Tag: writing

Guilt.

Sometimes you don’t realize the weight of something you’ve been carrying until you feel the weight of it’s release.

According to me the two strongest feelings in the world is of hate and guilt. When the feeling of hate or guilt overcome your mind it makes the goodness in you get far behind your mind. Being guilty about things especially of your past can deeply hurt your present and future. We are so connected to our past that if something happened in your past, still in your present you are guilty about it and afraid to do something that is connected to it. As the sayings goes by that we are humans and it’s okay to make mistakes. Making mistakes is mandatory for you to learn and grow more. Accepting your mistakes is what makes you feel like that you are learning to correct your mistakes. Everything comes with a baggage happiness with grief, hard work with scarifies; everything is connected to each other. Feeling of guilt comes from so many other things that we feel, like the opportunities we don’t take, when we lose from one point, when we gave our hundred per cent but did not make it. The feeling of guilt in our mind has stopped us from taking something that we are afraid if we failed again. The inner mind of ours tell us that we should’ve done that, we should’ve gone with that and what not so but remember whatever happens, happens for good. Maybe at that time you will make yourself responsible for what happened but as the time pass you will understand that you are not responsible or guilty about what happened, it was meant to happen so it happened. There are times in life where people purposely will make you feel that it was your fault and you should be guilty about it but it takes two to clap the hand. What happened in your life can never change you just need to accept it and move on because until and unless you will not accept it you will never move on completely with you mind and heart. Nobody is perfect so you are, you are imperfectly perfect!

If you don’t take it off your chest, you’ll never be able to breath.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Patience!

PATIENCE IS BITTER,

BUT IT’S FRUIT

IS SWEET.

Jean-Jacques Rousseau.

From the time I remember I have always learned from my parents that if you have patience in what you are doing you are going to definitely succeed in that despite how much impossible it looks to you. I believe that patience is the key to the doors that looks impossible to open. I just stated blogging like almost two months ago and when I was going to start it I know that it will require a lot of patience for me to reach somewhere in this massive blogging world. It is difficult let me tell you, to have patience while you are doing so much behind something but let me also remind you that overnight success can never satisfy you for a long time that a success came from the nights and days of your hard work. Things which are easy to achieve can never makes to happy or satisfied than the things which are hard but not impossible to achieve. The things which we do with patience than the things we do in hurry are two aspects that instantly shows the result of which is better. Let me give you guys an example, when we come from a large trip of grocery shopping and we are alone to bring all the groceries inside the house, so we try to carry all the bags at a one go because we don’t have much energy and patience to go again and again, we tried to but we need to go gym regularly to do such a heavy stunt by ourselves and in the end we just dropped it and now the energy and patience will be needed double the amount which we needed earlier. As always after even sunset there is a sunrise and after every storm there is a rainbow you just need to have a lot of patience to see what you really can do. Nature is the best example that I look up to. The nature goes through so much to look beautiful but after a long time of period. When you sow a seed for a fruit, it doesn’t grow in one day but it has to go through so much different situations for it to become a fruit. Just like that we need to go through so many and sudden situations which can come from anywhere you just need to be ready to tackle it gracefully, if you want to eat the fruit of the seed you sowed. Just one minute of patience can give you years of peace. Have patience and read this post with a hot cup of tea;)

“With patience, it is possible to dig a well with a teaspoon.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Favourites: #5

If your path demands you to walk through hell

walk as if you own the place!

