all of the stairs of your school, or to beat up the bullies and whatnot. I would love to be a Spiderman maybe for one day (Spiderman people if by any chance you read these please fulfil my dream, Thank You). But as we grow up we know that Santa Claus was never real, he did not eat the cookies or drink the milk but it was our parents. Funny isn’t it? Definitely when you grow up, become more mature and start to understand everything, things which should not matter to us but still, it matters! To have power is not everything, but the way you fight with your inner demons to reach where you want to be, what you want to become is what I call the powerful you. We see in the movies that the more powerful the person is the more he is in danger. Misuse of anything will lead to destruction or damage that can’t be repaired. The skills you have, the ability you have, and the way you can do all of those things are your power. Know your power, work for it every day to recharge it and stop it from getting rusty. The power you hold, hold it that tight that anybody or you can’t take it away or misuse it from yourself. Make your power your strength and work for it to make it stronger every day as you work for it. You are more powerful than you think, more ready for problems than you know, more strong that you believe in yourself. Just do what you are afraid to do and in the end, everything is going to work. Your power will help you from not giving up. The mind of yours in which you have created your vision to what you want to become will always makes you feel powerful.

Sometimes you gotta be a Beauty and a Beast.

Nicki Minaj.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

“Believe in Yourself. You are Braver than you think, more Talented than you know, and Capable of more than you Imagine.”

“Believe in Yourself!” was and is the mantra I use in my life, in what I am doing. When I was in school I used to think that I will do this, but there were some “well-wishers” of mine who used to say, you are not able to do it and at that time was not at all confident in me. But now years later here I am with my passion of writing that I also wanted to do since I found out that I can share my thoughts with the world. Same like me, if you want to do something but there will always be second thoughts and that is totally normal. I have learned that you just need to do it without thinking what is going to happen because if you are confident enough to know that you can do it and your believe in yourself and you are halfway there. Believe that you are going to do it, believe that there is nothing that can stop you from getting things the way you want, believing in yourself will help you gain the confidence in yourself, just go with the flow and you are on the right path. You are unstoppable when you will make the motive to lose yourself with yourself. Make challenges with yourself that you will do better than yesterday and more better tomorrow. There will be thousands of “well-wishers” of yours, who will try to let you down plenty of times; you don’t need to put yourself in that work. Prove all of them wrong because they aren’t right in the first place you are just putting them in their place. When you are stubborn with the dreams of yours, with the wants of your life than there is no single soul out there who can stop you from getting what you want. You just need to Believe in Yourself and in the end everything is going to work out.

“Self confidence is a super power. Once you starts to believe in yourself, magic starts happening.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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