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Back To The Grind!

The day you plant the seed is not that day you eat the fruit.

Finally, the time came for what I wanted and also what I did not want. The back to school is the time every student desires for as well as back to vacation after attending one day of school the ranting of it starts. The new normal was becoming my headache but as everything started to get back, especially the friend meeting session for which most of us go to school is coming back and I am loving every second of it. I am in a university right now and trying to get my interest back so that I can graduate peacefully (sighing). Yes, I am a young adult! My start off was online and I hope my finish off will be offline while wearing my graduation gown and throwing my cap so that in future I can have proof that I was indeed in a university. My first day was honestly much better than what I expected, I met professors, got bored and talked a lot. I still clearly remember when I was in my last year of high school the memories I made with my lifetime friends can and never will be the same ahead in any period. I feel like whatever you are doing at what phase you are try to enjoy it to the fullest because it’s never going to come back and ahead nothing is going to be the same as it was. Learning in any step you are on, one thing is that you will be a student that means enjoy it to the fullest, have fun, talk a lot, make dozens of memories because that is what you are going to take with you. I hope you all enjoy my ranting because I wanted to share a little part of me so I decided to write about it. In any part of the world, you are I hope you are back to the grind.

I don’t want to look back and say I wish I could have done better.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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To make a Difference.

Don’t be easy to define. Let them wonder about you.

Picking up the stone from the middle of the road, throwing garbage in the trashcan while walking on the path, helping another even without them knowing about it, ‘Yes!’ It makes a difference. It’s a basic thought that the other person will do it so there is no need for me to do it and the same thoughts run in the mind of the other person. Making a small difference is a lot more beneficial than doing a lot more together. When your path is all messed up and you don’t know which to take, if it is really for you, then you will be naturally drawn to it, even if you decide something else but at every step, you find yourself back at it again, that is your sign that it is the path for you. Just have the courage to follow them and it will make a big difference in your life. In this world, people do not appreciate different things because they are different from them. We are so used to seeing the same thing, doing things the same every day and even if something happens a bit different then we name it a problem. You know a little difference, even a small moment in a day makes you so fresh and you don’t even know you need it. Make a difference in what you think you need in your life, try to find even a little difference because if it makes you smile, takes you away from your problems then it is worth it. If you want an escape from your daily routine, instead of doing your usual do something unusual like if you are a coffee drinker try to switch out the mood make some tea it helps, telling you by experience. You know that every day the same is going to happen so take out some time and do something else to fresh out your mind. A little difference can make a big difference in your life.

“No one ever made a difference by being like everyone else.”

P.T. Barnum.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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You are a Hero!

Hard times don’t create heroes. It is during the hard times when the ‘hero’ within us is revealed.

Bob Riley.

All the heroes do not wear a cap. Yes! Right just like you. When we think about a hero, what comes to our mind is saving people and doing things that help people and all of that. But according to me, a hero is someone who knows how to deal with his weakness and is kind enough to have a strength of heart that is strong for him to choose with he love. There is also a saying that emotional pain is worse than physical pain. You can deal with and heal your physical pain very easily but emotional pain takes a lot of time and patience. Be your hero for yourself, you need strength to make your heart feel like it is strongest for you. No matter how much weak you feel in doing something, how much you want to give up, you are a hero if you never stop trying or backing off because that is what makes you are truly a saviour by a hero aka yourself. You know the true meaning of knowing what you want, understanding yourself better when you are dealing with hard times. Hard times make you feel that everything in life is a chapter that will close someday and a new chapter will be opened but in that one chapter there is so much that could happen to you and all of those just make you stronger and a hero in your own eyes. Fear was, is and will also be a constant factor in whatever you are doing, but you need to learn how to make it your biggest strength. A hero is known as someone who learns how to overcome obstacles by feeling the emotions of insecurity and fear and that is what makes a hero. You are doing great, take a deep breath and continue trying.

Live your life like you’re the hero in your own movie.

Joe Rogan.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Giving up is a Sin.

You are fighting so hard and I am so proud of you, I know you’re tired, but please don’t give up. I have so much faith in you. Like countless times before this, you can and will do this.

It is very easy to give up and grieve about it the next day. Making decisions about things that don’t interest you is quite understandable because wasting time on something which is not for you is bizarre. But something that you are finding hard, and not getting through, you just decide to give up and stop trying. Making the mind up for doing is the first step towards the goal you want to achieve. Nothing is easy until you do it. When you arrive at the goal and when you look back everything you will find is easy but at the last step. There are so many steps to reach the final destination because it takes time to make yourself what you dream of. Taking a break is mandatory to come up with a clear and focused mind to begin the journey again. But giving up because you can’t do it anymore, or you are fed up is a feeling that everyone gets but that is where a decision is a crucial part. Take a break for some time, refresh your mind, make up your mind, dream about the final goal of yours and then you are ready to start again. Before starting your journey make some promises to yourself like huddles will stop you but can’t beat you, giving up should be the last thought in your mind, above all the biggest promise is to keep going, never stop until you achieve the goal you have decided for yourself. The struggle is the best thing you should be proud of throughout your journey and after your journey. Struggle makes you strong to deal with every part of problems in your life. Struggle makes you learn to handle the situation by yourself. You can do it if you want. By all of this, I want to say don’t give up no matter how hard it is because in the end it will be worth it and you will be so proud of not making a decision that is not for you. Giving up is not a solution for anything but a sin.