If your childhood was not spent in mud, puddles basically you being dirty or messy without any care by playing so much outside you have not lived your childhood any way. An extrovert like me have played so much outside, like what not I have played, just name a sport and I can guarantee you I have played. For me sports are like an exercise which you don’t procrastinate, you willingly go by yourself and ENJOY it. Playing sports was and is my favourite time and hobby to do in my free time. Being sporty in any sport makes me proud then at least I can play a SPORT. I can play good but not on Olympics level, I wish I could and I believe I could but that is not my priority, I just play for fun. In my childhood I never really learned any sport from a professional, it is said right when you have a heart in something you want to learn, without you knowing you just become good in it. When I was in my secondary school, we had a lot of sports but one catch my attention and that was BADMINTON! In my secondary school I tried for the first time and won third place and honestly it was not excepted by me at any means. My whole secondary school got finished and I have about six medals including all the three rank medals. Now I play badminton so good and enjoy it to the extent of my energy. I wanted a good badminton set that can be approved by me as I very picky when it comes to the things that have my heart. Playing badminton can have a bad impact on your hand especially wrist, so I wanted a racket which is of a good quality and weight light that was my priority and on amazon I found it. Now after playing so much my hand is perfectly well and that’s how I am typing to you all. I hope you guys liked my ‘sporty sport story!’ And that’s all for today have a great day:)

https://amzn.to/2X8RhTp – Badminton link from amazon!

“If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can’t hear them anymore.”

Michele Ruiz.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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YOU…

“Make the little girl you used to be, proud of the women you are now!”

The world is filling with lots of people some are real some are not so real. I feel like the biggest insecurities for anybody is can any other person will like us the way we are. I want to point out that – “you are not here to impress anybody, you are here for yourself!” This belief taught me a lot of things that was missing from my life. I have learned that you can’t impress someone until you are not satisfied with it. You are the owner of your own life; you have to make your life the way you want to live your life. You are responsible for the things that happen in your life. It’s okay if you have taken a decision that maybe is not right for you, but correcting that decision is what I call a perfect way to start your life again but in a better way. Take the responsibility of yourself, shape and built yourself like a shield for you to overcome your problems. You are the only limit for yourself, nobody is going to stop your beside yourself. Work hard to make yourself proud. The feeling of making yourself proud will be a portion of your life where you know you are going perfectly on a right path. Be the writer of your own life. Play around with fonts, colours, texts give your life a summary for you to keep going better and better. YOU get to design your own life; you have to have the willingness and the drive to get out of whatever you’re going through. Sow the seeds of your life like when you are going to look back from where you have come; the smile of proud will be on your face for yourself. Never give anybody the right to hold the power of your life, nobody deserves it expect you. If your goals are bigger and you want to make yourself proud you need to look after yourself, make yourself feels like you can do want ever you want you just need to keep going. Because after everything what is going to matter is ‘YOU!’

“Cherish your visions; cherish your ideas; cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts, for out of them will grow all delightful conditions, all heavenly environment; of these, if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built.”

-By James Allen, from his book ‘As A Man Thinketh’.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Take a deep breath…

Choose your Happiness

Choose your Wellbeing

Choose your passion

Choose Yourself,

every time.

We all are so busy with the life of ours that taking a deep breath in a day is difficult task for us because we think that our time will be wasted. Life is moving so fast that, I don’t even understand where the hell my past two years went, I just don’t remember. Time is literally on a race, you just blink and it’s the next day. Amidst all the chaos it’s very important to find something that you are doing for yourself, doing that makes you happy, takes you away from the hectic of the world even it’s for just some time but trust me, you need it! A little silly things that makes you happy, like jumping in the puddle, baking even though it going to be a mess but who cares, just have fun. According to me hobby is something that is very different from the work you do, hobby is when you enjoy without having any pressure, expectations to do it perfect, and it’s perfect only for you. Taking a time for you is a very good medication required for the life of yours. Take as much time you need for yourself because everything comes after YOU. I usually when feeling low or just not myself, for me reading a book or even randomly sitting in the corner scrolling through phone helps. When you are feeling low it can be because of stress or things are not going according to you, it happens so just let your brain have some rest, just do what makes you relax and it will definitely help you to be back again but in more better and uplifting mood. The ‘Me Time’ is mandatory; it helps you to think outside of the stressful world of yours to the world where you can be as free as you want to. The ‘Walk of Talk’, I would like to say where you can think all about yourself, what you want to do for yourself, walk until you are yourself again. Don’t get too busy in the world because the world is not going to stop, it’s your duty to find the time for ‘yourself’ in the world!

