The question that I always wonder, especially when I try my hardest, and still I see no result. Does delay mean I am a failure in life? Do I need that much IQ to do things? And so many questions arise, the biggest being whether I am capable enough? So many questions, so many negative thoughts; however, there are no answers for them because these questions are all irrelevant. We always think that we are in a race with life, but actually, there is no race. In life, certain things are hard to achieve because things achieved through hardships stay forever. We are always taught that by a certain age we have to achieve things; however, life is not a race, but it’s all about learning factors that will help us achieve things with satisfaction. Negative thoughts are meant to come; it’s common to overthink, it’s the way to realise our feelings and emotions. It’s the way we learn not to give up; we learn to fight against them. So don’t overthink about things not working in your life; some are meant to make you wait so that you get to keep it forever. Time tells us many things, including how to process failures and the fruit that blooms from them. You are not in a race just to win but to enjoy, to realise that everything in life eventually works out. There is time for everything, for you to get, not to give up, try again, and see the outcome of it.
It’s never about you losing a race but about you learning how to be strong enough to deal with situations, to increase your intellectual power and to understand what you really want from your life. Some things take time because they prepare you to be able to handle it, to be brave enough to deserve it, and to be able to say that this is all you wanted. Sometimes it’s okay for things to take time. It is not delaying because you’re not capable, but because it’s making you ready to deserve it.
Till we meet again, Be Happy, Be Grateful, and Keep Smiling – a girl who likes to write.
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