You don’t have to be brave,

you just have to keep trying.

You don’t have to be strong,

you just have to keep going.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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The Hidden Talent.

First simple rule in life:

If you don’t go after what you want,

you’ll never have it.

By saying hidden talent does not mean the talent of touching your nose by your tongue to find out your hidden talent. By the means of what I am saying is that the diamonds are not found on the roadside but deep inside the earth. That’s how your talent is hidden inside you. It’s not easy like a hide and seeks that you will find in a matter of few seconds. It takes time to develop something that you also don’t know about. The main clause here is to find out the missing puzzles that are somewhere hidden inside you. To become a wholly imperfectly perfect person the first step is to know yourself perfectly. To make the perfect puzzle of your life, you need to find out the hidden pieces then collect them and make the life you choose to live. Everything which has an important value is precious but hard to get is always buried deep inside that no ordinary person can find it but the person who has the will to have it is the person who gets it. Talent is not made for you, you are made for them. The things which come easily are the things that do not stay for a long time, just like an ice cream;) Life is too short to think if it is going to work out or not, you need to show off your talent like you are the ruler of it. Don’t play with your talents in small pieces of puzzles, collect them all together and then show the world and yourself ‘your masterpieces.’ It will take a lot of time but you need to work hard on it and never leave the hope of not finding them because hope and patience is the key to everything. Smile with your chin up and do the hell you want with the talent you are blessed with to create your present and future. Also, remember that the things which take time, in the end, are the things you will be most grateful for. As it said, “It is also fun to find something which we all know will be worth it in the end!” – mysteriousalien:)

you’re the only one who can fix or ruin everything in an instant.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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When there is a will, there is a way!

When you really want something you will find a way. When you don’t really want something, you’ll find an excuse.

Rachel Hollis.

Growing up my mother always used to tell me when there is a will, there is a way, but at that time the meaning behind those words never really made any sense to me. But as time passed I understood that every word has its meaning. We just need to find it and also those words which make you want to wake up in the morning and keep going. I understood that whatever you want in your life, you need to fight for it. Nothing is easy to get if you are a tough person with impossible dreams that people think but not you. You should know that if you want to make a life for yourself, the road to it will never be easy because if it is not then it means it’s not for you. The stubbornness you have in you will help you overcome the feeling of giving up. The harder, the want of your life the harder you will be in the end. Every day there will be problems that you need to deal with, at some point you may just want to leave everything and stop trying. But as always if you have willingness in you to fulfil your dreams, to make your dreams a reality then there will always be a way for you to reach there. You just need to have patience and faith in what you are doing and as always everything is going to work out. God is always with you, just trust him he knows what is right for you and will put you on the right path. Have the power to choose what you want, to choose what is best for you, to choose yourself. If you have the courage, the faith in yourself, the stubbornness of not giving up then you will not find the way but the way will find you. If all the doors to your life are closed and you don’t know what to do, take a deep breath and tell yourself that ‘you got this’ and the door to move ahead will be visible to you but at that time you will be stronger and ready to achieve whatever you dream of. If you feel like you need to take a break, do it without any second thought because the comeback is always stronger. Just follow the path of your dreams with patience, hard work, faith and hope and you are going to find problems but remember when there is a will, there is a way!

You spend most of your life inside your head. Make it a nice place to be.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Another Day Another You!

Mirror Mirror on the wall, I will always get up when I fall, and whether I run, walk or have to crawl, I will set my goals and achieve them all.

It’s okay to be sad; it’s okay to be not okay, it’s okay if you are not feeling better today. It’s okay if you are not feeling yourself. Nobody is going to know the behind the scenes of where you have come from, your breakdowns, your low times, your moments of almost giving up except you. You need to overcome yesterday for your tomorrow. Your failure will help you become the person you are meant to be, when you will look back at the time you will be proud that you gave yourself a chance despite the thousands of barriers that were blocking your way but the only ray at that time was your hope, your faith in you, your dreams and now you are there. For taking one step ahead you need to take four steps back. The saying “your past does not define your future” is the perfect way to hold on to yourself and move ahead without looking back. Give yourself the time you need, prepare yourself mentally and physically to walk on the road where nothing is easy other than your stubbornness to win. Maybe your today will not be how you imagined it to be but that’s normal because you are going to make your tomorrow better, you have to. A reminder to you all if today was not a good day for you before you hit the pillow tonight, remind yourself that you are alright. You are doing a great job. Be patient with yourself, and remember that big things are achieved not all at once, but one day at a time. Maybe today was not for you but tomorrow it will be. As I said you need to take some steps back for you to come stronger, better and more YOU. Have faith in yourself; never lose it because it’s that kind of weapon that can change your life. Always be hopeful about things you want to achieve in your life, never lose hope if you do, you will lose yourself. If you can’t find a way then make a way to be there where you see yourself. Wake up with a smile on your face and say to yourself that today you are going to make another day and another you!