It’s okay to take as many moments as you need for yourself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Favourites: #3

I wish everything was as easy as getting fat.

I eat a lot means a lot but still I don’t gain weight. I think there will be some other people as well who can relate to me. Actually I was skinny, yes now I understand why my mom freaks out when she gains one kg up. I used to walk a lot before the pandemic but after the pandemic the situation for everyone just got worse when it comes to the routine of the day. I believe that if you are skinny or not so skinny the way you describe yourself the main thing should matter is you should be healthy. Being healthy nowadays is just a very foreign word for all of us. Exercise just doesn’t go well with me, even though I love running, jogging and cycling. I feel like if you do exercise once in the day, it can be a big difference let me tell you. Exercise is for everyone the way you are it just makes you more healthy and active. I wanted to have some kind of equipment that I can do inside my home, which should be fun and enjoyable for me. So the other day I was scrolling through various shopping apps to find affordable exercise equipment which is very handy to use. Then suddenly I came across my childhood memory that I spend my whole time playing with it. It was a skipping rope. In my childhood the amount of jumping I did, it was just absurd you guys. The amount of skipping ropes I had at that time, like one I remember which counts how much you have jumped and many more and at that time I used to jump so my height can increase and as well as to have fun. Now it helps me to maintain myself, to be healthy and active because I have become so lazy because of pandemic and now I am working my way up. Hope you guys enjoy it and please let me know:)

https://amzn.to/3yw9Fm7

– Here is the link of the skipping rope, if you want to check it out!

The buttons on my jeans have started social distancing from each other!

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Young!

“Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again.”

C.S. Lewis.

We are too young to be rushing things and too old to be wasting time. I feel like from the age of teenager to being adult even though it’s a matter of years but the time period is too fast. It is the period when we start to recognize what we never understood in our childhood. It’s like when you are a teenager you want to be a young adult and when you are an adult you want to be a child it’s a harsh truth. I had always believed that we are too young to think about what our future hold for us. It’s better to live in present than to think about our future. My mother told me once that – ‘you are always young from your heart!’ and I loved that so much. I always remember my childhood and smile that I was such a mischievous child who used to be a troublemaker in her childhood and it was the best ever time of my life. That’s the same I want to remember in my old times that what a fun I used to have in my young age and want to smile by remembering that I spend my young age as a good time:) We will always be too young for everything, believe me. Don’t take stress of what your future is going to be. Smile that at least you have a chance to enjoy your adult age the way you want. When the time will pass, you should never have the words pass through your mouth that – ‘I should have done that before, now I can’t do it as time has already passed!’, time waits for no one and it’s ok if the time pass away, it’s never too late for anything, you just need to find the enthusiasm that you can still do it. Being young teaches us so many amazing lessons, to have so many beautiful memories, us being able to do what we want to do, to have so many missions to complete that’s the spirit we carry in our adult age. It’s an age we want to do so many things but at the same time having fun and enjoying the life as the time is never going to be same ahead. Do whatever you want to do, just be a happy going soul enjoying everything that comes your way.

“Growing old is mandatory, but growing up is optional.”

Walt Disney.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who like to write.

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Regrets.

Life is short, so live it. Love is rare, so grab it. Fear controls you, so face it. Memories are precious, so cherish them. We only get one life, so live it!

Life is so short that should be spend wisely by doing things we love, by being grateful, by taking the opportunities that comes our way but we humans always have a tendency to do the opposite of what we should do. Time never waits for anyone and we should also not wait for things which we don’t know will ever came instead we should embraced the chances and opportunities that are waiting for us to claim it. We only have one life that means we only have one chance to do whatever we want. I believe thinking unnecessarily about things just make it worse. Take the chance you get in your life because you only live ones; never be afraid that you can’t do it until you have not tried it. Regrets of not taking the chances you got, it’s a very worse kind of feeling. It hurts more than a breakup. It shows that you have no believe in yourself, you are afraid. Life will moves on, people will forget, maybe you as well but the feeling of regret will always be there no matter what, reminding yourself that ‘why did not I take it?’ Life is all about getting the experience of things which we never had. Learning and doing the things we never did. Life is all about learning new things rather than doing the same thing again and again because you are afraid that maybe you are not good at it or you can’t do it. Fear is the biggest enemy of our lives, whenever we think to try something new, fear always gets the best out of ourselves and we just backed up. That’s where our test starts and to overcome our fear and do it without any second thought. And believe me the experience of doing something new, will be unforgettable and in the end you will have ‘no regrets’. No regret means you are living your life to the fullest and enjoying every second of your life! Have a great and happy day:)

