I’m so proud of me & you.

You’re awesome and I’m proud of you.

The official last post of 2025, and it lands exactly on my post day. This year was everything for me; it was hectic but amazing. Now I can proudly say that the person I was at the beginning of the year and now are totally different. I am now proud and strong. This year taught me a lot of things, like no challenge is as hard as how I make it in my mind. I can do a lot of things if I want to, and I did. Definitely, I am really happy how the year is ending. However, many moments really showed me the worst; yet, I feel that I learned and grew a lot. Everyone’s journey is different for you; the year might be different; however, remember you still made it, so be proud of it. Always be grateful for what you have in the end, because it is always more than we think. When I look back on my year, it was a rollercoaster with so many things happening. Sometimes it made me want to leave everything, while at times, I was grateful for those things. I would like to dedicate this blog post to you all. I want to show that it’s totally okay if not everything went the right way. You survived the year, and now it is time to buckle up and live the next year. I am proud of you for every single thing. You worked hard, you showed up, you believed in yourself, and there is so much waiting for you. We need to start appreciating ourselves a lot and stop criticising ourselves for mistakes. No one is perfect, but everyone is trying their best. You are trying your best, you are making sure that at the end you see the result you always wanted. And you don’t realise, but in doing so, you are also getting stronger to handle every situation. So before the year’s end, remember all the moments where you have tried your best, where you stopped yourself from giving up, and where you stood still even when the world feels heavy. May the coming year fill you with everything that you ever desire.

I’m growing into someone I’m proud of.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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It’s okay to slow down.

You will find your way, even when it feels like you won’t.

I have been telling myself lately that it’s okay to slow down, and the only thing that is keeping me sane. You know when you reach a level where you are doing so much but are unable to see the result, yes, that’s where I am. I want to fly so high, but whenever I feel like I am about to touch the sky, it moves far away, and I start feeling that maybe flying high is not written in my destiny. I have been in a phase which makes me so proud to see how far I have come, but also in a phase where I am unable to be proud of myself; it feels like there is always something that pulls me back. I’m experiencing a range of emotions, but at the same time, I feel nothing; this is my standard status for so many years. And I let my emotions flow within me. If I am not feeling well mentally, then I won’t force myself to do anything, and that’s how I feel better. I always remind myself that my health is more important than anything, and if it makes me slow down, then it’s totally okay. Actually, everybody says to work hard and do it, but when it starts affecting your health, then slow down and let your emotions flow. Slowing down doesn’t mean you are behind; no, it’s all about your pace. I always remind myself to focus on my own journey and not compare it to others. It’s okay to slow down and reflect on how far you have come; it’s okay to dwell on how things didn’t go perfectly, allow all your emotions to flow; it doesn’t make you feel insane, but it will allow your mental health to be sane. Everything you are doing is perfect, even when you feel like it’s not, but at least you are trying. Life is all about making you feel all the emotions and nothing at once, so slow down if things feel too heavy, take a rest, look in the mirror and smile for how much you have held up, and if you want to cry, cry, it doesn’t make you weak but proud that you are allowing yourself to be okay.

It’s okay to grow slowly.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write

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One of a Kind.

Each one of us is special… what you are capable of might be unimaginable for someone else.

As long as I remember, I have always compared myself to others, I have always told myself, “Why can’t I do things others can?” “Why can’t I be like them?” Because there was nothing I could do as a child, I never did things that I would be proud of, I did not have skills so that made me think I could not do anything. Looking back, I realize I was a child filled with mischievous traits of just playing around and living life to the fullest. I hate the comparison, I hate that I have to be compared with someone to increase my capabilities. Why can’t I be one of a kind? Why they can’t be one of a kind? The world has put everyone in a race, to move forward but is it right? Why does everything have to be about winning and losing? Why is it not that they can be good at something and I can’t and vice versa? Is it shameful for the world? But Alas! I have reached that stage of my life, where I have found the skill that I am proud of, the skill that makes me happy that makes me one of a kind. I am a girl who is proud of what she is doing, I am a girl who has proved to herself that she has a talent that she can be proud of, and I just love being one of a kind. Remember everyone, you are one of a kind, no one in the world can be you except yourself, and that itself makes you unique and powerful. There is no one like you out there, so don’t try to be like someone else, be yourself, the person you always want to be, I am rooting for you. All my life, I have always scolded myself to do better and always doubted why I can’t do things. But I was just ignoring what I actually could do to fit in society. I wanted to do what others can do and ignored that just like them I also have skills that I can do and they can’t and maybe I am one of a kind.

Never forget that you are one of a kind.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Work on You…For You!

I learned a long time ago the wisest thing I can do is be by my own side.

Out of many things, I have learned, the most important among them is that only I, ME, and MYSELF matter. What I want to do I have to do by myself and that will only happen when I will know myself more better than anyone else. You all remember what someone asks us about ourselves we hesitate to answer because we don’t exactly know what to say, maybe because we don’t know ourselves. We work so much in our lives for other people but what about us? To be honest when people ask what kind of superpower I want and I would proudly say that I want to go back in time as there are so many reasons why and one of them is because in what field I am I never wanted to do that as I wanted to do something else and even though people say it’s okay now also you are doing great but that regret will always be in my heart and mind that why I didn’t choose myself just WHY. Nobody is and will be there when suddenly in the middle of the night I get the thought that I wish I could be that or when I see some other person being in the same place I wish to be nobody can do anything to throw away my thoughts about that. But now I understand that I need to work for it and fight for it for myself because I can’t let anybody else decide about the future that I am going to live in. Just focus on yourself and work on yourself for a better present and future. Let the past go and people who stop you and become a hinder in your life working on yourself your mental health and happiness matter above anything. Let go of the things, people, and thoughts that don’t contribute to your goal, you have to work for yourself, you have to get up and make a move for you to be successful and you will only get what you want if you work for it so work on you…for you.

I’m working

on myself

for myself

by myself.

Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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YOU…

“Make the little girl you used to be, proud of the women you are now!”

The world is filling with lots of people some are real some are not so real. I feel like the biggest insecurities for anybody is can any other person will like us the way we are. I want to point out that – “you are not here to impress anybody, you are here for yourself!” This belief taught me a lot of things that was missing from my life. I have learned that you can’t impress someone until you are not satisfied with it. You are the owner of your own life; you have to make your life the way you want to live your life. You are responsible for the things that happen in your life. It’s okay if you have taken a decision that maybe is not right for you, but correcting that decision is what I call a perfect way to start your life again but in a better way. Take the responsibility of yourself, shape and built yourself like a shield for you to overcome your problems. You are the only limit for yourself, nobody is going to stop your beside yourself. Work hard to make yourself proud. The feeling of making yourself proud will be a portion of your life where you know you are going perfectly on a right path. Be the writer of your own life. Play around with fonts, colours, texts give your life a summary for you to keep going better and better. YOU get to design your own life; you have to have the willingness and the drive to get out of whatever you’re going through. Sow the seeds of your life like when you are going to look back from where you have come; the smile of proud will be on your face for yourself. Never give anybody the right to hold the power of your life, nobody deserves it expect you. If your goals are bigger and you want to make yourself proud you need to look after yourself, make yourself feels like you can do want ever you want you just need to keep going. Because after everything what is going to matter is YOU!’

“Cherish your visions; cherish your ideas; cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts, for out of them will grow all delightful conditions, all heavenly environment; of these, if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built.”

-By James Allen, from his book ‘As A Man Thinketh’.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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