“If you are brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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The Power You Hold.

I love the person I’ve become, because I fought to become her.

Kaci Diane.

When we were kids we used to think that supernatural power is everything. We wanted to be a Marvel with all of the power to fight. Spiderman interests me because he can climb a building; I mean you don’t have to climb all of the stairs of your school, or to beat up the bullies and whatnot. I would love to be a Spiderman maybe for one day (Spiderman people if by any chance you read these please fulfil my dream, Thank You). But as we grow up we know that Santa Claus was never real, he did not eat the cookies or drink the milk but it was our parents. Funny isn’t it? Definitely when you grow up, become more mature and start to understand everything, things which should not matter to us but still, it matters! To have power is not everything, but the way you fight with your inner demons to reach where you want to be, what you want to become is what I call the powerful you. We see in the movies that the more powerful the person is the more he is in danger. Misuse of anything will lead to destruction or damage that can’t be repaired. The skills you have, the ability you have, and the way you can do all of those things are your power. Know your power, work for it every day to recharge it and stop it from getting rusty. The power you hold, hold it that tight that anybody or you can’t take it away or misuse it from yourself. Make your power your strength and work for it to make it stronger every day as you work for it. You are more powerful than you think, more ready for problems than you know, more strong that you believe in yourself. Just do what you are afraid to do and in the end, everything is going to work. Your power will help you from not giving up. The mind of yours in which you have created your vision to what you want to become will always makes you feel powerful.

Sometimes you gotta be a Beauty and a Beast.

Nicki Minaj.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

“Believe in Yourself. You are Braver than you think, more Talented than you know, and Capable of more than you Imagine.”

“Believe in Yourself!” was and is the mantra I use in my life, in what I am doing. When I was in school I used to think that I will do this, but there were some “well-wishers” of mine who used to say, you are not able to do it and at that time was not at all confident in me. But now years later here I am with my passion of writing that I also wanted to do since I found out that I can share my thoughts with the world. Same like me, if you want to do something but there will always be second thoughts and that is totally normal. I have learned that you just need to do it without thinking what is going to happen because if you are confident enough to know that you can do it and your believe in yourself and you are halfway there. Believe that you are going to do it, believe that there is nothing that can stop you from getting things the way you want, believing in yourself will help you gain the confidence in yourself, just go with the flow and you are on the right path. You are unstoppable when you will make the motive to lose yourself with yourself. Make challenges with yourself that you will do better than yesterday and more better tomorrow. There will be thousands of “well-wishers” of yours, who will try to let you down plenty of times; you don’t need to put yourself in that work. Prove all of them wrong because they aren’t right in the first place you are just putting them in their place. When you are stubborn with the dreams of yours, with the wants of your life than there is no single soul out there who can stop you from getting what you want. You just need to Believe in Yourself and in the end everything is going to work out.

“Self confidence is a super power. Once you starts to believe in yourself, magic starts happening.”

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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Guilt.

Sometimes you don’t realize the weight of something you’ve been carrying until you feel the weight of it’s release.

According to me the two strongest feelings in the world is of hate and guilt. When the feeling of hate or guilt overcome your mind it makes the goodness in you get far behind your mind. Being guilty about things especially of your past can deeply hurt your present and future. We are so connected to our past that if something happened in your past, still in your present you are guilty about it and afraid to do something that is connected to it. As the sayings goes by that we are humans and it’s okay to make mistakes. Making mistakes is mandatory for you to learn and grow more. Accepting your mistakes is what makes you feel like that you are learning to correct your mistakes. Everything comes with a baggage happiness with grief, hard work with scarifies; everything is connected to each other. Feeling of guilt comes from so many other things that we feel, like the opportunities we don’t take, when we lose from one point, when we gave our hundred per cent but did not make it. The feeling of guilt in our mind has stopped us from taking something that we are afraid if we failed again. The inner mind of ours tell us that we should’ve done that, we should’ve gone with that and what not so but remember whatever happens, happens for good. Maybe at that time you will make yourself responsible for what happened but as the time pass you will understand that you are not responsible or guilty about what happened, it was meant to happen so it happened. There are times in life where people purposely will make you feel that it was your fault and you should be guilty about it but it takes two to clap the hand. What happened in your life can never change you just need to accept it and move on because until and unless you will not accept it you will never move on completely with you mind and heart. Nobody is perfect so you are, you are imperfectly perfect!

If you don’t take it off your chest, you’ll never be able to breath.

Till we meet again, Be Happy Be Grateful and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.

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