Look forward with HOPE.

Not backwards with REGRET.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Favourites: #2

GOOD MORNING WORLD!

Your little ray of sarcastic sunshine has arrived!

I am a type of a girl who has zero per cent interest in jewellers or accessories. It’s just not my type and my vibe. I wish I was fond of them but never mind. You don’t need toppings to make yourself pretty. If you like accessories wear it like a crown for you and not for others. Accessories for me are like, it will just look good from afar, I will love that but when it comes to me wearing than a big NO! I am very picky when it comes to fashion. Well directly speaking I HATE SHOPPING AND FASHION! No offense to the people out there, PEACE:) But there are some accessories that I love so much, and guess what I do have some favs! That is ‘WATCHES’, yes pretty exciting right?! Let’s get in to it, when I had my first watch it was a digital watch because at that time I just can’t understand analog watches. Too much maths I know! I told my father that I want a digital watch, to look extra-smart and to show my friends how smart I am. Well they don’t need to know the back story *evil laugh*. I used it so much and then, I am feeling so bad to even write this but hear my not so sad story about my first digital watch. I kind of broke it, misplaced it and in a small pieces (Rest in peace). Yes ladies and gentleman it was a brutal murder;) After that I brought one more and yes it is kind of messed up but still in a working condition. Thank God! The biggest achievement of mine is I can now understand analog watches and I am freaking about it. Please give me a toast;) Thank You! As I said I am very picky about my stuffs, so I looked and looked and found, what really pleased me. Because on the box, it itself says that fashion for everyone:) Hope you guys enjoyed my random rambling and if you like do check it out link given below:)

https://amzn.to/3jeoLsk – my watch link, if you want to check it out!

I love it when the coffee kicks in and I realize that what an adorable badass I’m going to be today.

Till we meet again, Be happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Memories:)

The Best gifts in the world are not in the material objects one can buy from the store, but in the memories we make with the people we love.

Amanda Boyarshinov.

Memories have us connected to our past. It’s like having a small part of our brain dedicated to store memories in them. There are some good memories which keep us going and then there are some ‘not so good’ memories which keep us from giving up. Good memories is all about people you love, about things you adore, the things you want in your life, about your future and many more. The ‘not so good memories’ which makes you recognize about what you were and now what you are! An instant smile comes over you face about the good memories you spent with your peoples, it’s like a light got on in your mind and heart. Memories can be brought back but the emotions; feelings that were attached to them cannot be felt again. The time came, you created memories in that moment and now it’s all in your mind, the memories you created can never be the same. Memories are the reasons for us to go on in our lives. Time will go on, your age will go on, people will change but the memories will never fade away not even a small one. Memories are special in their own way. A small little thing which we thought was small in our past, now when you look at it and a sad smile takes over your face and you realize that that small little things was actually a thing which matters us more. Some memories are like you want to forget them but you can’t, and some are still you are trying to remember. Memories are not created for you to forget them it’s like when you are looking through the old albums which you somewhere found in your dusty attic, filled with dust and when you opened it and felt like you are in your past, feeling and reliving all the good and funny memories and sitting in the dusty, messy corner of the attic the moment is priceless. Ahhh! Feeling so nostalgia:( Create good memories, learn from your memories and just keep making memories and having fun! From making memories of your baby tooth falling to your hair turned grey, never stop making memories. Just like time, memories will never stop and you should also not stop making memories:)

Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.

Dr. Seuss.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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